Field Dispatch
231. RHOBH womps, SLOMW whoas (Weekly Mix in the Box) w/ Mark (@thepinkpopbox)
Field Notes
Well what a week it has been :). RHOBH is almost done but still a nothing-burger. Alright so let's breeze through that quickly, get to the end. Next time email us most of this season. And a reunion rumors are...surprising.
Now. Let's talk Taylor Frankie Paul, The Bachelorette, and the fact that this video sat for three years ...and now we know why.All that and more. Get into the Mix in the Box!
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Speaker 1: Sound strugg.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hello, beautiful and wonderful mixologists out there. It is your girl Moni and you are in the mix with Moni. It's the weekly Mix in the Box, where not only do we bring you the coolest hot topics of the week that you can't stop talking about, but it's also about what you're watching or what you want to watch, what you're going to watch, what we've all been watching, talking about, giggling about, and honestly, with me and Marcus while we bring it to y'all weekly, well we've been.
Speaker 1: Talking about non stop.
Speaker 2: Obviously, there is so much to get through, and I know that's why y'all hit play. So we will get into it. But first, Mark, how are you doing besides all of the TV ghetto drama that has a cost to us in the last couple of days?
Speaker 1: Feel very I feel bad.
Speaker 2: Have a normal Wednesday, and all of a sudden, I'm hearing about cinnamon and I'm just trying to chill.
Speaker 1: What are you? Can I just live? Can I just live?
Speaker 2: Why is it a Thursday morning and y'all are throwing share? I'm seeing chairs being thrown, whole stools being tossed. The way I gassed my non existent pearls, I said, And as a child of v H one Basketball Wives, loving hip hop mob wives, Oh baby, I am a Sperita, Divanzo, Exit, get up, caring and reunion, just the nice open, get on up, start a fight.
Speaker 1: I just I am a kid.
Speaker 2: Of Judah, Divanzo, Carla, all of them where they are throwing punches in there where would be a tagline of a housewife Dreda's throwing punches like it's great. And I I grabbed my own non existent pearls when I saw that chair being thrown, and then it happened to get and my pam moved from my chest to my face like I have never felt my body like my mouth dropped to the floor.
Speaker 1: Like what we will get there in a minute.
Speaker 2: We know that that is the most important thing. Let's just get this other thing over with. The other thing is this long ass season of Beverly Hills.
Speaker 1: Here's the thing.
Speaker 2: Went to Peacock to watch it, because I'm now in a habit of watching all the house IDs on Peacock, because the reunions are uncensored on Peacock, and so it's really fun to just get in the habit of watching it there so you don't miss out on every bitch and hole that comes out of a reunion. That being said, I go to Beverly Hills and I only watch when I'm going to record. So I go there and I see it starts at episode one. Every time I go to look at it to get the episode that I want, and starting at one, there's twenty seven units of an entertainment that they have own, of content that they have put on this here, season fifteen of Beverly Hills, granted about forty percent of them.
Speaker 2: Or watch What Happens Lives episodes, which also not gonna get me to watch. I don't give a shit. I don't give a shit about the girls of this season. But this is a long season. Correct Oh doesn't just feel long as hell.
Speaker 1: It feels like it nothing's happening.
Speaker 2: Nothing Yet again, we get to the credits and I was like, Oh, this whole thing could have been an email, dude. We could have had a podcast of the episode. The episode could have been a podcast, like y'all were in Italy so crazy went to the opera last night, boring as hell, but we made it through. Like all you had to do was an email you literally release it, release it as a podcast live from the weather from the resort.
Speaker 1: Of where they were.
Speaker 2: We didn't need to watch all this. We went to dinner and it was it wasn't it not wild? The dinner was crazy. They kept this so I asked me about this damn call and then Girly is lying. Just tell us what happened. We really didn't need to see it because we got again to the end and I did everything, but I didn't take a single note for the first time, and I still could tell you what didn't happen in this episode. I never ever don't take a single note at.
Speaker 1: All on one say, not one damn note. That's not like me.
Speaker 2: That's exactly that. And this is your favorite one. You love the Leos girlies. Not this year, No, not this year.
Speaker 1: This is here.
Speaker 2: I'm disappointed. I really am, like and I've been doing and hello, I've been.
Speaker 1: Underwhelmed for you.
Speaker 2: If we didn't have Rachel's though, I I think they would have put this whole thing on paulse I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Saw the news earlier this week right on Real Housewive Zone. Allegedly the production companies are on notice on the West Coast for what for non performance after Orange County, After Orange County and the Latin Cluster season, Beverly Hills is having allegedly fifty thirty two flavors and Evolution are on notice for failing ratings for Beverly Hills in Orange County their flagship shows, and they're going down the tubes. Why are they going down the tubes? Why is nothing happening?
Speaker 2: You guys have failed, seriously, and what's worse is that you've let really big ones fail, Like these are ones that had a lot of promise, did really well, used to really be something. I mean, I was watching OC and I knew those girls, those ladies were who they were always still it used to slap you had to watch what you ed. I mean, I mean, once upon a time, the West Coast used to be the best toast for real. You really could have a nice time on the Orange County side. And I found the city was going to be the thing that took away from the West Coast.
Speaker 2: And now that's the only thing that's going right out there.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, the only thing they have going for them right now is the Valley.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm that I did like the valley Persian.
Speaker 1: Style love.
Speaker 2: Episodes way too short and needs a reunion. We could have do and a lot out of that. Some of them are new people, like I mean, pretty much everybody is new except for sleep R three, Like yeah, And I was interested in the relationships and stories of every single one of them, and that is rare in casting. Why can't we get that on OC or Beverly Hills. Why is it that I only care about one person.
Speaker 1: Because I feel like they hitched their wagon to Amanda Francis hoping. I don't know, She's a focal point, and I think and the only thing I can think is that everybody's story was that fucking boring. Pardon my freendch No, it was.
Speaker 2: It was that fucking boring, absolutely was. I don't know what was going on with any of them. I'm sorry. I don't really care about bos having a baby with this new man. You have a child already, so it's not that like crazy to me that you're gonna be a mom again. It's like you want to do it because you're with this man. But I've also seen this storyline now on so many different shows. I've seen it now. I've seen it on Married a medicine. I remember when King you wanted to have a baby when she was in her forties.
Speaker 2: Like, I've been around, We've seen this, so it's not that like crazy to me. I I'm not seeing her be a badass, Like why am I seeing her defend Derie on this show at dinners and whatnot? Which you want to be a good friend of dere Come Like when did we get to sit down with Jimmy whatever that you filmed the whole show with. Why are we seeing that you be working behind the scenes? You really doing stuff and got coin Well.
Speaker 1: This is why they are saying that maybe the production company is failing, because maybe these things were filmed and whoever is editing out these processes are handing these in as the final edits and it's just boring.
Speaker 2: It is they really did want to make it seem like we are focusing on the takedown of one person, which we do on Beverly Hills a lot. And what's worse is that it's usually not the person that you wanted to be or think it should be, or as an audience, so we do tend to get bored because it's like, oh, we're doing that whole gang up one thing again, which I'm not saying Amana Francis doesn't deserve it, just is that I'm saying it gets edited like we are meant to know that one particular person is who we are all going against or is not right or did the wrong thing, that we are focusing on their sins and their sins alone for the duration of the back half of the season, and the sins of Aman of Francis are Albeit I'm like, yeah, she should be all accountable, Yes she should say something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right that it's easy because she's a very unlikable individual, especially on this here show. But also it is like, oh, okay, we're gonna basically focus every single episode on the fact that she is this unlikable.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing.
Speaker 2: If I don't like her, I don't want to talk about her every time.
Speaker 1: Well, and I think that's what dial Kyle in at that dinner last on the last episode, because I think it finally clicked on her. Oh my god, this is the twelfth dinner we've had, and this is the twelfth dinner where we just dow piled on her. We need to have shipped on the something else. And that's what she tried to do she tried to move it. Yes, she did.
Speaker 3: For once, I thought I missed something.
Speaker 1: Mark.
Speaker 2: I rewinded when they started fussing at that other blonde lady, I was like, wait what.
Speaker 1: I was like her, get her, because she's the one that started to anyway, get Natalie, get her, get her in that tire with Natalie, why she rumor start it? I was like, get her?
Speaker 2: But did it not seem though for a second like I'm probably reading too much into it because it was nothing to read too. When they confronted her about it in a flashback footage and they were like, didn't you say that, she pointed to the mask and said that's Amanda or Amanda and she said, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Did see that.
Speaker 3: It seemed like she wasn't She was just agreeing to agree.
Speaker 2: Yep with her, which bit her in the ass because Jordan don't do that.
Speaker 1: That's just what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I've heard that when people go on camera for the first time, if they have friends who were on a reality show or whatever, which apparently they're more out there than we think, they say that like you're now you think whatever instincts you'll have, they go straight away.
Speaker 1: I really feel.
Speaker 2: Like in the moment, you might not think not to lie.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: She probably really didn't hear it, but when confronted with Amanda and Kyle, didn't she say such and such And you're like, yeah, she totally did. Yeah, which I'm even guilty of doing. I just don't have a camera in my face, which is what Kyle. Basically she said, the cameras don't lie. I'm like, you're right. Your only officers are to say I lied then or I'm lying now.
Speaker 1: Look, and I'm gonna say it right now. Those even came out and said, you know what, we was filming a long ass day and she said, yeah, I didn't know what and I caught. I got caught, and she goes, and I messed up, She goes.
Speaker 3: Bo was absolutely right.
Speaker 2: They did film. It seemed like they were there a long time. She seemed to snap by the end of the episode. Not snappers the like she went off, but she seemed like tired, like her depletion.
Speaker 1: She had it.
Speaker 2: She had no more grace to give little miss Bobbyanna over there with her perfect life.
Speaker 3: Your life is not perfect. None of our lives are perfect.
Speaker 2: And what's worse is for Bose to say that, knowing who she is, what she's done, what she's accomplished, she is so well known, so accomplished everything that Amanda.
Speaker 1: Is like, oh my god, I am this, I'm that.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, both is like actually those things, and she is like, girl, none of us have perfect lives, not me, not her, not anybody here, and so calm down.
Speaker 3: I don't think you're authentic about your life. What do you mean? I don't you think that my life isn't beautiful? It's not what she's saying.
Speaker 2: Every time, every time Both says something, she was like, what about my life isn't beautiful?
Speaker 1: What about me? How didn't I.
Speaker 2: Manifest a perfect life for myself? I'm like, that's not what she said.
Speaker 1: Well think about it, and I really want you to think about it. In the sixteen episodes we've had, we only know two things. She has a MLM marketing business and she has escaped from a religious community. That's all we know about her.
Speaker 2: That's okay, some sort and kind and how dare we look it up or ask? Which Also I'm like, if I was three, I would have been like, girl, of course I had to google. You won't talk about shit. You won't say a goddamn thing about anything, and we're all just how dare we even ask?
Speaker 3: You will not be grilled or called or whim poortold to speak.
Speaker 2: In your home or here, or they are on the birth the death of this, so the anniversary of that, don't ever address you. So yeah, I had to google it options, but I'm kind of messy.
Speaker 1: I would google somebody anyway, google people.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something, Let me tell you something.
Speaker 2: And y'all know, I be teaching, and I've been talking about my woes of teaching lately, because my god, the spring in a third grade classroom is really the worst. It's when crushes start, It's when hormone starts, when these boys starts smelling weird. I'm just like, oh, I have four we have four tower fans in the classroom right now. I ask for donations from the parents and bought one on myself. We have four in there because I miss I can't take it. I overwhelm easy, over sensory overload.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: I say that to say they have been really trying me and as of late, sorry, one kid really was smelling it up today.
Speaker 1: I was like, baby, I think we need to have. I'm writing an email home.
Speaker 2: Hello, So I do think spring has bloomed very early for our friends such and such. Please do do something about that or just have a combo about hygiene that to say, like when the parents get me like they you know, the reason you leave teaching is because of the parents. The leasing you stay is because of the kids. But when a parent, I never mind child. Let me not, let me not lose my job.
Speaker 1: Please don't, but let me just say.
Speaker 2: Let me just add you because I love my benefits, I really do. But let me just say when they they get to roasting, they they my limbs and who Beverly Hills can go ahead and end episodes?
Speaker 1: Do we have left? You say? I think we have two more episodes.
Speaker 3: Before the finale or at the finale.
Speaker 1: I think it's either next episode and then one more after that and then then we get the reunion. Have we seen a trailer or anything for that reunion? Do we know anymore? Oh? I only I only know that somehow Kyle got first seat yet again across the street from Derry.
Speaker 2: I think just because Andy is gonna want to talk to Derey and really at the center of durit's issues with Amanda is really her issues with Kyle, like her fight with is D's fights with Kyle, because she really thinks Kyle is using Amanda. She said, to get back at her, now to you say the things that Kyle really wants to say, that's what happened.
Speaker 1: No, it's not. No, that is not what happened. Amanda co opted those words and she absolutely started this ball rolling. And I have to wonder if something something happens in the next couple episodes, because you don't scrap a whole after show and refilm a whole after show and sequester one person away from the rest of the group. Something must happen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Julie, I'm trying to figure out what it would be so rough about the season fifteen reunion as I'm looking it up and seeing that Kyle has said that it was really rough for her this season, this season reunion.
Speaker 1: What did they read that too? She said it was.
Speaker 2: Bad, no, no, no offense.
Speaker 1: But I just am like, what bad? And they're like what.
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is that se'all would have even talked about. They're talking about fans had mixed reviews about season fifteen. I ain't seen a single goddamn person say.
Speaker 1: It was good.
Speaker 2: It wasn't your first season of outslids of Beverly Hills or housewives at all.
Speaker 1: Even in I would have thought you would have saved you with stillboard. If you see me, if you see my Beverly Hills posts, they are favorable.
Speaker 3: I mean, you just don't get it. What is going on? Y'all are watching for your favorites.
Speaker 1: Production sucks. That's all that really sucks.
Speaker 2: We just we could have had more events where I wanted to see Rachel dress up more. I think she I love. I was looking for more outfits. I would die for fashion. Where is my fashion?
Speaker 1: The fashion?
Speaker 2: Literally that's the whole point. You saw the whole show and shows about her fashion. Why didn't we have events like anything to give them an opportunity. If y'all can create opportunity for Potomac to dress poorly, you can definitely create opportunity for Beverly Hills to dress fabulously.
Speaker 1: I just want to point out that the show runner, Alex Baskin, is the same guy that allowed vander Park Rules to go right into the toilet in season eleven, which resulted, you know, everybody lost their jobs. Alex Baskin is the person that's I'm bringing Gretchen Rossy back to our TV screens with her situations.
Speaker 3: And he is also huh is he okay? I don't mean he's just a.
Speaker 1: St leper comic gets his jollies by making rich white women uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: I mean, so do I but pick some different way, pick a more interesting. But just saying, I'm not having a jolly good time watching this. And I can't imagine Alex bath.
Speaker 1: And is either he is on notice. He is on it.
Speaker 2: He absolutely is. He can go ahead and kiss it with me. I just don't know what they talk about. For one reallion part let alone more than one. I can't believe.
Speaker 1: That's all they in.
Speaker 3: I can't see anymore. I would die if it's.
Speaker 1: Just one, I would die. But it's just that would.
Speaker 2: Be such a slap in the face. I kind of would That would be iconic, I'm sorry, iconic in a.
Speaker 3: Different it'd be like like reverse iconic. I'd be like gag me said, let me tell you something.
Speaker 2: Y'all are not gonna get multi episodes and all of that if you don't produce put it out there.
Speaker 3: I think that's a read they should do it. They should just give them one be.
Speaker 1: Like we didn't get enough. So it's an hour and fifteen minutes.
Speaker 2: And next year, if it keeps up, guess what it'll be and watch what Happens Live Special.
Speaker 1: Well, they already said that there's a shocking firing in the mix this year, and I have to wonder. I bet you it's Erica.
Speaker 3: Really do you think it's Erica. I think it's sudden.
Speaker 1: It might be well, well we'll Sutton sudden flower hiding in the background of this whole year.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and then all of a sudden, being like I want a room with Amanda, are you okay?
Speaker 3: Not so?
Speaker 1: Not so brave without Garcel backing her up this sheep no, and.
Speaker 2: She's making poor choices like I want to room with her, I want to help her, I want to say all these things. But this whole season you've been saying she's been inauthentic and whatnot at first, so I'm just confused. So I don't know if she's coming or going. Amanda, you're hitching the wagon also to the wrong person at the worst time, which is right now, because Amanda is having a like it's going down, like to see it's going badly poor.
Speaker 1: You don't know, we don't at this moment. They don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, you're right. But it's like you have to think this probably isn't voting. Well not, It's not even about the fact that she co opted Kyle's Thingen was talking about somebody's situations she don't know shit about, proudly openly that she really was.
Speaker 3: That's very factual. She did that and got herself into that mess.
Speaker 2: And she does not open up, and she bro she's very braggadocious and she acts like everything is perfect in her life, so much so that it's because she manifested, like no, girl, it's given. You came here to be on. This is your this is her QVC. It's giving drop, it's giving drama, it's giving MLM, it's giving scammering.
Speaker 1: You know, it's giving the top of the pyramid.
Speaker 2: Okay, it is giving the top of the pyramid. It's giving two photos in my hand, neither of you going to the next round. It's giving I was ruder for you, but really none of y'all are getting this check or this bag. Okay, Okay, Amanda, I don't know what you came here for I really hope somebody asks you. I think Andy White email so what it means you want to join the group.
Speaker 3: Or the show?
Speaker 2: And I really would like her information because it's definitely not for friendship. It actually just feels like every episode we're gonna watch them half them do one thing, half them do the other thing to do our own thing, and then they get together to get on Amanda's behind because she don't belong, she don't want to be there, and they don't want it there. And I'm like, then, why did you come just for the for the book? You needed that much help?
Speaker 3: So what your cold book?
Speaker 2: Oh and you're the one who informed me that Girly is selling chapters and has a whole nice book club quote unquote, but you gotta pay the joint.
Speaker 1: Tier one three hundred and thirty three dollars Tier.
Speaker 2: But the fuck I'm sorry, wait wait wait, oh wait, we're not done.
Speaker 1: Tier two nine hundred ninety nine dollars. I don't know what to do. Oh wait wait oh super vip Yeah, Born's super VIP package one hundred and ninety nine dollars and ninety nine cent fuller. You get, you get, you get the chapters of the book, You get five autographed books. You get to go to her online live Yeah, you get to go wait wait wait wait then you get to go to her online book opening. You don't even get to be there in person. You get to go to it and extream did.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, y'all I literally haven't.
Speaker 1: Oh and I forgot you play. You get the glass coffee mug with You get the glass coffee mug with the little cult sticker on it.
Speaker 3: I actually need a whole scamfluencer episode made.
Speaker 1: About for the lady, because what the.
Speaker 2: Hell do you mean five autograph copies of a book? I can only read one at a time. I can only read one book? What only five copies of anything? And for fourteen ninety nine that does not five books? Doesn't just buy fifty That is people's rates. That is people jack, And you want me to spend it on some chap because of a book you won't release anyway. Yep, that's why she mattered to read for googling the block posts was probably gonna use it for the first couple of chapters and to reblew up her spot.
Speaker 1: She's like, damn it, girl.
Speaker 2: Now, when we air this episode, y'all gonna be everybody's gonna be googling it, and now I can't release that.
Speaker 3: Thanks a lot.
Speaker 1: There's only one thing people are googling this week. Hey, y'all.
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Speaker 2: And I was so excited to record remark because man, the hits keep coming. I'm glad we freaking waited at every hour. Somebody's doing stuff. The very same day, Dakota and the other baby Daddy ran into each other. Y'all, let's get into it. But A was shook this week when they said not only did Sinnabon drop out of being a sponsor for a season of The Bacheloretta was meant to air this upcoming Sunday, March the twenty first, twenty second it was supposed to be. Then it's not happening now spoiler alert if you didn't know, Cinnabon dropped out as a major sponsor.
Speaker 2: That was the first of like the snowball down and word spiral effect, before we had any footage, before we knew any details of this supposed domestic violence, alleged message viol situation of like a month or so ago or less, while they were filming Secializing on Wives, this current, this upcoming season that they're filming right now.
Speaker 1: They that was some news to us.
Speaker 2: It did trigger a lot of information also coming out. For instance, how are you having a domestic violence fight with a ex boyfriend if you were supposedly with someone that you left the Bachelorette with, we're supposed to be we don't even know anything about that yet, So that felt spoiled to a lot of people.
Speaker 3: And boy didn't get freaking like it was then.
Speaker 2: I mean, me and Kaya shout out to Bravo while Black we went together and did a nice little episode talking about all we spoiled that for you, And that was when it was still supposedly going to happen.
Speaker 1: Season's still supposed to happen.
Speaker 2: But we did let y'all know that she allegedly left the show engaged. She did pick somebody, and she left the show got engaged. It didn't last.
Speaker 3: Spoiler alert.
Speaker 1: Why not, you say, because then she gets neck with Dakota.
Speaker 2: Did that work? No, you're right, because then she gets into some kind of domestic violence. Altercation was really.
Speaker 3: Not a lot.
Speaker 1: It was really not good. It was a lot.
Speaker 3: The roommate of Dakota gets involved.
Speaker 1: He was upset.
Speaker 2: He was like, damn, witnesses just keep calling up of this bad behavior. Hey, we think though I thought I felt bad for the roommate, that was before I noticed it or we found out that there was a child that witnessed such abuse and such like a whole chicanery.
Speaker 3: I'm twenty three.
Speaker 2: A video surface from TMZ and the likes of from twenty twenty three this week, as well, after Cinnabon, after Taylor goes on Good Morning America, the Today all the old aim shit after saying absolutely nothing. I really hope y'all did not waste your time because I was pissed that I wasted my planning time at school, my whole lunchtime watching that interview, waiting for something to be said, nothing, a whole lot of It's really hard time right now. It's like important for me and my family, and.
Speaker 1: Like, are you sure? Why is it hard?
Speaker 3: Accountability is key, but we didn't know anything yet.
Speaker 2: Then footage comes out leaked to TMZ by who y'all can figure out who would benefit from it?
Speaker 3: Easy, who filmed it and who had it.
Speaker 2: If you haven't seen it as disturbing, it is really I think that's at the crop quite mildly. It's if you have kids, I suggest don't don't see it.
Speaker 1: If you are a.
Speaker 2: Mandatory reporter, you will get real fired up as I am, because I'm like if a kid, if one of those kids came to school the next day, even tell me they witnessed what they witness let alone got hit let like touch whatever, I would have to call.
Speaker 3: My job would be to call, like I can lose my.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I could lose my license if they come in, Like when the kids say that their parents are fighting too much, it's too loud, they're not sleeping, they can't eat or something. We have to ask questions, We have to figure it out if it's a time to call. I've had to call for less kids not having snacks at school because that could be a problem of the black You mean to tell tell me that footage could come out from three years ago, So that means this pattern of behavior dates back at least three years that we can see in front of us, the Dakota and whoever filmed right.
Speaker 2: It is very disturbing. I will describe it for you if you choose not to see it, if you are triggered warning from domestic violence abuse.
Speaker 1: It's bad.
Speaker 2: So maybe even skip ahead, skip ahead one minute. I'll keep it under that. In this video, there is a lot of shoving of Taylor of Dakota, a lot of pushing, a lot of punching trying to get him. He is trying to push her off a lot, He's falling a lot. She is consistently like launching her whole body at him, and then at some point she even picks up a metal stool and it seems to launch it across the room. Well, first she tries to like push it up against him as he is backing up, like trying to run and back up, lunches it into the living room where he is going into to try to get away from her because she is in front of him.
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, in the living room, it is we've been made aware there's a child in the living room on the couch or somewhere nearby. A lot of concerning thoughts.
Speaker 3: They are one that means that child is very used to this and did not it is or whatever too witnessing all of this, Taylor is folks solely focused on Dakota and nothing else doing this. And there's a moment where, in the second or third throwing of the stool it does seemingly hit the couch of the area where the child was located and pointed out to be. It's hard to watch, it's.
Speaker 2: Hard to describe if anything that I said to you sounds disturbing. At about seventeen more douses of hot sauce, and that's about how wild and messy and spicy it got.
Speaker 3: It was pretty a lot. I was overwhelmed. I was like, oh yeah, oh no, I don't want to see it.
Speaker 2: I don't think I want to see it, because I wouldn't wanna if I was the engaged man of the bachelorette.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to know that that's possible if I have a baby with you. I'm sorry, I know words.
Speaker 1: Here's the thing, and this is this is paramount to me, is that she didn't just start this. This has been on going. She's learned this. She's been doing this for a minute. And she because the way she was chucking them chairs, she knew what she was feeling.
Speaker 3: She's thrown many things before. A chair is a small thing.
Speaker 1: I believe that her exact words in that video which shocked me. He says, your your daughter's right here, and she said, I don't care. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: You hear about moms and as leaving fleeing situations when the child finds out or knows or is affected or whatever.
Speaker 1: It really does.
Speaker 2: It really does break my heart, Like it's hard even think about it and talking about it right now, watching that and knowing that that.
Speaker 1: Was twenty twenty three, three years ago.
Speaker 2: That was three years ago, and that child wasn't Dakota's child. Which is why I'm not gonna lie when I found out that other baby daddy ex husband who wants usually nothing to do with this whole world, like he's we don't hear from him at all when we event because when this all started, Miranda and Chase and the ex husband wanted nothing to do with this because it blew up all of their lives.
Speaker 3: So like when Taylor got all this, that was it.
Speaker 2: Miranda coming back the second season, people were even skeptical about because she wanted nothing to do with Taylor. Then she was like, oh, if you're gonna profit off of it, then I want to be a part of it. Then we ended up falling in love with her. The other the husband, now he's never really been the ex husband.
Speaker 3: He ain't been in this. He's like doing this thing right.
Speaker 2: When I found out that he made his way down to the courthouse the same day that all this went public, I was like, you know what, good for him.
Speaker 3: I'd be like, your honor hello, I would use the same footage.
Speaker 1: But they were there for the same reason. But they didn't know they were each gonna be there. It was just no, no, my daughter was great, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I was like, if anything, my first and foremost thought is about the children. The first thing I posted about though, as a content creator, as we all did, I posted my over or under if she was, the season was gonna air, I said, as of right now, as A when I posted this, I said, as a.
Speaker 3: Five hours ago, they posted.
Speaker 2: A brand new reel of a trailer of The Bachelorette that comes out Sunday, brand new night. I thought that also them moving into subject, it was.
Speaker 1: Gonna be canceled.
Speaker 2: They was gonna pull it. I was like, I still give it. At that point, I said, sixty forty. I knew I was shooting low. I was like, sixty forty. I think they're gonna pull it.
Speaker 1: Sixty percent.
Speaker 2: They're gonna pull it, baby. An hour later, it was everywhere they pulled it. They was like, never mind, never mind. Oh, because the footage came out like two hours after that reel and that was it.
Speaker 1: That was it.
Speaker 2: Somebody sent it to one person in the group chat at the over there at the ABC Disney studios.
Speaker 3: They was on the way to lunch and they gotta take this.
Speaker 1: Oh bitch.
Speaker 3: TMZ called them and said, we are about to run this story.
Speaker 1: Baby.
Speaker 2: Y'all seen that Dakota video, y'all another one y'all been sitting on that you like he maybe saw some years ago. Yeah, Well, he sent it to was any thoughts and comments, and they were like, fuck it, we gotta pull it, we gotta pull it. We don't have a choice. They're gonna run it. And that was it. Because nobody wants to see that. The Bachelorette's audience is who Middle America.
Speaker 1: Middle American women with dreams of finding Prince Charming.
Speaker 3: Wanting to settle down. Nobody wants to see this.
Speaker 2: And she was supposed to be a redemption arc, the redemption story for a divorce, a woman, a woman with kids, a regular woman like a woman with kids, a mom, very much so Middle America.
Speaker 3: Like what, I don't think it's throw shares in front of my kid.
Speaker 1: They can get.
Speaker 2: Girl, if you don't calm the hell down. Also, that means that in twenty twenty three, you acting like this. In those years, who knows is why you went to I said this to someone, and I think it really makes sense. I believe Taylor functions like an addict. I think that it is not just abuse.
Speaker 3: That it is.
Speaker 2: I think it's the cycle of abuse that she is addicted to, and that's why she's not that she can't quit this man, She can't quit this cycle.
Speaker 3: It is like why she went she did intensive therapy inpatient.
Speaker 2: You don't understand how big of a deal that is when you have any bit of mental health issues. I would love to do something like that for my.
Speaker 3: Own mental health issues, right. That is a big deal. It's like rehab.
Speaker 2: However, then coming out of that, trying to move on, not being able to being able to be so triggered the idea of when Jesse tells her I'm watching it. Even this season, she tells her to go to stuff with somebody, and her choosing to call him to berate him about it. Then knowing she's about to go on the Bachelorette, knowing she just flew out this random man from TikTok.
Speaker 3: A day before, that should have been like a sign to move on.
Speaker 2: But the fact that she chose to call him and pick a fight is the abuse cycle that she is addicted to. And unfortunately, with addicts, a lot of time until they hit absolute rock bottom and lose everything, do they realize what it is that they will need if they want to get help or not. But if we know that last season she started with going to inpatient rehab for her own anger and her depression and anxiety and things that were causing her to act like this, and then in twenty twenty.
Speaker 3: Six, you are acting like this and then we lose everything. Yeah, girl, you might get I don't know they're talking about suing.
Speaker 1: Well, I here's what I have understood, because I had a little mold from from outside of the street. Let's just say they came in my DM and in my DMS they said girl, and I said what girl, And they said, I'm gonna give you some tea talk to me and I was like, okay, what and they said, allegedly, only three episodes are in the camp. The rest of it is still all raw footage. And that tells me they already knew this bomb might drop, and they didn't bother going forward during the whole season because they wanted to see if they were going to be able to get away with it.
Speaker 3: Yo, let me see, it's wild. They bet they took the wrong bed.
Speaker 1: I get it.
Speaker 2: They wanted to capitalize on this thing. The problem with also the Mormon wives is that most of them are married. And I see why they thought Taylor made sense at the time. I don't think it was worth if you were sitting on all of this or you knew majority of this. If you are scrapping three and keeping a few because you don't think and you don't know, too high risk boo, it's the Bachelor and the bachslrat. Your ratings are also too low for y'all to be high risking it like this. This is like going all in at the crap table or whatever, and you've been down bad for the last three nights at the season's palace.
Speaker 2: Don't go okay, all ten k on this, because then here you are and you will do us Sue Taylor, Frankie Paul from me.
Speaker 3: You she ain't got nothing, she's got nothing, she's on your done. You know how much you pay her?
Speaker 1: Well, I know how much they've lost. They lost thirty to fifty dollars.
Speaker 2: And then why of money a lot, which makes sense to why they then ended up scrapping it. I was like, oh, it doesn't make sense to keep going if you're gonna lose sponsors. Then before they could even lose the sponsors, that went ahead and snapped that whole thing. And I think that was the smartest thing that they could do. Here's my pitch. Get twenty nine of those same guys right on back they find I know that's right. It seem like good people. Put them back on a putt on a plane, put them on a jet, right, they probably still in the damn airport.
Speaker 3: They just got done. The show just got done. I'm sorry, Like what, like this is so cral, she's so wild? But what do you mean you got engaged and then got into a fight a month? Like can you calm down? What are you smoking? Calm down?
Speaker 2: Never drink again? Like certain she's gonna be She need to be in lifetime recovery with Karen. Her and Karen need to be in lifetime recovery. That's what they need now.
Speaker 3: They can get a lifetime recovery together.
Speaker 2: Yeah no, seriously, ra seriously, Yeah, her air is probably burning. Yes, girl, come on, bring her in. You don't want to say alcoholic either. Lifetime recovery together, then do what you gotta do. But like, because what do you mean? Put all twenty nine of them men that leave that last one who got engaged.
Speaker 1: He can be the bachelor next year. Get alternate nine of them men.
Speaker 2: Put it back on a get miss Bobby Onna blonde from Utah, Miranda, get that divorce file, get you in both of them at Okay, Why not, and then get Miranda on there and make her see all twenty nine of the men, and she'll pick some and I bet you she'll make out with five of them and actually viably look through about six of them. So we can have a nice little season. She'll give us ten episodes and we could do it. I can add, we can add it's done in a couple of weeks. Roll footage, we really should. You can use a lot of the same b roll footage of the men.
Speaker 2: Anyway, tell them we're all the same suits.
Speaker 3: It's only been a month and a half, two months, three months.
Speaker 2: It just happened to put on all the same suits. So we can use the same b roll footage. The first three episodes of her meeting men, they all go into the house and talk to each other. Anyway, all of that, put all of that out, and then just have a new woman.
Speaker 3: It's Miranda, and then boom, we've got to see. We could do it. Simon will come right back.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you when I here's the thing. When I opened up my phone this morning at six am, I was like, oh God, I'm seeing all these things. You would have thought Taylor, Frankie Paul would have stayed off her damn phone today. I don't know why she wouldn't. She's a glutting for punishment. Oh she's posting all these inspirational quotes and stuff on them. I'm a child. Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't do that. Fire your agent because they messed up.
Speaker 2: They really did, and that's okay. We all make mistakes. You know another agent who messed up? Whoever told Marlow to say yes to be in Tyler Perry's beard.
Speaker 1: Don't do that.
Speaker 2: Marlow billionaire, but not while multiple young men are suing him for sexual harassment and abuse. Not now, But Marlow's like, I thought, you have a shut up at a last suit.
Speaker 3: He can listen.
Speaker 2: You have to make billions to be south for billions, you know that's what Marlow's saying.
Speaker 3: She said, as long as the check clears, honey, she has her hand.
Speaker 1: Around his arm.
Speaker 3: I said, oh no, this is not good.
Speaker 1: But better be de mode that money because I don't trust it.
Speaker 2: You know all I'm saying, listen, terrible decisions behind men this week, bay b dull, baby girl.
Speaker 1: There's a lot.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm looking at every heterosexual woman this week, like wow, this was a poor choice.
Speaker 3: This was a poor choice. That was a poor choice.
Speaker 1: I do feel very secure in my homosexuality.
Speaker 2: Never felt better, never felt better because also from my hip hop and rap girlies out there, Lotto is accidentally pregnant with a man who was allegedly married twenty one Savage, a rapper. I'm not I didn't accidentally get pregnant by a man. It is not better at anything tonight. I didn't Taylor, Frankie Paul did. Who told you to date that no ex abuse, ex addict? It looks everybody no offense. But he looked every bit of the drugs he's once taken. Dakota in his eyes, they're only thirty something like not even they're they're like ninety four.
Speaker 1: I think about this. I'm turning thirty this year.
Speaker 3: Taylor and I are. We would have been in high school at the same time.
Speaker 1: Two totally Jeffrey humans.
Speaker 2: Every bit in the eyes though I don't y'all see on the picture, I'm looking good. I don't look any bit of forty nine. But Dakota's still got the red around the eyes. It's still happening, Okay, so it's really.
Speaker 1: Look he might be a he might be a matheatict and all that stuff, but I'm gonna give him a little bit of a prop just one trying to shield that little baby from that chair.
Speaker 3: He did, he did.
Speaker 2: I do think that, you know people. In fact, I think he was like, if she's not gonna care, I need to be aware of the baby being here.
Speaker 1: But that's the only top because he's ugly. And now it makes more sense as to why he didn't want her to come out on the stage last year when he was at that reunion and he wanted to have his say without her out there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I mean, and y'all this disturbing comments I'm seeing of people being like, oh, well, he's baiting her.
Speaker 1: I hate that.
Speaker 2: I want you to know I get baited all the time, and I don't throw my hands at people that it's hard. I want to more than I should. Sure it's called being a person of society, let alone when you're in a relationship with someone, that's called domestic gobbits, and its period, point blank.
Speaker 3: If not, it's a sultan battery.
Speaker 1: This is her second strike.
Speaker 3: This is a Sultan battery.
Speaker 2: When I witnessed domestic violence is putting in moth the a Sultan battery can be a felony.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's we should for that and whatever and whatever happened just three weeks ago, it's another.
Speaker 2: So the restraining order is being filed. Dakota's got temporary custody of baby, ever, even a temporary full custody of Barry Evan. They'll have another emergency hearing and a bit of time. But in the wake of this temporary honestly doesn't even mean it. He'll lose it one day. It just means that it's temporary because this was an emergency. So he filed an emergency injunction and the judge set emergency. Okay, we don't need to talk about anything else. Just get that baby into someone else's house, into his house for a while, and then we'll come back when we figure out what the hell's going on.
Speaker 2: But while we figure it out, remove that child and put him over there. And I think that is exactly how that should go. While they're figuring it out based on just a little bit of information, let's go ahead. And I understand y'all are like it should be the mom at all calls, and I'm here to tell you as an educator, someone who cares about children and someone loves children, who studied the psychology of children, and who is just a goddamn good and smart human being.
Speaker 1: No, it's not.
Speaker 2: The mom is not always best. The parent that is responsible once the children will care for the children and be keep the children safe.
Speaker 1: That's who it should be.
Speaker 3: And that is not automatically the mom.
Speaker 1: Clearly it is not. My sister is. My sister is a first grade teacher. And if I told you the amount of times I've heard her say where in an affluent neighborhood I fluent specific Pacific Palisades, and she had to have kids taken out out of their house at least three times in her twelve years of st.
Speaker 2: Two child I'm DC beautiful area teach with all the girlies, with all the money, all.
Speaker 1: The power, legitimate power. And I am like.
Speaker 2: So there's actually a few. I'm like, I think this mom doesn't want like you think?
Speaker 1: Did you want the child? You hate your kid?
Speaker 2: I actually we just got a email to day wherever a mom called her own kid sophisticated said it. She does not read, and when she talks, she often talks too long and doesn't say anything of substance and often girls who continue to do this grow up to be foolish sounding and unsophisticated.
Speaker 3: This is about her child to our teacher.
Speaker 1: Lovely human.
Speaker 2: What also criticizing me because I'm supposed to do something about this.
Speaker 3: Like your kid dog you did?
Speaker 1: First of all.
Speaker 3: Second of all, name me a child who's eight who speaks of substance.
Speaker 1: There isn't one.
Speaker 3: No child under the age of like thirteen has anything to say of substance and does it not talk too long? So what please? I'm just like, it's just really given.
Speaker 2: The point is every mom is not automatically the court the best thing that the court should decide just because she's a mom, and this is a prime example of that. If they're figuring it out long term or custody or whatever, a wild Taylor is losing stuff.
Speaker 3: Dakota is not who we see doing this to a child.
Speaker 2: So it makes sense that the judges like give it to the parent that is behaving appropriately keeping the child safe, and not this woman. It does, at least for right now. I'm sorry, and that could be wrong to moms, and I've been there and I've been in that. It im sorry, but for what I saw, I'd removed the children too.
Speaker 1: And you know today part two of that audio dropped and die I was like, that's too much.
Speaker 3: It's too much, it's too much.
Speaker 1: It's gross.
Speaker 2: It's really disgusting, I said, wrap her up. I understand why the other women are still making it their choice to not film with her. They had they should have done they should have done it years ago. I do get that. I think they've always been afraid of if they lose Taylor, they lose a giant audience. Because Taylor did bring a big audience. She is a huge she was huge on TikTok and a large part of that, did you know we enable Some of that was enabled by people who also didn't want to piss her off so she would film.
Speaker 2: But if you know that she's volatle, y'all need to tell us. I'm thinking y'all not telling us that this was happening back there. This is not fair. I feel my thinks.
Speaker 1: I think that's why Whitney wasn't really with them when the show really started.
Speaker 2: I think I really feel like you make that makes a lot of sense. And while she only came for her opportunities and then left, she's like, uh uh I'm not doing that. Go I'm gonna get my coin. And then she got on Broadway and now she said, all y'all can kiss her ass and good and will and will her cute little skinny dance and ass. Okay, I love that for her.
Speaker 1: I'm glad that.
Speaker 2: Taylor's kids are going to seemingly be safe with their dads. I think it is absolutely wild, but really, I'm grateful that those kids have dads that want them full time and want to take care of them and keep them safe, so much so that they race to the courthouse to go do that.
Speaker 3: So cool.
Speaker 2: I think that we will continue to be hearing about this for a long long time, and I interesting, it's interesting to see where this is gonna go. And I just encourage all to just realize and look at how the kind of when you think white privilege doesn't exist, examine this situation and the fact that she hasn't even lost everything yet she's lost one thing.
Speaker 3: Essentially, if this was Leila, we'd never hear from her again, just say.
Speaker 1: Nope, nope, Oh, that'd be a whole different story, a whole different story.
Speaker 2: Buller would be apologizing to us, We're sorry, we even put her in y'all's faces.
Speaker 1: Look, look, I'm just gonna give you a for instance before we're done. I posted that she lost temporary full custody of her child in my stories Today. Some somebody came in my DMS and said, you're horrible. Instant of followed, I'm like, bye, I mean you, Missay. I saw the footage. I don't understand. You've got a bunch of certain types people out there that are used to getting used to that kind of behavior issued upon them, and they're okay with it, yep.
Speaker 2: And they're very confused when I say things like this is white privilege.
Speaker 3: No it's not. She's losing everything, she's being held accountable.
Speaker 1: No she's not. They knew about this.
Speaker 2: She's just now getting canceled, and and she hasn't even fully she lost one thing and gets to the next.
Speaker 1: Thing will be next. I guarantee you next week we're gonna hear the announcement. I can't wait. Honestly, I was following early. You watch.
Speaker 2: I think she should they should film the rest of the season without her, and I can't wait. Where our odds are really good, so maybe we should definitely give our predictions.
Speaker 3: We do think that that might happen. By next week and day, we will be reporting that she is nicked from the rest of the season, and I guarantee you Whitney will be the new face of the show. Only right now, it's a good face. I ain't gonna lie Winny good job to blow up.
Speaker 1: He's the only husband I like now.
Speaker 3: Anyways, my and who knew we would saying that this many seasons later. I'm on the Whitney and Connor train too, So listen.
Speaker 2: That's where I'm at is y'all've heard what we could do, what we could want to produce, and we think we'd get it right.
Speaker 3: We'd get it much better than whatever the hell they got going on over there. But while the ghetto mass trash of Utah happens, we will be watching, and we'll let y'all know what we see when we find out.
Speaker 2: Thank y'all so much for listening. That's been Mark. I've been money. He's at the Pink Pop box. I'm at mixing with MANI and we will see y'all next time.
Speaker 1: Bye bye.
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