Field Dispatch
A Chunky Housewives Yap Fest w/Selle Brooks (@WhoAskedMePodcast)-RHOM Reunion, RHOSLC & RHOP
Field Notes
WE ARE DWELLING IN THE VORTEX! Host of Who Asked Me Podcast, Selle Brooks, talks all things Real Housewives of Miami reunion...Our feelings about Guerdy's place on the cast, Julia and Martina 🙃, Julia and Adriana...all the Miami mess.
Over in Salt Lake City we have one semi Baby G fan lite and a true NON- Lisa B fan talk about Whitney's public psychic reading party, the logistics, the stunt queens, and the actions of Angie K and Lisa in their fight of who is a worse friend essentially.
Coming back to Potomac, Mani talks about the logistics of the cast in regards to the show and the things happening in real time. Is Stacey a liar? Are Angel and K really that good of friends? Can Gizzy get by being our comedic narrator this season? What kind of season we think Wendy will have and more. Let's Discuss.
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Speaker 1: Sounds rugg Hello, Hello, Hello, all you beautiful and wonderful
Speaker 1: mixologists out there. It is your girl Moni and you
Speaker 1: are in the mix with MANI look at that. Y'all
Speaker 1: remembered my own title this time. This is great. We
Speaker 1: love to see it. I'm coming to you again because,
Speaker 1: like again, we talked about the Bravo Vortex being in
Speaker 1: full effect, and that means that we got a lot
Speaker 1: of things to be talking about, a lot of things
Speaker 1: to work through, and a lot of people thankfully qualified,
Speaker 1: certified real like tea getters, Bravo holics, reality TV watchers,
Speaker 1: commentators of all things pop culture. I have a great
Speaker 1: lineup of people. Thank god they all say yes to me.
Speaker 1: We have so much to get through and I cannot believe.
Speaker 1: But I'm also so grateful. So here today I have
Speaker 1: with me Sell Brooks Brooks right, yeah, yeah, yeah, And
Speaker 1: she's like the content creator. If you're not following her,
Speaker 1: you should. Her podcast is called Who Asked Sel? And
Speaker 1: I did? I asked her? Actually, I asked her to
Speaker 1: come today. So I'm so excited you're here. Thank you
Speaker 1: so much for being here. How are you doing, I'm good?
Speaker 1: Thanks for having me. Yeah, this is this is the time, like,
Speaker 1: this is the time right before brav Usually this is
Speaker 1: where they like to really ramp it up. And wouldn't
Speaker 1: you know it's a month from like right now, Yeah,
Speaker 1: ramping it up they did. We are in full swing
Speaker 1: of all things Housewives you got, And I know I'm
Speaker 1: not covering all of it, but that's also because everybody
Speaker 1: is covering so many things all the time. But you know,
Speaker 1: shout out to Miami. I am watching that reunion. Holy shit,
Speaker 1: it is very they're having a ball over.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.
Speaker 3: Julia Dunwin and pissed the wrong bitch off. I have
Speaker 3: no clue, Like why she did that? Why did you
Speaker 3: think that that was going to I just I saw
Speaker 3: I just shared that like an entertainment tonight, Adriana was
Speaker 3: on with Bryce Sander I think it was uh and she.
Speaker 1: Was letting it fly again.
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, yeah, she was like this at
Speaker 3: the first time Martina dumb left her.
Speaker 2: She left her before in Paris.
Speaker 3: I was like, see again, what we know of Adriana,
Speaker 3: why would you do that? Like she loyal, so you
Speaker 3: hate her and then when she hates you, bad girl.
Speaker 3: It's a leaky falset and she's like I have she's
Speaker 3: it's gloves off. But also, Julia, you made some poor
Speaker 3: decisions this reunion. I'm happy to be watching yeah as
Speaker 3: a spectator, please keep making poor decisions.
Speaker 1: But you're really like, I'm like, what do you do?
Speaker 1: You hate your life? I'm just so confused, Like it
Speaker 1: just the thought process. I'm not seeing a fully baked
Speaker 1: plan here, no what we thought would happened or get to,
Speaker 1: especially with the backlash or the aftermath that we're like
Speaker 1: living in now with like Martina allegedly possibly leaving and
Speaker 1: you know, being like I'm done, but any Astra flied
Speaker 1: out with did Martina? Like what did you did?
Speaker 3: You know? You want to talk about this because I
Speaker 3: think it's the fact so like a lot is started
Speaker 3: didn't make sense now because uh huh, I was like,
Speaker 3: why does Martina?
Speaker 2: What is up with Martina's attitude this season?
Speaker 3: Like she just seems so and don't get me wrong,
Speaker 3: Martina never really seems like happy, go lucky that lady
Speaker 3: at all, but she is giving particularly shrill this season.
Speaker 3: And then when Julia's like, yeah, I told Martina four
Speaker 3: months ago.
Speaker 2: I said told her four months ago.
Speaker 1: That's it, and we're having this conversation on national television today.
Speaker 1: Then to know that Martina never wanted that to get
Speaker 1: out and you dropped it early. You did hit it
Speaker 1: out like in the first what ninety minutes of y'all
Speaker 1: recording essentially like.
Speaker 2: Like it's Julia does it really feels like Julia.
Speaker 3: Does not have a care for anybody else besides her,
Speaker 3: because I think back to like her kids, her daughters,
Speaker 3: how she's like, they're not talking to me. Now, could
Speaker 3: they not be talking to her? Because they're like.
Speaker 2: You're unstable? Why would you? Why would you adopt these.
Speaker 3: Two young these two young boys, and you're an unstable
Speaker 3: You're not a stable parent in the first place. You're
Speaker 3: running around cheating on Martina left and right, and then
Speaker 3: it's gonna fall on us because y'all are old. I
Speaker 3: really thought it was just like the age thing I
Speaker 3: really want, I mean, and the fact that that Julia
Speaker 3: wasn't very present with them according to them.
Speaker 1: And you know what I mean, you want to redo
Speaker 1: it now? It is right your life when you can't
Speaker 1: release the farm and the animals and apparently the bullshit
Speaker 1: behind in other places, but no there and I would
Speaker 1: have that would have been a fine reason for the
Speaker 1: kids to not even be speaking to her to begin with,
Speaker 1: But this is it's like a whole new level. There's
Speaker 1: so many I just it feels like this is beyond selfish.
Speaker 1: Selfish is a word. I'm just like, you wanted to
Speaker 1: you ended up imploading your own life. Whether or not
Speaker 1: you gave a shit about that is we will never
Speaker 1: really know. But it seems like the collateral damage wasn't
Speaker 1: worth the boom for anything other than a moment on TV.
Speaker 1: And I can't guarantee you'll have even that many more
Speaker 1: after it. We don't know. It just feel like a
Speaker 1: really big, risky move to me. So I'm just like,
Speaker 1: no one.
Speaker 3: Is asking for Julia back, right, and there's not enough.
Speaker 3: There's not enough there for me to care about. Like
Speaker 3: if Martina ends up filing for divorce from her, I
Speaker 3: don't care.
Speaker 2: I don't want to see Julia back.
Speaker 3: And I also find it very did you see her
Speaker 3: apparent social worker arguing in the comment section with.
Speaker 1: Gertie, Yes, okay, and again anytime. First of all, and
Speaker 1: it's not just because I like Gerty. It's more than
Speaker 1: that this woman, Julia is a specific targeting of Gerty,
Speaker 1: Like the beef with Gerdy is so it's like it's
Speaker 1: so blatant that I'm just like, come on, y'all, like yeah,
Speaker 1: are we serious, Like we're just gonna it just feels
Speaker 1: it's never made sense. It is beyond a jealousy situation.
Speaker 1: This is not normal, you know, and we're seeing like
Speaker 1: housewife on housewife jealousy, weird relationship shit that's like of
Speaker 1: a full level and where they both see each other
Speaker 1: as formidable opponents. It's just something about the way Julia
Speaker 1: pursues Gerdy that doesn't feel like, you know, quite the
Speaker 1: same situation. It's definitely very different than how she fights
Speaker 1: with the other ladies. And she does fight with the
Speaker 1: other ladies.
Speaker 3: She absolutely does. And again I don't understand what, like
Speaker 3: something makes me so uncomfortable about Julia adopted Julia Martinez
Speaker 3: adopting those boys.
Speaker 1: Like yes, this on threads and I couldn't repost it fast.
Speaker 3: Enough I could, I cannot really fully put it into words,
Speaker 3: but the fact that the social worker is now arguing
Speaker 3: with Gerdy in the comment section, like where is the linehere?
Speaker 2: Where is the professionalism? And please one thing, bravo, people
Speaker 2: know how to do is dig into some shit.
Speaker 3: So if you know that there's some sketchy shit going
Speaker 3: on here, or it's you know, out of the Norman
Speaker 3: to a private from what I understand, it's a private agency.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, all right. I've seen this play
Speaker 1: out before and I don't love it. There's I have
Speaker 1: big feelings about multi racial adoption period and as it
Speaker 1: just you know, a person who, oh I don't know,
Speaker 1: got a master's in childhood development elementry education certificate in
Speaker 1: like eighty A and child like you know, different disabilities
Speaker 1: and things like that, and a strong interest in social
Speaker 1: justice and racial relations and like sel and belonging and
Speaker 1: things like that. Belonging is like literally such a big
Speaker 1: component to a child's adolescence, the pulling where they feeling
Speaker 1: a sense and understandable community is what community and family
Speaker 1: looks like, how they relate to the world. And I'm
Speaker 1: just not seeing how that's gonna be fully addressed and
Speaker 1: accessible to these babies. Nope, that home, especially now that
Speaker 1: you're fighting on national TV or revealing on national TV
Speaker 1: that you like to get around, well not right.
Speaker 3: So now stable home that most social workers and adoption
Speaker 3: agencies love is no more as of like right now,
Speaker 3: like just yesterday. That is what I am most confused about.
Speaker 3: When you when you go for adoption, they dig so
Speaker 3: deep into your business. They do ask about like if
Speaker 3: there have been any recent separations or anything like that.
Speaker 3: But not only that, like the to your point of
Speaker 3: her getting around like that, the cheating, but also the anger,
Speaker 3: the anger, Juliet. It still is baffling to me that
Speaker 3: those ladies, even though it shouldn't be because they are not
Speaker 3: the smartest bunch, and instead of they were so focused
Speaker 3: on gerdy. Why oh why they could not turn around
Speaker 3: because I've seen Alexia do it before, like change her
Speaker 3: mind or you know, have a realization mid sentence why
Speaker 3: they couldn't turn around and be like, Julia, we love you,
Speaker 3: but like we what we just saw. Because we love you,
Speaker 3: we have to pull you up on this and we
Speaker 3: you have a habit of throwing things at each other
Speaker 3: as people, and all of us can collectively do better
Speaker 3: when she gets to throwing things, or anybody gets to
Speaker 3: throwing things, because we can all agree that it's crossing
Speaker 3: the line.
Speaker 2: But Julia, you are the one that throws things.
Speaker 3: Why the fuck these grown ass women could not get
Speaker 3: to that, but we're like, oh, but Gerdy, when this
Speaker 3: got thrown at me, you didn't say anything, Alexia. I
Speaker 3: don't see you jumping in the line of fire either, Babe.
Speaker 1: No, it's just it's really giving. This at least one
Speaker 1: thing I hate sometimes in Florida, y'all's reputation for how
Speaker 1: you value and treat the girlies of the African diaspora,
Speaker 1: the black girlies is really, really, really sketchy, and on Miami,
Speaker 1: I'm here to tell you it's not looking better. This
Speaker 1: is not the first season that we have had this
Speaker 1: conversation that these things have come up. It's some time
Speaker 1: I remember saying the words, I don't know if I
Speaker 1: feel like my girl Gerty is safe on this show.
Speaker 1: And I don't mean to say physically she can take
Speaker 1: care of herself. I definitely believe in a mat and
Speaker 1: a matter between her and Julia. It's Gerty every day.
Speaker 1: I'm putting money on that, like it's Baldi. First of all,
Speaker 1: Baldi the baldy alone. She got it in the bag,
Speaker 1: and oh look, she got it in the bag. So
Speaker 1: I already know why Julia is mad. But the rest
Speaker 1: of you, it's really giving. Not a good place and
Speaker 1: I hate that, like I really do, because things like
Speaker 1: this start planning seeds. You know, we don't say something
Speaker 1: now to Julia, especially when it feels really extra targeted
Speaker 1: and you want to turn it on Gerdy victim blame me.
Speaker 1: That feels like another like you almost feel like she
Speaker 1: deserves it, like you almost like you don't, you don't care,
Speaker 1: and I don't like that.
Speaker 3: And my thing with the Miami anybody who likes like okay,
Speaker 3: but Gerdy, she doesn't really hint like she doesn't explain herself, well,
Speaker 3: she doesn't. None of them do everything that people like
Speaker 3: say Gerty does. All of them are guilty of doing.
Speaker 3: None of them can read, Yeah I said it online.
Speaker 3: None of them can read. None of them are good
Speaker 3: at like explaining themselves all the way through. They all yell,
Speaker 3: they all take a roundabout way to get there like
Speaker 3: that's not they're all dramatic.
Speaker 2: They're all dramatic, like I don't so that is exactly.
Speaker 1: Talk about other people when you ask them straight queste.
Speaker 1: Adrianna can't answer a question without mentioning somebody else for
Speaker 1: the life of her, No, not at all, and not
Speaker 1: making about a man in sob like hello, please don't
Speaker 1: do that. It's Miami. That's what also his housewives. So
Speaker 1: I'm not looking for scholars, so please.
Speaker 2: Exactly all this.
Speaker 3: The only one that could all articulate themselves very well
Speaker 3: and straight to point was doctor Nicole She and hello,
Speaker 3: because I would listen if I was doctoring and call.
Speaker 3: I'm not dealing with that shit either. I'm not arguing
Speaker 3: with fucking Marisol. I'm not arguing Listen. In the words
Speaker 3: of Marca labount Hill, I say regular words at a
Speaker 3: tricky to you.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Like I'm not.
Speaker 1: Tricky to you. You don't understand, So then like, what
Speaker 1: is it? Like I am having a good time with
Speaker 1: the Miami reunion. But this is one of the reasons
Speaker 1: that I expressedly tried not. I chose not to talk
Speaker 1: about the season overalls because especially for anybody who's been
Speaker 1: listening since like they're mixing with Monnie days, Like, it's
Speaker 1: only so many times that I could have relayed the
Speaker 1: same point. Yeah of hey, this is a micro aggrushion,
Speaker 1: this is a macro crush this is flat I raised
Speaker 1: sism and let me tell you why we'd be here
Speaker 1: all night and after all the things that happened in
Speaker 1: the last couple of years, and me teaching, teaching everybody,
Speaker 1: having me on to every podcast to teach and everything
Speaker 1: and come on there and explain, and then have her
Speaker 1: talking to me again like stop doing the work, quote unquote,
Speaker 1: So then so did I. I'm here to talk about
Speaker 1: the whites and the girls that make me giggle. Yeah,
Speaker 1: make me giggle. But I wanted y'all to know that Miami,
Speaker 1: this reunion has made me giggle because that lady is
Speaker 1: showing her ass and that's all I needed to see.
Speaker 1: I've been waiting.
Speaker 3: Julia to deliver her ass on a silver platter, no literally,
Speaker 3: because then here's my other thing. A couple of years back,
Speaker 3: I had completely forgotten that we were all like, wait
Speaker 3: a minute, is there something going on between Julia and
Speaker 3: Adriana because it was just such a non factor. I
Speaker 3: really don't care about Julia and I never have and
Speaker 3: I never will, especially.
Speaker 1: Never She's because I stopped watching so regularly. She's so
Speaker 1: boring to me. I hate her so much.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't like Martina, I don't like like I
Speaker 3: neither for people to be like, oh, this is the
Speaker 3: representation we finally have a queer housewife.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: First of all, you cannot pay me to believe that
Speaker 3: Adriana and Julia are the only housewives that have bumped couchies.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't think that they are right.
Speaker 1: Laid around with that in Atlanta. Hello, oh exactly.
Speaker 3: But secondly, just because they are representation doesn't mean that
Speaker 3: they are the right representation, because they are god awfully transphobic.
Speaker 2: And I hate hate when.
Speaker 3: The inner people just conveniently forget about intersectionality.
Speaker 2: So Julia and Martina.
Speaker 3: Are white women, like, yes, they are gay, but they
Speaker 3: are white women first.
Speaker 2: Yes, they are white women first.
Speaker 3: And I have gotten into it with plenty of minty
Speaker 3: of gay white women queer white women where they're like,
Speaker 3: I have to you know, I'm gay and eye blah
Speaker 3: blah blah. When people look at you like one of
Speaker 3: the main ones, I'm like, you're feminine presenting. She's like,
Speaker 3: I lived my life out loud as a gay woman.
Speaker 3: I said, when you walk down the street, if you
Speaker 3: don't have a rainbow pin on, which is to be honest,
Speaker 3: yeah exactly, no one really knows you're gay. Yeah, you
Speaker 3: wear Doc Martin's and overalls, but that doesn't.
Speaker 2: You're still a white woman.
Speaker 3: Okay, same same thing, respond to, right, Martina and Julia
Speaker 3: and Martina and Juliets gay women, you are being put
Speaker 3: in the position.
Speaker 2: It's white gay women.
Speaker 3: You are being put in the position to represent for
Speaker 3: a community that you really cannot represent for. Like y'all
Speaker 3: are sitting here being like working against your own interest. Okay, Martina,
Speaker 3: LGBT T T What the fuck do you think the
Speaker 3: T is?
Speaker 1: An LGBT showing your ass out here on the interwebs
Speaker 1: and expect the same kind of I'm like, also, first
Speaker 1: of all, this is the gayest of the gay ones.
Speaker 1: This is housewise. Bravo, Nami, What are you even doing?
Speaker 1: Why are you? First of all, why even live there?
Speaker 1: I'm very concerned, Like you can go live your you know,
Speaker 1: you know, homesteading, you know, Willie White yet lesbian in
Speaker 1: life with Caitlin and them Jenner over there in like
Speaker 1: Utah are Wyoming. I'm sure, I'm sure having the time
Speaker 1: like they're doing. Fine, go homestead over there. I don't
Speaker 1: understand why you are here. It's I don't like it
Speaker 1: when people put themselves in spaces that they know. I
Speaker 1: don't want to say belong to other people, but are
Speaker 1: important to other people to belong in. They have no
Speaker 1: desire or need to belong because they exist in other
Speaker 1: communities that they In fact, they don't feel they have
Speaker 1: no difference. It's yeah, they don't see anything other than
Speaker 1: that's just who I sleep with, which is not the
Speaker 1: point and a privilege you will I will never understand. No,
Speaker 1: I will never get that life. Like nobody's talking to
Speaker 1: them when they come out, No parents telling them when
Speaker 1: they come out, why do you have to add another
Speaker 1: one to it? You're already blah and blah blah, Like
Speaker 1: that's not good story. They're allowed to just be accept
Speaker 1: for their one weird, different, quirky thing that they have.
Speaker 1: You know, it just happens to be who they love.
Speaker 1: And that's why they believe love is love, but not
Speaker 1: exactly because they actually believe in. And I really do
Speaker 1: hate bigoting. I really hate when y'all marginalized people be bigoty.
Speaker 1: I hate that, Like you've got to pick a struggle,
Speaker 1: hello hard.
Speaker 3: I just want to say this because somebody said this
Speaker 3: in my DMS. They were like, I never thought that
Speaker 3: the Haitian mortician might be a woman or not, might
Speaker 3: be a man, I said, I never thought it would
Speaker 3: be a woman. I didn't either, I said, I think
Speaker 3: the Haitian mortician is a man. I thought, that's literally
Speaker 3: why I just said it. And the cop isn't. Like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I said in the cop is a man, Martina. I'm
Speaker 3: pretty sure Julia told us Martina is the only woman
Speaker 3: she's been with.
Speaker 1: She's been with men.
Speaker 2: Okay, And technically, yes.
Speaker 3: I am bisexual, but like I'm not Julia bisexual.
Speaker 2: M hm, Like no, babe, okay is.
Speaker 1: Not even I think Julia is a chameleon. I think
Speaker 1: that I do too. It's given chameleon and I am
Speaker 1: sentence to it because I know people like I have
Speaker 1: known people like that because you try to get him
Speaker 1: out quick when you realize it, or you should or
Speaker 1: you should. But so, Martine, I hope it sticks, honestly, honey,
Speaker 1: because that girl is whatever the person that she needs
Speaker 1: to level up, that they need her to be. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so a man needs her to have never been she
Speaker 1: will be the straightest woman you've ever seen in about
Speaker 1: fifteen months.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: Exactly, never like it, nothing never happened, like it never happened.
Speaker 1: That the same way Stacy's voice has changed since she
Speaker 1: got back with her German husband that she never really left,
Speaker 1: but is now I talk. Yeah, I will call it out.
Speaker 1: I said, now, listen her breath not so hot that
Speaker 1: she gotta change her entire vocal and speech pattern. This
Speaker 1: is because she's back with that white man without That's
Speaker 1: what it is. That's what that is. And feel that
Speaker 1: you will be whoever you need to be to be
Speaker 1: where you want to go.
Speaker 3: And Julius going to the top can give a damn.
Speaker 3: She could give a damn about you, about you, about
Speaker 3: those boys, about her home kids, like when your kids
Speaker 3: have to tell you, mom, I think you should hang
Speaker 3: it up.
Speaker 1: You're not a good one.
Speaker 3: I think we should reevaluate choices and decisions like adopting
Speaker 3: children with needs I needs and then changing their names.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's just evil. I just can't. I can't.
Speaker 1: My lady stressed me out. I really can't. And that's
Speaker 1: why I ended up y'all not talking about Miami because.
Speaker 3: Although this season was, I mean, I went on a rollercoaster.
Speaker 3: Did y'all have me really mad?
Speaker 1: Not watching? Then I binged it for a minute because
Speaker 1: you said go back. Then I watched this.
Speaker 3: Reunion live and I was like, and I love in
Speaker 3: real time watching you know, a white woman fall.
Speaker 1: It just is so good. It's so good when by
Speaker 1: her own demise. Yeah, I'm like, you know, the cars
Speaker 1: are not stacked against you. You're set up to looka
Speaker 1: you had a nice life. I would not. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be mad.
Speaker 2: I just find I find Julia to be so evil.
Speaker 3: In them anger issues because even that unt and to
Speaker 3: make no mistake, production has been doing her a favor,
Speaker 3: even that argument that at the end party when everybody
Speaker 3: was like, we don't know why Adrianna is so mad
Speaker 3: blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: And Gerty's sitting there explaining it. She's like, from what
Speaker 2: I understand, this is.
Speaker 3: What Adrianna is mad about, because you know, she and
Speaker 3: Gertie drew examples like oh, you know, like me and
Speaker 3: you with the text messaging and Julia's like, yeah, and
Speaker 3: you tried to put me on blast and blah blah blah, and.
Speaker 1: Gertie's like, no, I met you where you were at.
Speaker 3: But anyways, like Gertie tried to move on and she
Speaker 3: kept going with her, and then she's like, oh, Gertie,
Speaker 3: don't go there, don't go there.
Speaker 2: I'm like, is this a threat?
Speaker 3: And I was right there with Gertie when Gerty was like,
Speaker 3: are you getting angry? Do you want to throw something
Speaker 3: exact thing because.
Speaker 1: You get one? Are you mad?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Oh, Gertie, don't go there. I was like, bitch, don't
Speaker 3: tell me not to go there, because guess where.
Speaker 1: I'm going there, I'm gonna go there.
Speaker 3: Guess where I'm going. I'm hepically, Yeah, I'm already arrived. Yeah, bitch,
Speaker 3: I unpacked. I'm waiting on you to pick a room.
Speaker 3: But I've been here. Hello, come join, Okay, don't do me.
Speaker 1: I appreciate when the girlies show up and clock in
Speaker 1: for you know, the toe to toe and be like,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna go there, you know. And the
Speaker 1: only time and this is, you know, a poor attempt
Speaker 1: at a segue, but I have to talk to continue
Speaker 1: the downfall of the Snowballs. The Salt Lake City Girl
Speaker 1: is over in Utah. The only time I'm like concerned
Speaker 1: is when they're a little two clocked in. Is when
Speaker 1: we get moments where like the entirety of an episode
Speaker 1: is spent at a table fighting about the same fight
Speaker 1: with Angie and Lisa and their entire situation. I want
Speaker 1: to find out where you see yourself or where you
Speaker 1: see it for more or less of the two ladies.
Speaker 1: And why is Angie k so obsessed with Lisa Barlow?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like she just keeps
Speaker 1: talking about her, but I know nothing else that's going
Speaker 1: on in her life this year. Yet this is episode
Speaker 1: what three four, and yet everyone is still We're all
Speaker 1: still on Lisa's lassus, which is great, but she's never
Speaker 1: gonna give us enough. So I'm just confused though, why
Speaker 1: we're still talking about her and her being the only
Speaker 1: mean one when all of y'all have clocked in. Is
Speaker 1: Lisa she I'm gonna say it like I mean it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: She'll say it without a clue. I mean she literally
Speaker 1: is like, who used to do this? On OC and
Speaker 1: be like, no, that's not a room. I'm just saying
Speaker 1: what I heard. If someone told me, I think it
Speaker 1: was Vicky, Like Vicky always used to do.
Speaker 2: This they a camera, yes.
Speaker 1: Constantly, Just be like, I just I'm saying, what if
Speaker 1: someone told me? So that's just you know, Lisa's taking
Speaker 1: a page out of that book. But it's just like
Speaker 1: it shocks me. How much work we it feels like
Speaker 1: we're still doing to engage in beit Lisa Barlow when
Speaker 1: also it don't take much. She's always like a half
Speaker 1: notch away from there.
Speaker 2: See, I am not a Lisa.
Speaker 1: Barlow fan, and I understand that I'm alone.
Speaker 3: Because here's my thing. And I said this, I said
Speaker 3: this on online. We after this, after this season. While
Speaker 3: I am having a good time, we do have to
Speaker 3: Lisa is gonna have to give us something. Lisa cannot
Speaker 3: go another season after the way they're coming at her
Speaker 3: now and the like it's time after this season. If
Speaker 3: she does not give us something else, if she does
Speaker 3: not start to bring the shell down, she's not going
Speaker 3: to last much longer. Because it's been a slow building.
Speaker 3: We've had other things to focus on.
Speaker 2: Jen Monica, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: But those, yeah, a lot like Lisa has been able
Speaker 3: to get by because there's been bigger for sure, there
Speaker 3: has been jins, there has been my because but Loki
Speaker 3: Monica was tap tap tapping on bond Lisa's ass, right.
Speaker 3: We never saw Lisa get activated like that until Monica came.
Speaker 2: But here's my thing.
Speaker 3: I enjoyed this episode and I kind of do understand.
Speaker 3: I understand where the women are coming from with the
Speaker 3: lawsuits with Lisa, because she does not talk about anything,
Speaker 3: and because Lisa does do the digging, she does do digging.
Speaker 3: For the life of me, I still can't figure out
Speaker 3: why the fuck she's so mad at Bronwin.
Speaker 2: You're not mad that she lied about buying that necklace.
Speaker 2: It was loser ish, but she's not.
Speaker 3: The first housewife to put a front up like that.
Speaker 3: And she admitted it, like I shouldn't have done that.
Speaker 1: It was like, so she's semi admitted it. She had
Speaker 1: a really nice reasoning for with the girls at the
Speaker 1: camp site that I'm like, this only flew because Lisa
Speaker 1: wasn't there.
Speaker 3: And that does I feel like she told what she
Speaker 3: told us like the.
Speaker 1: Old But also you just didn't buy it, And I
Speaker 1: can understand why. Yeah, his is off Lisa because she's
Speaker 1: supposed to be so rich, and Lisa brought you on
Speaker 1: the show because Lisa is shallow and superficial and likes
Speaker 1: to bring her rich ass friends. And for you to
Speaker 1: be a non rich, play rich and act make the
Speaker 1: public think that you were that rich bitch to get
Speaker 1: that entire necklace and then to tell Andy, No, that
Speaker 1: was what God, Lisa, the cheekiness of you thought you
Speaker 1: see it. You don't know where I'll wear it. And
Speaker 1: She's like, you don't have it, you don't have.
Speaker 2: It, right but and I understand that.
Speaker 3: But for me, like Lisa gets really upset over like
Speaker 3: personal things, right when you talk about John, when you
Speaker 3: like talk about dire Wolf or whatever the fuck that
Speaker 3: hairs straight. She I can't imagine you're not upset about
Speaker 3: that necklace you because Lisa does know the importance of
Speaker 3: her family. One thing I don't doubt is that Lisa
Speaker 3: loves her family. She loves John. So you're not picking
Speaker 3: at this necklace. I can't understand why. And I'm supposed
Speaker 3: to be your friend. I'm gonna tell you right like
Speaker 3: to pretend to be. I know you're new to this
Speaker 3: x y Z. But the levels in which she got
Speaker 3: to with Bronwin and I'm never ever ever going to
Speaker 3: get over that whole like a Gwenn's birth father's family
Speaker 3: situation crazy was Lisa just takes it to a new
Speaker 3: level without really like giving a heartful resolution. She'll just
Speaker 3: be like, I love you so much and I think
Speaker 3: that you're such a great friend.
Speaker 2: But for me, I am a fire sign. I'm in aries.
Speaker 3: I'm really good at like I'm like, don't get me wrong,
Speaker 3: I'll meet you there.
Speaker 2: You're not about to play with me. But I also
Speaker 2: can cut it off.
Speaker 3: I'll be like, okay, idiot, you're dumb ass, like you're
Speaker 3: saying you don't shop in Bronwen or Bronwyn and Nortschua.
Speaker 2: I mean, while you'd already told us that you.
Speaker 3: And bronwyin met Nordstrum, you're a fucking liar and I'm
Speaker 3: not arguing with you anymore. I can see where Lisa
Speaker 3: gets somebody to tit and tap with her, because I like,
Speaker 3: when I'm watching her, I'm like, no, that's not what
Speaker 3: you said there. Take it back here, take it back here,
Speaker 3: take it back here. Bronwyn is mature, and she's like
Speaker 3: it's a race to the.
Speaker 2: Bottom, and I don't want to do that.
Speaker 3: Angie is like, I'm gonna be get with her every
Speaker 3: single time.
Speaker 2: But I understand. I understood what all of the ladies
Speaker 2: were saying as well, which was you and Lisa used
Speaker 2: to be close, and you know that Lisa has always
Speaker 2: been like this.
Speaker 1: So when she and when you engage in exactly exactly
Speaker 1: that you said you've had enough, and to be honest,
Speaker 1: I agree with you. I saw a lot of sins
Speaker 1: coming out of the group, not like it's not that
Speaker 1: we are We're not siding with Lisa, which is weird
Speaker 1: that Angie also took it like that. We thought that
Speaker 1: because she could just she's jumped ship and been like,
Speaker 1: I get it, I am over this lady. They admit
Speaker 1: that they would be like completely blind, and Ray Charles
Speaker 1: to the fact of like, yeah, I mean yes, but
Speaker 1: you can't say that you've never done that, and that's
Speaker 1: what you're kind of exactly and you have because he
Speaker 1: used to do it with old girl that we all
Speaker 1: does this a lot.
Speaker 3: But and I understand where Angie's coming from. So like Monday,
Speaker 3: my mom would always be like, pay attention because if
Speaker 3: they do that to other people, they will do that
Speaker 3: to you. I can give Angie a little bit of
Speaker 3: grace and being like she thought maybe Lisa would never
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 1: With her, she was exempt.
Speaker 2: But also I.
Speaker 3: Understood where both Mary and the group were coming from
Speaker 3: and where Angie was coming from, right, because when I
Speaker 3: am mad at somebody and we all agree. My one
Speaker 3: problem with the group but again I understand it. They're
Speaker 3: trying to talk to the person with more sense, which
Speaker 3: is Angie. Right, They're like, I can calm Angie down,
Speaker 3: I can tell explain this to We can't listen to
Speaker 3: reason and explain this to Lisa because it's Lisa and
Speaker 3: I do. I have a great dislike for the excuse. Oh,
Speaker 3: that's just so and so, that's just so and so.
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, well, how so and so is. It's
Speaker 3: fucking rude, right, Like, don't tell me, Oh, that's just
Speaker 3: how they are as an excuse for me to accept
Speaker 3: their rudeness. But Angie is not having it. And I
Speaker 3: can see when she was talking to Mary and she
Speaker 3: was like, she's done stuff to you. But at the
Speaker 3: same time, I'm like, Mary does not give a fuck
Speaker 3: about Lisa.
Speaker 2: And that's why Mary was exactly because Mary was like,
Speaker 2: hold up. Mary was like, hold up, who's kissing the ring?
Speaker 1: Mary? I say, I said, I don't.
Speaker 3: Even think we've ever seen Mary and Lisa have a
Speaker 3: lunch of one on one.
Speaker 2: They do not engage.
Speaker 3: No, So she when Angie when Mary was like I'm
Speaker 3: done with you, I understood it for two things. First
Speaker 3: of all, you have to calm down. You have to
Speaker 3: calm down. And I said this again. I'm in aries
Speaker 3: I get. Once I get there, there's no come down.
Speaker 3: If I can't get you calm down, I can't help you. Okay,
Speaker 3: because it's hard for me to believe that anybody, I
Speaker 3: know how bad I get, it's hard for me to believe.
Speaker 2: That anybody gets above me.
Speaker 3: And then also, you're not gonna sit here and tell
Speaker 3: me that I kiss somebody's ass who I literally just
Speaker 3: show up and film with.
Speaker 2: I don't see this, bitch unless we're filming.
Speaker 3: Like you watch it, watch it, watch yourself, and yeah,
Speaker 3: watch yourself. Okay, don't sit here and tell me that
Speaker 3: I'm kissing anybody's ass when all I'm doing is showing
Speaker 3: up to the work required events.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So I understood Mary one hundred percent. I think Angie
Speaker 3: was more so talking about like the Heathers, because I've
Speaker 3: been on Heather's ass about her allegiance to Losers. Right
Speaker 3: it is, Heather cannot Heather does say things that make sense.
Speaker 3: Heather knows better. That's why she pisses me off. Because
Speaker 3: she says things in her confessionals and to the other
Speaker 3: women that she gets it when it comes to Lisa,
Speaker 3: but she doesn't say it to Lisa.
Speaker 2: I She'll say half.
Speaker 1: Of them knows though, that she's got to pick her back,
Speaker 1: and it's just not a person with six And I
Speaker 1: think she just figured out that while being her enemy
Speaker 1: is not something that she's interested in, because Lisa does
Speaker 1: go too far. She doesn't need to be Angie k
Speaker 1: and get in the beach with her and go googling
Speaker 1: and searching on the pokio to hook somebody up. But
Speaker 1: it's better to be on her chill side and like,
Speaker 1: you're just not looking at me, you're not coming at me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because she has closest access to her that she at
Speaker 1: least can also know. He was the only person right
Speaker 1: now who knows how she thinks the most too. She's
Speaker 1: the only person at least has been like semi vulnerable with.
Speaker 1: But she pried in front of you know and others,
Speaker 1: like you know, trying to I could see her trying
Speaker 1: to needle at her because I think either I read
Speaker 1: her book and I think she's done. I don't want
Speaker 1: to say she's done the work because I don't really
Speaker 1: know her life like that, right, it seems like she
Speaker 1: understands the assignment, I will say. Yeah, She's like, if
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get through this season without this lady making
Speaker 1: me have oil to break down, I don't want to
Speaker 1: do that with her. They're a simple solution, and it's,
Speaker 1: you know, be a friend to her. I don't think
Speaker 1: necessarily even that she would think of herself as her
Speaker 1: friend and using those words very carefully because it seems
Speaker 1: like she's like someone has to be a good friend
Speaker 1: to her so that she doesn't feel alone, and then
Speaker 1: starts spiraling at everybody. But in being a good friend
Speaker 1: to her, she's not clocking her and Jen keeping her
Speaker 1: the way because lista bar she knows that she would
Speaker 1: never accept that. She would just get combative, much like
Speaker 1: how angk is making sense. It gets lost and Lisa
Speaker 1: going back and forth with her, and then Angie gets
Speaker 1: immature and does the thing, and then there's no coming
Speaker 1: back for either of them. So I was like, I
Speaker 1: can at least, like plant seeds, like you can be vulnerable,
Speaker 1: you can cry, It's okay to be upset, and we're
Speaker 1: seeing I said on the first episode of the show, Lisa,
Speaker 1: this was gonna be a hard one for baby gorgeouses
Speaker 1: out there. I was like, Oh, this is gonna be
Speaker 1: a bad one because if one thing about me, I'm
Speaker 1: self aware. I'm a Torris, so I'm a real bitch.
Speaker 1: I really understand in my mom I'm so realistic. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, but also I'm watching this show knowing
Speaker 1: that everybody's a little bit psycho and a lot of
Speaker 1: bit chartistic. But that's why I'm here, you know, And
Speaker 1: I like that I happen to be a person who
Speaker 1: also just like I hate an underdog situation like with me.
Speaker 1: And I know Lisa's gonna have a bad season. I
Speaker 1: know she was gonna have a bad season. My concern
Speaker 1: was that all the women were gonna make this storylines
Speaker 1: about her bad season. Let her have her bad season.
Speaker 1: I have yet to get into any of y'all having
Speaker 1: a good season out of the takedown of Lisa or
Speaker 1: the exposure of Lisa's big business practices or whatever.
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 1: To be honest, it's so like city, I'm expecting each
Speaker 1: one of y'all have one of these type of seasons
Speaker 1: a year. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, okay, so it's gonna beat her business first, Yeah,
Speaker 3: you know, it'll be this.
Speaker 1: One then only that one. That's exactly what I'm expecting,
Speaker 1: because I truly again don't think Whitney ever knew that
Speaker 1: her business may or may not have been an MLM.
Speaker 1: I don't think she was aware. We were.
Speaker 2: She wasn't we were.
Speaker 3: We were.
Speaker 2: I was very aware, we were, we were very aware.
Speaker 3: We weren't very aware. I think I said that as well.
Speaker 3: But I and we're justin. Apparently was where Justin worked,
Speaker 3: Apparently was MLM coded as well.
Speaker 1: But I will say she gets you get fired because
Speaker 1: your wife is gonna okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3: I will say I'm with you, and I agree with
Speaker 3: you what you're saying about. I see all of the
Speaker 3: women having their own stories, but I think with Lisa
Speaker 3: it's just gotten to a point where she is always
Speaker 3: quick to have something about someone else.
Speaker 2: So when there is something.
Speaker 3: Printed about you in the paper, and you are so
Speaker 3: quick to poke at somebody else and say, actually this
Speaker 3: so and so told me this, I know so and
Speaker 3: so who knows so and so? And they told me
Speaker 3: you didn't buy that necklace, and blah blah blah, like
Speaker 3: I always said, if it was in the Salt Lake
Speaker 3: City Tribune, Bronwin Newport did not buy that necklace. Lisa
Speaker 3: would have it right there and be like, did it
Speaker 3: have the necklace? Never had the necklace. Here's the proof,
Speaker 3: it's in the paper, so that it's that impression. By
Speaker 3: the way, what I say about Lisa is them tables
Speaker 3: on Lisa. They turned quickly. Her tables turned really really quickly.
Speaker 3: And we think what the best practice would be for
Speaker 3: Lisa in this group moving forward is that the reunion,
Speaker 3: we just have to show a package of Lisa digging
Speaker 3: quote unquote digging and having information on other people, and
Speaker 3: then but we also have to meet her with grace
Speaker 3: and show her that she can be vulnerable, because Lisa's
Speaker 3: reading and Whitney's reading were not different when it came
Speaker 3: to their husbands, and Lisa thinks she is like this
Speaker 3: golden Laboo boo where she has a perfect marriage and
Speaker 3: perfect kids and nothing is going to shake that marriage
Speaker 3: is hard.
Speaker 2: I have no doubt.
Speaker 3: I'm no doubt that Lisa and John love each other,
Speaker 3: no doubt about that, and I think that they both
Speaker 3: want to work it out with one another. But they're
Speaker 3: in a season that that is hard, and I can
Speaker 3: understand not wanting to invite, not even the other women
Speaker 3: cameras into that shit. Because then people's especially in the
Speaker 3: housewife universe, they start picking and they start looking for.
Speaker 1: Things, you know what I mean, signs and stuff.
Speaker 3: Like that, And I don't think Lisa is mentally strong
Speaker 3: enough to actually like handle that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely think so.
Speaker 3: Dead woman has not had emotional a success in the
Speaker 3: emotional vulnerability department, probably.
Speaker 1: Most of not all of her life. I'm even I'm
Speaker 1: even tempted to say it might have been one of
Speaker 1: the draws to Mormonism, because she is not Mormon by
Speaker 1: by nature is a convert. And I think that, and
Speaker 1: I'm thinking back, like, of the cast, I think she's
Speaker 1: probably the only one who's like actively trying to be Mormon.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's any of the other ones. And
Speaker 1: maybe Roman, but I don't think so. So I know, yeah,
Speaker 1: so it's just so. Then it makes me think if
Speaker 1: you are a civilizer, mormonal wives watcher like me and
Speaker 1: a lot of other people, then you also know there
Speaker 1: is an insane amount of pressure on them to be perfect. Yeah,
Speaker 1: look perfect, a perfect marriage, because that means God has
Speaker 1: blessed them, right, We've done the things and they're so successful.
Speaker 1: So also, vulnerability is not celebrated at all amongst these people.
Speaker 1: It's much why Taylor, Frankie Paul kept getting in the business.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of like I like to remind people
Speaker 1: that the whole segilizing woman Wife started because the world
Speaker 1: had a different reception to what you ta thought the
Speaker 1: reception would be. They are all of her friends and
Speaker 1: whatnot left her because they were like, you're exposing you're
Speaker 1: being bad, you're doing the swinger things. And the rest
Speaker 1: of us who watch trash TV and have a good time,
Speaker 1: we like a law and order every once in a while,
Speaker 1: we're like swing or what, yeah, you talk about it,
Speaker 1: let me get a can we get a camera? And
Speaker 1: then they were like, wait, wait people, people people like that. Yes,
Speaker 1: the world is outside of Utah. And I don't think
Speaker 1: Lisa Barlow sometimes knows that, but she thinks she knows that,
Speaker 1: but it matters so much to her how she looks,
Speaker 1: especially even on this show. She's been living like this
Speaker 1: for a long time and I think that part of it.
Speaker 1: And she's a what is she a Capricorn? I think
Speaker 1: she's a Capricorn December uh.
Speaker 2: Huh, she's a Sagittarist.
Speaker 1: He's sat a terrorist, I'm pretty sure. So she is
Speaker 1: let me look it up, but she, Lisa is December fourteenth. Yep,
Speaker 1: that's a saturt terrorist dolls with bones, they are, and
Speaker 1: it's crazy that I even like her, because I don't
Speaker 1: like sagit terrorists. Most times. The winter signs are hard
Speaker 1: for me.
Speaker 2: Hard for me too.
Speaker 1: I'm not a tornado of an emotion person. I like, nah,
Speaker 1: I remote when it makes sense, and I'm stubborn as hell,
Speaker 1: but I'll give grace and I understand reasoning.
Speaker 3: Yeah, one of my really good friends is a Taurus,
Speaker 3: and like she is so funny. Tauruses are so funny
Speaker 3: because y'all are stubborn. But like how I feel is
Speaker 3: how I feel, and y'all like that's fine, but how
Speaker 3: that's not how I feel.
Speaker 2: But like y'all aren't gonna argue about it.
Speaker 1: You're like, that's that's totally fine.
Speaker 3: Like you you feel that way, You're like you feel
Speaker 3: that way and not totally fine.
Speaker 2: But me over here, I'm gonna feel like this and
Speaker 2: lazy and I'm not and I'm not yeah, and I'm
Speaker 2: not moving.
Speaker 1: And that's probably why I'm also so sensitive to people
Speaker 1: going up around Lisa, because like, after a while, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm bored with this. She's never gonna tell y'all the truth,
Speaker 1: and y'all are not making it easy or some of
Speaker 1: you are not making it eat. Like any kind of
Speaker 1: vulnerability that could have happened that day, Angie never wanted
Speaker 1: to happen for Lisa. She came in there with a
Speaker 1: plane with that box full of toys, like, I'm giving
Speaker 1: this back like the bunny in Beverly Hill, I'm giving
Speaker 1: it back. And I said, no, that was a stunt queen. Okay,
Speaker 1: that was.
Speaker 3: A stunt queen, but Lisa is a stunt queen first
Speaker 3: because sending that Lady.
Speaker 1: And I just felt like a really bit It just
Speaker 1: felt like it's so interesting because Whitney and them, like
Speaker 1: the girls, Whitney had a different intention y'all, like Lisa
Speaker 1: would have taken the bait and maybe been vulnerable, maybe
Speaker 1: shared something or anything. But like, genuinely it felt like
Speaker 1: Angie was like, Nah, I'm gonna take this is my moment.
Speaker 1: I'm making it official. I'm I'm breaking the friendship contract
Speaker 1: with our null and void because Lisa cares so much
Speaker 1: again about how things look. If this small of vulnerability
Speaker 1: because of the psychic and we're all sharing and things
Speaker 1: happened and could have made her look better. She probably
Speaker 1: would have engaged. I really do think probably if you
Speaker 1: would have been able to do that for her, because
Speaker 1: I think she cares that deeply about like I think
Speaker 1: you can at people about anybody's personal personal shit getting
Speaker 1: on there because it's interesting. You made it such a
Speaker 1: good point about how she handled the whole when and
Speaker 1: Brounwin thing. It felt very clear that Browmin didn't even
Speaker 1: want to talk about the entire season, so it was
Speaker 1: like wild to me, and I had a moment of like, damn, Lisa,
Speaker 1: that was foul, Please don't do that. She looks so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: But I also remember how worried and anxious Lisa got
Speaker 1: for what's Bronin's husband named gout Dick Todd, that's it God,
Speaker 1: because she was was saying that Todd had, like you know,
Speaker 1: I don't remember what allegation it was, either they had
Speaker 1: an emotional affair, emotional affairs, and that it really upset her,
Speaker 1: and all Lisa could think about was how it was
Speaker 1: gonna make tot look. I'm telling you, she is like
Speaker 1: tapped in on the aesthetic, the aesthetic, the esthetic and
Speaker 1: it makes her look bad in her mind if things
Speaker 1: and people around her also don't. I mean, look at
Speaker 1: her deepest friends or merit it, that's another one. He's
Speaker 1: an one. Everything has to look shiny, happy people.
Speaker 3: Well, I think that's what kills me about Lisa being
Speaker 3: so like upset about these about these lawsuits, and then
Speaker 3: about like whatever, Like I said, whatever's going on with
Speaker 3: her and John? Because I find Lisa to be deeply shallow, ironic,
Speaker 3: deeply shallow, like she is an inch deep, So like,
Speaker 3: whatever's going on with the law I looked into the lawsuits.
Speaker 3: It's and I will say this, I'm not a baby
Speaker 3: gorgeous fan whatsoever. But from a business point of view,
Speaker 3: they were loans or in her business partner's name, that
Speaker 3: they did not have any type of contract. They did
Speaker 3: not have any type of agreement of when there would
Speaker 3: be a timeline of paying them back or if they
Speaker 3: would even be paid back, or the minimum right. So
Speaker 3: from a business standpoint, is it great business?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: But I would probably be contesting the same thing if
Speaker 3: you tried to sue me, I'd be like, we never
Speaker 3: had any.
Speaker 2: Type of agreement.
Speaker 3: So I don't necessarily think she's wrong and what I
Speaker 3: also said about those lawsuits is that it's nothing. It's
Speaker 3: not Jenshaw like watch your pocketbook, right, if she walks
Speaker 3: into a room, let's say it's all true. If she
Speaker 3: walks into a room, no one's gonna be.
Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, that's Lisa, Da da da da.
Speaker 3: It's just it's very much so something that's a part
Speaker 3: of business, and she tries to That's what kills me.
Speaker 2: All of her shit is kind of shallow. Her and
Speaker 2: John are going through a moment.
Speaker 3: Of stress, and I knew that's what that was when
Speaker 3: she posted all them fucking pictures of them on the
Speaker 3: yacht and at the game looking happy. That's for her,
Speaker 3: so she can be like, look at my marriage. It's fine.
Speaker 3: It's fine. Marriages go through times. Lisa, you are not
Speaker 3: some again golden laboo boo fairy that that is exempt
Speaker 3: from all of this.
Speaker 2: It's okay.
Speaker 3: I think that's what drives me besides the fact that
Speaker 3: she argues like Trump. That is what drives me fucking
Speaker 3: mad about her in the first place. None of her
Speaker 3: shit is that deep, none of it.
Speaker 1: But also for her being that shallow, this is probably
Speaker 1: the hardest thing for her. It is This is like
Speaker 1: the deepest thing for her. It is people letting her
Speaker 1: know that her business isn't perfect. I could have told
Speaker 1: you that Vida stop being sold in local stores. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I've never seen it before exactly, but like so I've
Speaker 1: been talking about how it's been out of production for
Speaker 1: a little bit mmm and allegedly, but also it's not
Speaker 1: around like this is a while. So but the bottom
Speaker 1: that I got was delicious.
Speaker 2: I'm a tequila drinker, so I love tequila.
Speaker 1: And they sent it, you know, once upon a time,
Speaker 1: you know, she Lisa is what you see is what
Speaker 1: That's how deep it is. Yeah, so I can see
Speaker 1: also though it for her, this is the hard shit.
Speaker 1: This is you hating me. You want to tear me down.
Speaker 1: And you know how much I love my businesses, even
Speaker 1: if well you know how much I love the look
Speaker 1: of how successful my businesses are. Bron When you exposing
Speaker 1: the ingredients of my big mac means people are not
Speaker 1: going to think it is delicious and amazing, even if
Speaker 1: they haven't had one ever or seen it ever before.
Speaker 1: I care now that the only time they're gonna think
Speaker 1: about it is with this shit. So this is the
Speaker 1: biggest betrayal for her, which is why Angie is so
Speaker 1: triggered because she's like, you're saying all these things like
Speaker 1: they don't have consequences as well, like these are not
Speaker 1: the biggest things like for other people, like you know now.
Speaker 1: But also so we gotta stop fighting every time somebody
Speaker 1: comes for your business, you say that they're cheating on somebody.
Speaker 1: Please leave the marriages a little.
Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing.
Speaker 3: Also, like give Angie's first season, I was an Angie
Speaker 3: Casanevis doubter right, I'm still daughter.
Speaker 1: But y'all you like her, but y'all can have the
Speaker 1: November December. I'm okay.
Speaker 3: I definitely like when for me they're too similar, Yeah,
Speaker 3: said they're too similar for me when they one she
Speaker 3: did have to come on this show and defend her
Speaker 3: husband's sexuality her first season. She she really did. And
Speaker 3: then she also was connected to Jenshaw. So that's why
Speaker 3: Angie I'm like, okay. Angie has definitely like she's shown
Speaker 3: us some things, Snowflake she has and I have been.
Speaker 3: I was a cosmetologist, I did hair. I actually do
Speaker 3: know a couple of straight guys that did hair.
Speaker 2: And we're in the community.
Speaker 1: With U, are they? Yeah? Unicorns.
Speaker 3: Yes, but they exist, they are right, and especially in
Speaker 3: that older I feel like less likely now this new generation.
Speaker 3: But back then I went to beauty school, like over
Speaker 3: ten years ago. Yeah, what is it, twenty twenty five,
Speaker 3: close to fifteen. Yeah, So there were letting y'all know,
Speaker 3: if you're not watching this on something visible like the
Speaker 3: Patreon or something.
Speaker 1: Se looks all of twenty seven, just letting you know,
Speaker 1: Oh I wish. I'm just saying it's it's giving thank you.
Speaker 1: Fifteen years girl with elementary school. I don't understand.
Speaker 2: Yeah, fifteen years ago.
Speaker 3: So like I feel like it was more likely back
Speaker 3: then than it is now, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: So like I was when I first saw Sean, I
Speaker 3: was like, okay, but then I was like, I think,
Speaker 3: you know, I think he's just a unicorn. And I
Speaker 3: think one thing about Utah people, they're gonna find a
Speaker 3: way to make money.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: One thing about Utah wives is they married to somebody
Speaker 1: that most people think is probably gay, that's just hanging.
Speaker 1: So Sean or Sean's the least.
Speaker 3: Literally Mormon or you because us that I thought were gay,
Speaker 3: especially again after Secret Lives, because I have to remember
Speaker 3: which ones.
Speaker 1: I don't think are gay on that show.
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, sidetrack, maybe one. Have you seen
Speaker 3: Jesse's husband's hair lately, Jordan, and.
Speaker 1: You know she'd be doing everybody's hair, is he?
Speaker 3: She dyed his hair and his beard like dark and
Speaker 3: it is so visible, Like I am like.
Speaker 1: Girl, what that's a terrible idea. It is already.
Speaker 3: No, yeah, it's so bad. He's already like, I don't
Speaker 3: think he's cute whatsoever?
Speaker 1: No, and I.
Speaker 3: Hello, hello, it's giving arrangements. We're told we need to
Speaker 3: have babies. I want to be able to fight with
Speaker 3: himever I want, and you want to be able to
Speaker 3: go on what solo guys camping weekends twice a year. Well,
Speaker 3: you know the lore between Jesse about Jesse and Jordan, right, Oh,
Speaker 3: how they got together?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: No, no, no, they were both married. Well I think, yeah,
Speaker 3: they were both married before. She was married before and
Speaker 3: allegedly she cheated on her husband with Jordan, and she
Speaker 3: didn't know that that pattern uh huh, that that baby
Speaker 3: was and whether it was her ex husband's or Jordan's.
Speaker 3: And I have looked to the depths of the earth
Speaker 3: to try and find that ex husband, and I cannot
Speaker 3: find him.
Speaker 1: And that's stay tuned to see it. It's because she might.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't let me get in over.
Speaker 1: It's not like Ashley.
Speaker 3: I'm a dog with a bone. I was looking up
Speaker 3: divorce to up until yeah, like I'm gonna find it.
Speaker 3: If it's out there, I will.
Speaker 2: Look it up.
Speaker 3: But yeah, And then the only one that I'm like,
Speaker 3: the only husband that I'm kind of like he's cute
Speaker 3: and I can see it for is I think Mikayla's husband, Macy's.
Speaker 2: Husband, Macy Macy's husband.
Speaker 3: Yea yea husband is the one that is conveniently an
Speaker 3: age that doesn't quite make sense for when they and
Speaker 3: I don't think he's cute, but I like their relationship though,
Speaker 3: And then I do.
Speaker 1: Too.
Speaker 3: I do too, I do, And I will say also,
Speaker 3: even though I cannot stand Whitney and I'm stand everybody's now,
Speaker 3: do I think she's gonna win Dancing with the Stars, Yes,
Speaker 3: I do.
Speaker 2: Can I stand her?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Okay, I cannot because I love Sieglaza Mormon wife that
Speaker 3: she's killing it, Okay, But I will say one thing
Speaker 3: that I appreciate is how Connor.
Speaker 2: Loves Whitney because whatever's going on there.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't care what I do appreciate
Speaker 3: how he loves that woman because he said like he
Speaker 3: was like, I created a TikTok to show you guys
Speaker 3: a different side of Whitney and because we was all
Speaker 3: up in around that girl's ass.
Speaker 2: And I don't like her.
Speaker 3: I still do not like her, but I appreciate certain
Speaker 3: things about Whitney.
Speaker 2: And one of those things is her husband.
Speaker 1: It's her husband loving her that way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 1: In fact, Whitney, I'm like, oh, you do make a
Speaker 1: good choice. You may have a good choice, and that's fine.
Speaker 1: And I will say I at least respect Whitney for
Speaker 1: giving us such a great first season of basically her
Speaker 1: auditioning to be back in the group, or in the
Speaker 1: second season of her auditioning to be back in the group,
Speaker 1: and every episode asking for a vote. That was great.
Speaker 1: I thank you for sacrificing your self esteem or your ego.
Speaker 2: Well, I also think Whitney is a lesbian.
Speaker 1: And that's why she wants to go live on a farm.
Speaker 1: It's repressing. We're repressing. We're repressing. Listen, y'all. Also, we
Speaker 1: are qualified. I've looked.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can say this, I don't care.
Speaker 3: I'm here to tell you a lot of people are
Speaker 3: having some repressed thoughts on in Utah. So the fact
Speaker 3: that like Angie.
Speaker 1: K was where like people were like, oh, your husband
Speaker 1: looks like you've got so a rock. Everybody in the
Speaker 1: swig looks like he's a little and that's fine. Yeah
Speaker 1: there y'all. Though, Also that snow like your snow globe,
Speaker 1: that you think that's something that you gotta hide, It's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like everywhere else, we're just like. I also think that's
Speaker 1: why she ran away.
Speaker 3: I don't like whatever is going on with Connor in
Speaker 3: the dating side, sure, but I also think she heard
Speaker 3: Taylor and then was swinging over there and she.
Speaker 2: Wanted to go.
Speaker 3: So she was like, we have to get to Hawaii
Speaker 3: because I could not imp I have been fighting temptation
Speaker 3: this long. I will not have it on my doorstep
Speaker 3: in mom talk.
Speaker 1: But okay, okay, listen, but let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: If you really get o Whitney, Hawaii ain't gonna be.
Speaker 1: They won't tall and they don't care, so they don't
Speaker 1: find you a nice I want. I loved Like back
Speaker 1: in early two thousand, sitcoms, like all the girlies, like
Speaker 1: all the black sitcoms, they would do those two part
Speaker 1: episodes where they would go on a trip somewhere, like
Speaker 1: the whole family or group or whatever. They'd go to
Speaker 1: whatever vacation and it would be like Hawaii and there
Speaker 1: would be like one lost lover. And I'm just like, man,
Speaker 1: if we did that in today's time, we could have
Speaker 1: a much better time, guys. I think we could have
Speaker 1: a nice shot.
Speaker 3: I literally remember that sister so her so I three
Speaker 3: came to mind.
Speaker 1: It was like that one.
Speaker 3: Definitely, my wife and kids at some point. Yeah, like
Speaker 3: they went to it was two.
Speaker 1: Parts filling out this girl and it was Leilani. She
Speaker 1: was stick of hal I said, um, hmm, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm going to Hawaii. That's even as a youth, okay.
Speaker 2: And and what was that? What was that movie?
Speaker 3: Was it Rip Girls or something on Disney Channel that
Speaker 3: was like, yeah, I remember watching that, being like, hmm,
Speaker 3: I remember watching Michelle. What's that She's from Fast and
Speaker 3: Furious Michelle.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know she.
Speaker 3: Was in Blue Crush too, Yeah, okay, but if you
Speaker 3: made if you remade Blue Crush today, that girl's on
Speaker 3: that character is a lesbian that's why she was Actually
Speaker 3: we're not saying it, but they didn't give her. They
Speaker 3: she had no love interests, and she was really upset
Speaker 3: when her best friend was running off after dudes and
Speaker 3: she didn't want to be any she was a lesbian
Speaker 3: f why that was the origin story for my wife
Speaker 3: and I.
Speaker 1: Yeah, in high school, I was her. We were best friends,
Speaker 1: partners in crime. We got the superlative four and her prom.
Speaker 1: He's a very good boy. He's a very nice man.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Jamal, did you so hurty?
Speaker 1: This was like, why are you always hang in l M?
Speaker 1: I just don't understand. I don't know. I always hang
Speaker 1: out with me and now you want to something in well,
Speaker 1: he didn't even talk about nothing. He used to walk
Speaker 1: by him in the hallway season like sitting on the
Speaker 1: on the floor by the lockers and being like, you're
Speaker 1: not even talking about nothing boring like what any like
Speaker 1: got her sprinkle cookies to ask her to prom and
Speaker 1: me a Housewives watch was like sprinkle cookies, cookies, okay,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, yeah, terrible, Like it's one of my
Speaker 1: non proudest moments. I think I told this this is
Speaker 1: on the show before, but on the beautiful Spirit of
Speaker 1: Washington boat that the housewives been on plenty of times.
Speaker 1: They had like their first kissed. My wife and her
Speaker 1: prom date up there, and I let a slow clap
Speaker 1: of the entire top deck. I wanted everyone to clap.
Speaker 1: I'm not proud of it that I am married to her,
Speaker 1: so it's all good.
Speaker 2: My god.
Speaker 3: And because I'm a delusional girl, I've convinced her that
Speaker 3: she owes me another prom because I'm traumatized by having
Speaker 3: her there with a man.
Speaker 1: I'm living there with me.
Speaker 2: That is so funny.
Speaker 3: No, I just you know, me and Meghan, I'm just
Speaker 3: the trope. I was sy goo when we first My
Speaker 3: best friend was like, oh, don't you have ano this
Speaker 3: in mind? You this is like two months ago. She
Speaker 3: was like, don't you have any anniversary coming up? And
Speaker 3: I was like in October and.
Speaker 1: She was like, it is you.
Speaker 3: She was like, you, I'm pretty sure this weekend last
Speaker 3: year you told me you had a girlfriend. I was like,
Speaker 3: you know, she was my girlfriend before she was actually
Speaker 3: my girlfriend exactly. I listen shout out to everybody who
Speaker 3: had to listen and me talk about her because my
Speaker 3: friend Alisa. If you happen to hear this, God blessed
Speaker 3: Elsa because I know I was wearing her. Then she
Speaker 3: was like just she was like, you gotta tell her,
Speaker 3: you gotta tell her. And I was like no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 3: I'm good.
Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm good. And then yeah, so I was
Speaker 2: that girl.
Speaker 1: I understand, I understand it. Again. I was like, ill, yeah,
Speaker 1: proudly regret nothing, but am death. I mean, listen, we
Speaker 1: don't know what steps if I changed them, would have
Speaker 1: let me be here today. I don't be married. So
Speaker 1: all I know is it worked out. Yeah, Whitney, it
Speaker 1: could for you to just give it a shot. Just
Speaker 1: think about it, think about it. I'm nothing to you know,
Speaker 1: induction Nate. The gurly is over.
Speaker 3: And so wait, did you see also did you see
Speaker 3: that what apparently Taylor for he Paul posted and then
Speaker 3: deleted really quickly.
Speaker 1: Yes, that was really quick. But what that girl is
Speaker 1: somebody is sleeping with her baby daddy.
Speaker 2: But I guess she's friend.
Speaker 1: And boohooing about allegedly a married man that broke up
Speaker 1: with her, probably because he was married, so we could
Speaker 1: have predicted it. But then you're calling me crying but
Speaker 1: allegedly sleeping with my baby daddy. That's crazy, but I
Speaker 1: expect nothing less from the trash.
Speaker 3: Anybody's sleeping with Dakota is crazy.
Speaker 1: That's a weird kind of clout. Dick sucker, that's what
Speaker 1: that is. Yeah, okay, clocket. You know Solid City is
Speaker 1: pretty much. That was pretty much. That's pretty much the
Speaker 1: longest short of it. And you know the girls are fighting.
Speaker 1: Lisa's gonna have a hard season. I can't admit it,
Speaker 1: and I don't think she's gonna grow from it. So
Speaker 1: we're just gonna baby gorgeouses. We're gonna have a hard time.
Speaker 1: But the important thing is for us to keep a
Speaker 1: straight mind, realistic, for us to know what's going on.
Speaker 1: Mangase we're in touch with reality.
Speaker 3: We will not become Angie K and engage in conversation
Speaker 3: that makes so Look. At one point, I was like, Angie,
Speaker 3: she's gone, you're still going calm down?
Speaker 1: And they were like, nah, she gone. Man, she y'all left.
Speaker 1: She's like I can't believe her. Can you do you
Speaker 1: see what she's doing? They're like, yes, girl, we've all
Speaker 1: seen it. We know sometimes you see what she's doing.
Speaker 1: She's doing it right now. And she said like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I got it got its. Heather was like literally MVP
Speaker 1: in this episode, so she was like it, who does
Speaker 1: a reading with an open door? That's all I could
Speaker 1: focus on, Yeah, why is the door open? And then
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be like then the silly music plays
Speaker 1: of people going in and out during the readings, because
Speaker 1: the real reading is happening at the table.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have been able to concentrate.
Speaker 1: I would have been like I couldn't concentrate.
Speaker 2: No, I would have been like, I'm sorry, can you
Speaker 2: hold on a second? What is that?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: I literally that would be like can.
Speaker 2: Y'all can y'all speak up? Because I can't hear you
Speaker 2: in here?
Speaker 3: That would have been when Angie had to go get
Speaker 3: her props. I said, no, Annie, they're in the middle
Speaker 3: of read it.
Speaker 1: Can you wait? Whose life is at stake in this?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just don't know why they did that. It
Speaker 1: felt really weird to be like, that's the place, but
Speaker 1: this is also our green room. I know that was
Speaker 1: supposed to be quirky, but it didn't.
Speaker 2: Yeah for me, Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't get it, But that's what happens when you
Speaker 1: know you don't know. Salt Lake City is sometimes it
Speaker 1: feels produced when it's not and not produced when it is.
Speaker 1: And so it's like, y'all, let this conversation go on
Speaker 1: too long. But yeah, we're like running into the corner
Speaker 1: and your only exit is through the room where he
Speaker 1: has to read the girl. That's the only exit you
Speaker 1: have off of It's a whole place. You don't get it.
Speaker 1: But like, these are the things I cannot think about.
Speaker 1: Some other things that I also cannot think about because
Speaker 1: I can't stop finding a way to include it in
Speaker 1: whatever conversation we're having. So and that's safety in this voice,
Speaker 1: in this breath, it's hot, and the reason when they
Speaker 1: when they such. At one point, the commercial was coming
Speaker 1: up and said that she was gonna ask for a
Speaker 1: deep cleansing breath as a group, and I said, Gazelle says,
Speaker 1: just with the quickness did she get them in? I said, Now,
Speaker 1: this is why this show will never not be firing
Speaker 1: from all cylinders, even when they are not trying. Like
Speaker 1: I don't even have time and space to critique things
Speaker 1: like why this new girl is hosting a circle for
Speaker 1: everyone to have a come to Jesus with each other
Speaker 1: when I don't even know or remember your name.
Speaker 3: In this moment, I'm calling you an angel, That's what
Speaker 3: it is. But like, how do I feel safe talking
Speaker 3: to you and your sound healer?
Speaker 1: I don't know you? But okay, but the girl's clocked in,
Speaker 1: so it seemed like it didn't really matter. But like
Speaker 1: I just I couldn't even critique the things I want
Speaker 1: to critique when I was watching it, which is why
Speaker 1: we you know, we reflect and we come together and
Speaker 1: moment self communion like these. But it was just it
Speaker 1: was so good. Again, this is like episode three or
Speaker 1: something in two two two two that all that happened
Speaker 1: in one.
Speaker 3: Holy shit, you're right, yeah, yeah, so we had two
Speaker 3: where like Sunday will be three.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was episode two.
Speaker 3: I will say, crazy, I'm with Wendy. You have like
Speaker 3: five minutes on a sound bath with me, especially especially
Speaker 3: if I'm in a group.
Speaker 1: Event, like I'm not technically.
Speaker 3: Yeah no, you're correct that you took the word on
Speaker 3: my mouth like like in a working like group events.
Speaker 3: I will give you like two to three minutes of
Speaker 3: a soundbath, five tops. Even in Atlanta when they did
Speaker 3: that healing sound bath, the girls.
Speaker 2: Started arguing halfway through.
Speaker 3: Okay, because I'm not, but please don't. I feel like
Speaker 3: Angel might be a little too whooped de woo, like
Speaker 3: a little too connect with nature to be a part,
Speaker 3: not to be a part of this group.
Speaker 2: But she needs to divorce herself from that a little
Speaker 2: bit when it comes to the.
Speaker 3: Group and hosting events in that space, because you guys
Speaker 3: are not here to respect spaces of silence.
Speaker 1: See. I think, yes, that's true. I think angels woo
Speaker 1: woo is her balance for being much less a girl's
Speaker 1: girl than she thinks. It kind of reminds me for
Speaker 1: those who remember of our girl Monique, who could get
Speaker 1: into it right. The baby was a healer, the baby
Speaker 1: love the baby girl. The doll baby was putting the oils.
Speaker 1: I mean, whether I agree or not. The doll baby
Speaker 1: was over here with the goat's milk and this that
Speaker 1: and the she had a podcast about please. The doll
Speaker 1: baby was in the holistic and could still read that
Speaker 1: ass and got in trouble for fighting on the show Ladies,
Speaker 1: but still offer the contract back. Had a binder Karita bitch,
Speaker 1: and we'll tell you about yourself and play with your hair. True. True.
Speaker 1: So I think that Angel, because I don't think Angel
Speaker 1: when she says she was a girl's girl in episode one,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, and I one of the lovely
Speaker 1: ladies that have been on my show. I think it
Speaker 1: was Vanessa shout out to the reality recap. She was like,
Speaker 1: I don't think she's a girl's girl, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I think in this episode. I was like, oh, no,
Speaker 1: I gotta text Vanessa. I think she might have been right.
Speaker 1: It's pretty much because because of the situation of Kay
Speaker 1: an Angel interesting to me that that's your girl ride
Speaker 1: or die friend, at least for what we see in
Speaker 1: the scenes that we're seeing, but then in some backlog
Speaker 1: footage their friendship is so interesting to me because while
Speaker 1: I don't believe that we know that Kay didn't chin
Speaker 1: check her, it's interesting to me that Angel would have
Speaker 1: had to be chin checked. Look, why are you not
Speaker 1: sticking by your friend, especially so early, because, like you
Speaker 1: just this is episode two. I'm really weary.
Speaker 3: Of a friend of or new housewife that comes on
Speaker 3: on the strength of someone else.
Speaker 1: You just can and already you ready to be like, well,
Speaker 1: I'm playing the field. You know I'm not gonna belong
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 2: Can I tell you why?
Speaker 3: I look at like my eye was side eyeing Angel
Speaker 3: like I agree with what you're saying. Yeah, it's not
Speaker 3: necessarily her being like, oh, I'm playing the field blah
Speaker 3: blah blah. It's when she said that to Kay because
Speaker 3: when we first met Angel in episode one, when her
Speaker 3: and Kay were walking went for that walk, yeah right,
Speaker 3: Kay was telling her about her.
Speaker 2: Issues with Wendy, her issues with Wendy yes.
Speaker 3: And then to the camera, Angel was like, I'm still
Speaker 3: getting to know everybody, and she is like kind of
Speaker 3: shady about oh yeah, Wendy and I went to whatever
Speaker 3: the college I was at different times x y Z
Speaker 3: YadA YadA. But then she tells the camera I am
Speaker 3: open to everybody. That's when I was like, hmm, because
Speaker 3: for me, I think you can say to your friend, okay,
Speaker 3: but did you talk to her, did you reach out
Speaker 3: to her like don't you know? Oh her kids were sick? Like,
Speaker 3: don't understd to make that. I think that you can
Speaker 3: say that, But the fact that she said it after
Speaker 3: they already had talked about this one on one, you
Speaker 3: chose to say that in a group in front of everybody.
Speaker 2: That's why I was like, that.
Speaker 1: Was a choice.
Speaker 3: Yeah, That's why I was like I feel like we're
Speaker 3: moving backwards. I was like, because why did you not
Speaker 3: say that to her when it was just you two
Speaker 3: walking on the trail.
Speaker 1: Because she's not really trying to hold case exactly the accountability.
Speaker 1: She's fine with her doing what she's doing, and she
Speaker 1: just so wants the other ladies to know indirectly that
Speaker 1: she is not so loyal, that she is unreachable, that
Speaker 1: she can't change loyalties or something at some point. But
Speaker 1: the fact that if you have to introduce because y'all
Speaker 1: may not remember this, but a long time ago, real
Speaker 1: bravo always you know, and I know you wanna get me.
Speaker 1: She and Shaye once told us she's also a girl's girl.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, and y'all know, I love it.
Speaker 1: I love tauruses, except may Ones and april ones are
Speaker 1: very different, just saying everyone's are in the bed. May
Speaker 1: Ones are like in a fight because they like to
Speaker 1: be social. They're closer to geminis and I don't like
Speaker 1: to be outside. I like to be in hereship. They're
Speaker 1: mainly parasocial and and other ones, but you know, a
Speaker 1: lot of investment. She once told us that she was
Speaker 1: also a girl's girl. She going to say people think,
Speaker 1: and she cried about it even really and girls, girl,
Speaker 1: well do you want to be my friend? Stussy Katie, Kristen,
Speaker 1: La La Rian, every girl like, why don't you want
Speaker 1: to be my friend? When someone tells you to camera?
Speaker 3: Yeah, most people think I'm a bitch, but I'm really
Speaker 3: a girl.
Speaker 1: Girl. It sounds like, baby, you're the opinion that differs.
Speaker 1: You're a the outlier. And in math, we teach math
Speaker 1: this year on third grade. I'm a math teacher. This
Speaker 1: year they departmentalized us and I'm really bad at math,
Speaker 1: but we're doing a great job. That out liar is
Speaker 1: the one that you don't include. Yeah, your opinion actually
Speaker 1: doesn't matter.
Speaker 3: I would like to speak to those the girlies that
Speaker 3: say you're a bitch up front, because it is giving
Speaker 3: you switch quick and that's kind of crazy.
Speaker 1: And then you're.
Speaker 3: Mad that Giselle said that, Kate said that she had
Speaker 3: to chin check you. You're not mad that I'm asking about
Speaker 3: the fact that you were. You chose to say it
Speaker 3: in front of everyone else. And the first one, yeah,
Speaker 3: the first contrary, and I called you.
Speaker 1: She was like, what did you ask about her kids?
Speaker 1: So you're admitting, you know the private information because we
Speaker 1: talked about it exactly. And yet so you're choosing now
Speaker 1: to be the moment of being critical of my decisions
Speaker 1: with that information that I entrusted you with and we
Speaker 1: had our one on one friendship time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was my thing about it. That exactly, that
Speaker 3: was my thing about it.
Speaker 1: I said why, Yeah.
Speaker 3: I said, why you chose to say this now in
Speaker 3: front of everybody when me and you have already talked
Speaker 3: about this, right, That's what would have pissed me off. Now,
Speaker 3: it's not that I think that she's wrong Angela is
Speaker 3: I think her No?
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we're made when you sat up.
Speaker 3: Because Okay, I can't hear about the NAACP lunch anymore.
Speaker 2: I can't hear about that.
Speaker 1: I told you it's a chop. If you have to
Speaker 1: admit defeat in the first line of battle, Okay, I'll
Speaker 1: give you that one. Give her the whole thing. Let's
Speaker 1: move on. Let's move on.
Speaker 3: Kay is not approaching this as somebody as a friend
Speaker 3: who actually wants to find resolution.
Speaker 2: It's giving that you.
Speaker 3: Want to have a proper storyline exactly, And you lost
Speaker 3: your main storyline, which was Greg because he's not coming anymore.
Speaker 1: No, and you should be. Can I just say we
Speaker 1: did some digging, we being me after Vanessa gave me
Speaker 1: some information about where K's thing is, because y'all know,
Speaker 1: I'm DMV based. He can to be born and bred.
Speaker 1: Love it here. Baltimore is my favorite city, even though
Speaker 1: my parents are Washingtonians all that jazz. I'm a BG
Speaker 1: County girl. Kay's shit is good. She is in an
Speaker 1: excellent location. Like I was shocked to find out how
Speaker 1: long standing, how busy they are. She's popping her and
Speaker 1: her business. Her condo is actually like you can end
Speaker 1: her it is. You can see where my mom's FNDO was,
Speaker 1: and actually she's right next to where MIA's original townhouse was,
Speaker 1: like the first one from years ago.
Speaker 3: Hold on because sorry pause, I am nosy, right, and
Speaker 3: I'm just curious and I like real estate. So something
Speaker 3: yesterday was like moved me to open up apartments and townhouses.
Speaker 1: And yeah in the Potomac.
Speaker 3: And I'm pretty sure I saw MIA's original townhouse because
Speaker 3: I was like.
Speaker 2: This looks like familiar.
Speaker 1: Please send it to me.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure, I think believe because I y'all know,
Speaker 3: years ago, years ago, my mom is living her best
Speaker 3: life now she got remarried, but when she was in
Speaker 3: her single.
Speaker 1: Left my daddy. Days she was on the harbor in Baltimore,
Speaker 1: getting it, cutting it up, cutting the rug. I had
Speaker 1: to go to whole therapy for a year about why
Speaker 1: is my mama out there dancing in the street.
Speaker 3: I think this is like she's been living a life,
Speaker 3: She's got a live.
Speaker 1: So she moved her off to Baltimore to get the
Speaker 1: best out of her. She was like walking the piers,
Speaker 1: walk in the water. Loved it, loved it, loved it.
Speaker 1: So naturally you run into the people and the things.
Speaker 1: And that's why, you know. I was to tell people,
Speaker 1: like half of the cast lives in Baltimore. The other
Speaker 1: lives like beyond Virginia, like the city line, like more
Speaker 1: than I think ashes the closest. Yeah, And so I
Speaker 1: could see my mama's building from K's window, like the
Speaker 1: old building that is. I don't want to give away
Speaker 1: where she lives, but like, if you're for you to
Speaker 1: say that you moved into that by yourself, you're going
Speaker 1: to a living with that man. Because that house was
Speaker 1: not that great. I know where it was. It wasn't
Speaker 1: that great. This is such a flex that I don't
Speaker 1: even know while we're trying to entertain this man. I
Speaker 1: agree with your mama.
Speaker 2: She's that good for you.
Speaker 1: You can do better. He's not paying your bills. You're accomplished,
Speaker 1: smart and have a business. Why are we here? Why
Speaker 1: are we even talking about him?
Speaker 3: And I I hate this when it comes to black women,
Speaker 3: especially straight black women. I really hate it because she
Speaker 3: is so successful. But I've heard that too. I've heard
Speaker 3: that her stuff, her business is really good.
Speaker 2: Hoping I'm looking at and.
Speaker 1: Stuff like and this isn't I mean, like, location is
Speaker 1: not cheap. I used to get my nails done maybe
Speaker 1: like three or four blocks away from here with my mom,
Speaker 1: and my mom used to spend ducats on getting her
Speaker 1: nails done. It was so astronomically expensive to me that
Speaker 1: I couldn't justify going anymore, even if I wasn't paying
Speaker 1: for it, because I never was teaching. Oh wow, my
Speaker 1: mama was like, I like the experience, like the things,
Speaker 1: but it was like because of proximity to the water,
Speaker 1: two of the restaurants, like to of the things in
Speaker 1: real estate, it's hard to get.
Speaker 3: And Kenny got it. She's doing better than me, made lessa.
Speaker 1: But I seriously. I looked it up. I told him
Speaker 1: that we had stopped recording. I was like, well, this
Speaker 1: is everything Heaven wanted her thing to be. This God, Well,
Speaker 1: she offers it all. So I'm telling you she offers it.
Speaker 1: She's doing a good job.
Speaker 3: See that's what's crazy to me, coming out of her place.
Speaker 2: That is crazy, and I love to hear it. I
Speaker 2: love to hear it.
Speaker 3: But no, she wants to rain because she well she
Speaker 3: wants with like Greg, she wants to She's like, oh,
Speaker 3: I feel like I should have this because I have
Speaker 3: everything else, and she is to catch. Keana is beautiful,
Speaker 3: beautiful and like just every sense of the word.
Speaker 2: But this something tells me that like Keiana.
Speaker 3: Used to be like a fighter, and she used to
Speaker 3: be like the scrappy friend.
Speaker 1: Right, So I don't but men are not.
Speaker 3: Hard to come by, so sorry, Like you can find
Speaker 3: one better than Greg.
Speaker 1: He is not.
Speaker 3: Can I tell you something I had forgotten? I did
Speaker 3: raced Greg out of my mind, okay, and when he
Speaker 3: when they showed the flashback of his face, I.
Speaker 1: Was like, I forgot he didn't he looked. I say,
Speaker 1: there is no way he looked that bad. Last Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: there's no way. I too. I did the same thing.
Speaker 1: I sated when they showed the flashback of him in
Speaker 1: the car, I said, ooh, yeah, I think I feel
Speaker 1: that gave me a war, and.
Speaker 3: I felt terrible for thinking it, but I'm like, that
Speaker 3: is not what I remember I remember him looking. But
Speaker 3: I just thought it because she was a baddie that
Speaker 3: maybe he just looked like, you know, a five, which
Speaker 3: is what we are used to with these housewives and
Speaker 3: these bad girls.
Speaker 1: But no.
Speaker 3: But also I vaguely remember Keana telling us that she
Speaker 3: had dated NFL players before, and so it's also giving
Speaker 3: to me the read that I get on that is like, Okay,
Speaker 3: I've tried the wag life, the NFL player, the ballplayer life,
Speaker 3: and they just all play games, and it is okay.
Speaker 3: It's a fight to get in that wag life. It's
Speaker 3: you got you fighting like three or four other bitches
Speaker 3: at a time. And she I think she's the one
Speaker 3: that told the story that she was dating someone at
Speaker 3: the same time he was married or engaged her something
Speaker 3: like that. And no, was that, No, it wasn't Jazz Jazzy.
Speaker 2: We're seeing her back this year.
Speaker 1: Yes, I think she's getting married.
Speaker 3: But Kiana said that, Yeah, Kiana said that she had
Speaker 3: a situation with the NFL player as well, that he
Speaker 3: was dating somebody at the same time as her, and
Speaker 3: so I was, like, it all starts to make sense
Speaker 3: why she chose Greg's nerdy, mean ass. But like, uh
Speaker 3: and listen, sorry, ladies, some about the name Greg and
Speaker 3: doctor in front.
Speaker 1: Of it working.
Speaker 2: Don't do that.
Speaker 1: It's not working. It's not it's not good doctor. Oh god,
Speaker 1: there's so many of them. The only Greg I will
Speaker 1: ever love and respect is y'all know who it is.
Speaker 1: It's mister Greg leaks for all his faults and flaws
Speaker 1: rip you know all. It reminds me of and he's
Speaker 1: like him and Meani being in tandem all those years
Speaker 1: ago on reunions. You know, you know, hunk the horn
Speaker 1: on the ass b B let him know. Mm hm,
Speaker 1: God I miss them. If it's not that Greg, I
Speaker 1: don't want it. I really don't like, I really don't.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about whether or not you think
Speaker 1: that Stacy ever had any intentions of actually leaving this man,
Speaker 1: even though yes, y'all found the divorce papers that were
Speaker 1: filed in December of twenty twenty four. Hmm.
Speaker 3: Okay, wait, what what December twenty twenty four, that's we're
Speaker 3: in twenty twenty five.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I thought so. I thought that I was tripping.
Speaker 1: I thought I was tripping. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I truly, I don't know what Stacy intended upon. I
Speaker 3: have no clue. I cannot put my finger on her.
Speaker 3: I really can't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the final decree was issued December sixteenth of twenty
Speaker 1: twenty four. They said their separation date started in Augus
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. But yet Instill, your decree didn't finish.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, it's not that hard. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you something. From these here places. You ad somebody
Speaker 1: yesterday and y'all sitting at a table today.
Speaker 3: Yeah, as somebody who is divorced, it's not hard to
Speaker 3: like backdate a divorce. I think I was supposed to
Speaker 3: have been separated for like six months or something when I.
Speaker 2: Filed for divorce.
Speaker 3: Was I legally separated for six months when I filed
Speaker 3: for divorce?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: I was not. Mentally I was. So that's what I
Speaker 2: put in.
Speaker 1: My mom, who has a.
Speaker 3: Couple divorces under her belt, she was like, girl, put
Speaker 3: the date in which you mentally checked out?
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's what they put. But it is very
Speaker 1: clear through both the Google's AI, the TMC, the reality
Speaker 1: all the things that TMO filed for divorce in early December.
Speaker 1: So it's giving. You got called out the reunion and
Speaker 1: you knew there was going to ask that ass later.
Speaker 1: So you want it, you can.
Speaker 3: My god, my mama did the same thing, which even
Speaker 3: though her and my daddy never liked each other like that,
Speaker 3: towards the end of their marriage. Maryland had an absolute
Speaker 3: divorced situation at the time where you wanted if you
Speaker 3: wanted it, you had to say a whole year, no
Speaker 3: tal no touching, nothing, And so my mama said it,
Speaker 3: and I had to be the witness.
Speaker 1: Please don't make your kids be a witness. And I
Speaker 1: was like to make you do that. No more in
Speaker 1: Maryland at least, but I had to be a witness
Speaker 1: in court like whatever she say. I wasn't keeping track.
Speaker 1: But it's been a minute since my dad's been allowed
Speaker 1: in the house. That's true.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you, Maryland is not playing with nobody.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so I.
Speaker 3: Never thought that until y'all told me on the threads
Speaker 3: of them that y'all wouldn't breathe different, and I'm like, honey,
Speaker 3: that's crazy because Maryland is also the state where like
Speaker 3: no one ever gets stopped for their tags being expired.
Speaker 3: Like I was definitely behind somebody the day with day
Speaker 3: tags at like twenty twenty three.
Speaker 1: I was shook. They're always Maryland places because Virginia. That's
Speaker 1: not the case. Virginia.
Speaker 2: They will yeah you go.
Speaker 1: And now it's worse because you know, Virginia's facilities are
Speaker 1: being used for nefarious things and purposes like disappearing human beings.
Speaker 1: So now anytime so on not the traffic traffic stop
Speaker 1: and gets pulled over, it's now not one, not two,
Speaker 1: but sometimes three cop cars four cops that descend on
Speaker 1: your car. And it could be for what did my
Speaker 1: friends tell me? It was two days ago. Her lights
Speaker 1: weren't on at nine pm And that's just because she
Speaker 1: got an old Volkswagen and it just take a minute,
Speaker 1: you gotta tell it.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Do or dashing for so long she forgotten to turn
Speaker 1: them on because it was light when she was doing it.
Speaker 1: So yeah, for you know, descend upon you don't even
Speaker 1: know how many are there to they're they're looking through
Speaker 1: the things yet that's everybody now, that's every stop. It's
Speaker 1: hard out here in the DMV. That's why I'm surprised
Speaker 1: they had time for Wendy. And let me tell you
Speaker 1: why they had time for Wendy because ain't nobody out there.
Speaker 2: That's what everybody keeps saying when I.
Speaker 1: Found out, Like y'all can listen to the episode I
Speaker 1: did with the emergency episode with and that's the where
Speaker 1: I went into the depths of what Westminster, Carroll County is.
Speaker 1: I'm here all of that.
Speaker 3: I won't you know, bore you now, but let me
Speaker 3: tell you if there was a barglar read.
Speaker 1: Susanne down like one or two gates, what a call?
Speaker 2: What interesting?
Speaker 3: Just well, see, so I live in tat Lewis, and
Speaker 3: I'm not gonnae I just bought a new car.
Speaker 2: You want to know where you're on my platur from.
Speaker 2: I'm the old one.
Speaker 4: Twenty twenty three, No twenty two, no twenty one, no twenty.
Speaker 3: Twe that's not your fault the world, okay, So yes,
Speaker 3: it was my plates where my plates were five years
Speaker 3: expired my and to be fair, I had paid with
Speaker 3: my personal property taxes, so like I kept paying them
Speaker 3: but getting your tags, like reinstated in the city of
Speaker 3: Saint Louis because you have Saint Louis City in Saint
Speaker 3: Louis County.
Speaker 2: It's a pain in the ass. It is a pain
Speaker 2: in the ass.
Speaker 3: And at any given time they are going to send
Speaker 3: you Like when I was registering my new vehicle, I
Speaker 3: left the post office and went between the post office
Speaker 3: and city Hall three different times. Yeah, so that's why
Speaker 3: people will just be like and they will not they'll
Speaker 3: not pull you over, like they don't give a fuck.
Speaker 3: That's also the thing about Yeah, sovs and Maryland are overwhelming.
Speaker 2: Like yeah.
Speaker 1: Also, I think other people in other places call it
Speaker 1: the DMV. That means the yes here called the MVA.
Speaker 1: I don't know why if you've lasted me out all
Speaker 1: the time. It's so strange, but yes, it's the NVA here.
Speaker 1: But the on any given day, like I don't do
Speaker 1: any of that stuff until the summer when I'm a
Speaker 1: teacher because I have to be there, be prepared to
Speaker 1: make an appointment. Kiosk go to thing nine hours. They
Speaker 1: are very unhappy.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: It's a whole ordeal. Again, why if you if they
Speaker 1: engage you in a criminal process, maybe it's because they
Speaker 1: got time or you called for it.
Speaker 3: You're right, and it's like same thing in Saint Louis.
Speaker 3: I got robbed a year ago. It's not a gas station.
Speaker 2: I'm still I'm thinking some fun.
Speaker 3: I'm still waiting for the police to call me to
Speaker 3: come to take the report.
Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: Still waiting for them to give me a call and
Speaker 3: take the report on my.
Speaker 2: Never got to file the police report.
Speaker 1: M hmm, all you gotta do. But over here they're
Speaker 1: like that lady filed a police report in Westminster, talking
Speaker 1: about they robbed her or how much stuff everything. It
Speaker 1: just it just it wasn't making sense. It wasn't clocked.
Speaker 1: And so yeah, y'all can go ahead and listen to
Speaker 1: that one. But let me tell you now, Wendy was
Speaker 1: she was so primed to have such a great season.
Speaker 1: This was it seems like she was recruiting in a
Speaker 1: positive place. I mean, I even got giggles and joy.
Speaker 1: But like had a shock moment when Stacy and her
Speaker 1: sat down at the house. Stacey had a terrible performance.
Speaker 1: That lady was, she's not doing well. I'm like, do
Speaker 1: you regret I don't know what decision you regret, Like,
Speaker 1: do you regret taking a divorce? Was it because your
Speaker 1: husband did not want to fail them and you did
Speaker 1: not want to get fired or double all sudden a
Speaker 1: lah half of the New York Friends of It happens
Speaker 1: a lot. I get it. Yeah, but did it just
Speaker 1: matter to you that you be on the house of
Speaker 1: a Potoma that much? Because yet again I want to
Speaker 1: tell people the man is he's fine, he has money. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was living a fine life.
Speaker 3: You know what is interesting to me about Potomac and
Speaker 3: like getting people on that show.
Speaker 2: Do you know who Cammy Crawford is?
Speaker 1: Yes? I do. I love her very much. Me too,
Speaker 1: allow pretty girl from Pretty County Me.
Speaker 2: I love her too.
Speaker 3: She has said that they have asked her, they have
Speaker 3: reached out to not only her mom but her about
Speaker 3: being a real housewife of Potomac, and I am so confused,
Speaker 3: And She's like, we turn them down each and every time.
Speaker 3: I am so confused by that because I'm like, what, like,
Speaker 3: you cannot You're not gonna be able to pay Cammy
Speaker 3: Crawford like first season housewife money.
Speaker 2: I don't think you know what I mean. She's been
Speaker 2: on TV, like on reality TV, and.
Speaker 1: She's like the most photographed or most covered sports illustrated
Speaker 1: model now like every Yeah, she's like surpassed Chrissy Chiegan.
Speaker 3: M m yeah exactly, most exactly. And she's like, and
Speaker 3: my mom's just like not dealing with that. She's like,
Speaker 3: we're not dealing with it. So I'm like, what is it? Like,
Speaker 3: why do you y'all have a hard time casting.
Speaker 2: For this show? Why does nobody want to be on
Speaker 2: the show.
Speaker 3: I know why, I know why, but I want to
Speaker 3: hear people say it.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. When the show first came out, I think
Speaker 1: I was. I was working at a restaurant. I was
Speaker 1: in college. I was working at a before the show
Speaker 1: was actually announced and they were testing it. It was
Speaker 1: there was supposed to be. They have tried so many
Speaker 1: shows in the BMV, specifically in PG County. That's where
Speaker 1: they want it to be. And I noticed that because
Speaker 1: the Peacock descriptions says one of the most affluent, like
Speaker 1: African American neighborhoods, and that's untrue for Potomac. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: not true at all. Potomac is actually quite I would
Speaker 1: say it's not diverse. It's just that it's so small,
Speaker 1: like nobody actually lives there. I've talked about this before,
Speaker 1: Like there's not really much there. It really was just
Speaker 1: a city because over the senators and them needed to
Speaker 1: live somewhere close to over the river, and it needed
Speaker 1: to be closer to the highways so they can get
Speaker 1: in and out of the city. But no one wants
Speaker 1: to live in this city because you can't park a
Speaker 1: motor cade. That's really it. Yeah, so you live in
Speaker 1: Potomac or and then and then it became like Montgomery County,
Speaker 1: so like it's like Potomac Village sometimes, which is like
Speaker 1: not Potomac Like it's like if anybody's ever had like
Speaker 1: a like a like a like the England and like
Speaker 1: the New England. It's like I guess, so it's like
Speaker 1: the outskirts of but like the overflow of a different
Speaker 1: zip code. But when I was in high school and
Speaker 1: when I was in college working at the restaurant, we
Speaker 1: were one of the only restaurants to let them film there.
Speaker 1: Most would not, even when it was in test ground
Speaker 1: where and then a lot of I had some friends,
Speaker 1: not a lot, but I had at least three friends
Speaker 1: of in high school a little younger than me whose
Speaker 1: moms were asked to be on the first thing of
Speaker 1: this first season of Potomac. I went to a really
Speaker 1: notable and affluent high school that produces a ton of
Speaker 1: athletes in Olympic They have a Hall of Fame for
Speaker 1: high schoolers, which is kind of crazy to me. I
Speaker 1: read books and I did a great job at it
Speaker 1: and in my life, so I had a good time.
Speaker 1: Didn't get my parents' money's worth as much as everybody
Speaker 1: else did. But like me and Stefan Days went to
Speaker 1: the same high school. We were there at the exact
Speaker 1: same time. He was in my psych class. He's an
Speaker 1: asshole and you can quote me on that, but yeah
Speaker 1: we can. We can talk after he's something. And I'm
Speaker 1: not shocked at the life that he's in right now
Speaker 1: at all. We saw this coming. Shout out to the
Speaker 1: friends of mine who I do know though, of the
Speaker 1: girlies even in high school, that was one a piece
Speaker 1: on him that they could not quit even then. So
Speaker 1: the bird behavior from Chief CARDI Bird herself right now,
Speaker 1: I am not shocked by because I have seen girls
Speaker 1: who are doing very well now mentally financially, you know,
Speaker 1: smart toally then who I was like, I don't understand
Speaker 1: Mia gay really didn't understand. I don't get it. I
Speaker 1: don't get it. I don't get it. And they're like,
Speaker 1: you don't understand, I don't you're being weird, like this
Speaker 1: is he's not your What do you mean he doesn't
Speaker 1: talk to you outside of nine am on Wednesdays and
Speaker 1: we have a late start so that y'all can go,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? What do you mean that
Speaker 1: that's still in You're gonna go what do you mean
Speaker 1: You're gonna leave me at the Starbucks? Are you kidding?
Speaker 1: He's a high school football I mean, granted he did
Speaker 1: move on, but most of them do. He wasn't even
Speaker 1: the only one from that class, like from his own
Speaker 1: graduating like high school class that went into the NFL
Speaker 1: that year. He was one of three. So yeah, the
Speaker 1: school is bananas. I mainly because in the DMV everyone
Speaker 1: maneuvers like its politics like or it is secretive and
Speaker 1: not in like an aesthetic Lisa barloway when we got okay,
Speaker 1: oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, A much shit died, So
Speaker 1: like it is not uncommon that there would be you know,
Speaker 1: students from far and wide suddenly having sponsorship of ginormous
Speaker 1: proportion to be at this school, even though they're from
Speaker 1: where Kay is at and I'm down here by where
Speaker 1: What's village is because I was not too far in
Speaker 1: Montgomber County and there are boys who were coming from
Speaker 1: all over the place to play there because they'll make it,
Speaker 1: and I mean they did, and so I think the
Speaker 1: only one who's still not playing he didn't. He did
Speaker 1: like one or two years in the NFL and then
Speaker 1: married like the best track runner ever in the world
Speaker 1: right now, like Sidney McLoughlin. I know that Labrone. I
Speaker 1: think his his name is Levrone. Also, I know who
Speaker 1: that is.
Speaker 3: Yes, I did a lot of work on my own
Speaker 3: just saying the boys should not do anything.
Speaker 1: But my point is this place, this area is there.
Speaker 1: Don't like they don't want the smoke that comes with
Speaker 1: housewives of people like us looking into the things because
Speaker 1: they have things. People who don't have things and want
Speaker 1: things don't mind on the show to get the things
Speaker 1: and wants the things.
Speaker 2: True, we need the things.
Speaker 1: She had done it all. She wanted to be an influencer,
Speaker 1: She wanted to be a baby. You know.
Speaker 3: You know what somebody pointed out as well, is that,
Speaker 3: like obviously we all know that Wendy is Nigerian. I
Speaker 3: don't pay attention to Wendy's mama a lot because.
Speaker 1: Have you seen her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I just I don't I don't like to
Speaker 3: talk about people's mamas, but I.
Speaker 1: Will, but I don't like to.
Speaker 2: I don't like to.
Speaker 3: But somebody had pointed out that I guess last season
Speaker 3: her mom was like getting on her about how she
Speaker 3: hadn't given her any money or anything. And I was like,
Speaker 3: I do and they took her one for years and
Speaker 3: she was like, I don't get enough. I said, yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm confused. Yeah, I said the now, I still feel
Speaker 3: like I don't know.
Speaker 2: I just have a feeling I don't know anything.
Speaker 3: I have a feeling that there's more to come from
Speaker 3: this Wendy and Eddie's story and the fact that we
Speaker 3: haven't heard anything from them directly. I said, there is
Speaker 3: something else afoot, something else is afoot, and something else
Speaker 3: is coming. I hope it works in Wendy's favor. Like
Speaker 3: I said before, well, no, no, no, I think her mama.
Speaker 2: Yeah or something like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, whole situation. It may not.
Speaker 3: No, it's bad, but like I said, for Eddie should
Speaker 3: just take the fall for everything whatever happened.
Speaker 1: I mean, he should, but she was wearing the evidence
Speaker 1: and that's the crow.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: Also, somebody, this is one of the TikTok girlyes, so
Speaker 3: I don't know. Somebody pointed out they were like, they're
Speaker 3: a lawyer. They were like, I don't know, but they
Speaker 3: were like, it's something else. Was something else happening with
Speaker 3: Wendy and Eddie? Like were they at one point separated?
Speaker 3: Because it makes no sense that two married people who
Speaker 3: just got off of vacation together emailed one another about
Speaker 3: items lost.
Speaker 1: Vanessa raised the great point when she asked me, why
Speaker 1: are we even talking on the phone. We lived together, supposedly, Well,
Speaker 1: that's why we're emailing. So that's always been my question
Speaker 1: because that don't make no sense to me, Like your
Speaker 1: options are slim, we're stupid criminals, we got sloppy, or
Speaker 1: we're so used to emailing each other that we don't
Speaker 1: or emailing period that we don't like y'alln't gotta tell you,
Speaker 1: like what's that? I'm just confused.
Speaker 3: But also so somebody on TikTok said that one thing
Speaker 3: that may work in our favor also, which I forgot
Speaker 3: about this as well. Wendy admitted that she doesn't know
Speaker 3: where how their mortgage is paid, what account it comes
Speaker 3: out of anything.
Speaker 1: On camera that that doesn't so help, Yeah, sosa her.
Speaker 1: So she won't get the full sentence, which is allegedly
Speaker 1: like three to five plus years perjure, and she's got
Speaker 1: a wop in sixteenth. They'll probably compile them to like
Speaker 1: three or four and she'll probably serve sometime. Eddie a
Speaker 1: lot more, which low Ki means is we's about to
Speaker 1: do numbers because this you got more street credit now
Speaker 1: than Rick ralson them. This is a good thing for
Speaker 1: we business, for the home business. I'm concerned, Yeah, the children.
Speaker 1: I'm concerned for the alleged citizenship and deportation situation in
Speaker 1: this administration. I am concerned.
Speaker 2: See I was looking into that too, and that I
Speaker 2: don't Eddie is fine.
Speaker 1: No, I'm talking about for Wendy Okay, because they say
Speaker 1: she somebody found today. I had heard that she wasn't
Speaker 1: that this was something to be concerned about, and some rumors.
Speaker 1: But someone found today a comment that she left a
Speaker 1: long time ago, was saying that she came and she
Speaker 1: was three, which you know, and lived here since she
Speaker 1: was three. But as we know currently means jack, yeah,
Speaker 1: wat shit if you are driving the speed limit and
Speaker 1: a toilet of memory and a nice neighborhood with your
Speaker 1: seat belt on. Okay, if they think they can get you,
Speaker 1: they can get you because I thought you're a criminal.
Speaker 1: Actually being apprehended does make me nervous, and we get
Speaker 1: into a Borga experience, I mean, Joe Judice experience, which
Speaker 1: I don't. This is the last thing. I mean, I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't stress enough how shocked I am about all this.
Speaker 1: Still I'm reading, I'm like aware of what's happening, and
Speaker 1: I'm still like, damn for real, Like it's me. I
Speaker 1: went to my local dispensary lately. That's okay. And in Maryland, okay,
Speaker 1: where happy Nie.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's not the best in like of the
Speaker 3: Maryland brands, but it does do well for being so
Speaker 3: new and so you It's a hard business to break
Speaker 3: into because all the other brands that are sold in
Speaker 3: all the marijuana that is sold in Maryland, because it's
Speaker 3: through the Department of pharmaceut it has to be grown
Speaker 3: and expected in the State of Maryland brands they have
Speaker 3: been around for however long, so for him to be
Speaker 3: so new and still be making waves and be like
Speaker 3: it's it's sold. I worked at a dispensary in the
Speaker 3: last summer.
Speaker 2: It's it's like.
Speaker 1: People do get it. It's especially for people who are
Speaker 1: not like big smokers. If you come and like visit Maryland,
Speaker 1: I probably would recommend to some people to get a
Speaker 1: happy man, some happy eddie, some different certain kinds of products.
Speaker 1: I might work it into my product, like you know,
Speaker 1: you know, suggestions, so that that's like really something. But
Speaker 1: it's like you had they had such a nice life
Speaker 1: that it really makes me like question and concerned, like
Speaker 1: what this was all for? Like yeah, my questions are
Speaker 1: like why are y'all emailing each other? But also how
Speaker 1: you go on Jamaica vacation and the cop like we
Speaker 1: didn't think this at all. So I really, really, I
Speaker 1: really need someone to tell me that y'all either got
Speaker 1: sloppy or your first attempt you went too high and
Speaker 1: flew too close to the sun. But I'm like, if
Speaker 1: this is your first time, why would you.
Speaker 3: Claim why did you why did y'all not call derry
Speaker 3: or allegedly or allegedly this is exactly what I said
Speaker 3: that I'm like The only thing that gave that one
Speaker 3: away that you know, God, a conspiracy theorist or a
Speaker 3: little you know like me.
Speaker 1: Like put the phone back. That was the only sign.
Speaker 1: Otherwise I would have been good. I would have been like,
Speaker 1: oh man, I'm sorry for the reading. Oh no, oh,
Speaker 1: And I know y'all still out there like well money
Speaker 1: and we still think that we believe, and I'm sure,
Speaker 1: and that's fine. I'm never gonna give this sun never.
Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all.
Speaker 3: I said this, even even PK sacrificed his own wife
Speaker 3: at the top.
Speaker 1: And keep her out of the loop, and you go
Speaker 1: this route. Yeah, you gotta learn the lot. That's what
Speaker 1: my coworker told me today when I was like, I've
Speaker 1: got something. She said, second, I tell my wife. She said,
Speaker 1: you don't tell her that you tell her this, And
Speaker 1: I said, put me on game. Since how long you've
Speaker 1: been married twenty three years? You gotta learn to lie
Speaker 1: the right lives, not the big lives, the right lies,
Speaker 1: the right lies. Yeah, listen, I'm complicated. The right lie.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that it's not making sense. And I
Speaker 1: think the vulnerability and the things that the struggle that
Speaker 1: Wendy and Eddie put forth on. This season is going
Speaker 1: to actually be even harder to digest because we know
Speaker 1: what's going on in real time. They keep liking to
Speaker 1: make us think and believe it's probably gonna be something
Speaker 1: along the lines of them not being super close or
Speaker 1: careful at the moment. But then I'm like, then why
Speaker 1: is he Robin all stay in them for you? Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know. We could ruminate about this forever. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like Wendy's. If we didn't have this going on in tandem,
Speaker 1: I really could see her having a very good season.
Speaker 1: Her and Giselle.
Speaker 3: This is not necessarily together, but just in general, Giselle
Speaker 3: is another one cruising having this time, and I love
Speaker 3: it for her because she's.
Speaker 1: Always my comedic relief. In fact, that's usually the saving
Speaker 1: grace a lot of times when she's acting up and
Speaker 1: out the people, I'm like, ooh, but she's so funny
Speaker 1: funny right now, her just being funny as hell and
Speaker 1: just being like supportive of the girl he's reading each
Speaker 1: other and just reminding people when they say certain words
Speaker 1: like chin check and you know, reminded Stacey to take
Speaker 1: a mint before doing a cleansing breath before she gets up.
Speaker 1: That's pretty much all I can ask for her right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: since she doesn't have a formidable opponent to give a
Speaker 1: frenemy vibe to my girl, Carrien, and she's gonna be back.
Speaker 1: I'm waiting out for her. We're still having a good time, though,
Speaker 1: we are. You notice you don't know? You don't notice.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you what I'm excited for that we
Speaker 3: have gotten rid of a lot of whether I liked
Speaker 3: them or not, a lot of the players that.
Speaker 2: Were holding back.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So, like I understand that Robin and Jozell are best friends.
Speaker 3: I totally understand that it does not It does not
Speaker 3: help to have two best friends who refuse to argue
Speaker 3: on camera together and refuse to have that like you
Speaker 3: cannot both be housewives and have that right. And then
Speaker 3: they enable each other in a way that if you
Speaker 3: have a problem with one of them, you're always kind
Speaker 3: of going to have a problem with another one.
Speaker 2: I like the best friendships.
Speaker 3: I don't want to see the best friendships break up,
Speaker 3: especially when their real life friendships and they say right,
Speaker 3: and they say they actually bicker all the time or
Speaker 3: check each other all the time behind the scenes. That
Speaker 3: doesn't do anything for this show, right, So I'm glad
Speaker 3: that we've ridded that. As much as I do enjoy
Speaker 3: Candace Candid, there was no moving forward with Candace and Gazel,
Speaker 3: and there shouldn't have been, right, I completely understand there
Speaker 3: should not have been, So Candace being gone, we can
Speaker 3: move the storyline along now.
Speaker 2: And whether or not I.
Speaker 3: Personally, like generally care for Jazelle, like you said, she
Speaker 3: is some comedic relief and I appreciate that I can
Speaker 3: see her in a different sense now when it's not
Speaker 3: getting taken to such a nasty point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, that can totally because.
Speaker 3: And to be fair, when Giselle first brought the Chris
Speaker 3: stuff to Candae at that dance studio or whatever, she
Speaker 3: should have stuck along the lines of that. She should
Speaker 3: have stuck a lot because how she first explained it
Speaker 3: was I was just a little uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: I just didn't I wanted to explain that to you.
Speaker 2: That was fair.
Speaker 3: Where it ended where it began, and where it ended
Speaker 3: was too completely completely different stories and too completely different beasts. Yeah,
Speaker 3: she just said, I wanted to be honest with you
Speaker 3: because I know what it's like to be in that position.
Speaker 3: And we were friends, and you know, I just didn't
Speaker 3: want things to be confused, and I just personally got
Speaker 3: that way.
Speaker 2: I think it could be salvage. But by the time
Speaker 2: we got to the end of that.
Speaker 3: Season and Chris was apparently grabbing an ass and da
Speaker 3: da da da, when we had footage of him all
Speaker 3: the way across the room.
Speaker 1: No, no, she does it. She goes too far when
Speaker 1: she's over embellishing, embellishing, excuse me, all thank you. And
Speaker 1: so I just I like Giselle in this space when
Speaker 1: she doesn't have a ride or die with her that
Speaker 1: is going to do her because I don't honestly, and
Speaker 1: I think it's better this way. Robin had to be
Speaker 1: sacrificed because Gazelle is good for and on the show.
Speaker 1: But there's no positive way that their friendship can sustain
Speaker 1: on the show and the show be good for them.
Speaker 1: It's just not gonna happen. And the last thing I
Speaker 1: wanted to say about why it's super hard for people
Speaker 1: to get castled on the show is also because we're
Speaker 1: a reputation based people. Everybody here who does who is
Speaker 1: of affluence, who has done something, also has something tied
Speaker 1: to it that they're super proud of. But I teach
Speaker 1: these kinds of kids. I teach some kids who the
Speaker 1: former outside of DC are the same neighborhoods, and a
Speaker 1: few of them didn't live in DC. That's just the
Speaker 1: way we move here. But specifically, reputation is so important.
Speaker 1: I would say, such a large portion of people, everybody
Speaker 1: I knew what I grew up with, especially in PG County,
Speaker 1: such a large portion works for the federal government. Nobody's
Speaker 1: messing up pensions to fight with Jazil. True, nobody listing
Speaker 1: up what they got going on to fight with Jazil.
Speaker 1: They're having a nice before of current, they were having
Speaker 1: a nice time living their private owned business life. This
Speaker 1: is the place where businesses flourished Northern Virginia. I believe like,
Speaker 1: if your headquarters is here, you don't have to pay
Speaker 1: like state taxes or some kind of taxes. So that's
Speaker 1: why Amazon wanted to be here. That's why Audi is
Speaker 1: headquartered in Northern Virginia.
Speaker 3: And her husband, Stacy's husband is one of the vice
Speaker 3: presidents of US. Oh, that's why she's getting that custom
Speaker 3: made OUTI she's an AUDI girl.
Speaker 1: That's why I was shit shocked and confused that she
Speaker 1: was going to be on this show because I know
Speaker 1: that husband. I'm like, don't I asked my wife said
Speaker 1: don't you? Because my wife is a chiropractor in a
Speaker 1: northern Virginia, a very part of Northern Virginia and engineers
Speaker 1: of the all the cars are here in Northern Virginia
Speaker 1: and then they go live in Maryland and they work
Speaker 1: in DC. It's like the thing. And she was like,
Speaker 1: don't we know this person? And I'm like, I know,
Speaker 1: you said don't.
Speaker 3: Isn't they how I passed the AUDI headquarters every day
Speaker 3: like on the way to on the way to work, like.
Speaker 1: I've got it all the time. So it's it's like,
Speaker 1: it was interesting to me what you're willing to sacrifice
Speaker 1: to be on this show. And Stacey was willing to
Speaker 1: sacrifice a ton and wows really interesting to me because
Speaker 1: what I also know is we don't want to be
Speaker 1: the mess, but we all watched the mess and we
Speaker 1: all know each other. So that girl was what she
Speaker 1: not in school? Was she not going to any summer programs?
Speaker 1: Any ext you keeping her in the house? How does
Speaker 1: she not know? Because let me tell you something about
Speaker 1: the teachers that I work with, the professionals that I
Speaker 1: work with, the moms who come from high powered jobs,
Speaker 1: who come to the range or the lawn where the
Speaker 1: kids dismissed to check chat with me about housewives and
Speaker 1: mess from around the neighborhoods and the tea. Please, somebody
Speaker 1: would have asked that baby, so, who made breakfast for
Speaker 1: you this morning? Was it mommy or daddy or both?
Speaker 1: And y'all would have gotten the information. There's enough of
Speaker 1: us D and v r's out here anyway, like there's
Speaker 1: a few of us. Please, we're so reputation based and
Speaker 1: I'm just like, and that's why it's so weird to me.
Speaker 3: This Stacy now has this new voice, this for now.
Speaker 3: The husband wants to film.
Speaker 1: He looks totally different than his profile on LinkedIn and
Speaker 1: the audi website. Uh huh. He got a glow up
Speaker 1: for the camera, Yes he did. He got a little fade.
Speaker 1: He looking Chuck Bassie. Yes, that's not his look. Yes,
Speaker 1: he got cutes. I don't know what she did. Maybe
Speaker 1: she threw it back in an extra way, like you
Speaker 1: need to be on the season with me or I
Speaker 1: lose it. And if I lose it, I'm taking your
Speaker 1: money with me. And he was probably like, all right,
Speaker 1: let's go to the Thai restaurant and film, let's go
Speaker 1: sit down.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send you a I am.
Speaker 1: I am gooped and gagged, yeah.
Speaker 2: Because I was like, oh, he's not ugly, He's not.
Speaker 1: He just don't look like that all the time. He
Speaker 1: does when he cleans up. I said, oh, he cleaned
Speaker 1: up nice, he cleaned up nice. I'll send you. I'll
Speaker 1: send I'll send it to you.
Speaker 3: Yes, well, so you can be like, Okay, I see it,
Speaker 3: but wow, we're TV now, we are on TV as.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you are off, crazy person, what diabolical girl.
Speaker 1: You were in the trenches with us just last season
Speaker 1: and you need to be in it again. To defend
Speaker 1: the fact that Gazelle said you will come up here
Speaker 1: with Stacey Stacy and yeah, did Jamia did. So I
Speaker 1: don't know Stacey, it's given. It's so funny because she's like,
Speaker 1: I just don't like a liar, which I'll give her,
Speaker 1: yeah for Sun And it's only because she's like, I
Speaker 1: need somebody that I can because Ashy's never been upright
Speaker 1: about her divorce and so she needed hello, BOTTI to
Speaker 1: level that you feel for her and I'm glad now
Speaker 1: that Stacey made it easy as hell.
Speaker 3: The fact that she's trying to play Ashley Darby divorce
Speaker 3: detective is crazy, right crazy?
Speaker 1: But baby, what's the website? Because I looked up yours
Speaker 1: on that same website and I didn't see it a
Speaker 1: minute ago either last year, like just six seven months ago.
Speaker 1: But also we know now why you couldn't have seen it.
Speaker 1: The decree was in December. It's October, y'all.
Speaker 3: Ashley literally came on national television and told her she
Speaker 3: had a Kochie craving for Michael. I don't want to
Speaker 3: hear she need Okay, I'm just like you do. Yeah, sure,
Speaker 3: ash Or was a gay and I'm like you went
Speaker 3: from gay to that. But listen, I would be here
Speaker 3: even longer if I got into Ashley Darby and all
Speaker 3: the things that she needs to unpack.
Speaker 1: But if she's going to hostas into the carpet, I'll
Speaker 1: take it for this moment because I got a lot
Speaker 1: of questions for that girl, and we only have this
Speaker 1: season to ask for Because y'all know the reunion is
Speaker 1: going to be about seventy one percent. What are we
Speaker 1: doing about Wendy? Now we have criminals on this show
Speaker 1: like it's going down the Real Housewives of the Penitentiary
Speaker 1: that's the new pee, like it's I'm watching though I'm seated.
Speaker 1: In fact, I just finished the last episode with a snack,
Speaker 1: and I highly recommend y'all do the same, like if
Speaker 1: you're not sitting down with your snap on potna AsSalt
Speaker 1: like now. It took the time to have them lined
Speaker 1: up because they're performing, They're firing from all cylinders and
Speaker 1: you can't get enough of them. We can't stop talking
Speaker 1: about him. So hey, I can't wait to see what
Speaker 1: happens next and have even more and bigger opinions that
Speaker 1: will definitely change as the time goes on, because one
Speaker 1: of them who kissed me off and someone it does
Speaker 1: fiss me off will surprise me and I can't wait
Speaker 1: after that. I'm looking forward to those evolutions, those growth
Speaker 1: And thank y'all, bravo for just doing what you're doing
Speaker 1: right now. This is helpful, this is good other things.
Speaker 1: So I like to end my show with us while
Speaker 1: asking people outside of the reality A Real Housewives, what
Speaker 1: else are you watching? What's another thing that's giving you
Speaker 1: joy that you are watching documentaries, movies, other shows anything
Speaker 1: that you're like when I'm not with the girls in
Speaker 1: the snow yelling, I'm here.
Speaker 3: So I just started Me and Megan just started the
Speaker 3: Murder Murdoch. Yeah, it came out yesterday or the day before.
Speaker 3: It came out this week.
Speaker 2: I know that much.
Speaker 1: Okay, So the first three episodes are out.
Speaker 3: We breathed through those yesterday watching that, watching Love is Blind,
Speaker 3: and then I'm actually rewatching Stranger Things. I'm a huge
Speaker 3: Stranger Things fan, and the last season comes out next month,
Speaker 3: so I'm doing a rewatch.
Speaker 1: Get ready, Okay, so y'all know where to go? That
Speaker 1: means y'all know where to go for the things? Can
Speaker 1: you tell people where they can find you? Listen to
Speaker 1: your podcast, watch your recaps, because I definitely watched it
Speaker 1: today to refresh my memory on what I watched two
Speaker 1: days ago.
Speaker 3: So oh god, there's so much. So my YouTube channel,
Speaker 3: my personal instagram is, and my TikTok is who asks
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Speaker 3: And that's available on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, all of the things,
Speaker 3: and you can find me everywhere.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and no, seriously do that. And let me say,
Speaker 1: I just want to plug I'm on threads more because
Speaker 1: the girlies on threads make me laugh, giggle and say
Speaker 1: the thing like I'm looking for the exact thing that
Speaker 1: I wanted to say, and let me tell you right
Speaker 1: now they'll be saying it. So that's why I am
Speaker 1: on threads when you're one of the few that I'm like, exactly,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm That's that's it. Like I go to look,
Speaker 1: it's the new Twitter for me. If y'all are trying
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Speaker 1: you know again, goal posts can change. I will not.
Speaker 1: Thank y'all for listening, Love you so much. Take care
Speaker 1: of yourselves and at the very least, don't hurt nobody.
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