235. The Girls are Back in Town! RHOA Premiere & RHORI w/ Noor (@therealityispod)

0:00 Speaker 1: Sounds rush.

0:10 Speaker 2: Oh Hello, Hello, Hello, beautiful and wonderful mixologists out there. It is your girl Moni and you are in the Mix with Mani, the show that combines all your favorite things on TV, from reality TV to Bravo to true crime and all the things the pop culture and the hot topics that we're talking about from all those things and what's in between, and today for us, I have a very special guest, a long time coming back. I'm so excited to have you here, Nor, host of the Reality is Podcast, one of my favorites.

0:44 Speaker 2: Y'alls too, because y'all been telling me and I'm like, I already know, Nor. Thank you though, so welcome.

0:49 Speaker 1: We're friends, dat, yeah, we got this.

0:51 Speaker 2: Thank you. Hi, Nora, how are you welcome to the show.

0:55 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having me. I'm so good. I can't wait to chat with you about an excellent an excellent premiere and debut. By god, these Rhode Island ladies and the Atlanta ladies, soah.

1:10 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm like, not even pleasantly surprised. I'm grateful. I'm just gonna count it all joy right now. With the way the world is working, like I not even the world with the way this particular shit whole country is working. Yeah, that's what I called it. I'm telling you, I'm taking whatever I can get. And Rhode Island and Atlanta actually gave me the brother of fresh this week that I really needed, Like to all set the things on the Twitter and the Instagram, I just chose not to even get on some days.

1:44 Speaker 2: I looked at like one tweet and was like, actually, I'm gonna disassociate for the remainder.

1:50 Speaker 1: What is it?

1:50 Speaker 2: Third Rhode Island moves the thirst bitch, I'm there. So Sundays this past Sunday.

1:56 Speaker 1: I was the best night of my week. Yeah. I was starting to tri about this and I was like, did they move r An Island to Sunday? And she was like, yeah, they got rid of black Sundays on Bravo And I was like, Italians are the black people of the white people.

2:13 Speaker 2: Because of Europe.

2:14 Speaker 1: New Jersey see it that way? Yeah, yeah, exactly, New Jersey, New Jersey they moved to said, New Jersey originally used to be on Sundays and then they eventually moved into Tuesdays. They feel like after Potomac came around. Why, I know that is so absurd to me, But like I remember New Jersey being on Sundays because I remember coming home for my bachelor at weekend obviously at the Jersey Shore back in twenty eleven, and coming home on Sunday night, turning on the TV with my best friend Ali and my brother Rahel, and it was the night of the episode of the christening.

2:50 Speaker 1: And so I that's why, that's why I know, okay.

2:55 Speaker 2: That and I love that as Bravo hollis like our relationship with time is so.

3:03 Speaker 1: It's not real.

3:04 Speaker 2: It's like you know where you were when the thing happened and the show was watched and the episode was on, like you know what five you were around or whatever, Like I don't need to know dates. I just need to know where were you when? Yeah, exactly, like where were you.

3:20 Speaker 1: And what age was that? Like that's how you know.

3:22 Speaker 2: I love that.

3:23 Speaker 1: It's a great time marker.

3:24 Speaker 2: So somewhere around twenty eleven, season three, New Dregson was coming on Sunday. It's because nor was at our bachelorrette party. And I believe that, I bet you that's confirmed somewhere everyone's already looked.

3:35 Speaker 1: I have a voice note, so like I've had an iPhone since twenty I think or two thousand and nine, and I have a voice note that has stayed with me from from every iPhone and it is a voice note of I'm sure I can find it right now. It's a voice note from that very episode, and it is Teresa talking about how her cousin Kathy came up to her and was like, what happened at the christening? Because she acted like she didn't know what was going on? And teresaid the way that she said it, I my brother and I because this is like back when we had we had like TiVo or whatever.

4:12 Speaker 1: We recorded it and we played it over and over again, and me and my best friend Aaley, we laughed about it so much. And so I can tell you the date that that episode was on. It was on June twelfth, twenty eleven. It's on my phone. I'll play the voice recording for you. Hold on. So funny. There are receipts what happened? What happened at the Chrispening christ with her solos?

4:39 Speaker 2: Well, you know what's crazy is that? Like that was like the season. I was like, y'all don't understand. New Jersey is excellent. It's a whole different feeling in section of Houselives. It runs in its own engine, in its own steam. So when it fizzled out and we got to this place where we're at now with it on hiatus and we don't know if we're coming or going, although we know the three of the ladies are coming back, Dolores, Teresa, and Melissa. They worked very hard to not hate each other, at least right now so they can get them cameras back.

5:06 Speaker 2: Louis say, we are out of funds, y'all need to get it together. So they did that. Love that for them, But in the meantime, it has felt really nice with Rhode Island. The first episode, I was like, oh, we have a hit on our hands in a way of like, this is scratching the New Jersey itch from look to sound, to voice to texture, the whole thing. Then that second episode comes out and we meet even more girlies, and I was like, oh, baby, do I need captions? I eat subtitles.

5:38 Speaker 1: I'm really proud of myself for being able to put names to faces. And you know, I think I haven't think that yet. You know, I think it is because I am from the state of New Jersey, New Jersey is I always say the culture of New Jersey it's Italian, So I am Italian by proxy because I'm from New Jersey.

5:57 Speaker 2: Me too, even though I'm not from New Jersey. But people who listen to I love New Jersey.

6:00 Speaker 1: So so like I feel like I understood. I also think like I can pull these brunettes apart. I will say this, and maybe again, this is a white women. They if these were blonde women, I would not be able to pull them apart.

6:15 Speaker 2: No way, no way, I have no way. I mean, I'm having a hard enough time right now. I think this is easier than like the Mormon Wives, where so many of them are the same. But I also love in these Rhode Island Uh did you see that one of their interviews they did as.

6:33 Speaker 1: A cast, which is awesome.

6:35 Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, all of y'all want to be on TV so bad that you're like gonna all show up.

6:39 Speaker 1: This is great.

6:40 Speaker 2: And they asked somebody all look alike in their answer was we all go to the same plastic surgeon, Like Dolores and her look alike they go to the same Liz, Yeah, they go to the same plastic surgeon. So she really was like you know, I love the jaw that you did on Dolo last month. I would like that one, same one.

6:58 Speaker 1: I love it, and I love how open there being about it. Like I call her, I call her do Lols because she's she's Liz, but her her name is Liz, but she looks like Dolores. Yes, so do Lolas. I love the fact that she said I went to the plastic surgeon and I said, make me Dolores, and they did. I even went to her dentist. Yeah, I went. She's like she tapped her teacher because we got the same dentist. We got the same Veneer's guy.

7:23 Speaker 2: I was like, I love I love it.

7:27 Speaker 1: I also love that Rosie like right from Jump is like I can't eat a lot today because I just took my ozempic. I'm like, you know what, we need more of this grace.

7:37 Speaker 2: This is what Jersey used to be and why I used to like Jerseys so much is they would be so goddamn honest more than we needed them to. It just raw like but these Rhode Island ladies, Yeah, like no, the ozipic keeps my waist tight, the doctor keeps my my lips filled, like like the dentist keeps the veniers. Why, like, no, it's a full time job to be me and sitting this sixteen thousand square foot home by myself six months out of the year.

8:07 Speaker 1: Kelsey, Kelsey, I worry for you. That's a tough one one. It feels it feels a little, it feels a little sex trafficked.

8:18 Speaker 2: Why okay, to tell me more about that, because okay, I'm almost there. I can I can see it walking through the steps.

8:27 Speaker 1: This little baby girl was met this man when she was nineteen years old. He was forty two. He was forty two fucking years old. She was nineteen. They met on a boat. What was who was doing? Whose boat? Who's boat? What was this? Nineteen of them?

8:46 Speaker 2: The Justice Department has search nam. I go, wait a minute, what are you talking about here? Eleven years ago?

8:53 Speaker 1: A boat?

8:54 Speaker 2: Uh huh forty two? Keep going.

8:56 Speaker 1: I'm concerned. I'm concerned that there was like like gray like, oh, maritime loss don't apply to like regular land laws. And I just worry that this nineteen year old she's like yeah, he like we made out for two hours. It didn't even come up for air. And I'm like, I'm so scared for you, and then she says later on liked there were things that I agreed to, and yeah, She's like, there were things that I agreed to in my relationship. These are just like the rules. And I was like, like, what, like, you can't leave your house.

9:25 Speaker 1: It the house gave golden handcuffs, it gave prison. Yeah, because I.

9:30 Speaker 2: Don't know what we're doing there, like by ourselves, you know what I mean? Were there six months out of the year.

9:35 Speaker 1: She says.

9:35 Speaker 2: The boyfriend loves the show. She told Andy loves Housewives, watches all the time, knows everything about Beverly Hills and about Osie and he's a huge Housewives fan and so which Andy responds, Okay, he loves it so much, but won't show his face, and she was like, yeah, exactly, Like he's just not in that world. So then what world is he in?

9:57 Speaker 1: Girl?

9:57 Speaker 2: Because who's gonna claim that he's been doing in the face things? Why won't he show his face?

10:02 Speaker 1: I threaded this today. I said, I said Big Papa walked, so Kelsey's boyfriend could murder because I fear that there is something. There are dead bodies. Why is he in Miami and Withammy with whoms?

10:19 Speaker 2: What's going on in Miami. Girls, you got the wrong end of the deal. You got left of Rhode Island at thirty bitch switch deals. Be like, listen, you bring some new bitch up into this house to be here six months out of the year and staying no tea, no shade to Rhode Island, but Knston Rhode Island and.

10:41 Speaker 1: I'm going to Miami. Yeah.

10:43 Speaker 2: It just some especially since in the second episode she told us that she is seeing someone else. So I'm like, what are these rules? I would love it if he would sit down and tell me what these rules were, because how is it. They're like, so you have two boyfriends? She was like, no, it's just that I, you know, have my boyfriend and he what I want doesn't line up with what he can give me. So yes, I have seen someone else. That means your answer to her question is yes. You just said a lot of other words, so it's yes, right.

11:17 Speaker 1: So stressful to watch her.

11:19 Speaker 2: I was like, why can't you know what's going on?

11:22 Speaker 1: Listen? If we never see Kelsey drive her own car, then I worry that Kelsey never got a driver's license, Like I huh, I'm worried.

11:31 Speaker 2: Was it a willing like I just want to know, can we see your family?

11:35 Speaker 1: Do you have to wear that? Where the parents? Where are the parent of it?

11:40 Speaker 2: Do they know? And are they happy with you living for eleven years with a man who's only there half of the year and you're just like kicking it with the house cleaner the way she was.

11:50 Speaker 1: Like what she said, Yeah, she was like, if it wasn't for my boyfriend, I would have never won Miss Rhode Island because he paid somebody to make sure that you win.

11:58 Speaker 2: Like what also stressed me out because if I'm okay, I deal with children, so I'm gonna say fuck that.

12:07 Speaker 1: I know.

12:07 Speaker 2: I don't really don't get you know, quote unquote political, but that's mainly for my own mental health. But I work with kids, so I care about kids to a level that like it's I'm also a fucking mandatory reporter. When I hear you say you won a beauty pageant and we look not even that deeply at the connections with beauty pageants and people currently in office who are also in documents that lead to children being abused.

12:38 Speaker 1: I do worry.

12:40 Speaker 2: I do worry because if it wasn't for your boyfriend, you're so so grateful that you want to miss g Islan. What's that doing for you? Now?

12:46 Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

12:47 Speaker 2: But like it's not like there isn't a very clear route, like there is not even that this isn't even a conspiracy. Oh is there any kind of trafficking involved in the in the miss USA circuit?

13:02 Speaker 1: I'm saying Kelsey, Yeah, the Kelsey crazy Kelsey. I thought, Okay, I thought Kelsey and Rosie were gonna be like little like you know, Donnie. They are hard for me to tell apart. Okay, I understand, No, I get it, I get it, we.

13:18 Speaker 2: Get two buns. I can't do it.

13:20 Speaker 1: I'm like I could only tell them apart because Kelsey's eyes are deeply sad.

13:25 Speaker 2: Yes, that is true.

13:27 Speaker 1: Her face looks a little more bloated.

13:29 Speaker 2: Also, not in a bad way, but like in like a like are you eating salty food because you're set?

13:36 Speaker 1: Because yeah? Or is your face bloated because your eyes?

13:41 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that would be so sad? Does the cause she's like no, literally the cleaning lady like lives with us, Like, yeah, someone has to.

13:50 Speaker 1: Yeah, I worry that Kelsey doesn't have keys to the house.

13:56 Speaker 2: Oh my god, she can't get back in unless she got the garage open or something, and.

14:04 Speaker 1: I'm just worried.

14:05 Speaker 2: I worry for her. Okay, no, seriously, and like, what's crazy is that? Like Kelsey and I are about the same age, and I'm like, I'm looking at her, like what do you like choices? Can we talk? Blink twice? Maybe like once? Like it's just really giving. I want you to spread your wings and fly. You say you're seeing someone else?

14:28 Speaker 1: Does he know that?

14:29 Speaker 2: I'm concerned about that? Is he gonna find out?

14:32 Speaker 1: Well with us?

14:33 Speaker 2: I don't want that to have. I hate when people find whenever we get on a new housewive show or a new premiere season or there is a new housewife on a housewife show and they tell us some shit where I'm like, I don't think your spouse new that, or I don't think so So new that before you told us, which means they will find out when we find out, which means Andy will have to ask you if the reunion their reaction, and I don't.

14:58 Speaker 1: I don't.

14:58 Speaker 2: Oh, I don't feel good about that. That's what I feel like we're gonna end up being very soon. Is asking about the second boyfriend that she did admit to Rosie throws this like wine party, And what's funny to me is that they jumped right into like they must have read the book of Salt Lake City Housewives or housewives past. They were like, baby, episode two, here's what we're gonna do. Everybody get a box and write down a question that you have about a rumor that you've heard about a person whose name, and we'll put him in the box anonymously, even though there's like we can all see who's writing and who puts them where, but like anonymous.

15:38 Speaker 2: But also none of them left the anonymous. They were like, you wrote this, Rosie, Like, yeah, I did. It was me I wrote that, but yeah. One of the questions was like do you have two boyfriends? And I just think if we don't know, he don't know what you do.

15:53 Speaker 1: I'm all for it. I love it for you exactly. I worry for her safety. Yeah, I also a little bit worry about this guy's safety, Like does the main boyfriend know does her big papa boyfriend know about the new boyfriend? Is a new boyfriend gonna die?

16:09 Speaker 2: Like I worry for everybody in foot house owner now, Yeah, like is using her as a placeholder for the next nineteen year old. You know what I mean, Like, does she know her time is up? Or does she know her time is up?

16:23 Speaker 1: I think she does know that her time is up. I think that's okay. She's like, I think I'm thirty one.

16:28 Speaker 2: He's lost all of it in me. Ah, things are starting to sag. Mark's are starting to stretch. Yes, And he's like, he's in Miami looking for the next eighteen year old on a boat.

16:39 Speaker 1: God men or dal they are.

16:42 Speaker 2: And if I'm gonna give jas over on over in Utah the business, I'm also gonna give this boyfriend the business. Matter of fact, don't let me see your face because ill.

16:51 Speaker 1: And honestly, that has to be the reason why you didn't show your face, because you fucked a nineteen year old is a forty two year old adult man and it's gross.

16:58 Speaker 2: Also, wonder if there's other people that think that he did that to their children or something of the sort if they see him.

17:05 Speaker 1: Yeah. So, I apparently the Internet was very quick to find out who this man is. His name is John something or another and he is the son of one of the most prominent judges in Rhode Island. And I was like, if that doesn't say corruption to me, I don't know what else does. Why does the judge's son have a sixteen thousand square foot house or sixty thousand square foot house with seventy nine TVs and a sugar baby? It's very What does he do?

17:31 Speaker 2: And why is he in Miami, Florida half the year? If things are on the up and up, let me just say this, Okay, judge, if it didn't make sense for Tom Girardi as a very prominent lawyer, where we have documentation of how good of a lawyer he was, Aaron Brockman lots of movies, if it made no sense for him to have a private jet, it makes no sense for the son of a judge to have a sixteen thousand square foot badget.

17:57 Speaker 1: It's very the math. The math does the math.

18:02 Speaker 2: It's very concerned.

18:04 Speaker 1: It's very concerning. But let me tell you something pulls me right into this television show. I am I'm all the way and I'm like, this is so suspicious.

18:14 Speaker 2: This is Can we talk about a second baby? Is what they call her?

18:22 Speaker 1: And I sit up, I am okay. I'm obsessed with the storyline because the funniest part of it to me is that like the husband's a podiatrist, and no shade to podiatrists because like literally my cousin who's like my sister, she's a podiatrist. And this is why I can say this, podiatrists don't make that much money. Like she gets her getting cheated on with like her at the podetary conference, Like that is so pathetic and like like jen Aiden, yes took back her cheating husband because he is like a really well known plastic surgeon.

19:02 Speaker 1: Plastic surgens make.

19:04 Speaker 2: A surgeon, and she's beautiful in vain and wants to continue to be beautiful.

19:10 Speaker 1: So what does she do?

19:11 Speaker 2: Marry plastic surgeon. Keep that plastic surgeon. Girl, that's just good business.

19:14 Speaker 1: Yeah.

19:15 Speaker 2: But like down in Miami too, for.

19:17 Speaker 1: A long time, Rula is a financial planner. She was probably making doctor money before her pediatric's husband was and for years. So for her to be putting up with this nonsense, I'm like, Rula, I need you to get flee.

19:31 Speaker 2: They're like girls him sitting on his lap that he's kissing. Not enough people talking about that. Why are you sitting on this man's lap. There's a picture that is surfaced and it's out and about in the town of Rhode Island or whatever. Although Rula would like y'all know, she would never be caught dead living in Cranston.

19:51 Speaker 1: She don't want to live this.

19:53 Speaker 2: That made me lol, She's sitting in the ghetto.

19:55 Speaker 1: So wait what she did. She was like those houses refrigerator. It's no thank you. You know what's funny about that whole thing is also that, like this man cheated so blatantly with this woman in his lap, the woman posted a picture of herself with him on Instagram, Like, yeah, Joe Ellen found it on Instagram.

20:18 Speaker 2: Right, that's did a little bit of life digging that was not much. And you're mad at her. You're mad at Rula is mad at Joe Ellen for sharing. And she's like, ye're I thought you had my back. You don't what, I don't know you Also, it's on Instagram. All I did was send it to the group because that's what it is. It's on Instagram. We all probably saw it. But that's why she was mad, because she sink it to the rest of the girlies. And not just a Rula, but Rula's also calling this lady a skank and a hoe and a and a bitch and a she's a slut.

20:47 Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, we could that could be trouble with your husband.

20:52 Speaker 2: Is that's a fact because he's the one who's married and still doing god knows what because this is what we found out about on Instagram or this is what gets posted. And you're like, Rula said it stopped immediately because she confronted her husband. However, they were like, I don't think you did your due diligence, booll because and you're putting your blinders on because why she in a summer mini skirt if you confronted him in the winter, so it was posted it in the winter. So it's just giving that maybe you didn't quite ask all the right questions or it's still continuing, and which case do better?

21:31 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well Rula's answer to that is like she's a slut and she wear small clothes.

21:35 Speaker 2: It's like, I don't think that that's enough of an answer, Roula, not in December if that's really the case. So I need you to did you reach out to this woman a woman, a woman and be like, hey, what's going on?

21:46 Speaker 1: How long?

21:47 Speaker 2: That's what to me, that's what a real bitch would do, is go to to her and be like, what's going on? And then go to your husband and be like, I already.

21:54 Speaker 1: Talked to her, so and I know. I love Liz for doing that, covering the side of her face as if she's not miked up. She's like, but but he is saying it out loud, but he is, MA, babe, you you're doing a great job. I want to do a little detour of a story because I think that, like, I okay, one time, I have a friend who is divorced, and she is on the apps, and she was on the apps and she came across this guy that we know is married and we only know him because God is friends with another one of our really good friend's husband.

22:31 Speaker 1: And I've met this man who she found on the apps. On the dating apps, I've seen this man's wife. She is she's a woman that you worry about, you know what I mean? You go, yes, I hope that man is treating you right, because you see you have sadness in the eyes. Right. Oh yeah, So my friend, the one who's single, fully divorced, whatever, she's on the apps, she comes across this guy's profile on like Hinge or one of these, and the profile like disgusting, Like in it, it says like things that he loves is like hot cars and like good sex or something like that, and she was like ew.

23:10 Speaker 1: So she screenshot at it and she sent it to me, and I was like, that's crazy, that's so crazy, son. I took that screenshot and I sent it to my girl group in which there is I didn't send it to this woman's husband because like, I don't know her, but I sent it in my group chat that I'm in with the wife of the husband that this guy is friends with. So one of my really good friend's husband is really good friends with this gross guy. And so I'm in a group chat with one with that girl and a bunch of other friends, and we've always like been weird about this guy, Like the guy's always given us the creeps.

23:43 Speaker 1: And I said, girls, look at this shit. And the mutual friend, like my friend whose husband is friends with she got like she went like stone cold silence. She went like full silence on us. And the next time we saw her, she was like, well, I talked to our friend who was on the she was like, I talked to her directly about it, and I told her that that was really messed up and she should have like just messaged me directly, or like message the wife directly, Like why did she have to go around and spreading it to everybody?

24:11 Speaker 1: And I was like, pause, we're not gonna get mad at women. No, I don't think so. And so that's very similar to this situation where Juln's like, you're not gonna get mad at me for fighting shit, get you. I got your back. It's so crazy.

24:30 Speaker 2: In fact, she's sending it to the girlies so they can get mad at him together, so we can get mad and get even or whatever, like, oh my god, look at this. I don't have a problem with that, especially if she sent it to you first, Like if you already knew about it, then I don't have an issue with it. It's if you didn't know, and then then that would be her spreading the rumor. But you chosen to believe what you believe and then being mad that someone's like just telling the truth and you choose to not believe that.

24:59 Speaker 2: That's that's on you. But don't get mad at Joellen, because she was really mad at her, to the point where joelm was like, please don't tell me Rula is coming. And they were like, yeah, girl, Rula is coming. She was like ugh, and they were like, yes, you know. She's real mad at Joellen for telling people that her husband's cheating and having affairs.

25:14 Speaker 1: When as I'm like, why are you mad at Joellen?

25:16 Speaker 2: When Liz told you to your face at that little lunch, She's like, he said it stopped. He goes it didn't he's cheating, Yeah he is. Okay, make it plain, okay, And those aren't your kids.

25:29 Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, oh my god. She was like, when you produce your own children. I loved watching do lolz get activated. She's like, you mean if I didn't produce. She kept doing the hand gesture and I was like, ooh, yes, I love that.

25:43 Speaker 2: Someone who owns the dispensary so with her husband, and y'all know, I'm fighting the urge to light up right now. Y'all know I love me.

25:56 Speaker 1: You know what, don't fight it. Don't fight the feeling literally when I now.

26:01 Speaker 2: So now me and my wife are looking at every confessional or in the scene to see if Liz is high or not. Because here's the thing. When you have a really high tolerance, it is really difficult for sometimes like lay people's what I call them to tell if you're high or not. But when you have a really high tolerance and you're a stoner, it's because you're a stoner as I am, in which case I can tell. And a couple of these confessionals, I'm like, Liz is high as a goddamn kite, and the best way I bet she was like, I want to be chill for this and tell the truth because also a lot of times when I take an edible, it is a truth serum for me.

26:38 Speaker 1: I am able to live my best, tell my best.

26:40 Speaker 2: All the stories everybody's business but mine, and Liz is like, this is how I open up, which totally relate. Okay, so I just love this shoes. I can tell the difference, and I challenge y'all to do the same. When you watch be like, I wonder if she's indulged or not, because hello, did you not have fun playing in that game with Wendy and Eddie? Were they were like? When he was like, he actually wasn't.

27:05 Speaker 1: We weren't high we.

27:06 Speaker 2: Were in those mobshots. I've never looked that joyful after I've been looking up from a nap in a room.

27:15 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you mean to tell me you arrested me and you woke me up for a nap. I would be miserable. I've never been there.

27:21 Speaker 2: I'm throwing hands. You can't even get the actual camera to take. I'm pissed you got me in a stranger nap and I'm arrested. You'rel I don't know what sign Natty is, but both of them happy as hell. Jeez, And that's that happened. Yeah, they smoked a zen wind on the way in. Well, that's probably why.

27:41 Speaker 1: Also when the second episode when Alisha was like, did you like have an affair or whatever? Like She's like, is it true that you had an affair? And Liz is like, what are you talking about? And she's like, you know the rumors about you And just the way Liz was like that was creazy. But I'm glad you asked. I was like, you're high, right, she was high?

28:04 Speaker 2: Because I also can handle a lot of terrible shit, and I feel like Liz was one of those people like if like Gigi, if y'all are watching The Valley Persian style, which.

28:13 Speaker 1: I am, I think it is sickening. It was so good.

28:17 Speaker 2: Gigi had to be high most of the time, because that's how she doesn't throw hands at people, because we've seen her angry most of the time she's been on TV, and ever since she's been smoking, she's been throwing a lot less hands, and I feel like Liz's one is of the same, Like that would normally have really upset me, which in the confessional she kind of let us know that she's pissed about it retrospectively, but in the moment he's like, nah, no, I'm not having an affair. Okay, movie, Yeah, that's Rula's husband.

28:51 Speaker 1: Yeah, rubbin feets, rubbing feets.

28:55 Speaker 2: Why is it kissing her like that? It was just a weird they're weird pictures. First of like, it's not weird pictures.

29:01 Speaker 1: Those are weird pictures, Like he's not even good looking. But then also, did you see this week, like somebody posted that apparently Rula had called the cops on him because he had put a tracking device in Rula's car. Baby, that's because he want to know where you're at, so you're not pulling up on him while he's doing what he's.

29:19 Speaker 2: Doing, which you swear he ain't doing no more. But he is, as Liz said, he is tugh he is, Mom, he is.

29:28 Speaker 1: Cheating on you.

29:29 Speaker 2: Like that's what she's talking about. She's not saying like anything else. She's like, he is, he's cheating. Like all we're talking about this real Kevalila, Like that's not this lady's husband, like she I know, there tells no bars. It kind of gives like the essence of mob wives, but way classy, like definitely classier of course, like we're not throwing it as the same Karen, get up, you know we're not doing that, but we are in the same like who raw, what the hell my mouth is on the floor A line.

29:57 Speaker 2: I really like this show in this group women, and I like that they all clocked in that they know what show they're on. They're not pretending. This is like I call this the new class of housewives, the post Potomac and Salt Lake City housewives, where these the graduates after a certain time have like the new ones. They know what they're doing, they've watched enough of the shows. They come in and they're not this isn't some random ensemble show that we don't have a title for that we picked up like Potomac was, or like New York was, of like Manhattan moms and no, they came to be Housewives of Rhode Island and therefore they are going to show up.

30:35 Speaker 2: I when I last ask you, how do you think that Ashley I fits in with the group? Because I was a big fan of ASHTYI since Bachelor long time ago. I thought she was coocoo bananas and I love that for her, love that she found a good man. How does she fit in this group?

30:52 Speaker 1: I think that she was only brought to this television show because she is an existing reality TV person. There's literally no road.

31:00 Speaker 2: There's no other yeam like, she's like medieval dress baby.

31:04 Speaker 1: It was hilarious Joe Ellen being like, she needs a turkey leg. She can get that from Ashley. Baby.

31:10 Speaker 2: When she said get a turkey leg from Ashley I I died. I was like, not because she's in a medieval dress. No, she's hungry, That's why she she c because she's hungry. Get a turkey leg from Ashley I. I don't get it.

31:27 Speaker 1: Ashley is so I don't know anything about her. I would love to hear more from you about her. What I've gathered so far on the internet is that she is a cry baby and it looks like she's gonna be crying a lot. She already cried twice.

31:43 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's an existing meme from when she was on the Bachelor of her crying like it's like a sobs of her crime.

31:53 Speaker 1: She cried. She does cry a lot, but.

31:57 Speaker 2: She's she was good TV mainly because she uh would cry a lot, mainly because she was like a criby, but also pretty like Kookie. She's from Virginia, so I liked that about her up first, But you know, she's from a part of Virginia that I don't quite call the DMV. She's from around she's like in Virginia, Like there are people in Virginia who claim they are from Virginia. Right,

32:31 Speaker 2: She's like she's a little bit close, but again no Richmond, like no, but then she went to JMU. But like there are people will be like, I'm from Virginia. That's not the same as someone who's like, I'm from the DMV, which people say when they're from.

32:43 Speaker 1: Like northern Virginia. Y Minnie.

32:46 Speaker 2: They only live in Alexandria because they cannot afford DC, but they work there and to eat there, so they need to live somewhere where a rent is one thousand dollars cheaper, which respect you know.

32:57 Speaker 1: So she's not that my cousin is married to a guy who is from Virginia, and when our families were like meeting his family or whatever, she was like, oh, yeah, like his family's from Virginia. I have you know, I have a lot of family in Maryland. I'm in Maryland all the time, and so we're like, oh, yeah, that's great, like Virginia like the DMB And she was like, no, no, it's not, it's not it's several hours away.

33:21 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, several Like it's like, for real, it depends on where. And I'd be asking people like, are you part of the DMV. It's like even Maryland or people will say that they're from Maryland if they're deeper like Baltimore.

33:35 Speaker 1: That's far.

33:35 Speaker 2: I'm not driving an hour and a half for no reason to Baltimore from where. I get it, but I love it, but I get it. She's not that like that's the thing.

33:46 Speaker 1: Well, it's like I'm from North Jersey. I'm from North Jersey. If somebody says that they're from like South Jersey, I'm like that's different. Delaware a different state.

33:54 Speaker 2: But just say I hear that the South Jerseys tell me they're like, maybe I'm basically in Delaware, Philly. Yeah, we have different teams. I'm like, oh, bitch, yeah, I stayed entirely. Yeah, exactly, yeah, exactly. Most of the people that I love are from North Jersey. So I'm on the right side of the term. Okay, I will say shout out to Terria. She is originally from Cherry Hill, New Jersey, so I do want to give out love to Southey and Anthony Lario do love him too. He is also from the South Jersey, so I love him.

34:21 Speaker 2: Okay, So South Jersey love to you.

34:23 Speaker 1: But okay, I'm on.

34:24 Speaker 2: The right side of the term park. I'm with nor I'm in the North. So Ashley and Cody not. She was really cool. She did a lot on TV. She has been on TV for a really long time. I mean season nineteen of The Bachelor. I think she was on nineteen, not twenty, because twenty was okay, yeah that was Ben Higgins. Nineteen was Chris Soules, y'all can check me on that. I want to say it was crystals. Why do I have the Bachelor's listed in my head? Like I'm literally looking.

34:56 Speaker 1: At my I'm so impressed.

34:59 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a time lying for me because I really when I Bravo is like my job.

35:03 Speaker 1: Now.

35:03 Speaker 2: I love it so much, but it's my job. Bachelor is where I like I escape because I'm not rooting for love. I'm not even straight. I could give a shit about heterosexual love for two and a half hours, three nights a week. But I'm in it because like the breakdowns. Actually I was one of them. You know, Crystal's had a lot. I think she was the cuckoo bananas that they had to send on. Did she have to go on the one of the girls on his season or the season before had to go on on an ambulance because they cried themselves into a fucking tizzy.

35:36 Speaker 2: And but I feel like she went home on one of those infamous two on ones, which I love because they always producers of The Bachelor. I tell you all the time, they are more savage than anything you've ever seen on TV. So whenever there's a two on one, they make it in some elaborate place so that they can have like private conversations with the Bachelor. I feel like Ashley I was left on the beach like or left in the desert like by herself because he didn't choose her, so she was just left there and he shows the other and they go off in a boat on a helicopter where in the sunset and she's left there crying and I was like, damn, you know, I do really mad first and they put her on Bachelor in Paradise.

36:16 Speaker 1: Okay, here's the thing. I'm a sucker for a pathetic. Like there are pathetics on TV, like Shannon Badour. Shannon Badoor's a pathetic.

36:24 Speaker 2: She is, yes and will do love her.

36:28 Speaker 1: And there's just something about a pathetic that just you know, you just watch them. It's like a train wreck that you're watching. You're like you are like that one season where like Jackie from New Jersey was just like crying all the time because there was the rumors about like her husband getting his dick sack behind a Jim Alley or whatever, and all she did was cry every episode. And that in the humidity in New Jersey was crazy. Her natural hair was frizzing up her you could always see all of her tracks.

36:58 Speaker 1: She just there's something about watching a pathetic cry that like, I really enjoy it. So if Ashley's gonna be like a little bit of a pathetic then, like I will eat that up. Yeah, yeah, she she will a little bit. Undoubtedly.

37:15 Speaker 2: I think just in this group alone, she's gonna be out of her depth a little bit because, like Bachelor and Bravo are not the same. For that reason, the producers on the Bachelor or the Savage people, not the contestants, like the people are the women are like normal, They're like all kindergarten teachers or some shit like like that's kind of how it goes like. But on the Bachelor, on Bravo, you have to be the prop you're the show, so you're the show. So the producers gonna only give what you give.

37:44 Speaker 2: And let me tell you, she don't give much if you're not producing it. So I think we're gonna get a lot of medieval dresses and style that doesn't make sense or fit in with this group who seems like aesthetic is everything, and they did not get it, and so she when they don't get it, they do seem to be very vocal about their feelings about said dressing things.

38:06 Speaker 1: So I also found it so funny that she Yeah, I found it so funny that she brought Duncan donuts for them to be like, if you know anything about Rhode Island, they love Duncan, right, But I was like, girl, your husband owns the coffee shop, why would you why would you bring Duncan donuts? And he's that doesn't island.

38:25 Speaker 2: So that doesn't make it feel good.

38:27 Speaker 1: That doesn't make any sense.

38:28 Speaker 2: Also, if you know that, I know that of the North, I know that of Rhode Island, and I'm like, I'm pretty sure most of them already went. Yeah, they honestly went on the way they did.

38:38 Speaker 1: They all have watered down iced coffees in their cars right now, except for Kelsey, who's driven here.

38:45 Speaker 2: We hope by the only person that has the garage opener. You can let her ask and okay, you know he's changing the code. You know, he's everything in the code. Every Like he's like, hey, Jean, what's the code today? And he's like, where in the house or not exactly exactly exactly.

39:05 Speaker 1: Guys, I don't like this lore that I've made up about Kelsey. I like it, and I mean, listen, I'm never gonna not see it. Now. Now, I just want to look for signs.

39:17 Speaker 2: Now, I'm just looking for okay, but yeah, Rhode Island really good. That blonde one, the new one, what's her name? You just said it to the one who outed Lizzie's possible affair, Alicia Alia, Alicia whoa first of all accent, wow on ten s. Anything I wrote down on my notes for her, it was like, wow, excellent Northeastern accent just up there, you know, really good. And then for her to be so close to these ladies and so in the know with Liz and everything, and they be like, so is it true or what?

39:52 Speaker 1: Bitch? You got my number? You could have texted me that, Yeah, why did you bring this up right now on camera? You stupid bitch? You trying to get drown on box?

40:00 Speaker 2: Yeah?

40:01 Speaker 1: Okay, and write it on a piece of paper and.

40:03 Speaker 2: Put it in a box.

40:05 Speaker 1: Okay. Somebody took a picture and posted the of the of the piece of paper, and when Liz read it, she goes, is it h true? And she goes is it true? And I was like, I looked at that, that does not say it or true. She took the T and R and she mashed it together to be one letter for true, and so it looks like the letter are and so that's when Lis is like what is this and she was like, you know true, you know true, Alicia. I she's a child that was left behind because she's dumb as hell. She's dumb as hell.

40:47 Speaker 2: She is that was bad.

40:50 Speaker 1: She is really educated. Okay, yeah, you're like, this is you could have really benefited from some special services. And you know, I always say this about Teresa Judee. She grew up in the Patterson Public School department. She had immigrant parents. Her parents didn't know that she had a learning disability. They had no idea. They were like, she's We saw both her.

41:09 Speaker 2: Parents talking until they died. They couldn't understand themselves either. They have no idea what the.

41:14 Speaker 1: Hell's going on. They don't know if they're speaking English or not. They're doing the best, like Rosie is. Obviously, she seems like she's an intelligent woman because she's like an actual journalist or whatever. She seems to have a crew. That's why she's also messy. I feel like she also went to college, but also went to the school.

41:30 Speaker 2: I was also a journalist. She was prior to that was her bachelor debut. Her journalists, Yeah, it is their job title. That was happened since I mean she she hosts a couple of podcasts, so she's probably been the longest running bachelor podcast host on one of them, oh the Mini podcasts, but like since like seventeen twenty eighteen, Like she's been doing it with Ben Higgins since like he left, like since he came on, So she's been around. But you know, journalists podcasts are all the same these days, if you ask a mile, that's right.

42:02 Speaker 1: But like the fact that out of the other women, like Rosie's a newer person to this area, but of these women that have like apparently known each other right because like Kelsey's mysterious boyfriend grew up with Liz, and Liz grew up with Alisha, and Alisha was Joe Ellen's sister's friend and also Joe Ellen's husband's like communion partner, and so like these people all like actually know each other, and like Rula and Liz are friends because Liz is have Syrian and Rula's have Syrian, so like that's how they know each other from like the Syrian connection.

42:34 Speaker 1: So like, out of these women that we're supposed to know, like have known each other for a little while, it's crazy to me that Joellen is like supposed to be the smartest one. But this bitch had no idea what July fourth was for.

42:46 Speaker 2: That shook me too. Let's say, wait, now, what kind of reverse white privilege is that to not know what it's for.

42:55 Speaker 1: It's just I you know, know, you see stuff like that on TV and you go, okay, I understand.

43:02 Speaker 2: Now are you just saying that for the cameras or are you behind because what all your years of life, you've never known what July fourth was for?

43:12 Speaker 1: Now they there's a scene and then the after show a clip that's going around and it's Alicia and Joellen, and Alicia starts to do the Pledge of Allegiance, but she turns it into the Lord's Prayer and Joellen's like, that's not it, and then Joellen corrects her, but then Joellen also turns it into the Lord's Prayer and I was like, man, I understand why Trump is RISI yeah.

43:35 Speaker 2: Listen the Catholicism and the they're like, oh, just whatever we had to memorize back when we attend, that's what they just It comes and MUSHes together as someone who went to Catholic high school, though she is not Catholic and has grown up in America longer than she would have liked to have been a part of it. At this point, I still do think I know both separately.

43:57 Speaker 1: Well, money, you, I could say, have more than like three brain cells. And I don't think that these women do.

44:06 Speaker 2: No, they don't have to because they married the podiatrist

44:13 Speaker 2: or the son of a judge, not even engaged for ten years.

44:17 Speaker 1: Girl, did it all wrong.

44:19 Speaker 2: That's how I'm really concerned your traffic. You had no control in this relationship.

44:23 Speaker 1: Ever.

44:24 Speaker 2: You couldn't even put his feet to the fire for our ring. So a promise ring or something nothing.

44:30 Speaker 1: You just a girlfriend, girl.

44:31 Speaker 2: He will change that coat tomorrow and bring a new twenty something in the same day. You'll be out on the street. Oh god, oh no, I'm so worried.

44:41 Speaker 1: Now.

44:42 Speaker 2: Maybe that's why she's on the show. Maybe that's why he put her on the show. I actually think that that's something that me and Mark said when we did our recap of the first episode, was like, what if this is her separation? Way out the camelloe of it all, Carmel Grammar, the carry down in Dallas, Like, what are you really doing here? Is it just so you can get a check so you can get out. I do want that for you.

45:09 Speaker 1: You do need a W two if you're going to be on your own exactly exactly, and I don't sorry. Can you hear my kids screaming in the back?

45:17 Speaker 2: No, not any more than I can hear my dog barking now he's.

45:20 Speaker 1: Gone, perfect, perfect, perfect perfect, also.

45:22 Speaker 2: Running play kids, Okay, have a good time. I want to switch gears to Atlanta, the other Sunday night show where we are no longer the Black Sunday. It's black on white cookie right, still enjoyable, still great, still so young, having a good time. But you know I do, I do do love when we keep the staple nelf we ever get rid of Atlanta or Potomac on Sunday, I'm y'all gonna hear from.

45:52 Speaker 1: Me, Bravo.

45:52 Speaker 2: Yeah, you will see me at whatever the is it, forty Rocks. I will be there forty rockefella an NBC Universal.

45:58 Speaker 1: Stupid, I'll be there. Hey, yeah, yeah, exactly.

46:04 Speaker 2: Okay.

46:06 Speaker 1: We should get a turn.

46:08 Speaker 2: We should get a turn the bipops, the colored people. We should get a turn to storm things and make a mask.

46:17 Speaker 1: But I guess not.

46:20 Speaker 2: Yeah, the girls though of Atlanta I was worried about how this first how this season was going to start. I was I was concerned because I actually thought, Lol, silly me. I thought Ca Michelle was gonna be too love and hip hop for Atlanta, and that is not inside racism. Don't get upset and start writing me think pieces. Y'all have not seen her on Love and.

46:41 Speaker 1: Hip Hop like I have.

46:42 Speaker 2: I watched Love and hip Hop and Ca Michelle Love and hip Hop is wild.

46:47 Speaker 1: So I just want to make sure.

46:49 Speaker 2: We weren't headed down that same trajectory where when she gets activated, you know, shit hits the fan. But Ca Michelle really brought me in this episode, this first episode. I think she's going to fit in quite nicely. I mean, most of them are all fans of hers or love her or know her anyway, so that's really special. But she being from Memphis, being a Southern bale, I found it interesting but understandable. If you know about k Michelle, her big push into the country music and make it. She's been doing country music for a few years now, like years.

47:30 Speaker 2: And yes, Beyonce did send her that bouquet of flowers. It does bode repeating that came after the Internet was very upset that she wasn't invited on the Cowboy Carter album so much or at all like other you know, girlies who are trying to who are been in country music and are black but have never had any recognition before at all, were invited to do so. Ca Michelle did not mention her long standing R and B career almost at all. She said music industry. She says, she's been doing this for a long time, and she focused on her country music.

48:11 Speaker 2: But like that's also why you kind of weren't picked for it is because you are a hit. People know Camus Shelley's I know, ok, mch Shelly is that real Quison in her in middle school singing songs without a boyfriend.

48:24 Speaker 1: You know, I'm like, eh, very special.

48:27 Speaker 2: I don't even drink. VSOP had no idea what VSOP was the entirety of the time. I was singing that song that she put out. But here she is. She's our southern Bil in the southern state. But she wants you to know she deep in it, she in it, and she back in Atlanta.

48:46 Speaker 1: I loved it. I think that she's doing amazing and I would love I would love if every single episode we just had Charles Oakley and ky Michelle's sitting court side, just narrating, making commentary on way whatever is going on with the rest of the ladies. I'm gonna need that because that was so fucking funny.

49:05 Speaker 2: Like they leavings is so funny. She was like, I don't know what they badgering about over there, but they loud in this end of my nerves. What y'all talking about? Y'all see the game, right.

49:20 Speaker 1: And you know what's amazing this is? This is how you know that she is a star, as much as Drew will try to act leader like she doesn't really know who ky Michelle is. Is that she got up and left and then all of the other women dispersed too. They were like, oh, okay, so it's are we done filming? Like and then everybody got up.

49:37 Speaker 2: Drew first of all, okay, here, let me tell you in me being in the realm, being in black culture as a black person growing up with the game, so still being mad at drewsa Dora this to this day for what she did on the game, like a decade ago right at the same time, fewer people know the game and Drusidora then they do k Michelle, you are people. You are not one of those people that don't know Ky Michelle if you claim you are also an R and B singer of sorts and that you've been in the industry a long time, because what I know, Drew Sodora hasn't had radio Hitsky Michelle has so at the very least while you were making your music or acting and whatnot.

50:24 Speaker 2: I'm sure you played a radio or two in which you were so one oh sixth inn Park or something and k Michelle was on that thing. Okay, yeah, around, What do you gain? What does Drew gain from acting like she don't know who Michelle is? What kind of insecurity? Is that?

50:41 Speaker 1: One thing about Drew that I actually initially when I first met her, I was like, God, this is so annoying. But there's something about her commitment to being so cringey that again, she's not She's not pathetic because she is too bold. You're not gonna see her cry. Okay, here's the reason why she's right, she's not. She moves in the way a pathetic would, but a pathetic would move this way and then sob. Something I love about Drew is that she's just lying she's just making stuff up to herself, to herself, to everybody, making up all kinds of nonsense, just like whatever.

51:16 Speaker 1: Like, but she also makes her last time for the man on the face time. They're like, they're like, is that your boyfriend? She's like, no, that's my friend. Oh I don't know. Why is he here? Oh? Sometimes are you guys meeting up at night? She's like, oh, we do all kinds of stuff at night. Like what then speak speak plainly.

51:36 Speaker 2: Speak freely, because you know, Porscha over here, fresh out of divorce, got a man acting like this is his home. She got no shame. Say what the man on the face tommies.

51:47 Speaker 1: Porscha, that was a paid actor. That was a paid actor. Okay, Porscha, that was that man is on the internet.

51:56 Speaker 2: People that believe that he was a hired hit man to make portion. I look. Yes.

52:03 Speaker 1: It's so bold of her also because she's like, yeah, I guess we can see each other. I love the zoom in in the background of Shamiah, who, like, I have so many issues with, But Shamia's faces and in the background were like, what the fuck is going on? That was hilarious. Mullet and all fantastic. Also, I love that Porscha is like such a liar liar pans on fire that like nobody even cares anymore. And I'm like, whatever, we all know she's lying. Whatever.

52:34 Speaker 2: She kind of gave those she looked incredible. I will amazing that Bob was Bobbin the Bobbyanna excellent.

52:42 Speaker 1: Out.

52:42 Speaker 2: Yes, the dress with the triangular I was like, bitch, that is a look. You look great.

52:49 Speaker 1: Why are you wasting on this actor? Y'all couldn't get nobody else. But I also just.

52:53 Speaker 2: Found it so interesting that she was acting like season like her first season, Porsche, like, I want to hear my man speak, and my.

53:00 Speaker 1: Man is sitting at the head of the table.

53:02 Speaker 2: You look foolish putting him up there first of all, inviting him at all. I get it you needed a date for the party, but I know you could have thrown a rock and hit a date. You can throw that ass and get a date. Portia. That wasn't gonna be hard, but to act like you're in these like specific gender roles and she was being all soft, pink and feminine.

53:20 Speaker 1: You got a whole girlfriend right now, And I L O L at that. L please and you know what, and I'm happy sure for you. I'm so happy for you. The reason why I know that that was a paid actor is because literally next episode she is rolling in with a stud good.

53:35 Speaker 2: For you, uh, the cutest one. I was looking at her like, oh wow, and then my wife reminded me that I have a type and she looked just like her. So I was like, oh yeah, I already got my dress head in the house. Never mind, Oh my god, this is.

53:49 Speaker 1: A funny story.

53:51 Speaker 2: Like l Marisaki shout out to l brief File, she's doing big things. She has heard me talk about my wife Ben until she followed my personal page, she did not know them way was a whole black person. She thought I was married to a white woman.

54:05 Speaker 1: I said, what gives you that? I do you wonder I was?

54:07 Speaker 2: I guess because I'm so unapologetically. Sometimes you look at like black men who were like this, like, uh, I can't think of any off the top of my head other than the guy who used to play Jackson Arion Gray's Anatomy. But they'd be so like down with the brown, like, you know, power to the people, and then show on me. Lacunis get a red carpet or something like that, which is fine, do your thing whatever, But she thought that of me. But then she get on there. She had to send me a voice. No, she was like, I just found out you were married to a whole black woman with dressed Yes I knew, yes, I did know.

54:40 Speaker 2: I'm very that's not black. And the blackness even in my house, even my white golden dodle he black.

54:46 Speaker 1: To She thought you were like over overcompensating, like overcrushing, being like, I'm so I love black people so much. I love them so much that I married a white woman, Like that's what you don't know.

54:58 Speaker 2: No, I married an ally so I could change, you know, no, girl, you could.

55:02 Speaker 1: Y'all y'all to yourselves. I try to encourage.

55:06 Speaker 2: I try to interact in my real life with as few white women as possible if I especially if I don't know their problematic status right. And then on the internets, I love that there's a large population of y'all that listen because I assume that's because you're the good white ones that I wish I could meet more often that I don't get to get on my daily basis, which is why I tend to not right. But like I empower you through the radio waves, the sound waves to go be your best whites. Okay, yeah, be.

55:37 Speaker 1: Your best white.

55:37 Speaker 2: You know.

55:38 Speaker 1: I always say I have been getting so much ship because I was like, you hate white women, and I'm like, okay, but my best friends growing up were white.

55:46 Speaker 2: Actually, my best friends right now are white, which is so crazy. I married a black woman, but my maid of honor and half of my bridesmaids are white. I love them deeply. I talk to them every day acting my black ass mama.

55:57 Speaker 1: First, I love to say, I'm like, my best is a way and my sister in law is white.

56:01 Speaker 2: So like good one. It's like them because I like them and they're very good people.

56:08 Speaker 1: White people are like, yeah, well, my my brother once dated a black girl, and it's like the same type of thing that I'm saying, Like, my best friend's growing up are white, so I can say whatever I want about you. Guys.

56:20 Speaker 2: You're ruining the world when you are the number one oppressor of the entire globe.

56:25 Speaker 1: I just feel like you can take it.

56:27 Speaker 2: I feel like girl, and we've certainly taken some heat. Yeah, you know women, yeah hard stuff of color? You Muslim?

56:39 Speaker 1: Yeah, black girl.

56:41 Speaker 2: So I feel like you can be uncomfortable or mad. Oh no, they're mad at me because I'm like, no, baby, I actually love that your way. I'm trying to empower you. I want to go into the world and be the change, be the change that I want to see.

56:53 Speaker 1: You know what I'm thinking about. You know what I'm thinking about. Another we're talking about white people. Have there been any white people on it?

57:00 Speaker 2: No?

57:00 Speaker 1: Have there been any way people on real hostles of Atlanta.

57:03 Speaker 2: Not since Kim Zolciak left.

57:05 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was like, of course Kim, and listen him.

57:09 Speaker 2: I always remember that because and let me tell you, her exit is the reason I believe we've never seen a white woman again, because she said it was all though. I mean, I want to say people like, well, she waited to the very end to be problematic and not if you watch her, sweetie, Oh god, Sweety moved like whole back to Africa. She like moved with her husband and she marry and say, get me the hell out of Georgia. And I said, no, more power to you. But no, Kim had been problematic since the beginning.

57:37 Speaker 2: We kind of let things settle because she was friends with Rey and Nini or whatever herr Nini, we loved the freaking frack of it all.

57:45 Speaker 1: Whatever.

57:46 Speaker 2: When Kim left and decided she no longer she was above this, she literally said, this is why you won't get people who want to film with them. This is why you don't get women like white women don't white wants to film with them. She made it about Ray said, I'm telling you that's why.

58:01 Speaker 1: And Andy.

58:02 Speaker 2: She said it to Andy. He went to that bad I will never forget this. That's so crazy. I have not seen it since and this is so long ago, but it's still so fresh in mine. That's his most racist things. She went in that bathroom, fled the scene. Andy went in to go get her. She talked about to him like thinking that she's in the presence of a white so she's comfortable, okay, And this is why I don't trust y'all, Okay, because y'all be thinking, when you're in the presence of your Andy's or whatever, you can say whatever the hell you want.

58:33 Speaker 2: And you mean to tell me you need to been your friend all these years? Did she choke you?

58:36 Speaker 1: Yes?

58:36 Speaker 2: Move past it, you she can be your friend all these years, and you're gonna say all those women can be good to you all these years, and you're gonna say, this is why you can't get people to film with them, This is why you can't get people to film when nobody wants to film with those ladies or whatever, kiss my ass go to hell. And that's why we've never seen a Kimberly since Yeah, Wade Kay. Michelle's name is Kimberly Black.

58:59 Speaker 1: And also kim kim uh what's her name from? She was a one season housewife Fields. Yes, no, I was. I was also thinking, but then I realized it's married to medicine. Never mind. I was like, Buffy's husband was.

59:19 Speaker 2: White, Yeah it was, and yes, and we do love I do love Buffy, and I thought that was a chance. But go for it, you know whatever, you like it, We love it. Happy that this though current season, we're all good on that black women love, but the pickers of them in Atlanta terrible because again Drew got one man living in a basement, another living on the phone on the FaceTime.

59:43 Speaker 1: He never got up, that's concerning. I think he was on a toilet. No, I think he was on the whole time, damn. But like you like to really hang out there for a long time they do, which is crazy.

59:57 Speaker 2: They make destination like appointments, but if it is your just friend, I don't typically FaceTime my friends while I'm at a dinner party or at work, which you are on. If you wanted to have a date, you should have told him to bring his ass. That would have made more sense. But putting him on the FaceTime and then introducing him to everyone in Portia's ex marital home with her new paid actor boyfriend is crazy.

1:00:21 Speaker 1: I didn't know who would to look at.

1:00:22 Speaker 2: I was like, what's going on?

1:00:25 Speaker 1: This is chaotic? I mean, one of the words of Kiy Mischelle, this is some Tyler Perry shit.

1:00:32 Speaker 2: No, but for real, And I thought she was gonna bring to Tyler Perry shit, but I forgot who we were talking about. And that's the cast of Atlanta they live and some Tyler Perrys shit like Kiy Michelle's Mary. She brought her husband. That was really cute. Majority of them did have husbands, except like Portia. If you were without a husband, I would have just thrown a singles party.

1:00:51 Speaker 1: Yeah, why did you? Why why did you want to bring this.

1:00:55 Speaker 2: Man that bad or a man at all? Just wait until the stuff come up.

1:00:59 Speaker 1: I don't think Portia really knows what she's doing, because she even keeps calling it a majestic party when the party was a mystic party, and I was like, and what about it? And what about it?

1:01:08 Speaker 2: It reminds me of Ashley Darby's Bridgerton party. But it was like, my god, what the hell is the second Bloomball? When was the first Bloomball? And she just wanted to up bridgeton Porscha just wanted to parade around the man and say I won't be single for long and throw a party in the house to prove that she still has the house.

1:01:27 Speaker 1: We don't care if you have the house, can you afford?

1:01:30 Speaker 2: Like Army can't pay for the house, and somebody gotta pay for We know it's not him, so whatever. She just wanted somebody to, you know, get him mad on the first episode, which sure I understand. But what did you think of Pinky Cold? Because that is where I because I love Pinky y'all know I lived in Atlanta for a little bit. I just started the podcast off in Atlanta. I have been a sluttye Vegan more than once. It is it's delicious, like it's kind of insane. One of the pictures that she had up there was also a Dave from Big Dave's Cheese Steaks, also a very big restaurant in Atlanta, very just as big as Slutty Vegan.

1:02:09 Speaker 1: Not filed for bankruptcy less I checked.

1:02:12 Speaker 2: But very big and very prominent.

1:02:15 Speaker 1: And they do a lot of philanthropy.

1:02:18 Speaker 2: In Atlanta, like the two of them, Like Binkie has been deep in the community, spending those dollars franchise and the hell. So, I have no idea what happens how we get to where we're at currently, But her debut is cute.

1:02:32 Speaker 1: Did I was like, she's coming on hot, She's coming in hot, and that's what we need. But she's also coming in hot with a bunch of people that she knows in real life. Like it's one thing when you are a new housewife and you come in hot and then everybody's like, girl, we don't know you. Like what's her name? Last season, the one no one want to nose, who is no longer with us? What was her name on Atlanta? I don't even Brandy Brittany Oh yes, oh my.

1:02:56 Speaker 2: God, yeah, Brittany by Brent.

1:03:00 Speaker 1: Yeah, britt Eaty, britt Eaty yeah, yeah, Oh my god, so britt, Like she came in too hot. We don't know you, Like, you can't do that. So I love that Pinky came in. She's slashed in the drink around. She doesn't give a shit about anybody's floors. She was pretty drunk. She was pretty drunk. She shut up, and she's like, where am I sitting? Like I kind of love that about her. I love that she's like, yeah, I already know these people. I'm not going to pretend like I need to reintroduce myself to everybody, like I already know everyone.

1:03:33 Speaker 1: I kind of love that about her. Now, what I do here is that there is some like talking talk on the internet about her not being a nice person. But here's the thing. Here's the thing, guys, anybody who was successful in business and look, obviously she filed for divorce, which or not divorce, for bankruptcy, which is not great. But at the same time, she seems to have been successful enough to get to the point where she is. They're not usually nice people, like that's it's okay, it's okay, Like I don't know, I just feel like this whole thing of like, well, I heard that she's not very nice.

1:04:08 Speaker 1: Okay, I don't care. I'm not trying to be her friend. Candy is nice all the time.

1:04:11 Speaker 2: She was not nice to don Wan the first couple of seasons that he would fuck up. I'm not gonna lie, she yelled him multiple she was.

1:04:18 Speaker 1: She's, yeah, that's how you that's why they're successful. It is because they're min as hell like. And I think that you just have to be okay with it. And I kind of like love that. I want to see that. I want to see somebody who's no nonsense and just yells at people, like.

1:04:33 Speaker 2: Right, how did you get to one hundred million dollar you know, business of vegan burgers? Like she was out selling burger places like y'all don't understand the lines in Atlanta for slutty vegan for years, Like you could go on any given day and it might be two hours that is up. So it gets insane. But it's been like that for years. I lived there three years and I think I've been a few times. And every time you go, like we would check the line, you would have to check the line first, you had to open up multiple things, like she was making money handover fits.

1:05:03 Speaker 2: I don't know what she did investments, maybe you know, trying to maybe took on too many openings and they weren't successful. They had to close some doors. There are multiple different chapters to bankruptcy. She released her own little like cartoons or whatever explating her specific bankruptcy, and the judge did give the home back and said, hey, y'all acted to swiftly because I think the creditors just wanted to kind of jump on the publicity of her being on Housewives, showing that she's successful and then having to file for bankruptcy and owing people.

1:05:36 Speaker 2: Sometimes bankruptcy also just means that you have not had you have more debt right now, then you can pay them in a reasonable amount of time. And you need them to calm the hell down and stop asking you questions so you can get your ducks in a row and make out some bayment plans or whatever. Like. You just need the things to pause and stop. And if you're really that concerned about whether or not she's a nice person, only filed for bankruptcy once. The president currently of the United States of America fought for bankruptcy over a dozen times and has been documented to not be a nice person, as up the last forty eight hours when we were recording this, when you threaten to wipe out a whole civilization.

1:06:11 Speaker 2: So I think we can give Pinky some room. Yes, we can give her a moment. Yeah, I'm gonna drink.

1:06:18 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna mog that. That was so good.

1:06:22 Speaker 2: Thank you.

1:06:23 Speaker 1: Also, what I loved about her is she came in and she just like casually said to what's her name Kelly, she was like, you left me on Red, and Kelly's like, she left me on Red.

1:06:34 Speaker 2: So funny and it's possible. No, she left me on red, and she's not a girl's girl. But she says she's not a girl's girl, the same way that what's her name complained that was it Wendy Oh, that Clarina over on Paturnament complained that that Wendy didn't wave to her from the stage. She was like, Pinky, she's not a girl's girl because she didn't ask her a question about business and her DMS years ago, and she didn't respond, Okay, girl, she's not a girl's girl.

1:07:07 Speaker 1: She don't know you.

1:07:08 Speaker 2: You weren't even a house of of Atlanta til last year. How she's supposed to know that she should talk to you know, people probably ask her for advice on a daily basis.

1:07:16 Speaker 1: Or DM her, I want to work with you and about what you may have house and chicken.

1:07:21 Speaker 2: She's a vegan.

1:07:22 Speaker 1: What would you like to know? What would you like to know?

1:07:26 Speaker 2: You also, Drew Messias, she pulled up to the waffles and chicken place the other day and it was closed. It was inoperable.

1:07:34 Speaker 1: This I and there. That's the reason why I love Atlanta because they do shit like this all the time. Atlanta women. I love them so much because they actually talk about all this stuff, like I know we talked about this off Mike. I'm not watching Beverly Hills because they don't talk about anything. It's so annoying. It's so boring, and I love it in Atlanta. They just like casually shade about it, like even yes, Kelly trying to be like Porscha, what was what was those text messages you and Shamia had, Porsia's being.

1:08:03 Speaker 2: Like, ah, it's not none to do with you. Or how about Drew asking shamihah, well, so where's her husband?

1:08:11 Speaker 1: While holding the phone of the man.

1:08:15 Speaker 2: On the fence.

1:08:16 Speaker 1: It's so bold, it's so bold, it's so h the goal, the audacity, It's so delicious.

1:08:27 Speaker 2: Way not Shamia telling us that it's her turn to make money. You know, there have been rumblings of like

1:08:34 Speaker 2: is that house an h VEC contractor's salary's house? Like is the podiatrists worth? You know, like sixteen thousand square feet from the judge's son? Question mark not the judge? Okay, yeah, so like we know people wonder and also why is it your turn to make money? Everything?

1:08:53 Speaker 1: Okay? Yeah, yeah, show me the carfax?

1:08:57 Speaker 2: Like ask is where is he? Yeah?

1:09:00 Speaker 1: Where is he? And also like good question, but like Drew, Yeah, but like you know, love love valid question, Drew, but you should not be asking it.

1:09:11 Speaker 2: Maybe give it to someone else, like whisper, Like you know, Liz a whisper in the ear?

1:09:17 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I see him tonight. Pass it, pass it to Charles Oakley.

1:09:22 Speaker 2: Yeah, Charles, Like oh yo, so you ask have Angela Dowey, Have Angela Dowey?

1:09:26 Speaker 1: You know, Lord knows she could use a break out.

1:09:29 Speaker 2: Lord, No, she could use a come up for air because we were on her in Charles's ass last season and I might be on it again this season.

1:09:37 Speaker 1: I don't know. But she says she don't give a fuck this she is.

1:09:40 Speaker 2: She just going.

1:09:41 Speaker 1: I have like a weird confession to make, and I made it last season on my podcast, is I think Charles Oakley is so sexy.

1:09:48 Speaker 2: I do, Okay, I could see it. I think Angela is the same, and that that's why she's there. I think there's some other people like Phaedra and people in the city, which is why.

1:09:59 Speaker 1: Yeah.

1:10:00 Speaker 2: Married.

1:10:01 Speaker 1: I kind of like there's something about this like very salt and pepper, curmudgeonly man like that.

1:10:11 Speaker 2: And he's tall, he's got he got length on him, and he's and like he's like filled up. Yeah, and I think I hear he's yeah, I hear hello. They asked him point bline, do you love your wife? Next her? And he said, I don't know what are you talking about?

1:10:31 Speaker 2: And why did you get married?

1:10:32 Speaker 1: And he was like, I don't know, maybe I got drugged or something. Sir, you cannot be saying stuff like that. No, he's He's like, it's really messed up. But here's the thing I am. I'm married to a man who, when asked real questions about marriage, will usually deflect to some sort of humor like it's you know, like we were Okay. So we were on vacation with some friends and we were sitting at dinner together and we're looking at the menu and what, I don't know, we're talking about like, how did you decide?

1:11:01 Speaker 1: Like how what was the moment that you knew that this is like the person? How did you choose that this is like the person that you're gonna be with forever? And so we all went we all went around, we all talked about it, and then when it got to my husband, there was a pause and his friend goes, so, how did you choose? And he goes, I don't know. I feel like the steak looks pretty good because that's who he is, Like he would rather make a joke about what we're eating at dinner than like actually answer, And so I feel like I get it.

1:11:28 Speaker 1: Like it's Bary. What's his name, Emily Simpson's shitty husband.

1:11:33 Speaker 2: Oh yes, Shane Shane.

1:11:37 Speaker 1: Yeah, Shane Shane.

1:11:39 Speaker 2: First season hated, doesn't feel like he's respecting her. Second season Wait are you funny?

1:11:44 Speaker 1: Oh?

1:11:44 Speaker 2: You do like her, it's just just since the humor. Okay, it's just who you are. It seems to be of that same grain, Like she's like that's just Charles's sense of humor. He's tall, and I love Pepper.

1:11:54 Speaker 1: He acts like he hates me, but he loves me, but he actually adores me, like you don't know what it behind closed door, whereas he's a freaking sweetheart. It's like he's probably he's probably like a little softy ilia rosen Off, like he's probably just like really happy to like be with that one woman, but everybody else gets shitty and like he doesn't share that with everybody. And maybe I'm wrong, and.

1:12:16 Speaker 2: I probably am. I'm not saying the child the children's ages is something I still put an asterisk next to that's like twelve. Person in the middle is very confused saying, and we're gonna act like it doesn't happen. But sure, overall, I'm hoping he is a good guy to her, because I do think Angela is one gorgeous oh my god too.

1:12:37 Speaker 1: I like her. I do I think that.

1:12:39 Speaker 2: But also, to be a woman on Houses of Atlanta, you do need to be a little bit delusional. So it's fine totally, especially about men. That's kind of the whole point. But yeah, we have a lot more wives this year than normal, so pretty much everyone is married and stuff for well Drew technically, oh no, she's she's fully divorced now, but the man is still living in the basement. That's wild except for Drew and Porsche and Kelly and Kelly everybody and is in Phaedra Is she here?

1:13:09 Speaker 1: She? Well, she, I don't think I don't remember her. She was there, She was there, she she was. She talked about like pulling tapes at the Hawks game, and then she was like, I pulled tapes at the Hawks game and they confirmed da da da da. And then in confessional they're like, did you really get pictures or video from the Hawks game? And she goes, I had them confirment.

1:13:30 Speaker 2: Phase, but they didn't pull it. Yes, but I didn't see it.

1:13:33 Speaker 1: No, I'm like, okay, I feel like Portia. The benefit of being in Freakin' FRK. One of the greatest assets in her life is learning how to lie. She learned how to lie from that lady and I've ever seen God and it's so fun. And you know, here's the thing.

1:13:51 Speaker 2: Oh, she was in the episode because she told her own son she was rich because he's the president. He's so big now, and it.

1:13:58 Speaker 1: Threw me for a final link boo. I was like, what, no, you were born. I remember you were born.

1:14:05 Speaker 2: Okay, you're christening or whatever you're blessing. He's twelve, eating at the at the table some cereal. He says he want to be rich and she said I'm rich. I said, oh you are.

1:14:15 Speaker 1: I listen, I've known that boy since her mother was lying about when he was going to be born. Okay, this baby June July. It was like, sure, he's jogger is who knows? Yeah, spring, summer, whenever.

1:14:29 Speaker 2: And a lot of my friends have been pregnant, you know, lately as I'm entering my thirties and less than two weeks. Yeah, my friends have open pregnant and they are like, one thing they know is how long they've been fucking pregnant. And when that lady's supposed to come out, they are walking the curb like he's supposed to be he was due thirteen hours ago. But yeah, oh no, oh well yeah, like the exactly what Phadrian didn't know. So the lies of that girl, of that lady, we've been accepting for so long.

1:14:58 Speaker 2: And you're right, Portia is really len.

1:15:01 Speaker 1: Do you know what? I have a hot take? I have a hot take. I don't care if Housewives lie. I don't care.

1:15:08 Speaker 2: Oh, I don't care.

1:15:09 Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't think that we should care. I don't think that it matters. I don't think that matters.

1:15:13 Speaker 2: I think he's an asshole. I'm not watching house that's because you're all nice.

1:15:17 Speaker 1: No, I was an asshole. Giselle lies all the time.

1:15:23 Speaker 2: Lies and is an asshole.

1:15:25 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a lion asshole, And I don't care.

1:15:29 Speaker 2: I'm just lying just just because I love it.

1:15:34 Speaker 1: It's my favorite thing. Really, it's my favorite thing about her. Ashley Darby, Lila pants on fire. Karen Huger lied to us for years, lying.

1:15:43 Speaker 2: Stolying came out the Clint Lion.

1:15:47 Speaker 1: Liing for real. She was like lifetime recovery, but not from from what I love her. She's such a lunatic. And you know what, on the topic of filing for bank, in the words of Karen Hugo, you have to make millions to oh millions, and why is that exactly what I was.

1:16:06 Speaker 2: Saying When you were like, clearly she was successful. At some point I was like, oh, you have to make it to owe it, okay.

1:16:12 Speaker 1: Because because we were raised by these people.

1:16:16 Speaker 2: Okay, like conference someone iron on some sayings on a blazer.

1:16:23 Speaker 1: Free free pinky. Yeah, it's gonna be fine. It is gonna be fine.

1:16:29 Speaker 2: And apparently this happen is like so much postseason that we'll be able to fully enjoy the season and we'll get to.

1:16:34 Speaker 1: The reunion and then we'll find out some truths and things.

1:16:38 Speaker 2: And also more would probably have come out or been settled by then, so we'll have a lot more to go on. But it also seems like think he's not running away from this. She came into that dinner like ready to be on the show. It seemed like she doesn't just know these ladies, but she watches the show when she wants to be here, so she came in there like my grievance with you is this, I'm excited to know you. Hope we can get to it for me friends. I like you last season excellent, Like I really enjoyed that about her.

1:17:06 Speaker 2: I was like, you know, you better make your way and throw your weight around and be like, okay, girls, I'm in it now. I don't like it when they at brand new when they're fresh out and they've never seen the show before.

1:17:16 Speaker 1: That Yeah, no, that's dumb as hell. I also love just like do you okay, do you there's a question for you? Do you feel like the way that Kelly hopped on to Portia's former position as Shami as bff is genuine?

1:17:33 Speaker 2: I think that Kelly is smart and needs wants to stay on the show, needs a reason without it being too exploitive to her family or her business or because that husband, that ex husband of hers won't shut up. He out here just doing the most right. So and she the business we're concerned about. But I also think she saw an opportunity and while she should have things maybe in common or they could talk about, I think Porsche more so also needed that Shania role fuel filled for this season. I think Porsia has a deep, dark fear of being alone.

1:18:12 Speaker 2: I think she has a big problem with being alone. Since we've met her, she's never lived in any home by herself.

1:18:19 Speaker 1: Yeah, even when.

1:18:20 Speaker 2: She was have that home, who did she move in her mom and her sister, Yeah, to help her with polar Okay, So I just think she from Cordell to her mom and her sister to Dennis to Simon, just she doesn't want to be alone to this man that I don't even remember his name that he's like, thank y'all so much for coming. What who are his?

1:18:46 Speaker 1: His name is Mike Anthony and he's an actor. Oh okay, good, It's like the sag intro. It's like, my name is Mike Anthony and I'm an actor.

1:18:55 Speaker 2: Like that's what he is. He is the other actor. He has a headshot. I bet you his headshot now he does.

1:19:00 Speaker 1: He's a guy who does he does like online, like skits, like he does like videos and stuff online like he's he's an actor.

1:19:07 Speaker 2: Okay, alright, alright, yeah, Porscha don't want to be alone, honey. And that's why very next episode we wonna see her with a stunt because that wasn't done Bacon yet, so she needed a temporary thing. And then but also with Samiyah. Though her and Shamia are working back to something better or they're they're reconciling, they are not good. They're not best friends anymore. And that's largely why she didn't want Shamia on the show, because she didn't want to lose her best friend. And that was probably more on her than than she'll admit, but it was something that she really feared.

1:19:38 Speaker 2: And now that that's happened. She needs somebody to be her friend. Porscha cannot fly solo. She needs Fader, she needs somebody. Yeah, Kelly is like, I volunteer this tribute.

1:19:48 Speaker 1: I know, and listen.

1:19:51 Speaker 2: I'm not mad at Kelly. I would do the same thing.

1:19:54 Speaker 1: Listen, I know it. It is really funny now, Samia. I will say this Samia as when she's like with women drives me crazy. But Sami and Confessionals cracks me up.

1:20:05 Speaker 2: Shamian Confessionals cracks me up too. I'm like, oh, you're amazing at this. Like she gives me Jaselle early season Jazelle Confessionals where you say whatever, like what we're also all thinking, but in a way that's so much more comical and like like the banter is just felt good. I would love to be like her producer in the confessional we be having a key, I'd be like, tell me more.

1:20:25 Speaker 1: Yeah, And you know she you know she is yeap, And she's keeping those producers working three to four hours over the shit. They're like, Shamia, we're running out of time, we running out of ta Kelly said, though, yeah, yeah, and she and telling long, lengthy, detailed stories that one she is she's chewing the scenery. She's doing all of it, and I can see why in like, when you're one to one with a person, you're hanging out with a group of people, a person like that could totally drive you nuts and be like, oh God, Jamia's here.

1:20:54 Speaker 1: She's talking so much, but in a confessional. I love it, that whole thing that like her her acting out what the text messages said. Instant meme like instant meme, incredible work, I I I think, But I also think, like the the part about Shamian Porsha is that their friendship or their breakup makes me really sad. It takes the fun out of Atlanta for me, Like, I don't want to see that. That makes me depressed. If I wanted to be depressed, I'd watch The Valley, which is what I do like I but and Atlanta, I don't want to be sad.

1:21:34 Speaker 1: And I think something about Sami and Porsha watching their friendship fall apart makes me really sad. Doesn't surprise me because of who Porsia is. But like I, I, I just don't want to see that, So I hope that they can like be cordial. I do know that things get pretty bad between those two. This season, I feel like there's a there's some fisticus and that bums me out.

1:22:01 Speaker 2: Yeah, that does bum me out too, especially because, like Porsche, we did so much work in the anger management. We got that paper signed all those years ago when we were charging people in the alleyways.

1:22:12 Speaker 1: Remember that? Mm hm, oh my god, do you remember we Did you watch Porsia Family Reunion or whatever? Of course I.

1:22:19 Speaker 2: Did that Hot yetto Mess train wrecked extraordinary, loved it. Lots of fights.

1:22:27 Speaker 1: That show. I was like, Porsha probably recredits so much.

1:22:32 Speaker 2: Yeah, you had to watch through like separated fingers most of the episodes.

1:22:36 Speaker 1: It was so it was so funny the end, every single member of Porsha's family and everybody around her is like, hey, so right, like she's making us do all of this. Like basically, what we found out on that show is that they're all pretending to like be they're enabling a monster, Like Porsia is a monster and they're enabling her. But the thing is, I don't want to know that about my monsters. There.

1:23:00 Speaker 2: My mind's too yeah, I know, and I'm perfectly fine with that. Let's not peak too you know, too close behind the curtain. I like, yeah that, Yeah, I love Portia.

1:23:11 Speaker 1: On this show.

1:23:12 Speaker 2: She's doing great over here with that Bob Okay, So yeah, I'm having a good time. I think Atlanta had a nice strong start. I'm interested, I'm curious. I like to see where this is going. Sunday Nights seems like it will be destination television for me again with Bravo, which I haven't had that in a while. And I will say, if I can't have Potomac right now, I'm glad you're gonna give me something other than just Atlanta. I do think Sundays need a double hitter for people to sit down and do it because Monday's scary, like Sunday Scaries is so real, So like I need, I need multiple dopamines.

1:23:45 Speaker 2: So if you're gonna give me a back to back like this, like this past one that I had, I had a great time coming home from like in Long Easter Dinners and watching back to back Housewives brilliant, So really excited to to live this life with the girlies of Cranston and wherever the hell Ruler is because she wouldn't be called in and the ladies of the a the Peaches course, of course, I'm so happy. I love them and Nora, I love you.

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1:25:40 Speaker 2: No, do, please do as soon as especially if you liked you liked this episode, go ahead put it in there. Well let's call the reviews the chat and throw it in there. Loved having both of them on if you made it to the end. And y'all want y'all to know if you're not on Patreon watching the visuals because also patreon dot com slash mixing with Money the visuals live too for each bud guest episode. If y'all didn't know, I did. Finally, I did give into the urge to light up thanks to North No, of course, but of course direction.

1:26:10 Speaker 1: I am so pro people lighting up, like please do listen. My kids are still awake and that's why I can't do that right now. But understood, I love it, I love it. I was I go ahead, I was on a cruise with my kids on vacation with friends or whatever. And one of the greatest things that we learned is that like now our kids, like my friend that I was on vacation with the husband's get along with my husband and her husband get along. Our kids are best friends. And our kids are between the age of eight and twelve.

1:26:45 Speaker 1: There's four of them, like four kids between us, and it's so good because they were finally at the age where like we don't have to be in the water with them, like they're very good. And then also the dads are like helicopter dads, so they're like always watching the kids. Me and my friend blit an edible. At around two pm. We were on the rooftop of this boat and we went and we got we went and we got like we got a girl lunch. It was like a girl girl. It was like chicken salad and chips and snacks and fries and like we got ourselves some like virgin mint mihidos and we were laid up eating and having the time.

1:27:21 Speaker 1: I lift and I just looked at her and I was like, I don't think that I've ever been happier, And she was like, because we're high the food is good, the kids are happy, the husbands are happy, like there the sun is in our faces like it was the greatest. So, yeah, light it up.

1:27:35 Speaker 2: I hope you.

1:27:36 Speaker 1: I hope that by the end of this episode you have lit it up already.

1:27:41 Speaker 2: Yeah, I really do. I will be lighting up continuously after this episode. I hope y'all heard me fight and chose not to fight it yourselves. I have plenty of people who shout out to the channel, Moms who like to, you know, reach out to me and be like, it makes me a better mom.

1:27:58 Speaker 1: I'm not ashamed of that.

1:28:00 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, don't see, because let me tell you what it also does makes you interested in whatever the hell your kids have to say. And I know that is something that y'all all struggle with. M of all ages from like zero when they can start talking, so they are like teenagers beyond. You're like, I could give a shit about a blue okay, So, but they like, girl, I take my edible, I go puffing the garage too cuffs and I'm in They're like, tell me more about Blue.

1:28:27 Speaker 1: So bingo did what? God not too much on Blue? You now it's the greatest.

1:28:33 Speaker 2: I do watch it a lot by myself. I do watch.

1:28:36 Speaker 1: I do watch.

1:28:38 Speaker 2: Thank you guys for listening, You guys for listening. Go ahead and check out the reality Is podcast if you're not already. If you are here because you listen to her podcast, welcome, thank you for being here. You can find me on all of the things, also on threads and Instagram, likely reposting and commenting and responding to nor At mixing with MANI and my x I ng w I a n on all your podcast platforms, as the mix with Money for the podcast Patreon dot com slash mixing with Money for add free episodes because y'all know, I'm phoning them in there because I'm a teacher and I don't have any Yeah, so I'll be putting ass.

1:29:15 Speaker 2: And so if you want them every they over it on the Patreon. I even sell the episode, So if you don't want to make a full commitment or you want to try it out, you can go ahead and do that as well for a different price, and all the visuals and other stuff as well.

1:29:28 Speaker 1: And this is not the last time you will hear of Nora.

1:29:30 Speaker 2: I will be blowing her up as soon as she's available again, because I want to talk something else.

1:29:36 Speaker 1: With No, you need to you, you need to come back on my podcast, and we need to talk about Southern hospitality. We need to talk about Southern hospitality and Summer House obviously. Oh I'm in okay, now what guys, this is Laura, this is money. Lare okay. MANI never watched Summerhouse, but she was once invited to go on Dumpster Dive and she talked about but she talked about Summer House as if she watched the show.

1:30:03 Speaker 2: And it was one of the culture. Like the Cut article, it was so.

1:30:08 Speaker 1: Funny because you could have gone the whole episode not admitting that you hadn't watched it, but at the end you were like, I actually didn't even watch the episode.

1:30:15 Speaker 2: I was like, jad it was.

1:30:18 Speaker 1: It was so good review.

1:30:20 Speaker 2: I remember the Cut review excellently too. Shout out to my autism because I have a.

1:30:24 Speaker 1: Formal diagnosis for autism in ADHD, and.

1:30:27 Speaker 2: Baby, I've read that article. I was like, I got the whole episode.

1:30:30 Speaker 1: I get it.

1:30:30 Speaker 2: I remember exactly what page said. Even still to this day, I couldn't even tell you what episode it was. But I read that article and I was like, I'm ready, Tom, let's do and I did it, and that I don't think he was pleased.

1:30:44 Speaker 1: And you know what that no, he was impressed. He was. We were like, that's incredible. That is journalism.

1:30:51 Speaker 2: Thank you, shout out to me. Let me replace Nick Vile today.

1:30:56 Speaker 1: Please anybody, anybody.

1:30:58 Speaker 2: Anybody else, Oh my god, guys, thank you for being here. Nor thank you for being here.

1:31:03 Speaker 1: Take care of yourself, for having me, take care of each other.

1:31:06 Speaker 2: Please don't threaten whole civilizations, because otherwise I will be calling you an asshole on the very next episode of the Mix with Moni, We're gonna again. We're giving panky calls some fucking grace, all right, So I don't want to hear it about another woman. Let's just have joy and watch and uh yeah, be good to each other, at least good to yourself. Have some micro joyce. Love you, bye bye,