204. RHOP Recap and Yap w/Vanessa (RealiTEA Recap)

0:00 Speaker 1: Right. Hello, Hello, Hello, beautiful and wonderful mixologists out there. It is your girl Moni and you are in the mix with Mani and Vanessa. I have Vanessa here, the Queen of Reality recaps literally but also it like that's her username, but also the actual point of reality TV recaps. She covers absolutely everything, has all the good tea and all the good perspectives, which is obviously why I had to have her here today to talk about this. We already got started. How are you, Vanessa? How are you doing?

0:47 Speaker 2: I'm good.

0:48 Speaker 3: Good to talk to you is always thank you for having me, always a pleasure.

0:53 Speaker 1: Yes, I so you saw all the things that were happening at Bravo Cohn of course, right, yes there was anything. Did anything stick out to you? I just dropped the Bravo Cohn like little mini highlight real announcements with Kendrick today. But I want to know, because I'm recording with so many people this week, I want to know what stuck out to you that got your attention. Because there were a few moments that I was like I could care less, and there were a few moments that I was like, no, we need to did someone ask more questions?

1:22 Speaker 3: Yeah? I think, for me, if I'm being honest, right, and I don't want to be a hater, some of the interviews that I saw, I was just wondering why were these people picked to do the interviews.

1:34 Speaker 2: I'm just being honest.

1:35 Speaker 3: And there was questions that I had that did not get answered. No one asked, when is Martha's Vineyard summer House coming back?

1:49 Speaker 1: Oh, where's that at?

1:50 Speaker 3: No one asked Mary about this documentary that's coming out on TOOC.

1:56 Speaker 2: Like I wanted to see. I mean, it was a lot of.

1:59 Speaker 3: Backstage nonsense happening that I enjoyed. It's still going on, it's Tuesday, Like, when is your flight home?

2:12 Speaker 1: No? Seriously, some people are just now leaving Vegas. I'm like, well, no way. And everybody's departures have made.

2:18 Speaker 3: The news, right. Yeah. So I was really intrigued by the behind the scenes. But I think overall, the main stage panels were all great to me. I love Atlanta, Married to Medicine, Salt Lake City, Southern charm. I don't even watch Southern hospitality, and I enjoyed their panel, like you know, the Valley Persian style, the Valley. Everybody's made stage, Yeah, everybody's made stage, delivered Potomac.

2:47 Speaker 1: Everybody delivered, a lot of choices, made a lot of decisions, revealed. You know, they officially announced Lola Kent and Tom Schwartz are part of the Valley. That was a choice. I would have made it. They chose to. Y'all will watch it, they won't regret it, and so great, everybody wins. So there's that Sheen is somewhere seething because she was there. But I think, I said to Kendrick, I think she and Craig have very similar Bravo cons where they were like, I'm just here so I don't get fined or like you for the cloud and the but they did not have their best.

3:24 Speaker 1: These weren't their most shining years, given that they have really taken back seats to their roles on Bravo and kind of got invited almost like as a formality. I mean, at least Shia, like she doesn't actually have a show right now. That didn't seem to stop a lot of people from being there. But I'm just saying she Okay, really it looks good. I'm not gonna hold you. Rol looks great to me. But I was shocked. I was like, bahamah, looking at you.

3:49 Speaker 3: I don't understand Alexis Bilino. I don't even think Alexa was invited. She was just there and to teas in a pod and I say, yeah, like that's what she was doing there.

4:02 Speaker 1: But you know she secretly was so so so mad that he got hurt and or she's like, that'll warn't you.

4:11 Speaker 3: But yeah, there was a few things, yeah, that I was looking for more on. And even with Salt Lake City, they made it very clear, don't ask no questions about the current season. So their panel was really like flashbacks of the previous like previous seasons and like you know, big moments. But I mean, oh raw, it looked like a hell of a time.

4:38 Speaker 1: It did relating a f But y'all had a ball, I know that, and that's fantastic, and y'all got a lot. They y'all a lot. So I'm really happy for you know, friends, but also the hard working people just spent their money to go and have a ball with these people. I'm glad y'all got your money's worth. I'm actually really happy be for you. But that's dope like to because you know, no, no shade. There have been years that people have been like Okay, I mean Bravocanna's come a long way. There have been years that have been like less disheveled, more or more disheveled and less produced or whatever, but like it seemed like this year was like probably their best one yet.

5:22 Speaker 1: They've always had people have had a great time, but people I know who have been to Noil, all of them have been like this one slay like we had all they all had won.

5:34 Speaker 3: And when I went, it was twenty twenty two and I only went to day three. It was in New York, so it was a happy script. So I was last minute. I had a new born and I was like telling my husband should I go?

5:45 Speaker 2: Should I not?

5:45 Speaker 3: I was just starting my page YEP, and he was saying, you know, you need the content go And to be honest, I got a one day VIP and I was disappointed in Day three. I mentioned that when I did the recap that it definitely seems like this year. Day three was not lacking. But when I went, day three was kind of like the show's nobody really, you know, like the main show James Anity DJ Yeah, and it was like all of the panel audiences were really empty. Most of the bar celebrities were already gone. It was the only thing I really enjoyed was I had and I got a ticket last minute to do the Watch what Happens Live taping that evening, and that ended up being like the Shade Assassin Queen's Watch What Happens Live.

6:33 Speaker 3: That's where Erica Jane got up there and announced that she thought the next couple that was gonna split was the Rey and PK knew back then she was right, But I agree this one. Seeing full someome all three days, it was like end of the night, and they still were giving us trailers for next Gen and season two. They were like giving.

6:59 Speaker 1: Needed to take off all three days. Sis, like you're not going home till Monday.

7:03 Speaker 2: You understand, and you get me on Thursday.

7:07 Speaker 1: And exactly, people got their Wednesday and we're like, there were events, there were things, there were people, I mean, and now we know it's BRA celebrities, so of course there's gonna be drama that follows. You kind of want to be there when they arrived, but you definitely want to be there when they depart. Like Portion News, okay, like the girls from Miami, Lisa and Julia News Okay, like Lindsay Hubbard afterwards news like everybody has just been I.

7:36 Speaker 3: Didn't like the title of that one about Lisa. I mean by Lindsay Huber though, because if the title made it seem like she was getting into a confrontation with Sanda bal and his girlfriend. When I listen to the audio over and over again, it sounded like they were beefing, like Sandaval and his girlfriend was beefing, and she was saying, listen and don't make a scene, don't rule on what you have going on, like, don't do this here, like she was trying to calm them down, but his girlfriend was upset with him.

8:10 Speaker 3: Lindsey wasn't getting into a confrontation with them. She was saying, like you listen to that audio a million times to get to understand because I'm like, wait a minute, doesn't seem like I didn't like that the headline made it seems like she was in a confrontation with the two of them. I didn't like that, And I just wanted to touch really quickly on what you said about Sheena right taking a back role. She seems okay with it, and that makes me curious because she was also at a page six event the Virtual Reality Awards, and I went and they had her on, and she seems really focused on her podcast and promoting that.

8:56 Speaker 3: It really feels like there's something in the works for her that she's it's like, I'm good off the Valley, you know. I hear things of her wanting to be on OC or something like that. I don't know if that's really gonna happen, but I feel like there's some.

9:15 Speaker 1: I don't feel confident that that will happen, especially considering Sheena is she's a live wire. But also what you gonna call it, They don't love putting girlies on other franchises, even within the Housewives world, because they feel like when they cast, they cast so specifically. And if Heather Debro is too woke for OC, Gina's not the wokest. But I just don't see where she fits currently in Bravo anymore because she has evolved into this different thing, Like she's not trying to sing work Bitch and good as Gold on bars anymore.

9:58 Speaker 1: She's really not. She's like getting she has like pinup curls, and it's wearing like dresses down to the ankle, like you know, and just in her mommy era like her sheep fly mommy era, mom entrepreneur, you know what I mean. Whereas Lalla still wants to be in the mix, it seems la La is I'm we're not gonna talk about Lauren from Utah, but I am really happy for so many of y'all who were in the room where it happens this weekend, Like that was crazy. Y'all got a lot. Y'all got your money's worth, you got your time's worth, and I'll get some rest and some like liquid ivs, some electrializing you because I know they had y'all drinking lit and walking around all over veggas and Vegas's hot and.

10:41 Speaker 2: Then raining it lot down there too.

10:45 Speaker 1: Oh, I saw a lot of that, And like Vegas is a wild place, like as a place to visit, this would be the time to go though, So I'm happy that y'all had a great time. Y'all were in the room where it happens. And speaking of the room where it happens, do you know, you know, mixologists, tis the season to take care of yourselves. Okay, y'all know I love to yet, but I also love to take care of myself. And did you know you can do both of those things in therapy, of course you did. Y'all know I love therapy.

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15:06 Speaker 2: Yeah.

15:07 Speaker 3: I first of all, you just put me on that Alexander Hamilton is on Disney Plus.

15:12 Speaker 1: It is on Disney Plus.

15:15 Speaker 3: Yes, you're like, I don't. I am not a musical girl.

15:20 Speaker 1: So it's really good. That's one of my favorite ones here.

15:24 Speaker 2: I just never have given it a shot.

15:26 Speaker 3: I probably would and love it, but I literally, I told you, I had to go google where's Alexander Hamilton from just because I actually mentioned it, Yeah, and to find out where they were because I had never heard. I was like, this is a beautiful place, but I never heard of it and I couldn't remember the name, and I had to That's how I got the name. So you educator educating me?

15:51 Speaker 1: You? Oh my gosh. Yeah. So I have a lot of and I've had a lot of students that like, there's an influx of kids that really are into the room where it had been happens the songs Hamilton as all over. That's like a literally a Hamilton for kids, and it's been because since they put Hamilton on Disney Plus a couple of years ago. I want to say happens.

16:11 Speaker 2: You keep saying the room where it happens.

16:13 Speaker 1: That's a song in Hamilton called the Room Where It Happens. So here's the reason why Hamilton is one of my favorites. It's not my favorite memo Lynn Manuel Miranda play, but it is one of my favorites because the way he writes a history. It makes I don't understand why I'm fascinated by a white man in history, but I can't tell you is actual life. But I can tell you the plot of Hamilton because of how well he writes the songs and the black people, the black people in the move in the musical ate down, sang their behinds off, okay, told story, acted and fantastically and then went on d V Diggs.

16:52 Speaker 1: You know, they went on to do a bunch of stuff, you know, and we love them for it. And so The Room Where It Happens is probably one of the best, most notable song Laminuel Miranda is greatful, white and like one masterpiece that like will pop out from all the rest. But the Room Where It Happens is that one. And it's about like Alexander Hamilton and everybody being in the room where they signed the Declaration of Independence and being you want to be in the room where it happens and it's rapped. The whole thing is rapped by a few fantastic musicians.

17:25 Speaker 1: So yeah, and so if you know the musical, which a lot of people really like, at least the soundtrack. Some people I know them like, I didn't see it, but I love the soundtrack. Listen to the whole soundtrack. I couldn't be me because I don't want to listen to musical storytelling that badly. But it is very good and well written. So the fact that she had to call her kids is because they fell in love with it, like they watched it on Disney. Plus I know a lot of little kiddos who will just be like watching it every weekend, like I watched Hamilton this weekend, like that's their share with me on Monday.

17:58 Speaker 1: And I'm like, that's great.

18:00 Speaker 3: And yeah, I was like actually trying to rub it in her face, in our face, that her children are so coked, heured and they wheles. I was like, no, I was like, girl, got that little divorce change. You want to rub it in our face?

18:11 Speaker 2: Huh?

18:11 Speaker 3: And that ain't the case.

18:13 Speaker 1: And y'all know that's not y'all know how I'm like, you know, I don't clock every I'm not trying to clock people's coins and bank account but being in the DNV, it's a lot easier for me to be like, uh uh, you don't got the coin like that. I think maybe they went to go see it once, maybe they're seen it off Broadway, but them being in love with it is because that's shits on Disney Plus. And it's like when you turn on the Disney Plus, it really will be like Bluey Hamilton, like they'd be so big. It's like a big banner because they're so it's a beautiful thing and it's well shot, like it's well shot for a Broadway production being captured and put on TV.

18:48 Speaker 1: It plays like a movie. It's great.

18:50 Speaker 3: So I just want to watch it.

18:52 Speaker 2: I mean, we don't get past Bluey.

18:53 Speaker 3: That's probably why, because they got Disney Plus when we don't get past Bluey, so I too love you. Maybe that's why.

18:59 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna get it. Let's take a peak, take a peek, like if y'all have not seen it, I highly recommend it. It's really good. And of the film versions or like on screen verses that you can see of his work, it's probably the best one because in the Heights, the movie sucked, but the play is fantastic so and again well written. And I'm not a musical girl, but I've seen a lot of musicals over stimulating. But I like the way people try to do their like like I like the talent. I like to see how talented people can be, like you really out here not messing up and just singing your heart out.

19:35 Speaker 1: That's so crazy. And also shout out to Candy Birds because again not employed by Bravo right now, but got a whole icon of war because she's like Loki in Egot or almost like he got loading and killing it on Broadway. And they were like, so, just we just want to let you know we still love you, just in case you ever you know one of them back, we still we love you. Like they gave Vicky Labor papers like get to work.

20:05 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you want to, if you want to get escape and uh we be back, you know, and let's get another.

20:12 Speaker 1: Handy coded nights to just have. Don't want call us if you want to do anything.

20:20 Speaker 2: Right and Vicky Labor, Vicky begged to come back.

20:24 Speaker 3: Okay, she literally was at Bravo con with fans out there having them chant bring VICKI back. She begged, like I don't know why she got up there and cried and like gave us that Vicky beg to come back, like is it well?

20:43 Speaker 1: Off camera? Right?

20:45 Speaker 2: Right?

20:45 Speaker 1: Right?

20:46 Speaker 3: I feel like when she whispered and and ed his ear when he was handing her the range, she was like, how much you pay me? Where's the contract? Is this for real?

20:56 Speaker 1: Like I want to be sure the money you're gonna make payments? Sorry, y lady? Is y'all wanted there?

21:04 Speaker 3: Here?

21:04 Speaker 1: And there you go? So ladies that I want and this is the thing because I think that right now we have I think we're in a good place with the cast of Potonac And what usually tells us that is a cash trip. A cash trip is going to tell you whether or not the cast can stand and when they bring on friends of it's a sink or swim decision, you know what I mean? Like it's it's really it's I want to know, off top, how do you think? How do you feel about Jesse on the show? On this trip? Like as an included a member of this.

21:48 Speaker 3: Trip, Jazzie was someone that before the trip, I was saying, wow, like she's funny, you know, like I would honestly rather see her than Angel and Tea. But when we got on the trip and she verbally attacked Tia with the over the whole mister Sunshine, it made it looked very okay.

22:14 Speaker 2: She said something to me, here's.

22:17 Speaker 3: My chance to make a scene and make a mark for the people, for me to get a bigger role, and she went off on her And honestly, mister Sunshine and Darius are given father and son vibes. They are given twin vibes. To me, they do look alike two teeth and two dress or not. The face was definitely giving father and son. So it's just that Tea was making a joke and you fourteen days like, you want to prove yourself to don't know that right, and you want to prove yourself to your news you know, soon to be husband.

22:56 Speaker 2: Okay, step mom, we got.

22:58 Speaker 1: It, okayo. Kids. I just love when they replay her mathing, the producing in the production of the children that she is stepmomming, and the relation of her with this man she's marrying.

23:14 Speaker 3: The math is still not mathing. I interviewed his baby, his child's mother. I don't want to call her a baby mother. I interviewed her. She gave me solid dates. There was definitely overlap, whether she knew or not, it's definitely overlaped and.

23:29 Speaker 1: Chose to forgive, which it seems like you did.

23:32 Speaker 2: Just say that, just say hey, but the way.

23:35 Speaker 1: You're clapping at people this go around and talking about it like we went through a lot, we did that, like you're first of all, I just need y'all to know all these things are not reasons to get married. You don't. You don't actually have to work through stuff to get to the union. You can choose not to union with that person. It is giving. You chose to forgive a lot, and what you denied last year, you're making a lot of hints to this year because this is your bachelor a party, Like I made it through a lot to get here.

24:06 Speaker 1: But we asked you about what you made it through, and you were not You were a little cagy and said that they were No, you were confused. It seems like you were confused. And but the children's mother is never gonna be confused. That's who I know. Won't be confused.

24:21 Speaker 3: I ain't confused, not one big game. Yeah, she let me know everything, y'all, y'all could check the interview out.

24:28 Speaker 2: It's still on my YouTube channel. But she she.

24:32 Speaker 3: Had me sitting here writing, not because she asked me to, but I was writing down the dates and comparing it to what Jess said, so, like he's really gonna sit there and tell you the full truth, like so.

24:44 Speaker 1: And did you believe them right?

24:47 Speaker 3: And did you see the statement that she put up about she tried to address it again and she called them She said, those kids or those children, first of all, stopped speaking on other people's kids, and then for you to address them in that manner was terrible. Like that even added to me, I'm good off her, like yeah, all of them money, and you the one that wants you liked Angel and I told you, okay, yeah, no, Angel's a problem.

25:17 Speaker 1: I don't understand her. I'm like, are you okay? Do you not? But I also see someone who is definitely I really hate when friends bring on friends because one you have to know your friendship will deteriorate and you gotta be willing to sacrifice it. And to be honest, I wouldn't be mad at you for being willing to do so. I'd be like, okay, if you want to always, if you would have always wanted to be a housewife and you're willing to do it. It was like, okay, well we might get into it sometimes. And if you go in upfront knowing that, I think that you would have a much better experience and probably a more salvage friendship than what we've had and seen many many franchises.

25:58 Speaker 1: But what we're definitely seeing here where Angel came on as Kay's friend, Kay is getting herself established at the moment. So whatever you know, personality she or footing she's trying to find on this show, Angel is now responsible for like invoking it, like to making it, like to solidifying that for her and her place with the women and these That's why Kay brought her on, and that looks to see why Angel also told her she would be on. But when Kay is not around, we see a woman who wants to be a housewife.

26:32 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's to me it's obvious that Kay brought her on as an alliance. That's why she got up so upset and the whole you know, her sticking up for when she was saying sticking up for Ashley or something like that, or like did you ask about her kids? You know, she got upset with her like are you cool? And that that's where the whole chin chat thing came about. Like I feel like Kay downloaded Angel on who she doesn't like in the group and wants her to follow that or wants her not to like the same people or have her back, and Angel is unfortunately messing up her chance to get to know the women authentically and individually because she's riding on everything she heard from K.

27:22 Speaker 1: That is when you're messing up your chances of even just staying on this show, because they're not going to keep someone who can't film without K. You know what I mean, who can't film without another person for a second season and it doesn't have a storyline outside of being the lackey of this person. You'll end up being on the Jazzy plane, girl, and you don't want to be there. You don't. You clearly think of your soul as important enough, and frankly I give you that you have potential because when you're not with K, it seems like the women at least seem to think of you as not awful, and they really tolerate you beyond it's just before least they did until they nobody but nobody likes to be confused and lied to.

28:06 Speaker 1: They're like, what do you mean? How do you fake what I saw was clearly happening in front of me? Like laughter, joky jokes, chilling, drinking giggles. What what are you talking about? They're all shocked at this trick. Okay, and we're gonna get into the I want to talk about. First of all, the I love it when we find when there's rooms, when we have a room send off. Do you prefer when the girls fight for themselves or when they when when the host quote unquote place people in places and are shady about it, like our girl Giselle here.

28:44 Speaker 3: I love. Uh that's a mix for me. I guess I'm so used to seeing them argue over rooms. But I don't mind when the rooms are picked and there's a message sent with the room picking to let you know you're getting these bunk beds, because I really don't mess with you. I could go either way with it. Mine the way it could be a dumb ass game where y'all fighting over the master suite and who has the room with the bathtub, or if you're gonna pick the rooms, it gotta be some shade in it. So if we're gonna shade you by giving you a bunk bedroom or a room where your robe is nameless and your cars don't have no word.

29:25 Speaker 1: Your everything is nameless, I'm here for it. Like Gsell said, I'm not wasting a dollar of ink. Baby, not a stitch. It's not an embroidery for everybody. Okay, it's twenty five. Nope, she said, I am not. Brother said, we'll put it on the credit card. She said, it's okay, make this. Let me talk to the producers. We're gonna make this a thing.

29:52 Speaker 3: We're gonna give her this waffle robe with no name on it, and we're gonna make that a thing in this upcoming after say, I.

29:59 Speaker 1: Don't I didn't know what to say to you because I don't know who you are, And I said, oh delivered. Okay, Giselle's gonna prove a point that lady is every once in a while. And y'all, I hope you know, especially my my I love that my demographic is a little bit older. Sometimes my elder listeners, my girlies up there with the seasoned, wise words of wisdom. I really sometimes forget that Giselle's like in her fifties, like my mama and them's age, and what she not gonna do is waste her time on some bullshit and a person she don't really care about.

30:35 Speaker 1: And she said, but will be funny doing it, Like I think my mom and her group of friends are the funniest she will I've ever met on the planet. Like they don't even mean to be shady, they're just being like, I'm not dealing with this, but this is you and your behavior, or you and your choices, and they're gonna call those out. And it's like, you can't just say that, Nieling, No I am, because I have to explain why I'm not, because you were gonna ask, like why is everything Stacy nameless? So I know what to say to her because I don't know who she is.

31:03 Speaker 1: I don't and that's sack everything. She didn't even have to actually stir the pot, you know what I'm saying. She didn't even have to sit down at the dinner. She got Stacey activated upon checking.

31:16 Speaker 3: I'm enjoying Giselle this season?

31:19 Speaker 1: I'm oh, I'm gleeful.

31:21 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm enjoying her. Does she replace the grind?

31:24 Speaker 2: Don no?

31:25 Speaker 3: But is she a good substitute. Is she in a different space with the friend group not having Robin there, and like.

31:33 Speaker 2: She's just stepping into this fun shady who.

31:38 Speaker 1: So herself in it? Yeah, Like it's exactly why they cast at her. She just doesn't have a battery pack in her to harp on anything too long, do anything too much, and no caring to foil her. So she's just having a nice time. And when Giselle is having a nice time, apparently so are we. Why is Tia in the nanny quarters? This is why I prefer I think it does depend on the franchise. I will say that it depends on the franchise who gets to pick and who gets to put people in places, Because if you're gonna be if you're good at it, it doesn't even depend on the franchise.

32:16 Speaker 1: It depends on the host. If you're good at it, Like Giselle could do this, someone like Kyle couldn't do this, you know what I'm saying. And she would be one to host a trip, but she's not shady enough. Erica might be able to you know what I'm saying. But Giselle is talented. This lady is like it's whatever comes to her.

32:37 Speaker 3: Head.

32:37 Speaker 1: Why is Tia in the nanny corarter? She goes, It's because I'm partition. I feel.

32:44 Speaker 2: It's because you British, you rich, you know what a nanny corners is.

32:47 Speaker 3: You're good, which is.

32:49 Speaker 1: So crazy to me because of the people who should be or would be in the nanny quarters, it probably wouldn't be Tia. If we're talking tax brecks on this.

33:01 Speaker 2: What's Tea about?

33:03 Speaker 3: Like, I know she's a real estate guru. What does she work? Like, what do you know about her?

33:10 Speaker 1: She has a lot of money. I don't know her to be very high up on the scene or like out about and around town. Because what I do know is of the girlies here who real estate is a big nit is a big deal here, but everybody doesn't hack it. It's almost like la like it really is. It really is a lot like California in that there is a high amount of demand. People do not think of that in the DMV. But like everybody knows at least one person who works in the DC area. Everybody does, and they all got to live somewhere.

33:48 Speaker 1: So because of that, they the real estate agency fight. The real estate agencies fight each other. I remember the agency getting here and being established here and trying really hard to make it in DC because of all the money in the world that Mauricio and them have in marketing. That doesn't sell here the same way really as Southeby's that is like all the way up. And I don't think Tea is on the Southern By team. I don't. I don't. I got a check. But I'll let me say this DMV people, y'all know where you drive around and see the homes.

34:25 Speaker 1: Y'all know where you want to, where you take your your family where we all have like different places that we go to just like get a beverage and let's see the homes like they're just like that. And you know it's not until it's Southeby's around here. You're just any old person who's doing real estate. However, t is doing it because she wants to, not because she has to. Yeah, that lady got money long from the family and them, Like she comes from money. So she's doing the real estate because you want to.

35:00 Speaker 1: Kind of like how Terry Debro does the plastic surgery because he's good at it, like it's nice to help people. He thinks it's his duty to give bad do you.

35:10 Speaker 3: Think we're gonna see any of that? Do you think like that gonna? I was like, are we gonna get another?

35:14 Speaker 1: Like?

35:15 Speaker 2: Is she gonna show?

35:17 Speaker 3: Is her family ashamed of her being on this show?

35:19 Speaker 1: I got to say, I don't know if they ashamed or won't participate, but either one they I don't think. I think this is beneath them, which is again which does low key back the question in the tea, like why but y'all know, let me tell you something, especially with Shashah. She's our biggest She is my biggest example of this. All the money, all the notoriety, or all the power in the world don't mean nothing if you don't if people don't know you have it, And Charis will not stay away from us because she needs y'all to know she still got it.

35:51 Speaker 1: It's not enough to just bop around and you're Bentley convertible. You know what I'm saying. You need people to know you have said Bentley convertible. So I think Tya really wanted to be like I of these ladies that are on POTELMC, I feel like I could be on it, which is really what I think. Also, Tia did or not to ye sorry, Angel, did I think that. Angel convinced and Kay convinced her, and Angel convinced herself that, like, you are much more quote unquote baller and all these things than the rest of these girls on here.

36:21 Speaker 1: You deserve. You're married, you're happy, all these things. But Angel doesn't realize what she Nobody cares in this group. Justselle been single, maybe maybe not. We don't know, which is crazy because we didn't see her fake date so many people, and now she really dating and we don't know anything about it. So I hope it works out for the girl. I kind of like that for her though, because she was like, these girls don't These are my younger coworkers, my colleagues. They don't deserve any of my time of who I'm dating, who I'm talking to.

36:55 Speaker 1: They can do, you know, they can talk to each other about that. So Tia is in the nanny quarters and Giselle sections people off in threes. Input This is exactly how you can tell how she feels about Jassey, Stacey, and Wendy, the curly girls or whatever they called themselves, because all their weeds at the time were curly. For the for the for the, for the water, the Caribbean or what else? The brave man.

37:24 Speaker 3: I said that like wearing a lace front and Val I would do all things agree.

37:34 Speaker 1: It's very brave. I don't know if I would do that. I don't know if I could do that.

37:37 Speaker 3: Like wearing a Scully a win of Scully, no wonder. Wendy almost passed out out there. But I just had to mention that because I was like, like, who everybody needed.

37:50 Speaker 2: Breaths, Like let the scout breathe.

37:52 Speaker 1: I can't do that, like learn anything from the Love Island Girls. That's what we told Jane by day two, like baby, let follow Orlandria get our Sierra, get you some braids. You need some corn rows, plat it to the scalps so your scalp can breathe. I was worried, but the curls were curling. So they were a cute little groupie group. They had a nice time. They tried to make the best of it. Acted they were all best friends. This I will say this trip, Stacy has convinced me. I get why y'all like her so much.

38:28 Speaker 1: The delu is great. It's so it's phenomenal. It's a good delusion though, like it's not harmful to me, and it's really not harmful the others. So she's just she's operating on a different reality.

38:45 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's reality TV gold to me.

38:48 Speaker 1: No, she really is. I agree? Okay, Angel not one of this dinner and Nevis and it's alleged that stays you try to date Chris Samuels. We start out there because Ashley is the bone collective. If case y'all didn't know, she won't talk about it. Nobody else is gonna be her and Whitney on these shows. Who's gonna bring it up. It's like, so I have a friend and I heard your feeling about to her as husband. We all know, we all know him. Chris Samuels mm hm. Thoughts on that. He was like, this is a great friend of mine, a great friend, but you needed his number from someone else.

39:38 Speaker 1: And this is before or after you decided to get back with your German husband, or he decided to film with you when you decided to get back with him. Because I feel like you really were gonna leave this man over the show. That's my new theory. And she was like, I'm going on this show.

39:53 Speaker 3: And what was weird to me was she tried to act like her and Chris were bonding over getting divorced.

40:03 Speaker 1: It's like, girl, you wasn't really no, because we looked at the decree and it was like jan December of last year.

40:13 Speaker 2: That's not what y'all was doing.

40:14 Speaker 3: She tried to make like they were friends supporting each other like girls stop.

40:19 Speaker 1: Yeah, like PK. I mean like Mauricio and Derek. Yeah, like PK and Kyle and the way I was reading them for Phil, No, thank you? Now why are you? You don't know that?

40:30 Speaker 3: Man?

40:31 Speaker 1: She's like anything that can keep me on Potomac. Let me let me do that.

40:36 Speaker 3: Things like of all people, of all the people in that area, you mean to tell me you just connected with him because you both were going through divorce, Like.

40:45 Speaker 1: I don't believe it. Also, no shade, but that's a real quick switch up. I don't know what your type is right now? Homegirl like not saying that she has to have one or she has to be pigeonhole. You like your German men and your line back from Alabama all the same.

41:02 Speaker 3: I guess your fake boyfriend.

41:06 Speaker 2: He was nowhere Like we're all over the place.

41:09 Speaker 1: We're all over the place. It's like, who will do the sit down on the TV. But I'm not mad at it. I'm telling y'all, I'm on board anything. I'm not mad at it at all. Because she's like, she didn't even bring this as she brought this okay, And Stacy's like, well, baby girl, if you just give me a chance, I'll give you some crazy live you don't even need to dig. Yeah, because I'm back with my husband. You set yourself up actually for her to be able to do that and flash that ring and then regain control.

41:40 Speaker 1: So when she said that, like I'm actually back with my husband, I said, oh, Stacy got the ball back.

41:48 Speaker 1: I respect it heavily. She opened that door and Stacey was like, well, while we're here, Like when she went over to Wendy's house and said, so him starting a cannabis line doing your edibles, let me tell you about mine.

42:05 Speaker 3: Do you know what I just figured out about her cannabis line? I was wondering where did I hear shio from? Like we know it's Nigerian because we looked that up the last time we talked. But do you you know like burna Boy at the beginning of his song, he said, shild.

42:23 Speaker 1: When you just said burn a boy? And played in my head immediately pat that together.

42:31 Speaker 3: Shout out to my girl who asked me podcast, because she was the one that asked on threads, like, yo, I heard that before did. Burner Boy said I had to go play the.

42:40 Speaker 1: Song and oh my god, that's hilarious.

42:45 Speaker 3: Copying Wendy all the time. She really been copying Burna Boy, not happy Eddie.

42:51 Speaker 1: I mean, the whole thing is really just that, like she went with a Nigerian name because she also just ancestry dot com probably so that it's just like the lengths that Stacy will go through to be able to defend her decisions because she knows how they'll be received, and she is not willing to edit them, but she will amend them, and she'll add amendments with an asterisk. Please see Appendix CE. I am one third, I'm thirty I'm a thirteenth percentage of Nigerian. So in that discovery last year that I am one thirty third Nigerian, I decided to lean in sister, a Nigerian sister, and I decided to name it a Nigerian name.

43:41 Speaker 3: Because you're taking off like saying like I just don't I don't see Nigerians being linked to cannabis gummies like that's it.

43:52 Speaker 1: That's why it was so novel that Eddie was doing it. Like they were like, huh, that's not what we meant by pharmaceuticals.

44:01 Speaker 3: Girl, like you of all things you could have did to pay homage to your your heritage and I use air quotes, shed on a rise and rest cannabis scummies huh okay again, only available in Virginia and in one quadrant of Yeah, bravo con she launched in Vegas.

44:22 Speaker 1: She's Vegas, so that's a big deal. Vegas has a nice cannabis scene. Eddie not in Vegas yet. She might just be at one dispensary out there. I'm not sure, but she lost she launched Vegas. Yeah, yeah, she's doing this real like interestingly, it's not giving her full passion project, Like I will say, shout out because Eddie is on the streets like he is literally peddling his flower from door to door, dispensary to dispensary, up and down the coast. He's talking to lawmakers, he's talking to business owners, is putting up pop ups, he got someone running the social media.

45:04 Speaker 1: It stays he's not doing none of that, but y'all have. She's having a nice time setting up meet and greets and making a little change.

45:11 Speaker 3: And I like that for her because because then you tell me she's only like she's only with one dispensary franchise.

45:19 Speaker 1: Yeah, she can only be in Virginia. She can only be with one until she's available throughout the whole state. And the only one that she's with there's only one dispensary that launches, and she's in one quadrant. Like the girl he's in Richmond may not be able to get. I don't know. I needn the tap on two hours for me. She's only in the northernmost squadrant of Virginia. So I don't know what the central and southern Potomac fans are doing. I don't know how they're feeling right now. They're like, damn, that's so far.

45:51 Speaker 1: So you know, it is what it is. But I really liked that girl. Now, I mean that lady. Now I get it. I'm like, I'm not harmed. Be delusional, have them all they've all done worse, like like Ostacy's biggest promise being delusional about men and Astley your biggest crom is literally the same,

46:15 Speaker 1: because we don't put up with you in that white man for a long time, that little grimlin looking thing.

46:20 Speaker 3: Yeah. And if you think I'm gonna play with you about this, this dude that you off and on again about, I'm not you're sending him your your selfhies or you know.

46:30 Speaker 1: But she's so hot.

46:32 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's inn signed them papers and she and he. I'm not about to play with you at all.

46:36 Speaker 1: No, girl, And that's fine. You do. You have fun be a hot sexy mom. You look great. I'm telling you, I thought a brother con This burgundy hair was done very right, because it can go wrong, and I've.

46:49 Speaker 3: Seen it immediately in this season, you could tell that her divorce was finalized. She got her change. She's able, you know, she changed her way of dress, her styling.

47:01 Speaker 2: Even in the newest episode like with.

47:02 Speaker 3: Her you know, bang and the jacket on giving Tom Brown, like, you can tell she's in charge of her own coin now, yeah, no for real, I mean hello, she's also showing her her little cheeks everywhere she goes like, but in a good way and no sha, no shad you go girl. Like one thing that we you know, we can't forget is that on this Niva strip, Jazz is supposed to be having a bachelorette party. According to Giselle, Gizelle loves bringing somebody under her wing, and she thinks is misguided and.

47:32 Speaker 1: Loud at the mouth. That's literally her mo. And then they turn on her, she turns on them. But so Jazz is under her wing right now, and so she threw a little bachelorette party for him for her, so she said, and we got to talk about Gazelle's choice for this, but bring your slutty She just said slutty, which is how I know Gazelle is a woman of a particular age now that she's like them girls on the Bachelorette, they just want to dress, you know, slutty and sexy. So just the theme is yes, no real theme and the slutty version of she just says, what no thought?

48:06 Speaker 3: No theme?

48:07 Speaker 1: Yo in a costume like a full on ring master ringmaster sexy costume is what she typed in. Like for the Halloween store, who did.

48:22 Speaker 3: You like or dislike? You know, we always get into the fashions.

48:25 Speaker 2: What did you like about it?

48:27 Speaker 1: Not just else that was awful? I was very up sad in disappointment had no. I didn't think it was luddy. I thought it was Halloween. It was like a little too cheeky. I liked the girlies who wore lingerie. I actually thought Angel looked really nice. I thought actually looked great. I'm really I.

48:46 Speaker 3: Loved pling that football whatever.

48:49 Speaker 1: I thought she looked great in it. I think her body looked sickening, and she was like, y'all gotta see this. But you know her and Jaselle's favorite thing to have in common, it's poor style.

48:59 Speaker 3: Yes. I was trying to figure out was it an omad Sadarius even though he ain't played on none of the teams he'd been on. I didn't know if it was like an homage to him that he's in football, and she put on that like football. Then they was calling her the ass Silien or something like that from like out of space. I didn't get that, but I was trying to figure out what it was. It looked like she cut up metallic footballs and put them together with shoe strings, but you like.

49:24 Speaker 1: She was happy about it. She was like, but look at my booty. And I liked that part because I was like, She's like, I don't care, but give me a reason to wear very limited clothes, and I'm gonna do it. Okay a task. It's better than the pasty tassels that we had a couple of weeks ago that refused me. I was like, Wow, did you.

49:45 Speaker 3: Like Stacy like her like Dutch outfit or whatever? Was it that German German?

49:55 Speaker 1: Okay, German milk maide or whatever, like sexy German milk made. She's on theme, but she really won't shot him know she's back with her husband. If Ashley had not exposed her at Dinner Night one, I feel like that would have been Stacy's reveal. But I really do, and I think that's right up. Her added to be like they were like oh German, which is also crazy because none of them would have position to talk. No, everybody's dressed for a different kind of party. Everyone's dressed for a different party.

50:22 Speaker 1: Some people are here for like a sex party. Some people are here for a like lingerie like sex toy selling party, like you know, get the girls out, And some people are literally at a Halloween party.

50:34 Speaker 3: Tiya was boring. No, if you can't play along, Boom, I don't like anything puisition, I.

50:44 Speaker 1: Do not I don't and I don't know if I get how I need them to stop just cast. We need to put stock in Potomac cast. We need to think about how people will get along with the group, not just casting. We still cast people's friends over there.

51:03 Speaker 3: Yeah, the time real Jersey to get the cast right, the time you've taken now Ronnie to get them mocked in and back. Take the same consideration for Atlanta or Potonac, because you know we saw it. It happened on Atlanta with Brittany, Like take stock and those casts as well, including Potomac.

51:26 Speaker 1: We did not need what happened on there with Brittany. But y'all are still excited about k Michelle and you don't think it will happen again, Okay, I just because I mean, everybody I've talked to is been like, no, I'm really They have been like, I think it's a good idea. Even Kendrick was changing his tone. But here's why I'm excited for ky Michelle to be on Atlanta. I'm like, it's not that I don't like k Michelle. I just know what ky Michelle can do because I've watched her.

51:53 Speaker 3: Oh they don't there, Hipop, they don't watch the other hip hop clearly, I mean.

51:58 Speaker 1: And over there, over here, they don't respond well to anything that happens over there, because brit was the closest to over there they've ever gotten, and they did not do well. Everyone fell apart, The show fell apart, the cast fell apart, the season fell apart, all because Britt got a little too you know, you know what I'm saying, a little too, And we're saying the came Michelle.

52:25 Speaker 2: She said she does.

52:28 Speaker 3: She never what Okay, We've seen her fight with Carly, throw candles at Rashita, make a whole song about her and singing on her tour.

52:39 Speaker 1: What what brasing cry? I've seen Tamar Braxon car like twice in my life. I can't even tell you. Maybe somebody died or something in the second one. The first one was when she had the whole world called her a muppy. So I really need you to understand the came a Shelle is not if Kenya was shared of bread. I just don't see a world where Phedra and Kmi shit. I don't. I don't know. I'm sorry. I just think that everyone is on their shows, that they're in the neighborhoods for a reason, and sometimes that makes sense.

53:16 Speaker 1: If you have been employed by Mona, I don't ever expect you to be employed by Andy Cohen as well. I really don't. And that's okay. That maybe on something Hey and I and that's no shade, no t no shade. But I also don't want any other love and hand by person coming to Potomac. I would be stressed. Joselle would be two. Yeah, I just need us to pick someone who gets along with the whole cast. I don't want you to sit down with Kay who's brand new. Why do we trust her friends? I don't know them. Porsche, at least, we've known her for so long that it made since to bring on Shamia, and we knew Shemiah even as a friend of But I was hesitant about that, but it was like, at least we know Porch, so they must have.

54:00 Speaker 1: Some people even said that, but Shamia feels boring. Well, they must do something. They've been besties forever. They must do something fun together because Porsche is not boring, you know what I'm saying. And Louispo you know it did. What it did is she's not as boring, you know as we thought her as tight buttoned up as we thought. So it makes sense, But like I kind of need that same kind of energy if I don't know you. Look, if you're not established, I don't really want to see your friend of I don't.

54:25 Speaker 1: I really don't because they're gonna come in and just be a lackey or an alliance for you. And we just got robbing out of there for the same reason.

54:33 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm confused even with an established person like Giselle bringing Tia on and making like she's a good friend with her. Then we see Gizelle go to TIA's house like she never met her husband before.

54:45 Speaker 2: What is happening here?

54:47 Speaker 3: So yeah, be a friend of even an established person, Let's make sure they actually have a friendship or that they actually hang out with each other. They are, they're good together, they're good tax team that's gonna come on and be a shady duo. But when we saw Gizelle go to her house and be like introduced to her kids, and I was like, well, wait a minute, you brought her on as if you knew her, so what's happening here?

55:11 Speaker 1: See, but Gizelle loved it. They'll she knows of someone, right,

55:18 Speaker 1: But honestly, unless your money and your route, and it's not even the money unless your time and your people run deep in the area. I really don't think Gizelle knows you like that. I think she might know of some of these new people, but I think we are sadly out of the era though of like especially that first season of like Who the Classy Girls Were, And that's why it wasn't necessarily a housewive show yet, and that's why Robin was even still able to be a part of it, because like, the well runs deep, even when Robin lost her money, it's not really about the money.

55:52 Speaker 1: It's about who you know, the power, the people you could call, all of that stuff, because essentially everybody here quote unquote has money. I mean, I feel broke right now. I feel like I don't got no money. But somebody else somewhere would hear what we pay for and rent, mortgage all the things, and be like, y'all got tons of money. If you can even pay that, like on time, what are you even talking about. People really do come here and are shocked at how little they can get for how big the price tag is.

56:23 Speaker 1: They're shocked at Ashley's house is like three point something million dollars, Like I'm like, y, but you know where it's located. And they're like, I don't understand what in Arlington, Virginia has shit to do with me. That could be you know, Kalamazoo, Missouri, and it can be No, why is it three million dollars? I'm like, I don't know, but we have no space and a ton of people who want to live here. And also shout out to Tiya and I Fika. I definitely discredit you. You are with Southerby. That is good.

56:51 Speaker 1: I thought you was earth Remax. That was back. I was gonna be like, oh, it's giving hobby.

57:00 Speaker 3: That's what it's called. Because I was going to ask you because I did it said she's a global real estate.

57:05 Speaker 1: Souther b TTR. Yeah, that's it. They're the ones, like they're the ones the market in the flash. Don't you want to Southern be? If Southernby is selling your home, your home is a piece of art.

57:17 Speaker 2: And does that mean like she's.

57:18 Speaker 3: More so with global clients that are looking for houses in that area, like maybe not so much people in this area or she like she's connected I guess from other countries and she helps them find homes, is how I understand it.

57:33 Speaker 1: So honestly, yes, and yes, the reason why she would probably be so big with it is because especially in the area of but that's the which is like right near where Giselle lives, the area of Arlington where Ashley is, but really d C is where a lot of southernby homes are. The school, for instance, that I teach at, I would say fifty percent maybe more of the percentage of the student population of my elementary school are all kids of diplomats and at tesches of the the embassies because I teach like right by Embassy Row and there you know, there's embassies of all the countries that are all throughout the place, but really it's like right there, so they all live nearby, but their homes are sometimes the property of said embassies or Yeah, people are coming here because they get a new assignment or a thing, and I mean I get we get a kid who doesn't speak English in the middle of the year all the time, like all the time, Like I start the year off with so many kids who don't speak English who come here, Like I have one kid who came straight from the Saudi Arabia and unfortunately still had to take the ELA tests, the standardized test, because he came one week earlier than the cutoff of him having to take it.

58:49 Speaker 1: And so we are teaching up against like everybody is global, it seems like in a sense, so if Sababy is selling your home, you could subab be here only at least here only so really nice homes, like homes that are unique in value and art. That's it, not cars, nothing else. It's art in houses typically in DC, or in places that are like you know, hard to own and get around, like neighborhoods where maybe neighbors don't care, they don't really want new people, like they really do act like Jazelle Gazella's thing, you know, as poor looking as she is, because I'm telling y'all her and Robert both don't got no money.

59:32 Speaker 1: But Roby might be even doing better. Right now, I a gonna hold you. I think she might have gotten it together. I really do. I think her globe whatever is doing numbers. But like their their time, like their roots run so deep here, like so deep. So I feel like she knows of Tilla and uh oh, like you round away. Maybe their kids have gone to school because the schools that's also a thing here, like that could be a thing, but it would not surprise me if she's like, Noah, the girlies I know are your recent Karen and Robin.

1:00:06 Speaker 1: Those are the girls I know, I know my friends, like our friends. And she don't really like nobody else, which is why she'd be shady walking through your house looking at your husband, like, oh who are you?

1:00:20 Speaker 3: I don't think that t I hope Jizolle find that fixer upper. I don't think. I mean, I get it in a nice name. I don't think she did, but she helped her. I don't think that. That doesn't seem to be her forte.

1:00:31 Speaker 1: Also, I feel like if that was the case, then she would have been the realtor like she would have been. That would have been a test.

1:00:36 Speaker 2: Exactly so when you knew her then would have done.

1:00:39 Speaker 3: That each other? How is she a friend of It's definitely giving heavy on the off for the body.

1:00:45 Speaker 1: Else they got worded list of her, liked her, thought she was interesting enough for whatever reason. Probably a hot husband in a London accent. I really think that's what it is, and the like the differing styles of parents, and like there's a interesting enough home life that kind of gives like Jennifer Aiden to me a little bit like there's a lot going on, the dynamics of the relationships seems like like pretty good, like their their marriage, and she could get along with the other women, unlike the other person who is solely there for one person.

1:01:17 Speaker 1: And so when it casts two people at a time, usually I feel like I've seen we've seen that more. It's like one of them is definitely in it for like one other person, or they're there for a reason, and the other one is like, I just want to get to know everybody. I just want to hear everybody, which is again why I think maybe why you were so you actually felt something felt away for her when Jazzy randomly because I'm telling you, she switched that voice tender up real wild, real quick, too much. It was yeah, I'm not clocking your fourteen days away from your ideas.

1:01:51 Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, I love how they called Stacy out in front of everybody about whether or not she was gonna go to Jazzy's wedding. They had to ask just that was like are you are you in it? Are you a doing? What is it? What's the word today? And she was like she didn't know whether or not Jazzy was going to be on this season, and when she found out she was, she said I'll go.

1:02:09 Speaker 3: And said Jazzy when she was getting married, I must have. I can't recall if I posted about it or not, just saying and she was like so happy that I posted about it. She hit me in my DMS and like, here's the location of where we're getting married. And this is like she wanted us. I don't know DMS and see if I could find it again.

1:02:32 Speaker 2: But she was like so happy. I know they got married in Texas.

1:02:35 Speaker 3: I do recall that.

1:02:40 Speaker 1: I think.

1:02:43 Speaker 2: At the time that they got married, I was on the Cowboys.

1:02:46 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's he's on the Patriots now. And again he's he's been. He went from the Chiefs to the to the Cowboys to the Patriots. And no, he has not played on any other teams. He just moves around on the dewa.

1:03:01 Speaker 1: But he has somehow won three Super Bowls because.

1:03:05 Speaker 3: He was on Kansas City Chiefs even though he didn't play for him. Everybody gets the ring. It's kind of like he's like the Ray Finkle of it, you know, a.

1:03:12 Speaker 1: Wow from the Nodding Hill Path Nodding Hill Place a venue in Little Elm. Y'all gotta tell it to Texas curly. He's like, is this a flex because people seem to think it was Hella up, but I guess. And Stacy Rush was there, Yeah, because it was gonna have Bravo cameras.

1:03:38 Speaker 3: Probably couldn't stay for the whole thing, but they were there.

1:03:43 Speaker 1: Damn, that's crazy. Not you can't even stay for the whole wedding. Who can't stay for a whole wedding?

1:03:49 Speaker 3: They said, because you know what, they were going back and I know Wendy made the joke that because Ashley is going to turn into a man at midnight, they were going back for the Pride parade.

1:04:00 Speaker 2: So they couldn't stay the entire wedding.

1:04:03 Speaker 1: Because this was in June. Yeah, great, that makes sense. June six. Oh, shout out to the people born on June sixth, and a lot of people born on June six I yeah, okay, good for her. She looked very good. This seems to be like, oh she's ever wanted. This man has made poor decisions and he's literally my age. But okay, y'all, I'm so afraid of making reckless choices. That affect other people, and it just seems like the men, at least of my generation are not not at all. I'll give a fuck. Okay, but there she go, in all her glory because she was the one who was able to write the check and get the vows and get him down the aisle.

1:04:50 Speaker 1: She wins. So here we are. What did you think of her bachelorette party? Would you attend?

1:04:58 Speaker 3: I would attend. I thought it was fun until Angel ruined it, your girl with her her wet blanket ass, so but I would have went. I was saying to myself, Ashley.

1:05:10 Speaker 2: Get off this girl.

1:05:11 Speaker 3: She's about to be married. Would you get off of her? You licking this chocolate pin off of her? She was saying.

1:05:16 Speaker 1: I literally wrote in my notes, Ashley and Jesse get close, and as she go licking people again, I said, there she go licking people again. I can't even name you a definitive time that she last litched somebody, but I know if it happened on this show, it was Ashley.

1:05:33 Speaker 3: She's literally like a jog in heat for real, like girl, get down, get down, stop pumping.

1:05:38 Speaker 1: Get she is literally like anybody can get it. Like we over here, you're kind of new. You're cute, I am cute. Poortscha and her friends did it once upon a time allegedly so we could do what we do. You know what I'm saying. But listen, no, Ashley like, literally get down. Why are you looking this girl? She seems so mad because she is like, I can't give this man any reason to not walk down that time fourteen days. I was like, did she just put the fog and tea? It was like, oh oh my, And then she did make for her accident.

1:06:19 Speaker 1: That was crazy, And you know, it's just that the new music, like on their own show. And then it's kind of funny because it feels like Gizelle is just watching a happening and commenting appropriately like and then coming for Stacy whenever she can. Her and Ashley they are on a mention this year and it is to expose this lady. But Jaselle's like, I just got to make sure she's reminded. You don't make no sense, and I'm very confused, and people are gonna have questions for you for the remainder of your time here and even after because you got us confused.

1:06:58 Speaker 1: But I'm watching with us.

1:07:00 Speaker 3: Knack Suram it's like, you can't make me hate her, and you cannot make me hate Stacy.

1:07:06 Speaker 1: No, you can't make me hate Stacy. At this point, I'm like, Okay, I get it. It took this trip, that's it. The three episodes that I watched, I was like, huh, yeah, I get it. This is reality TV goal. I mean, the ladies of Potomac, to me, will always deliver, especially on a trip out of their element. They're gonna do a good job. But Stacey, she was given a VIP the Top performance to me, MVP performance to me, it was her and Gaselle doing the most for me.

1:07:37 Speaker 3: She's delusional. She may be a liar, and it's just different and authentic, like like she and she really believes in this confidence that no one can tell me who I am. And it's like, okay, girl, I'm here for It's a different kind of liar than Mia.

1:07:53 Speaker 1: Right.

1:07:54 Speaker 2: MIA's lies were detrimental to her children.

1:07:58 Speaker 3: It was a lot going on. It wasn't wasn't healthy, it wasn't easy, it wasn't humorous. Where Stacy, it is a different kind of vibe of delusion and lies. You know, I said, it doesn't harm her or others. No, damn sure, ain't harming me. I cackle every time she comes up on the screen.

1:08:17 Speaker 1: So, yeah, are you delusional? Yes, but you want to know what this actually only really is going to upset the people that are upset by it. It's really Ashley's fight for whatever reason, it's not mine, and I've given up on it.

1:08:33 Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, Ashley needs a storyline. You know, she can't drag us through her divorce anymore. That's done or another. Yeah, the dude she's dating, I don't know if he doesn't want to film or not or whatever, but you know, it's like she's signed up to be the bone carrier. Like you said this.

1:08:51 Speaker 1: Yon, I'm even okay with that.

1:08:53 Speaker 3: You know, it's not harmful.

1:08:55 Speaker 1: In any way.

1:08:56 Speaker 3: She's just saying, like you're a liar. I'm gonna tell you about it, you know, But that's what she signed up to be, and I'm okay with that. This season for her too, I am. I mean, this is gonna.

1:09:07 Speaker 1: End up being like the Stacey love felt like this is supposed to be about Nevis or Nevis, but like Stacy turned Nevis out, I want to go because they had a good time. No plates were thrown at each other or whatever, like it wasn't too crazy, but shade was happening some you know, little fights did break out here and there. Wendy still depressed about her birthday, even though it's already passed that lady loved her birthday. Her and Stossy, Wow, they are like, it's my fucking birthday. I'm like, okay, all right, all right, but literally the last thing I really want to get your thoughts on is also about Stacy is her sending the sets, because that did it in for me when she sent Tearmo the sets of what does she say?

1:09:56 Speaker 1: Did did she just say sex or I want to have sex? She just it's sad serious And then she waits.

1:10:07 Speaker 3: And he said you have the right number.

1:10:12 Speaker 1: She doesn't. He doesn't have her name saved right, Like.

1:10:17 Speaker 2: Was this what meant for me?

1:10:18 Speaker 3: Because I thought we were just playing like we was getting back together?

1:10:23 Speaker 1: What okay? Yeah, there it is.

1:10:31 Speaker 3: Slept it like she's so And I always say, like these men, especially the rich man, and be like you be thinking they want like this sex goddess and like Tiya is such she comes off like such a cornball in the bedroom. So is Stacey, like the only one was Jesse when she bent over and hell's her ankles child. I was like, I know one day he.

1:10:52 Speaker 2: Left his child's mother for you with two kids, two young kids.

1:10:56 Speaker 3: Okay, I get it now, the way you busted wide open, it's Stacey and it back. It was like she acts like she never sent a sexty text before.

1:11:09 Speaker 2: He never has.

1:11:10 Speaker 1: I'm evinced.

1:11:12 Speaker 3: I mean, you would celebrate last season with whether it was by choice or not, it was the last time.

1:11:18 Speaker 1: You had sex, Stacy when you made your daughter.

1:11:20 Speaker 3: I really want to know, was it or was it house? Oh Chris Samuels, I wonder, But he said.

1:11:31 Speaker 1: I'm not going back on that show, and she said, well, never mind you.

1:11:36 Speaker 3: Now I'm gonna make like you lied about us being more than It was like, who wouldn't want to say they were with Stacy Rush?

1:11:42 Speaker 1: Yeah, who wouldn't want to say with Chris Samuels. Really, I'm like the fact that it's really the opposite, because you're not the redskin you were on QVC and wild, talented and good at it. It is not quite the same thing as any and me. We see what the girls would do were an NFL player. Hello, we're at the bachelorette party. Okay, and he.

1:12:06 Speaker 3: Won that don't even play.

1:12:07 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop saying that that's about to be in your DMS again.

1:12:12 Speaker 3: You know what, when I was looking for the DM alert either, tell me I think I'm blocked because it says page either because they don't even say, like you know, it's a page do not exist.

1:12:23 Speaker 1: I know.

1:12:24 Speaker 3: The last thing she liked is when I put my thumbnail up when I talked about my last episode recap. She liked that and I let her have it. So I don't know if she went listened to my podcast.

1:12:37 Speaker 1: Damn I blocked. I love her habit on that one, and you didn't see her AKA post today.

1:12:50 Speaker 2: It says page does not exist all.

1:12:52 Speaker 1: Now she went with Giselle to Spellman for her Giselle's daughter's probate. But I I mean she posted it like JAZZI posted a dump herself, celebrating this girl. Jazz is really excited y'all that she is on this show and she's friends with you again. Just that like to take one under her wing. Yeah to Salman, Yeah.

1:13:15 Speaker 3: It's probably because I did say basically everything I said to you, I had said where I felt like she tried to give her fifteen minutes off A man don't play on none of.

1:13:26 Speaker 2: The teams that he been on.

1:13:27 Speaker 3: Although she gets she's doing get Ready with us videos, you know, she gets she's doing get ready for her at game day as if she's going to sit in the suite. And I said, he probably in the suite with her because he don't play.

1:13:39 Speaker 1: Oh man, that's it. That's all she needed. That's all she needed was for you to say that he don't play, and she really believes he does.

1:13:48 Speaker 3: Oh no, girl, I don't even know if you've returning for me to kire that you blocked me.

1:13:54 Speaker 2: I've been blocking.

1:13:55 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, it's stay on here right now? Is up a Toming at Bravo TV?

1:14:03 Speaker 3: That girl, I've been blocked by better and I mean saying door his children's mother. She's an amazing woman. I loved our interview.

1:14:13 Speaker 1: And there it is. She saw the interview probably and.

1:14:17 Speaker 3: Said, oh no, I saw that because when I did that, okay came and she DM me then.

1:14:23 Speaker 2: Saying like, you guys are getting the dates wrong. How how were you in the bedroom. How are you gonna tell me the delivery?

1:14:30 Speaker 1: Yeah?

1:14:30 Speaker 3: Like, were you there for the delivery. Were you there for the creation.

1:14:32 Speaker 1: I've been about sciences. I've been in a room with an ultra sound and they'd be like, so it was this baby was conceived at let me look at the watch January third at seven nineteen A m amm, Wow, that's really what happens. So do not tell That's why it never made sense. That's why the none of the moms at the table in Atlanta all those years ago, all of the phaedra absolutely crazy. When she was like June July, they were like what because one thing about it? You know when that baby's coming out by the minute, like the hour.

1:15:04 Speaker 1: He's supposed to be out about eight o'clock on the third. What you mean between us there's a six week window. As Ninni says, shut up. I don't wanna get dumb.

1:15:18 Speaker 3: I don't want to get you block two.

1:15:20 Speaker 1: Oh yeah no, but for real, it's about to be me next. But it's okay, we gotta tell it how it is. I'm I mean, I've never heard of him, and people said he's a three time super Bowl champion. I promise you're about to go ask my wife if she ever heard of him. And she is also gonna be like no, and she watches it. My teller sports we have to lead past and the NFL stuff.

1:15:42 Speaker 3: Yeah, my friend's over off the top sports, be the analyst. He does this every Tuesday for two hours, breaking down every game. And I asked him and he had no clue. I had to gen him a picture and he didn't even know who he was. Like, I went to read the stats and the stats said Dash that that that's Dash zeros.

1:16:00 Speaker 1: There were zeros to be fair when he appeared the first time, she was a friend of right. My wife was watching with me and she watches the sports. It's literally how I'm able to pull her into this world so often, because so many times you do get somebody like a Chris Samuel's or even like to his husband or not t his husband, like Angel's husband who comes in and she said, oh, yeah, I remember when they played for such as us. He was quick though it was one year. She even know them like the quick ones.

1:16:30 Speaker 1: I'm telling you. They had their engagement party and my wife was she knew the men's hands that he was shaking.

1:16:40 Speaker 2: That's what I'm telling you. I'm a football girlly myself.

1:16:42 Speaker 1: I love he plays for real because you've got all these people in the room. I said, oh no, you said you never seen him because mm hmmm, and she watches, okay, well with me, do you blocked body? Okay, well listen, Tamra blocked me, blocked by better, I mean Tama Judges blocked me. And while I have my big feelings about Tamra, that's a housewife that like who's life and information and news that I've given a fuck about once upon a time, and put again, this is not that, and so we'll take our chances.

1:17:19 Speaker 1: I mean, a main cast member had to throw you a bachelor rep party just for us to give a fuck about your wedding, and she had to use a cash trip to do it.

1:17:29 Speaker 3: And then.

1:17:31 Speaker 1: She didn't even have a thing. She just said, girl, bring panties.

1:17:35 Speaker 3: And then she didn't go to the wedding, right like Wendy.

1:17:41 Speaker 1: No shorting people. Three people and they are Wendy, Ashley and.

1:17:48 Speaker 3: Stacy right, so okay.

1:17:51 Speaker 1: And Stacey was TBD. I wanna tell exactly.

1:17:57 Speaker 3: She said she changed her whole launcher to be there.

1:18:07 Speaker 1: Her launch. Okay, girl, I was I was at said launch but okay, girl, let's okay.

1:18:13 Speaker 3: She had to rearrange that all.

1:18:15 Speaker 1: I don't want to get blocked by Stacy because I like where that train is head. So I'm gonna let it go and say, I hope it's so good. And you know what, here's what I'm gonna do, because it's time I need to. Actually, there is a a member of my family. I cannot disclose who that does have a medicinal and Virginia card because it's still only medicinally legal, but shout out to a new governor that might change very soon. And I'm gonna offer the contribute to their renewal of their license for the year because I know that it was like, do I have this?

1:18:54 Speaker 1: Their eighty five babes. We're gonna call it research and development, and I'm probably gonna write it off. I need you to go get them. I just do, and I'm gonna compare them to Happy Eddy and we're gonna talk about it like I'm gonna do that. It's for I can get both. Hello, Welcome to the DRV. I can get both, so I'm gonna get both. Product review loading I can't, y'all. I'm gonna do that, so listen. It'll probably gonna get Patreon first. Because if I'm taking drugs, I need y'all to be I needed to be bound a payball, but I'm.

1:19:31 Speaker 3: And it needs it's old episode.

1:19:34 Speaker 1: Okay, Oh for sure, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do it, And especially because I'm an, I'm gonna I'm not a novice. I'm not a beginner. And so if Stacy's if it's not shyowing and shyoing, it's not, I'll let you know. Okay, so listen, I'm about to go and get the rest of my Happy Eddy stash. Right now. I'm torn. I keep telling people, I'm torn between continuing your support Happy Eddie because maybe they need the legal fees, but also not if the rumors are true. And y'all keep telling me that you think Wendy's gonna throw him under the bus, that would really stress me out.

1:20:08 Speaker 1: That would make me.

1:20:09 Speaker 3: Say I thought the same too. Like at first I was like, wish she really but.

1:20:15 Speaker 1: Maybe it's a.

1:20:16 Speaker 3: Conflict of interest too, But she secured a lawyer way before he did. She had already put in her her not guilty plead in saying, how you know, like it's given half, I'm going to play like t Larsa that really didn't know what was going on, and I'm going to secure my own lawyer. And she wants to be tried separately from him.

1:20:38 Speaker 1: But be able to testify because they're married.

1:20:41 Speaker 3: Yeah, that could be and they can't. So you know, that could be standard procedures. I'm not saying that it's not.

1:20:47 Speaker 1: I think that would be a good idea, especially if she does that, that if they separate them, then it'll be a lot harder to prove a case against Eddie without her as a witness, and you cannot subpoena or if they're married.

1:20:59 Speaker 3: So I wasn't necessarily so that she's gonna throw him under the bus, but it was, you know, maybe it's some smart tactics. It's what I think.

1:21:09 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, then on that note, I guess some of you know, like one from my from my old stephos y'all say she was a hood at Bravo con. I enjoyed it.

1:21:19 Speaker 2: I did too.

1:21:20 Speaker 1: People were like, Wendy's there, why we we've never been shy of criminals. Luyne is there too? She got a muck shot.

1:21:27 Speaker 2: Shannon's there too, Teresa's she got a muck shot.

1:21:29 Speaker 1: Teresa did time she's Teresa has done the longest time.

1:21:34 Speaker 2: Gina was there.

1:21:35 Speaker 1: Gina was there, She's been booked. The Grand Dame was there, The Grand Dome got an entrance looked like an old church lady, but a mississ.

1:21:44 Speaker 2: Of I'm telling you, we're all white. Hello, she is born.

1:21:48 Speaker 1: I've been renewed, radem It's the Grand Dom to you, ladies. Although I really do think she's gonna come in on some I'm like, I'm just carrying a huger and that's enough.

1:21:59 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't wait to see this sit down at the end and not wait.

1:22:02 Speaker 1: I'm so exciting.

1:22:04 Speaker 2: Trailer looked amazing, It really did.

1:22:07 Speaker 1: I'm very excited about where we're had it with Potomac. Literally like to have a cast trip this early. I mean it's not early because we're like halfway through, but to have a cast trip and just still see that we have a lot more to go. Because y'all know Beverly Hills and them the West Coast girls, like the big shit happens on the cast trip, so we got a long way to go. They barst that out. But in Potomac, even when nothing's happening, everything is happening. But this season. Everything seems to be happening.

1:22:33 Speaker 1: We're having a good time. Yeah, yes, I'm very blessed. I'm so thankful. It's almost Thanksgiving and I'm thankful for Potomac. Like no, but for real, y'all want to end this on things to give yourself gratitude, like you know, give you remind yourself what you're grateful for as many times as you can, especially the ending the day. It's really good for anxiety. I'm in a gratitude group with a bunch of other people that a friend of mine put together from like all our life and these are all strangers to me, and up we just say every morning three things were grateful for, and at the end of the day, three things that were grateful for.

1:23:05 Speaker 1: You know they were No, it's amazing. It is really curtailed a lot of anxiety and kept me going to work, not even just with a positive attitude period. I've been grateful enough to be like I'm gonna go, oh you know what, I'm in it. I'm in it. And in the days have been really hard and I have been like, I'm thankful for literally my the fact that I woke up, my dog and my house and my wife that's it, and doing that it gives me some thing. So I'm not like dwelling in that. But I say all that to say, y'all, there have been people, I swear to God every week at least one person that I don't know rights.

1:23:43 Speaker 1: There are three things like a job, a dog, family, rhop. And that's because the girls are doing the good work and I like their message. Every time I'm like me too, bitch proverbial bitch, me too. I too have gratitude for the girlies of the Pee. Okay, I really wish they they were just renamed to the House House of the DMV because I think that would just make so much sense and it would just sell better because also then you might be able to get some girlies in DC. And those women are wild. They have a ton of money.

1:24:18 Speaker 1: The kind of moms I'll tell you offline because I cannot get in trouble, but the kind of moms that come to the school, the kind of parents that are around, they are a whole lot. So if you branch out, I know they're like, oh, we did DC and it hurt us. Okay, but you also did DC and it was a little bit of Virginia. So if you do the DMV. I think if we cast that net open, we both get to get the best of both worlds. We get the money, but we get people that they know, that they're friends with and that have something to offer.

1:24:48 Speaker 1: And then Vanessa is not as annoyed with all the newbies who have and no money, like how you gonna have no money? And because apparently y'all on Reddit think that Tiya is faking else.

1:25:01 Speaker 3: And they said it in the mid season trailer that she got evicted from her little rental over in Potomac or if she's really in Potomac. Half these women are not ever really in Potomac anyway, So you're right, man.

1:25:12 Speaker 1: I mean, you know said being back in the piece for Baltimore, which no t no shade. I love Baltimore. It's my favorite city. It's just an hour and forty minutes away from Potomac. So that's just not it.

1:25:23 Speaker 3: So let's open it up.

1:25:24 Speaker 2: Let's go all the DMV.

1:25:26 Speaker 1: It's like, wherever the Metro touches, and like make the metro like because that's it. It's the Metro goes through the DNV. We do not consider things that the Metro doesn't touch to be part of the D and V. That's a big part of Virginia, big part of Maryland. That's it. It's so and then. But that's where they're at. So let's do that and like you know, branch that thing out because these girls, this franchise deserves the production, deserves the money because they are delivering. But my main stage that you are not touching at this point, it's gonna be a Gaselle, and it's gonna be Stacey, and it's gonna.

1:25:59 Speaker 2: Be Wendy falls protect them at all costs.

1:26:02 Speaker 1: So we have protection Zell and Stacy at all calls because they're keeping me entertained. I'm I'm excited to watch those ladies do their things. So I'm really grateful for them. And Vanessa, I'm so grateful for you. Thank you so much for being here and for talking with me about Buttoba, forgetting into all of it and breaking it all down. Where can people get all of your recaps? Because I know by now they're like, damn, this girl, no it all she really knows, she's really in it. She in it. I'm talking about in it like she said, oh she's in it, And so where can they get involved with you?

1:26:32 Speaker 1: And engage with all of your things.

1:26:34 Speaker 3: Well, thank you and I'm grateful for you and your listeners. But I am reality. That's Tea Underscore Recap. You can find me on Instagram, Facebook, and on TikTok and my YouTube channel is reality Again. That's Tea Recap two eight seven six. It's in the link in my bios on all my social media platforms recapping everything All Housewives, Mormon Wives, hit Love, and hip pop.

1:27:01 Speaker 2: Love after lock Up all of the things.

1:27:03 Speaker 3: Honey, I am. I should be ashamed that I watched this, mister reality TV. Watch so and it's genuine. Guys, I've been done it's such a long time, so it's definitely genuine.

1:27:16 Speaker 1: I y'all, y'all know I love Vanessa. I've done her lot before. I think she is. She talks the good to we. It's so fun. It's always a vite because you gotta have somebody who see and pays attention to all the things, the little things, like the fact that Ashley's outfit is really all her outfits are just so that she can show her cheeks. And I like that. But now that I understand the same, I get the style.

1:27:41 Speaker 1: The theme is cheeks, so y'all please go and engage with Vanessa on All Things Reality, Underscore recap and you know, thank you so much for your reviews, your comments, all the things subscribing to the podcast. We got to sponsor this week, guys, we gotta try to keep it so thank you for listening to that. I tried to limit the other ones so that y'all can have that one. But this just a little bit. Give me like eighteen seconds of your time so that I can get some Christmas presents from my dog. Really, thank y'all so much for listening.

1:28:15 Speaker 1: I appreciate you. I'm so grateful for every single one of you. If you are not already, please follow me on all the things at Mixing with Moni and my x I n G w I t H M A n I And as always, stay happy, stay healthy, stay safe, take care of yourselves. Micro joys do count get them where you can, baby, okay, And for me, it's about to be me and Eddie getting happy. Y'all take care. Bye,