Field Dispatch
Smells Like a Lie w/Vanessa (@Realitea_Recap)-RHOSLC and RHOP Premiere
Field Notes
The Bravo Vortex is in full effect and we are having a (second bloom?) BALL!The snow is heavy for our favorite Sagittarius/terrorist over in SLC but WE STILL MAKE IT THROUGH! The QUEEN of recaps across the board, Vanessa (@realitea_recap) is here to talk Real Housewives of Salt Lake City and the premiere of Real Housewives of Potomac. Vanessa always has the tea and does the research and we get into it all! We talk the Lisa Luncheon and all the tea happening in real time and behind the scenes with allll the businesses in question. The complicated relationships between … Lisa B v. Everybody.
RHOP season 10 premiered and we have no notes, but a lot of things to say! Our theories on what’s going on with Stacey…and I believed Vanessa’s immediately. From the divorced and the not, we talk the new ladies and which one Vanessa is already not here for! It’s good to be back in the P and spill the reali-tea with Vanessa. Come get in the Mix!
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Speaker 1: Sounds struggling.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hello, beautiful and wonderful mixologists. How are y'all doing? It? Is your girl Moni and you are in the mix with Money and I am here with the Reality TV Watcher Talker Recap Extraordinary Vanessa from Reality Recap. I am so excited, honestly, everyone is all. I've had you one before, You've been on the show before. But everyone's always just like, yeah, me and Vanessa way having a key key and I'm like, no, let me get in on the key. I have to have her back. But y'all also know i'd be so busy.
Speaker 2: The week's go by so fast. It's not me. It's the ADHD. I blink and I said, I'm gonna record on Tuesday, and now it's the following Friday. I'm doing my best, y'all. We're all out here just trying to do our best, and we're here to bring you a little bit of micro joy, one of your micro joys of the week. We're talking. I did watch the Salt Lake City situation, and I really wanted to have Vanessa here because we realized we're on similar pages and she might she understands my play and I really just wasn't in the mood to be defensive today with somebody who was like anti Lisa be So, I'm so happy you're here, Vanessa.
Speaker 2: How are you doing?
Speaker 3: Hey Monnie, I'm doing good, happy to be here. And yes, we're definitely on the same page. Like Lisa Barlan is a Sagittarius and so am I. You can never make me hate her. I might be mad at her, I might not agree with everything. Say You're never gonna make me hate her. That's just not gonna happen.
Speaker 2: Famously, I have been known, I know them to call sagittarius on this show sagittarists, because sometimes they can be and we are seeing some of those, but then it's crazy, Okay, I also know of them. I call them really they're like emotional terrist because they can sort of call. I've never every like person where I'm like, I could totally join your call. I don't know what it is. It can be a called up too, but I want to be your friend. I love you. I want to drink her tequila. It's always been a sagittarius, and I'm just like, what is it?
Speaker 2: You know? I realized I thought Lisa Barlow was going to have a really bad season. We are seeing some snippets and things of that being possible, and what's actually crazy, and this is probably a Sagittarius trait, is that it's actually going to be a not great season because she's in her own head and freaking out, like yeah, usually has quite an argument.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: What it is about Sagittarius and I kind of identify with her is we are very self absorbed.
Speaker 1: But we're unaware about it.
Speaker 3: And then we're so unaware by we just think that's normal life. But also when we care about people and they hurt us, like it does something to you on a different level, like it kind of depletes you. But we're gonna get back. It's gonna be petty because we want to, like we're trying to show you how much you hurt us.
Speaker 1: With our level. And that may identify with that.
Speaker 2: Okay, So that makes a lot of sense. And I think we were also kind of seeing some of that with how the luncheon concluded, which we'll get to in a second. What I love about Lisa and this is this is why. It's because she held nothing back about this luncheon. The party planner knew what was going to happen. The friend knew, the socialite, the may or, d the hostess, the chef, everybody knew. The menu make the menu was a reflection of her agenda that day. Okay, my sister was. She was prepared. She was prepared to the girl to take them to school as it's teacher.
Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all something. There's a thing that's in like what's quote unquote called the new math, which is not really that news, just like near new science and stuff around how kids' brains work. That when in math and they're learning a new concept, if they have to learn multiple strategies, they put them on like we have them make giant papers so they can like teach the people how to do it, draw it however they want, and then we post them around the room and everybody walks around. It's called a gallery walk.
Speaker 2: We do it like every unit. And when I watched them kids, I mean they hit these kids. When I watched those housewives walk into that luncheon, there was wise. I said, oh, this is a gallery walk, and baby it was Lisa said, educate yourself here, educate yourself here, take a notepad, and that's what I do. We teach the kids, even like take a post it note and write like two things that you learned or something that you didn't know before and put it like to give positive feedback. And if I got we at least it was like, no, same, In fact, let's do that.
Speaker 2: I want you to stop at each and every station, even if it doesn't explain anything to you. I want you to know that it's here and that this is what I believe you shouldn't be saying somebody like this. It was really cute when she was like, dismiss, dismiss, that's what we said. We deny all claims. I'm like, oh baby, non dismissed work.
Speaker 1: And heaven what hea? They called it a science fair.
Speaker 2: Yes, it's what it looks like an exhibit, like when you know, when the kids got the science fair and they have all their things up, or like the art show at the school, the high school and it just stays up for a while. That's Lisa. She's like, I want everybody to see it. In fact, this restaurant.
Speaker 3: I love a good old nasty conference. I love a good old nasty press conference. I said, I said, Karen, Karen, you can walk okay, because I.
Speaker 2: Fly like Karen telled you girls at a table and said, I'm gonna take your questions by not actually answering them. I'm going to tell you what I think you need to believe and take it away from this and we're just gonna move on and I'm gonna checking every one of you hoes with the facts as I see them. And that's what Lisa did with photo evidence.
Speaker 1: Yeah, bottom line is you guys.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like bottom line, you guys had a bonfire discussing me and did not allow me to defend myself.
Speaker 1: So here you go.
Speaker 2: Yes, since you're talking about the Salt Lake City Times are talking about me, Well let me give him something to publish, Bronwyn take it back to them, So go ahead Google and put it on there. I just found that I understood it. But what's worse is that Lisa was, you can she was showing her hand. And that's the thing is that when she feels and she did explain this later, but when she feels attacked, or when she feels gang on, and I'm actually really proud of Heather for clocking it, like when you feel like everybody is against you and it's just you, she goes into a tack mode.
Speaker 2: And defense mode onlike anything I've never seen. And I almost wish if you were going to do that jump to that, because her whole thing was she got vulnerable so fast in the early part of it, being like she doesn't really know really what to explain because things are up in the air and happening, and instead of just saying that, which we've been a real admission of, like honestly, for her, probably fear because it would have come with questions like, so, who's gonna pay us? How does John feel about this?
Speaker 2: And all these things. If she actually was, you know, to tell them the truth, which means she just really doesn't trust these ladies. That's really what it is with the truth, and there tell her they want to know the truth, but I don't think LUSTI even know all of the truth yet. So she's like, I can't tell you that I don't know and that I'm scared and that it's being worked out because y'all will throw it back on me. But it's also because Lisa, you did that to it at first.
Speaker 3: But it's fine, yeah, And I think, honestly do I have I believe that it's part for the course, Like if you are in a celebrity status role lawsuits are going to come right, But from the girls, I felt like everything you read in that lawsuit doesn't mean that it's true either.
Speaker 1: So for me with.
Speaker 3: Bromwin, it became more of I'm gonna push this narrative because you had the jeweler tell that I didn't buy that two million dollar necklace.
Speaker 1: Like it became more revenge than.
Speaker 3: It just came to me like a revenge tactic from Bromwin, you know, so I.
Speaker 2: Not Yeah, that lost Bible verse like line and verse, like literally special chapter and verse. I was like, did you recite it? Because she was saying it like word for word for word, and I just thought that was so interesting, and I talked about that in the last episode. But it definitely, even though she talks a good game like Bramin's tricky because she knows what to say that she's not. She's so smart. She knows what to.
Speaker 1: Say to make it really.
Speaker 3: Like this, she did be bobbing.
Speaker 2: She definitely like she knows how to say the things correctly, but her tactics are the same. So it's like, while you sound like you are above this level of petty and doing the most that Lisa did to you. You're right, this is a venge. This is a revenge tactic, and honestly stand. While Lisa would crash out in the second episode or third or fourth after probably realizing that the entire premiere, because she did choose she was probably nervous to be around the ladies and chose to be with Ben and Blake, I would to over her little check over here because she's like, yeah, that'll be there.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be where. I'm not gonna get like, I mean, let's look at it parties, anything filled red carpet, especially if she liked being the cutty one. She loved to be vain. Okay, she want to be cute, be seen her and John, or go get roasted and miked up and have to sleep in an RV. Actually miss me with that entire option.
Speaker 1: I don't even all of that.
Speaker 2: I don't want to none of it.
Speaker 1: Cooking steak out the.
Speaker 2: Saxt day because we didn't have a riddle or anything to cook it on. Mary was so upset. I said no. Mary abandoned ships so quick. I said no, So why would she want to be there? But then she realized the entire first premiere. Then she finds out from Heather. It's going to be a Lisa roasting session. And I thought that that really paints a narrative for the girls that if you make this whole season about Lisa one, don't be mad when she fires back and she got the artillery for that. Lady is like it knows no bounance.
Speaker 2: She has it all. She's ready to go at all times. We saw that also with this luncheon. Whitney walked away in that little tight she said, get me out of here, get me out of here Whennie cannot take it.
Speaker 1: But Whitney should shut up to be honest.
Speaker 2: When Lisa said, who is gonna wine in your business?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 2: While I'll give Whitney the credit that she is admitting it was a flop and a failure, I could have told you that to begin with. That's what the tiktoks are saying, is like this was going to fail because it was a scammer type beforehand.
Speaker 3: But with me, Whitney is being four freight, so she doesn't go through what they're putting Lisa through.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like her coming.
Speaker 2: Well do it to Lisa right?
Speaker 3: It was given eight mile and rabbit like, let me say this stuff before you can embarrass me about it.
Speaker 1: That's what it gave to me.
Speaker 3: Like you want to gain the sympathy vote or say that you're not being sued, But just because you ain't being sued, don't mean it ain't a whole bunch of people over on TikTok and on page six doing views about how they and get their money back from your wellness retreat that did not happen, or that they paid five hundred dollars a plus a piece for products that they were supposed to build a team and sell in your business tanks. So just because you're not being sued yet, doesn't mean that you are off the table just because you said, you know what, I'm gonna lay all my cards out here and get the sympathy before y'all can.
Speaker 3: Because you know, she got a whiff of it with Britney on that RV when she said, well, what's going on about your business? Everybody's like about your business too, so she said, you know what, let me go on and spill my own tea so nobody else can spill it. But we already knew that, and it was more than just the Utah time, sister.
Speaker 2: You know, we all knew because also we all thought it was in My theory is that Whitney is unfortunately possibly not bright enough to have known not that her business structured like an MLM which was not gonna work, but that it was also MLM's failing is like really hard to do, so shout out to you, no offense. But I also don't think she understood or knew why that was a bad thing. And that's kind of because she's in Utah and as just like babbling, you know, and just wants to sell, you know, and to do like stuff with just then because he couldn't work very hard.
Speaker 2: So I think she was trying to move quickly and did not like and we saw wis of this also, but the Alley express accusations allegations that we just are trying to find a way to put in limited investment and get maximum output and most of the times those things don't work or they're MLMs. Those are your two hours now.
Speaker 3: When I was reading it, she tied two businesses together and she started an LLC where it was supposed to be about health and wellness, and she took the wild Rose Beauty and tied them together. And then that's what she was supposed to have this three day week in retreat where you come and it's wellness, and also you learn about the products and marketing strategies to sell the products. So if Wildroads, if wild Rose Beauty was so successful, why the hell would you tie it to a business that you're getting off the ground and do that to yourself, Like you basically tied two rocks together and watch them sing.
Speaker 2: She's not the the rightest. That's a simple shark tank. But me a long term, nineteen season shark tank, Girly, I ain't gonna hold you. I learn a lot, you know, you know, I negotiate from my cousul the best of them. I know the terms, I know the words, and I'm like, they always be telling y'all don't do that. They say a lot to people who are like, no, this is the new products, and then we're gonna put it in this business and they're like, no, wait, you have a successful business over there.
Speaker 1: I mean you're you have.
Speaker 2: That's gonna be a negative. That's just math and bad ideas, Like you're not, Like, that's a terrible idea. Don't do that. Maybe she should have done that, Maybe she should have gone on a shark tank and someone would have told her for free. Honestly, she would have made it on there because she's on TV. I'm not kidding. This probably would have saved it. I'm not kidding. She went on there because on TV, like she would get a nice little pitch in front of them and they would tell her for free what she should do with that business.
Speaker 2: And maybe you could have saved her a couple of dollars or two. She's really disappointed and that it failed, and I think she had to decide, especially because that first episode was gonna be less bashly secession. Whoever decided that at whatever point, if they ever did. But when that happened, she's like, I have to be like you said, I have to be fourthrade.
Speaker 1: I gotta be participated now.
Speaker 2: In this as well, because I don't want them to do this to me, but I also do not want to miss the opportunity to do this with these girls. Because she needed that so that she could say in this moment, I'm already owning it. I have owned it. You missed me owning it, ha ha, you missed it, so you don't get to say. That's pretty much what she told her. She was like you weren't there. I addressed it then and you weren't there. It's like you missed.
Speaker 3: It's not really addressed. It's not really addressed. Like your business well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, same because I like.
Speaker 3: It, tanks, But are you going to pay these people back the money that they paid for the upfront products to step out?
Speaker 1: How about your.
Speaker 3: Your three day wellness retreat from what the woman alleged was that it was supposed to be in August, you kept moving it. You moved it from August to October to November to and then canceled it. But the people were responsible for their own travel accommodations, so not only did they have to keep paying to change flights and hotels and then you canceled it. Are you planning to pay these people back? There's more questions since she you ain't out of the woods.
Speaker 2: No, And I know she's gonna be curious how she's gonna respond to it at the reunion, because unless she is being two, which would be a fantastic plot twist and it's an irony and shout out to my girl Lisa and all those things, and I would be really happy for her, what is she going to say? Because if there isn't an act of lawsuit you can't hide behind. You know, we're working it out with people's lawyers and stuff right now, and we can't talk about it. You gotta talk about it, like the girls have questions, and it's gonna have to ask a couple of them, because if y'all gonna give it to Lisa the entire season, because now we're on episode four, and so if we're gonna announce spend four episodes talking about these ladies lawsuits, which any one of them will also crash out, which is why I have the launch and I have been there where everyone is against just you, and it is frustrating because it has to be.
Speaker 2: She's now defended herself every since she showed up against everyone who has coming together ready, Chapter verse all memorized, and she's like, the lawyers are handling it, which I don't anticipate her knowing her own lawsuits come to cover anyway, because also y'all, by that same logic, whatever TJ might have filed maybe not in Potonac would mean the whole thing had merit even if you know what I mean, Like, you're right, anybody can call a lawsuit. I can sue right now, if I was y'all was late to this recording so many times, if and that's the one to dessume me for not being on time to the recording that I told her because we had a contractual obligation on the DMS of Instagram and emails, right if they wanted to pull, If she want to pull the Gmail receipts, she could.
Speaker 2: It doesn't mean the judge is gonna be like, yes, you are entitled to punitive damages or what ever. It sounds like. Also, what if that man, this is me really caping for Lisa Marlowe, But what if that man just loves Lisa and is obsessed with her and wanted to cheat with her? And she said, no, it doesn't mean that what he said now doing that, maybe she flirted a little bit and you know, flip that mail part that bust down, that thirteen inch bust down. Okay, and maybe maybe your side now let's go ahead, okay, and now you want Kara tees and GK and now and A K. I'm looking at you because you said Tarantis is nine been free average, you know, and you try to take them twenty six years.
Speaker 2: I've been in business with them, and I would have given that to you Angie if I didn't know it. In real time. You got a hold tequila situation going on, and that's shady.
Speaker 1: The team.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, while Lisa's is not an allegedly incurrent like sellable production, Angie has one learn something now, see now what is it? So when imagine my surprise when in this luncheon when Lisa was done yelling and defending herself and then turned the tables and they're like, oh, you're deflecting. I mean, yeah, she's deflecting because she just gave all her defenses and y'all rejected them, So she's pivoting. It's not a great strategy, but it's happening. So he's like, okay, so your business failed, and Whitney gets up and in her face it's how you know, she triggered and she was like, you don't know my business, and Lisa's like, exactly, you see, you don't know my business.
Speaker 2: Just because also that also means if this man is suing her or whatever, it's not necessarily her business that's not doing well. Has I'm to do with her business.
Speaker 3: Just because you get sued, just because you get sued doesn't mean you don't have money to pay for it.
Speaker 2: We heard Cardi B.
Speaker 3: Right then Cardi B say she don't care how small the claim is. You're not going to take advantage of me. If you want you want to sue, then let's have at it. That doesn't mean she can't pay a girl to the court, Like what since when does a lawsuit mean that you don't have the money to pay for it?
Speaker 2: Right? In fact, most people would sue, especially when you have successful businesses. Most people sue because you have they think you have the money to pay for it.
Speaker 1: Exactly.
Speaker 2: Also, she says that's why this man is because the reason like, but it doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't her business isn't successful or profitable. It just means that she don't have to spend her own money. And again I stand man to take out that. But even a social like she was there for ten seconds and still said more than Meredith did in the premiere. That's going to really pisslies off in the reunion and she'll have a little bit of vindication because Meredith really but the girl was she was?
Speaker 2: She was? I was actually with her to pipe up. Brittany was the only one honestly that was defending her.
Speaker 3: Yes, and then Brittany's the one that piped up but didn't get invited to ski shoot And I said, well, she gonna be.
Speaker 2: Mad, yeah, because I don't think she But but remember Heather also didn't tell Lisa.
Speaker 1: She didn't.
Speaker 2: She didn't tell her that Brittany actually held you down stood ten toes. Went back and forth with Brongwin, with Whitney, with everybody, like, you don't know, delusion or not. She did the right thing, and that means you will be around next year, okay, And I'm okay with that for her because she did what I would expect Meredith to do but didn't. But even the socialite at this luncheon was like they were in business together, so her having a business credit card doesn't necessarily that's not as if he was.
Speaker 1: An investor or anything to that. So that works me. Yeah, like I don't.
Speaker 2: Know that if you had businesses. This is what Vicky Gumbleson would say. Remember Vicky's and tell the girls you don't understand because you don't work. It's just like you don't in a stand because you don't work, or maybe you think you do, but your businesses aren't successful. If you were successful enough Whenney, you would have been sued. I'm just saying you didn't make it that far, no.
Speaker 3: Shade, but I mean didn We have a lawsuit with Heather too, right with Monica with the Monica's doing for your botch she said she got botched up at your.
Speaker 2: Spot or have marriage. I also think that's why Heather is on Lisa side, because she knows bad her. She's like, no, Lisa and Angie, they're not afraid to talk about Jinshaw Mana. They'll bring them up, be like, oh no, we're not gonna let anyone forget their around here, okay. And I think that is also it shows why towards the end she really they took the digs at each other, Angie and Lisa, but like because they really care cared about each other. Lisa really felt hurt because heard Angie. She thought we're in a good place.
Speaker 2: So to find out that they had a whole bashing session and then was told that she compared her to gin Shaw, which I also was like, that's not the same thing, because they might get they pay back from Lisa. Seven hundred of them old people not getting their money back. That's why sister in jail because.
Speaker 1: They at to keep putting.
Speaker 3: They all she keeps gin showing name out and mouse because don't do they know she coming home soon? Right?
Speaker 2: She is?
Speaker 1: Do they know that they're acting like they don't?
Speaker 2: They don't they are And she can raise hell with's O without them cameras, people like, yeah, she is going home like really soon.
Speaker 1: November twenty, twenty sixth and that keeps for her good behavior classes. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So the third time that it's been moving on so well, Elizabeth Holmes, they're gonna come right down. Dawn, Okay and Brown, you didn't buy the necklace and you didn't explain it. I just want to make that perfectly clear.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was wacky that you lied about it.
Speaker 2: You just wanted to be cool at the camping trip that you weren't at. She's just gonna comb that first episode and have notes. I promise you she's gonna have a note. But Lisa, baby girl, the only Salt Lake City housewife that I have ever engaged with that I loved. Now I have with Mary too, But Mary is you just take what you can get. You get nervous the rest. But Lisa has sent me ever since. She sent me her video to Kila and I down that bottle smoothing. It's so smooth. I love tequila, and I was like, okay, I had a live of robottles, so y'all better know that.
Speaker 2: So I love you so much, But like comb through it, get a notebook, a spiral one, and have I think you should know these girls arguments chapter in first, have Bronwin's answer for what really happened with that necklace? Ready to go. The problem is Lisa only gets in her own way when she like decides to fight for herself first and defend herself first. And I'm like, you're gonna get tripped up in your own thing, and like, don't get upset and emotional in it. Be like okay, so we're out and we're talking about our things.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that, okay, So what do you mean you over exaggerated and let people believe. No, that's not what happened.
Speaker 3: I was.
Speaker 2: I want you had that lady come up in there, and you got mad that she said I'm friends with Emma. That's all she said was I'm frong with her. She said, you didn't buy anything because you just said you exactly you opened that door because said I'm sure you were You'll see it another time. And Lisa was like, how was that You're gonna borrow it again?
Speaker 1: Exactly?
Speaker 3: You did that like Bronwin and such, and I ain't even that mad at Bronwin, Like I just like, like, stand up for yourself and stop trying to be a people, please, And like that's what you felt you needed to do to think that you was cool. You thought you was gonna win over an audience because you brought a two million dollar next If anything, we were looking at you like you're obnoxious for doing that.
Speaker 2: So it was like, that's what I needed to do. Why you're on the show, because you you wearing big feather hearts and you wanted to fake by jewelry to sing. If we were like you, then don't wear the father hearts. I don't know if I was Christian. If I was Christian, Siriano, I'm low key biaf did so you got steal and fake stuff. Now they're not talking about your big feathery hearts that I created for you. Now they're talking about how you lying like none of these girls though, And somebody said that Lisa would never last on Potomac.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. None of them would not a damn one because actually Bun I feel like Ashley would come from Bronwin first.
Speaker 3: She'd be like ms maams because you know on Potomac they love to call you bout you about your lying right stay huh?
Speaker 2: Actually really I feel like ask the only finalized her divorce, so she could be like, now that that's over withare that's yeay?
Speaker 1: This season?
Speaker 2: Listen? And on that note, the Potomac premiere of season ten, you're rating Vanessa.
Speaker 1: We talked about it for we can't ten out of ten? Ten ten.
Speaker 2: I have no notes. Oh, we gonna talk about it, but I have no notes, no editor notes. I even I am so grateful that y'all included Karen in the beginning. I was not expecting to get it in the beginning, and I appreciate it. I really appreciated that love letter to Karen fans. Like though this season is going to be good, I don't think y'all need to worry and don't know, don't worry that we don't love our girl current mm Karen will return, and I.
Speaker 1: Think I needn't worry. To be honest, I wasn't.
Speaker 2: I wasn't worried, but I think I needed to see that before I saw how good this premiere was, you know what I mean, because at the end of it true facts for me, even I did not miss Karen in this premiere. That's why I needed to know at the beginning that she was still coming, so that at the end, if they gave it to me, I didn't go I ain't even noticed she was gone, ooh, do we even need her? I don't want to think that. I don't want to do it because I'm my girl and I just want came back, and I just wanted to be taken happy of that Raven and her adult children love her down.
Speaker 2: Okay, I want my mama to treat me like I'm an infant all the time, so whatever.
Speaker 1: And us No, that's right.
Speaker 2: But I needed to see that because, Baby, we got a lot. We got a lot in this premie. We checked in on people, We had a party already. I was like, wait, we're doing a lot more than just going on a little camping trip in the woods. Baby, We had meetups, we met two new women in one episode. Gave we don't came, you know, started a rumor about somebody's breath. You know, we don't already the drawn lines and the saying we know that Ashley's officially divorced.
Speaker 1: I need you to read.
Speaker 2: I need you to read because the amount of people I have had text me or DM me or post incorrectly that she got a piece of twenty million or got a twenty million dollars settlement. That's now it's say, I need you to pause the screen and reading as fundamental as my girl Bruce says, all right, she got a different settlement and now a piece of what his net worth is, which is estimated around to be twenty million in assets, y'all not liquid cash. And when we think about it, well, that's not a lot of money.
Speaker 2: We need to calm down. Just listen. I'm a teacher, teacher salary whatever we talked about Houselow. So we're experts in a lot of money because we have the West coast and we even have the East coast. I remember when New York started, you got Miami money. Two twenty million is not like okay, it's fine, but also that's his net worth.
Speaker 1: Businesses, homes, properties.
Speaker 2: Including the one she's living in. And I'm here to tell you right now, the home she's living in Arlington is no less than two million dollars. Okay, so that let's take away eighteen. That's eighteen. Now like that's eighteen. Like we're rolling down two because a trust bought that. And I think what really happened is that Ashley had to rework her divorce settlement because the prenup that she signed and then extended in season three bitter in the ass. We heard that in the last two seasons ago, and the reunion bit her in the behind and she did not fare well.
Speaker 2: There was a post not that they were trying to work through, and I think she just fought tooth and nail to get it, and I'm proud of her to get it. I think she now just gets hustle support or calimony, which I think is very important. Right Necessarily, she was used to living a certain freaking life. You did that and you fucked up, so you should have to pay. So instead of maybe just child support even right or like a certain amount of child support, now she just could get child support and alimony and beyond that.
Speaker 2: Again, I was worried about the house because I keep telling y'all, a trust bought that house, maybe the trust, but it doesn't mean she owns the house, so yikes, because that's the home that she's in. So I just needed her to have a little bit more security, and I'm glad that she does now. But it wasn't million dollars. I just mean, I mean this to read the whole sentence.
Speaker 3: She came in with. Her demeanor was different for me. It was kind of like, that's settled. You know, I'm stable financially. Let's throw a fucking ball. And I was here for it.
Speaker 2: That was fantastic. I loved it. It's interesting that she called it a second bloomball, which is kind of funny because I'm like, but second does imply that there was a first bloomball, because there wasn't one, and you could just called it a bloomball, like a bloom, a bloom.
Speaker 3: He could have just parted a divorce party, because that's what it was. We we just could have called it the divorce ball because.
Speaker 2: We claimed that name. A singles ball, a divorce girl like, she's free, she's out, and I'm happy for her. But the second bloom did confused the girls. We lost the plot a little bit because I also don't know what dad really had to do with Bridgerton or like the era of fashions that she.
Speaker 1: Wanted to Necessarily, I didn't understand. I didn't understand what we were doing.
Speaker 2: Seeing a lot of debate and confusion on what color her dress was. What color did you think it was? Like? I didn't know.
Speaker 1: It was like a it gave me.
Speaker 3: Like squash pee green type vibes, or like it was like some type of greenish color.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got with the black shearing on that pop.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was it was, it was. It was doing something. But also, you know what, I appreciate Ashley for always being willing to stir that pie. And she said, baby, I got a pie, I'll go get it.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my doesn't have a stille.
Speaker 3: She doesn't have a storyline this season really because her divorce is done. So she said, you know what, I'll clock in and start the mess. And I can appreciate that.
Speaker 2: To be honest, I'm happy for her because one I knew from where she went to go get those gowns. I knew I've seen that store before in my walk rounds. But I was like, I don't feel like they're gonna have what she wants. It's actually a really nice rububle store, and so that does make sense as to why she did not leave with anything. She just needed to get Stacy somewhere so that she could be like, I'm having this ball, get a ball gown. Let's talk about you. Okay, myne of voice is final? How about yours?
Speaker 2: Couldn't find it because I looked for mine and I said, while I'm here, let me tell you rush and I didn't. You know, funny thing, Yeah, it is so funny because you spent all last season being like dating a man that you were like maybe not with and not having. Did you pay him? And if it's okay if you paid them because you were married you know what I mean? Right, you weren't divorced, so it's okay.
Speaker 3: By the way, he's suing you, by the way, yeah, so get ready for that.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And by the way, like somebody said, there's a thing that do you want to do this fake See, Stacy opened herself up. And that's why because she said this fake person. No one said that, And I'm like, Stacy's did addiction in this scene was really interesting to me, and I wondered I didn't know, but I wondered when she because I think she met with Ashley first and then went to date with her husband or viceversa.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yes, in that moment, I swear to you, Vanessa, I thought, is she dating her husband again? Like? Is she back together with her husband? Because it was giving so refined.
Speaker 1: And date all.
Speaker 2: Okay, and this being in the d n V and my wife is a she's a chiropractor in Virginia, in Northern Virginia. Okay, let me just say he's not. In fact, I was actually shocked she was doing the show because he's a serious man and he looks much better and different now than he did before. But he's like the VP of Audi, like the car, like that's.
Speaker 1: It, no one that that's what she's driving and getting one.
Speaker 2: Customizd Yes he didn't. So here's the thing. Also, when she showed up to the thing and they said not Stacey got the same car as you said, well, that would make sense. I havegly doubt that even if she's divorcing the VP of Audi, the Audi man, he's still gonna want his daughter driving around an Audi car because he's paying their fucking bills. Okay, So that made sense to me. But then she was like, no, she's getting a custom Mayland. This is her loaner. I said, what, same thing?
Speaker 1: I said.
Speaker 3: I was like, you didn't even want you. You didn't want no child support, no alimony.
Speaker 1: How are we doing that?
Speaker 2: Okay? So you was like, but the money don't add up up? And I was like, what do you have still with your ex husband? And he's gonna get you a customed outy? Okay? Because I'm like, you're not paying for that. Why would you want that? That's interesting to me. I just it was just like a standard model or whatever, Mason, maybe a couple of upgrades, you know, because my daughter I gotta be in style. But to go in and pick the fabric, I was like, are you married to the man? So then she goes to Ashley and she has on her porter Ashley Ashley, this fake good woman.
Speaker 2: The truth is I've forgiven TJ no a bitch love to hide behind and forgive me ands and I've moved on and I'm in a good place in my life. I'm choosing Zen Teresa that year Zen Teresa or whatever. Because she was like, I just don't want to address because I've already moved past it. So you just can't ask me anything about it. And I'm like what, So she said she forgiven him, and she was like, how he's suing you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, according to his rugget.
Speaker 2: And she's like this fake woman, this fake action. So she's like she she's how you know, the actress blue clocket, this fake.
Speaker 1: Gona tell on yourself.
Speaker 3: I feel like, listen when it comes to Stacy, this is a scheme that Todd came.
Speaker 1: Up with to come to us with the bullshit. I don't believe.
Speaker 3: None of it, like after hearing the lawsuit piece. And also you know, I know she told actually, or she said actually should be googling a vocal coach and not googling her business.
Speaker 1: But that's part of my job.
Speaker 3: So I had already googled and wasn't able to find her divorce decree as well. But it makes me think, is any of that she told us? Is any of that she told us true? Like were you actually going to see a mediator the last season where you actually that? Is that why you didn't want any all them on? And we're going to be good because you weren't actually divorced? Did you pay TJ to act like your boyfriend is part of your storyline.
Speaker 1: While we had because how did we go?
Speaker 2: Were waltered? Yes, that is how I thought we were waltered. And then she always was going maybe she got this opportunity and needed securate a full time if her husband didn't want to film, and I think he didn't want to film.
Speaker 3: How do have we ever had have we ever seen a significant other go from being a blurred picture in the season prior to now he's sitting down filming with you giving? I was sure, and okay, here's why, even though I wasn't shook, because when she walked in, her said she's meeting that husband.
Speaker 2: When she said someone really special, I said, I knew it. I'm like everything from the way she was talking, it's giving. I am up back again Nova housewife wish. Let me tell y'all this though we were in the Housewives of Potomac, there's a reason why all these girlies keep trying to move or be in northern Virginia. Do yourself a favor, y'all and look up richest cities in America, and four of them will be in Virginia and they are all above Potomac. And it is literally that's where they're trying to be that's where Karen was trying to be, like she had to drink and she had to rints, so in great faults and that is like not even double one.
Speaker 2: There's a reason why they're all trying to be over there. And I think Stacey was like, I'm back to being a nova housewife in Ashburn, Vienna, Tyson's housewife Audi is headquartered in Northern Virginia.
Speaker 1: Being and she never stops being like.
Speaker 2: Okay, she did she just come in and like house, she didn't move.
Speaker 3: She's still in the same house.
Speaker 2: They were nesting. They were like cold, right.
Speaker 3: And she was going to a separate apartment. She's never stopped living that life like she hasn't.
Speaker 2: So then if that really is the case, which it really might be, y'all, because he never was adding up. It didn't make sense because like, even if you are going through a divorce, one, how are you so quickly moving on to this man who doesn't seem to like you are begind to you that's interesting to him or sleeping with you? Because usually the first stop for a true divorcee who was not low, who was not having a nice time in her home. I'm talking to the girls who've been divorced. They know I have. My mama was divorced from twenty seven years okay, after twenty two years of marriage, and I remember the first thing they do is go hop on something, and you've.
Speaker 3: Been nerd to marry the first thing I hopped on we married now and.
Speaker 2: We'll go hell no, Because it's like, because if she was going through it to the point of divorce, mediation, Arabella not having to move from home, the homeworre nesting all the things, how are you dating and you're so ready to date, but you don't think that you're not in a rush to finalize your divorce. That didn't make sense, So in which case I kind of would feel bad for TJ because he's like, you used me to get on the show, and that's not fair. I ain't getting nothing to find it being tired because everybody thinks I'm an asshole and it's really us and to be fair, he's wrong.
Speaker 2: That would make.
Speaker 1: Sense, is telling you, MONI, it is a tie.
Speaker 3: It's a scheme that tie set up to come to us with the bullshit.
Speaker 1: I don't believe the whole thing.
Speaker 3: I don't believe none of it now, I really don't. Stacey thinks that the audience is her daughter, that she can the same way she comes up with stories and lies for her daughter while she figures out this marriage or was supposed to be divorcing.
Speaker 1: Exactly. She thinks, we all Arabella's that.
Speaker 3: She can just give us a story and we're gonna with it. But I always say, there's nothing more exhausting to a reality TV star than to have to keep up a lot on national TV.
Speaker 1: And I'm here to watch it crumble respectfully.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I am listen. This is the second season. This second season for her gonna look a lot like what's that girl in New York that I can't stand? But y'all went up for season one and then was like not here first season too. Leah mc sweeney that that second season was so chaotic to watch. I was like, oh, this is bad for you. Heavy gay had a very hard second season after first season of everyone hyping around she's a good house life. Y'all thought Stacey was delusion on the reunion. I'm here to tell you I clocked it weeks suga months suga when I told y'all my wife who was registered for a medicinal marijuana card in Virginia where we live, randomly got a alert on her phone that the local dispensary six minutes from my house, what's going to have a launch event for one Stacy Rush.
Speaker 2: And I said, Miya said, Hilda, Stacey Rush is gonna be at Beyond Hell, like this is what was out there, And I said, say it again. She no, loosely, but she was trying to figure out why I was coming up like as a notification, like it was like an event, and so.
Speaker 1: On Juneteenth when she launched it, it was.
Speaker 2: Also the same weekend. I remember because it was the same weekend that Eddie had an event where he was launching in another state, not on the same the same weekend. I will never forget it. I sent it to doctor Wendy. I dmned it to doctor Wendy even I know she knew, but I had to do my job. I had to do my due diligence of like it wasn't in the press, it wasn't on the internet. It was literally a because we live here, and because you're already a member of this particular dispensary which is members only, so if you you wouldn't know unless like you have a medical card in that part of Northern Virginia.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't even know if you're in all of Virginia because the way that the marijuana system in Virginia is very behind for the girlies that it's legal and is that it is like a region by region, So there's the whole state is medicinal. It is decriminalized recreationally, it is medicinal legally. And there's four quadrants. So she's only launching in one specific store brand in the Northern Virginia part of the quadrant. She cannot do it in the other ones because there are different quadrants. You don't live there, We don't live there, and it's like a weird thing.
Speaker 2: So she can only do it and knows so only those carry it, so like unless you go there. You didn't know that right at first. And I said, yo, listen, this is what happened. I told Kendrick this and said, listen, I just saw this. This is gonna be interesting, because didn't they say at the reunion, just you wait, you're gonna be seeing spacey stead And when I say, Giselle call that then too, yeah woa, I said, oh my god, face is harder
Speaker 2: because she lied in her faces next to Miss Wendy Osepho in large r. Yeah, no, exactly. Look the first time to allegedly, which I don't believe, but her first time and now she's gonna launch it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I did a comparison.
Speaker 3: That's how I realized that she was only in this one dispensary. And I just looked it up because you know, I am in Jersey, so I don't go through all of this.
Speaker 2: Well, Happy Eddie is coming to Y'allah.
Speaker 1: He's so far from me, I did.
Speaker 3: I did look because I was doing a comparison between the two because it was like, Okay, yeah, you're in the business, but you're no Happy Eddie. She only has two products. She has the Rise and the Rest gummies, and that's it.
Speaker 1: Happy Eddie.
Speaker 3: He has flower gummies, he has merch. He's in David States. And what I liked it seemed like a Jersey he's working with black own dispensaries.
Speaker 1: It seems like so I like that he's still the closest.
Speaker 3: One to me was like an hour and thirteen minutes away because I'm more closer to the city.
Speaker 1: But it was like, Okay, I just.
Speaker 2: Wanted to do it for prioritizing those black owned businesses. But he he gonna roll because in Maryland has been insane. I think y'all know if you've been listening through the summer. This past summer when I wasn't in the classroom, I worked at the dispensary, actually got my but tender license in Maryland. And because I love I love it, I do. I love learning stuff. The neuroal diversion in me was like, oh, let me fully invest myself. And did learned all about the science and everything. They got reps, reps come, set up stations, they got all the things I have tried, probably every product he had even before I was working at that dispensary.
Speaker 2: He's in it is he is happy Eddie the best on the market in Maryland. No, but I think he's much bigger than a real business. He's taking this very seriously. Yeah, and it has it has real legs. There are people I know really do like bug with it. That's the that's their stuff, and I get it always in support because I love zen Win. It's my favorite pre roll. Shout out to zen Win and Marilyn. Y'all. It is recreational. So as long as you have a valid ID or passports. One come to the DV and let me know you're here, and let's link up and two go get you.
Speaker 2: So I'm happy yad to get us in Win pre roll just you know, a little two pack then win. It's my favorite one. I always do it for my girl Wendy. I love her, I do, and I let them know I support her. And the people like they're so well known, they're like, oh they've been in, She's been in. They're in, like they're in it. They're investing himself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he already.
Speaker 3: Like it gave me candy vibes, and I was so happy, like when somebody when somebody comes on the show and tries to make something negative and you turn it into with business and money, like we know Candy good for that with the fly above the haters, with the Candy Colded Nights, you know that.
Speaker 2: Killing off that book tour. So that's what she had to be friends with her. She's like rich girl.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think he's only going to grow even more after this being such a topic of conversation because that, I mean, that's what made me curious to look it up.
Speaker 1: It was like, so is she even no is she even touching them.
Speaker 3: And then I'm like, because I was saying, I don't see her promoting it on her page or talking about it at all. So I was like, well, let me just go see if she I was really going to see did she actually get it off the ground. So I went to her site and I read her bio and I was like, she's a yoga instructor, says for her when exactly, but it says that.
Speaker 2: Listen, y'all know audiing lifestyle, understand I didn't understand it. And just having two edibles, y'all can there are there are cannabis based drinks y'all could get the probably hit as hard, if not harder, like in Atlanta. I know people get some like tac drinks from the story I got like five milligrams that do nowadays. Is a good one. He's a non sponsort. They probably do the same, if not more. Okay venus CBD by Tamra Judge. Y'all, No, I can't stand that lady that would probably hit you hard, take you to sleep or about the same, which hello don't And she.
Speaker 3: Missed him opportunity like I guess she calls one rise and one rest, but one should have been called still I Rise.
Speaker 1: Why why didn't we do that?
Speaker 2: Thank you? Still I Rise. Honestly you should hold a spacey Stacey stand ten toes, I would have all one worse, so they don't just see your name, but like all the work. Also, I'm pretty sure somebody pointed something to my attention and the name of her name, Yes, that's it. Yes, it's said I wanted to I said it before, but let's make sure we completely every.
Speaker 1: Time by that.
Speaker 3: Not only was I confused by her bio saying that she was the zen yoga instructor that came up with this idea, it says her name the name of her product, Shio means a Nigerian like community coming together togetherness, and that's.
Speaker 4: That's how she came above, which is literally these kids on TV, Yes, since their first day on TV, that has been a big proud part of there.
Speaker 2: That felt so deliberate to me. I was like that, look, that was so nasty. Safety. I mean, I'm gone to glad Ashley even though she's just doing her job, she's just being an Heather, so she don't have to talk about her life right now. Even though that's the case, I'm glad somebody has employed themselves to do it, because I like Gille taking a step back from you know, she's just having fun. You know, she's giving her commentary being funny because she doesn't have caring a spar with and that's okay.
Speaker 2: I think she should take a little rest right now and being older, please help these ladies not brewing this show. Yeah, honestly, she's a nice voice of like, you know, an echo. But Ashley clocked in and was like, you're a liar. Do you know that you're a liar? In her Bridgerton gown, her greenish Kermitish Bridgerton gown.
Speaker 3: She was like, you lie, and you lie so much, breasting, you lie so much.
Speaker 2: Your breastink And what was it?
Speaker 3: Tom?
Speaker 2: I think Tom Hamlet from Shout Out to Dumpster Dobb said when she burped in that first scene and said, that's still the deal.
Speaker 3: That was it the way like I was up on my TV screenline life, I could believe it.
Speaker 2: I really can. I really can. And I think maybe also maybe that's why she tried to talk so properly Ashley. She didn't want her to say anything to her, so she's trying to control her breath work. I you know, when I was in I have no shame in the minting this. When I was in with the eighth or ninth grade, I once got a complaint that my breath was not the freshest. And it took a lot. It took, you know, some proper going, some listening to the instructions of the guinness, you know, eighth grade, and then by ninth grade we were back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my tenth Gaby were in it. Popular didn't peak, but we had a great time. No more complaints. She skated by through high school unscathed because I took care of the problem at the source. It's really like a sistine and a little like crest.
Speaker 1: No y is it? Is it in the gut, you know.
Speaker 2: Like problematic And that's right, listen, VP of aut Eve can get a customized car. You can definitely get you can't. But somebody also said, I did see some feedback that maybe if she has veneers, which I don't know if that's been confirmed or not. Maybe I missed it.
Speaker 1: Oh she has veers, But.
Speaker 2: Sent say that there can be some not great sense and odors that can arise still rise from, especially a lion one that's on my mom, your birthface.
Speaker 3: Car, it's not like bullshit, because that's what's coming out of your mouth exactly. The lies that are coming from the pit of your stomach are seeping up.
Speaker 2: She's so committed to them, She's really getting it to them.
Speaker 1: She sounded I believe yes what they say.
Speaker 2: He said more. I was like, Oh, this is getting less and less understandable and more and more.
Speaker 3: It's like, I actually said, that's the That's a scary bitch for someone that say lies.
Speaker 1: And believe them. That's a scary bitch for real.
Speaker 2: No, seriously, before we finish, I want to definitely touch on these new housewives. I'm not gonna give I want to get Hey, we're here, let's tell me why why.
Speaker 3: I was underwhelmed. I felt like I was underwhelmed. I also felt like she came on and was very shady and her confessionals towards Wendy and Ashley without any merit, Like, what is your beef with them? Is it just you're just mad at them because you're friends with k Because the way that she came in, I didn't like the whole comment about Wendy being several years older than her, like she was leaving the college when she just touched the doors.
Speaker 1: So if that's the case, why thefuck you're so mad she don't know you?
Speaker 3: Is she supposed to know everybody through the college seem like you know her right of her, not the other way around. And then even with Ashley, it was like, oh, she used to be my bottle girl. We don't know what you did before you got with your NFL Bronco retired husband.
Speaker 1: Eth.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I just don't.
Speaker 3: Like when they come in so not and then you don't come in hot to their face, you just come in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to do that. I should have done this before, and I know that about myself, but y'all gotta bear with me. But I want to do a little research because yeah, she said back in the p and she's from here, she's from Baltimore, And anyone who is an East Coaster, Northeastern and definitely from around the DNV parts knows good condamn well that Baltimore does not claim the DMV and the DMV does not really claim Baltimore, not because we don't like each other. They're fine people. I love Baltimore, favorite city on Earth.
Speaker 1: And then anybody that has to say that it is so north.
Speaker 2: It is so north, like it is closer to Delaware. You could get to Delaware and Potomac and probably the Samunta. Not even kidding, because my mom when my mom did live in Baltimore, she moved to Baltimore after her divorce from Montgomery County, which is where Potomac is. And it's like we used to have to drive from just one to the other. It'll be like forty five minutes in the state. And that's because they have their whole other culture and life. But when she says she's back in the pea, she really from here, and she was I was like, do you mean PG County?
Speaker 2: Do you mean Potonac? But you mean neither, So I'm kind of confused. And did y'all live in Potomac before you left? Like, I don't understand the connection necessarily to I understand the connection to the DMV, but I don't understand enough for why you're shading these laters. I'm gonna give you a little bit of grace, a little bit of hangtime, but for why you're saying I don't blah blah blah, or I don't you know she know me? She didn't know me at temple or whatever. But no seniors. I didn't know freshman when I was a singer.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you that right now in high school either. So we raised a one Nebi I'm out like she went me on the road. She hitting the bricks and becoming a lawyer, professor or doctor or whatever. Like she's doing her things. And Angel, I'm like, I don't know enough about where you came from or why you have such cloud other thing. You just married? What are you just a new monague. I don't understand, Like I don't understand yet why we are being so like we're very upfront with where we stand with these ladies.
Speaker 2: And that is a choice because then you also have Tia, who kind of did the complete opposite and it's just like hello, darlings, I'm just here. She's here to just like you know, survey the room.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and jumped in and trying to be a mediator between Stacy and.
Speaker 1: Between Stacey and Ashley.
Speaker 3: She jumped in and tried to mediate there like girl who's about to pull out Stacy about to pull out proof that she's divorced, and you think it's gonna go away?
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, Okay, Like.
Speaker 3: For you to come on the screen and say, well, the biggest misconception people is that I'm a bitch. I was like, do you really I don't know if it's a misconception.
Speaker 2: Well, also, I will say this when as soon as she said it's a bitch, but I'm really a girl's girl, I said, the last person to say that that I knew was lying, but I gave her grace anyway, And then she definitely was lying with Sheena. See, Sheena used to always say she's a girl's girl too, But why you can't make it work with no girls? That's not I Yes, Statsi's a bitch, but why you can't make it work with no girls? And if you look at the current status of where Sheena Shee is today and Lilac, who also says she was a girl's girl, look at their statuses and they beating with each other.
Speaker 2: They literally beating with all the girls. So I've been plying to wonder, are you we'll find out. I'm giving her a little bit of room because I think she's an auditioned without her being a liar, she at least can give me messy without bad breath, allegedly, And because I actually need them to say more than just Stacey's a liar with bad breath, because that's gonna be so it's gonna be comical, but that's a hard mess meter. That's not as much I really want her to be exposed for what's really going on with this husband?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we want to tell me is.
Speaker 2: He going to film with us? Or is it because y'all are dating now he gets to skate by like Michael did or whatever and just film one on one dates with you and not have to do group events. And because you're a second season housewife and not a first season housewife, you now get that luxury because it's really given. You were gonna lose this opportunity. If that man with his real good job that pays for everybody's bills, like didn't keep his job and went on that show, cutting up and letting everybody call him everything in a costume or whatever and throw and drinks at each other, I would be sad for you.
Speaker 2: If vp Audi and he's been it for a while, it's been a minute, so if he's gonna go, I'd be sad for you if that was the case. But if that is the case, damn, what is wrong with you like I ain't gonna hold you like what is wrong with you? The thing you want to be out? Swife that bad? You would fake a divorce or whatever you did. Even if you didn't fake it, you file, didn't file, couldn't find a file. We can't. We don't know. But at the very least, you won't put your daughter through this. And I don't care that she told her.
Speaker 2: She didn't tell her, your delusional one. The DMVs small as hell. I know. I think she's homeschooling her child. But if your child comes in contact with any adult woman in the area, there is a ninety one percent chance they know by name recognition alone, who you are. Because we talked about it, we've seen it on the show. We know her name. And are you okay? I know your parents are going through a hard time. What what so? Where does mommy and daddy live? They live in the same house even though they're difforced.
Speaker 2: Have you seen a lawyers friends? I would no. I'm just saying at camp, if it was summer camp, teach your job now summer camp. I did do that.
Speaker 3: Yes, we still don't even know what happened to Stacy's job.
Speaker 1: I never even believe she left? Was it QVC or.
Speaker 2: If you have that whatever?
Speaker 1: She was like.
Speaker 2: To judge girls who let us know that that's the same clip they used last year and might be the only clip there is, or have the rights to I think maybe there is?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, I don't, how do we don't even know what happened there? Did you?
Speaker 3: Did you leave the job? Because you say you left? I always thought you was working there with TJ. Y'all was fragnizing and there's no no fragnizing rule, and you got fired. I don't I believe she got.
Speaker 1: Fired from that job.
Speaker 3: Here we are rating the story running storyline for Potomac, whether she needs it or not.
Speaker 2: Well, because she didn't seem to flush this out very well. I'm not going to hold you. We do want a better job produce her. Vanessa there she is because Astley's like, what is the story? Give me something? And she's like, the story is that I'm standing in my truth? And was like, and what is that? Listen? I love that lady. Y'all. Y'all can never make me hate.
Speaker 3: No matter what housewife is hating and talking about. She's rude.
Speaker 2: I don't she still worry about yourself?
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Also who said that Adrianna? The one I'm pretty positive is probably racist.
Speaker 3: And there was one other housewife that said it too on watch What's Happened Live, So y'all, y'all prepare yourselves.
Speaker 2: Robert is always rude, Ramona singer and y'all go up for her DMN day and still rude, racist, ablest, mean, misogynistic, all the things sexist, homophobic, all the phobics, and y'all go up for that lady and just says she's our lovable monster miss me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so mean, just make you mean?
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh okay, just because listen, I love ke you want to tell that to one of my students that I can't use that language because you can? Why are you mean have to mess with.
Speaker 1: All of y'all?
Speaker 2: Okay? Also, she don't know you. She works with her cast, and she's friends with her friends, and the girls that do know Gazelle Cross Franchises say she's a who holler and love her to death because she is. She's a housewife. Oh y'all like that? Yeah, y'all, Adriana, that's not true.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's come on. Maybe your friend of you know.
Speaker 2: You're okay because I don't remember y'all going up like that six seven years ago when Ramona snubbed Giselle for a picture in the Hampton's. I remember it because I reported it, and I remember it being like a thing that really pissed me off because people were like, what and it was like all videotape and not people. That was where people were like, she's a lovable monster. You know, Ramemina doesn't know all the new girls blah blah blah blah blah. Well, Housees of Miami wasn't even a housewive franchise all like two years ago, So y'all can miss yourselle with that too, because Potoma was y'all are thriving now and this year just.
Speaker 1: Saying can't make me.
Speaker 2: From your hall walking around her house talking to herself and her terrible outfits. I loved it. I stopped saying that her stuff is fake. Here's what I think is actually happening. But I don't. Everybody's like, because you know, Ashley wore her loops, her loo batons. At one point, were like, are those fake? Probably uh got her pillows now? While I think the pillows may be of a place that provides excellent replicless. I will say if y'all have never shopped in the DMV TJ Max's and no, you're missing out because are off the runway section is actually like.
Speaker 1: That, like you got it off the runway section.
Speaker 3: Yeah, plenty of them and all the.
Speaker 2: Where these ladies live, okay, because that's not in all the DJ but in where these ladies live, like Tyson's Virginia, which is where like you know where Audi's headquarters. All the automotives are like headquarter. There's like a luxury row and it's like Lamborghini Ferrari. It's how gonna work every day. It's just a bunch of traffic. But it's like a long stretch of restaurants in every foreign car no known to man. Tiffany's North froms NEMA Markets.
Speaker 5: And then Norse From's Rap, TJ Max, DSW and baby the goods, the fines, the finds are phenomenal because they right next door to the real thing.
Speaker 2: So you go onto the TJ Max there yesterday is talking about Mama of Valentino. First, yes I did, because yes they're all locked up, but there's there are sections I have seen burking backs in the off six off the fifth Avenue in Tyson's. I've seen burking backs. Yeah, and the biggest eight thousand dollars.
Speaker 3: But hey, and whether it's a replica or not, the biggest Flexes. All her kids in college. She got her home and she renovated and got on her home. So it's pen or not like that's the flex y'all.
Speaker 2: Y'all know it's not.
Speaker 1: People.
Speaker 2: Okay, all them young kids that he got paying an actual child support for You think you're saying for his adult three children to go to college, all three of them. But no, but they've been in private school the entire time. They're good girls. They had a pretty stable upbringing. She literally added on to a house, like did she have they have a home to go to the Flexes. The girls are okay and sound and didn't go to jail. I'm just saying, I love caring, but like the going all right, Joselle is an incredible mother because those children are some of the best children I've seen on TV.
Speaker 2: And they're funny like they mama. So however she got it, I'm glad she do, and I'm here for it as long as she keep me laughing. And that is exactly what Gazelle Brian is here to do and she did just that. I think you know she's gonna have a nice then her storyline is good. Ashley doesn't have one, but she's clocked in. I need Kay to not make doctor Wendy her storyline because what you never want to do,
Speaker 2: I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't.
Speaker 2: Imagining is weird. Also, none of your points made sense, and I was I was hoping for you none. Come on, give me something. You know she married to a lawyer, you know she educated, Come on please, and she was like, you didn't stop your speech to say hi, a baby, and she gave me and now I'm gonna give you that.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And then on top of that, I thought, does it automatically mean that your makeup is terrible if someone thinks you did it?
Speaker 1: Is that what that means?
Speaker 3: On the times, I thought she was probably saying, like, wow, it looks professionally done.
Speaker 1: Did you do that yourself? Because it looks so good?
Speaker 3: Why do we automatically assume if this person is your friend? I said, is that what it means? Because y'all tell me I don't wear makeup that often because I can't do my own.
Speaker 1: But I just want to know is that what it means?
Speaker 2: I definitely understood why she might think that's a slight, But I think, kay, that would be because you think that's a slight, Like are you saying that it is? Because she didn't say, Look, you weren't wearing any makeup. Have you known of a time that you did your own makeup and it looked the same? Or you like, I paid money for this, and how dare you compare it to when I do it myself? Maybe exactly what you say. She's like, damn, normally you do your own makeup. You can make up yourself. Because this looks amazing, not that it normally doesn't, just looks different.
Speaker 2: You will never know because that's where you harped on. And I was like, oh, that is funny. It is a little shady, but.
Speaker 1: Don't is it worth pulling her?
Speaker 2: And she stopped the whole conversation for you because I just want to talk to doctor Wendy. You need to talk to doctor Wendy for a second.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, was it worth that for this?
Speaker 2: I thought she talked about Greg or something she did not and she could have she should have. Like that's something you need to let go. Mama said, you pulling Doctor Wendy for a check? Support me or don't? Okay, support mech like honestly, so I thought that was weird. I hope Kate doesn't make Doctor Wendy feud her storyline, because especially not if it is off the back of Angel for whatever reason?
Speaker 1: Did you see the prevot? Did you see like for the next episode?
Speaker 2: Way, I think she's like putting a battery in case back Like no, someone should probably like, you know, Doc Whinnie acted, she all that, like you hate her? You hate her?
Speaker 1: What's why you were talking?
Speaker 2: Is it because yet again she don't know you? Which is also so funny off Atona, because Doctor Winnie has been in this same situation before, so she actually knows how to get herself out of it of you know me, I don't know you. We've served on the same committee. Like, but also to me, it wasn't shady for her to say familiar not friends. That's much more than I've given a In fact, there are people in my high school class that my wife will remind me of. She'll say a name and I'll be like, oh, yeah, you like so and so.
Speaker 2: They married to so and so, They went to school with us. I don't know who you're speaking of. Never seen that person in my life. And I went to Catholic school too, not that big, and it was like, never seen them. College, I know, I don't know nobody I know not damn so at college, I know the five friends I have to this day. That's ID.
Speaker 3: I go to school every day for drop off and don't even know the parent.
Speaker 1: I'm still looking like you who mama?
Speaker 2: So small y'all freshmans and see you feeling titled to no one to see you, just mad because she dished you. You both from the same place. Baby, it's Temple. Almost everybody from the DV.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not a like that.
Speaker 2: And you might.
Speaker 1: Like, but you seem like you were admiring her from Afar.
Speaker 3: You're the one saying that she used to walk through the court yards with her with her business suit.
Speaker 1: She was always about her being sound like you was admiring from Afar.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really just giving that girl your VN from CEU shout out to the house of Atlanta, that beach. Okay, that bitch you have mom from CU And she was like, what.
Speaker 1: Atlanta, it's a.
Speaker 2: Huge campad So everybody black at the black school what are you talking about? There's literally fourteen thousand of us. What do you mean you are mad? I didn't say how to you because we went to the same school around the same time. But it just makes no sense to me why it's like the smallest versus the talls, or the newbies versus the oldies. But they don't want to go against your zell because that's not a good idea, period point blank. And then the network is never going to decide against her. No one, I guess has gone up over against doctor Wendy successfully, but yet everybody has every year, it seems like, so maybe that I'm just like trying to figure out K's motive here when she could just go along to get along, like she could just have a nice time.
Speaker 3: Like, there's no reason you're doing that in your relationship with Greg. You oh you're going you're getting along to get along with Greg. So why you can't do that with these girls, because you know.
Speaker 1: One get married. You really want to get married, Yeah, like you wanted for your life.
Speaker 3: Okay, you want that for your life, and now you're playing like you don't because he took you to Jamaica and convince you otherwise. So if you can get along with him, damn you can do it with these girls. I don't get the I don't get the motive behind it either. It's it's weird, and I feel like it's gonna only lead to disaster for her, Like I have nobody not liking Wendy.
Speaker 2: For you to have a really hard like bad time, not even a bad you're gonna just be miserable because Greg don't really want you. In fact, the fact that you're in a condo and out of his house is probably the best thing to ever happen to him, because now all he to do is take it to Jamaica a couple of vacations a year, and you'll continue to give him your cute young self in all the ways for however long. But you are still responsible for yourself. It's just not giving girl what it's supposed to give.
Speaker 2: I agree with your mom. You need to focus on what's going on.
Speaker 3: Fin Get to the spot, sph, show us what you do there.
Speaker 1: Throw some of this.
Speaker 2: Wow, totally, here's a whole.
Speaker 3: Med spot owner. That's why her skin is top tis. She's a med spot owner. She has forgot to Caroline, take us there. Throw some events like how do we go with you? How do we go from you arguing with Mia about if y'all dated the same Baltimore a raven to Greg?
Speaker 2: How we get here? No? But for real, that makes no sense to me. Now, it's not her her whole situation because I remember Robin had a spa before. I remember that Kay had one. And that's because they made her first episode fighting with doctor Whitney when your condo was cute.
Speaker 3: Don't you remember the Glow three sixty franchise?
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, in Columbia, Yes to do, Yes, I do, because I was like it popped up my feet recently. I was like, oh, look at her giving out facial saying come get yours.
Speaker 1: That's Robin.
Speaker 3: Don't you remember the French fry franchise.
Speaker 2: Robin not get invited to the to the party, but Cherise did.
Speaker 1: Chares is gonna always be invited.
Speaker 2: Always show up and be invited to a party.
Speaker 1: Okay, sure she was invited, but she gonna be there.
Speaker 2: She said, Oh no, the producers are the outside, the trucks out bottle of glass of.
Speaker 1: And always casting.
Speaker 2: Call hell here if there's a camera and a glass of champagne. Char In attendance, and she can wear a ball down and have her big barrel curls.
Speaker 1: Baby, you got them on, she got them on.
Speaker 3: Play she ready, she got a game for you.
Speaker 2: She her dress at the same dress shop, like you know in cases an event this year that the you know that I had to go to a girl. You know you're not on the show. Ray, I love you so much.
Speaker 1: Let me prepare her.
Speaker 2: You just find her so funny. It's like delusional in a good way though, like a non dangerous, non stacy way. I am a little scared.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I am going to try to give angel.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna try to give angel. You know you have convinced me to try.
Speaker 1: To give angels. Very next margin is very small with hey.
Speaker 2: I can work with a small margin, y'all. We can work with the angel. Don't please because I think also because you're both if you're from I think you are a cool and real woman. You seem to be and it seems like your husband doesn't hate you. And I remember watching Chris and Monique early days and being like, I don't love this relationship exactly. I was like, he's fine and loves him. A thick woman. I'm in it. I'm here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know when they showed the snap back, like when they showed the flashback pictures, she's thick now. I think maybe because she just had the baby. You know, she was slim before too. But yeah, you know, he seemed to love her at whatever weight exactly.
Speaker 2: That's fine.
Speaker 3: She did, Okay, did say that she worked at BT. She started a career there. I don't know at what level, you know, when she's just interning or whatever, but she has some cool career background. It does seem like the majority of her entrepreneurship that she claims is from this mountain hiking business she has with her husband. But yeah, I'm gonna try. Yeah you she don't make you eat your words.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, it's gonna be her. She gonna do it to me. I know she her kids do cute, and she seems really pretty. It is just one thing I do know. I will say, Okay, but that's okay. Let me tell you something that I've noticed and now myself is included. Bad bitches in the DNV have terrible style. I think God can awaiting thing bad bitchery in a great zip code or location like we are, you know, transient. We can go bip about New York, Miami wherever. We all need the metros and the airports, we can beat bad bitches.
Speaker 2: We cannot dress that. I'm helling, y'all. It is a thing, and I'm telling you it's because they go to the TJ Maxes because it's more important to have the name, brand and the label, even if they don't know how to sil it. They can't afford the stylist, maybe because they're spending all their money getting the good Ace in Gabona dress that just fit and happened to be at the TJ max.
Speaker 3: So all right, well there's no fashion. So I'm gonna let us. I'm gonna lettis. I'm gonna try money, I'm gonna try.
Speaker 2: Okay, y'all, she's gonna try. She gonna try. Okay, Wait at it. Yeah, y'all be closing out finding out that case Ka's business is really pucy. It's it's in the middle. It's on the heart of the harbor in Baltimore. She has days a week.
Speaker 3: You go, girl, great location she given, yeah.
Speaker 2: A lot of water. She's in Fell's Point in Baltimore. Y'all go and tell me how it is. Go get you some ivy vitamin therapy, some weight loss management, some aesthetic things, and maybe right I feel she'll definitely be there doing more than just like moving around brochures like my girl Mia from a couple of seasons ago. Okay, who is trying real hard to make Bobby Valentino happen, Like that's when I get on the Housese of Atlanta. But baby, it will not please give it up.
Speaker 1: No, it's not gonna happen.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: We don't even want it.
Speaker 2: We don't want it. We we we don't want it. We we and we don't want it. No, off a second, keep it right on over there. I cannot, like I don't want it. And you know, I don't think we need her, and I don't think we miss her. In fact, I think we have all the deluluque with Stacy this season. Yeah, I can't imagine.
Speaker 1: We got a new life.
Speaker 2: We're good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got a new liar, We're good.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: That would have been a lot for me to handle emotionally, Like this is a lot for me to process all these lives, Like I don't like to see what Stacey comes up with next, saying to get herself out of I just don't know. I don't think she's here with us. I don't think we're gonna get a straight answer. But it's gonna be damn fun watching it go down. I know that I can't wait to see how she fights because she's in that corner with these lies, So I can't wait to box yourself out of this one. Girly bye that she's coming in here ready.
Speaker 2: It has been a joy and a half having you here to talk about these shows Same. Thankfully they were good shows. They were good episodes. We're in the vortex. The Brava vortex is happening. The shows are good. Yea, the shows are amazing. I'm so excited for riding time for Bravo con for the girlies that are going. Are you going? I wish shirt going. There's supposed to be a ton of announcements happening the girlies on. It's so interesting because it's supposed to be a lot of Roney announcements. But yeah, everybody from the old, this past cast of Ronnie who they had to put on palls because the cast was so bad.
Speaker 2: They're all like alluding to the fact that they're going to be back on the same You're coming soon. So now how that work.
Speaker 3: I don't know r Islandland for Rhode Island.
Speaker 2: We have some nice things that might be on the horizon there, so like listen it just yes, it's coming. There are some newbies on there. I'm actually really happy we are two steps closer to the holistic Well it's like unconventional medicine. That's there's a DL this year and a nurse practitioner. Shout out to both of them, ladies. I love the lady with a degree. I really love the concept of the marriage of medicine for that.
Speaker 3: Even an Angel Angel, former basketball wife, she's been a you know, a well known nurse.
Speaker 1: She has her own scrubs you know line that she's had. I can't wait here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really here, and y'all please get into it. Watch mer into medicine this season, especially because after today, I know y'all already if you're not already, like, oh my god, I click play because Vanessa's gonna be there. You're in it now and you're looking for her to find her. Listen to her recaps on literally all of the reality TV she covers, multiple franchises, multiple shows, multiple networks on her YouTube and her Instagram and her podcast. Please tell the people where they can find you and listen to you, watch you all the things because also the setup is great, y'all.
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Speaker 2: This was fantastic outside of reality? What else are you watching? Like to leave people with what you're watching? What else they can get into when you need to take a break from mother fighting?
Speaker 3: What else am I watching? I am an avid watcher of Beyond the Gates.
Speaker 1: I love Beyond the Gates.
Speaker 3: I mean mostly everything I watch is reality TV except for Beyond the Gates. And I'm so happy Abbot Elementary is back.
Speaker 1: That is my show. I love Abbot Elementary. But I'm telling I'm into all the things reality.
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Speaker 2: There, you know, so listen, I am watching Love Is Blind. I'm into that right now. I did restart reason I watching the new season a reasonable doubt. But Hulu the Ons Collection, I like to say it is scandal if Carry Washington, if Carrie Washington could say nigga, that's what it is. Because it's produced by Kerrie Washington, and so if it wasn't on ABC, this would be it. There's a lot more sex than A great way not with a white man wish no Shay, but that was hard for a lot of us to watch a lot of things.
Speaker 2: We had to come sceptualize with Carrie and Grant. It was a lot. It's an excellent show if y'all want to into it. Badass attorney, black woman like bad ass criminal and civil and this current season season three, beloved alum I forget his actual name, but Tommy from Power. If y'all watch Power, the white boy Own Power, he is on this season and he's eating it up. So it's very good. It is very I'm really into it. And yeah, yea other than that, we in the Bravo vortex in the reality TV world because I really do also watch a lot of reality TV, So get into it.
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