Field Dispatch
239. Reformed Crashout: RHOA talk w/ Aaron (@BravoWhileBlack)
Field Notes
It may have been a minute but consider this a full family reunion! Aaron, OG half of Bravo We're Black with Kaya, is back in The Mix to go through Season 17 episode 3 of Real Housewives of Atlanta. Drew who is this man?! NEXT! Porsha why would you say that?! Leaky booties to bankruptcy: Pinky and K Michelle are absolute rockstars as newbie housewives with transparency, shade, and mentioning it all.
So much going on in Atlanta! Mani and Aaron talk all that and more in THE MIX!
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Speaker 1: Sound struggled. Hello, Hello, Hello, beautiful and wonderful mixologists out there. It is your girl Moni and you are in the mix with Mani, the show that talks about and combines all your favorite things from the Internet, the pop culture of the TV shows that we are all watching. If it's making it in your group chat babes, we're talking about it. And one thing that is absolutely making it in my group chats right now is this new season of Atlanta. So I figured for the week of my birthday, this is the week that I turned thirty.
Speaker 1: The week of April twenty fourth is my birthday. Very excited, and I want to do a few of my favorite things. That's the theme of my birthday party that I'm doing. So I was like, who are my favorite people? Who are my favorite things to watch? One Housewives of Atlanta back in the with those peaches and couldn't be happier right on time for my birthday. And two I was like, y'all, what is Aaron up to? So, guys, welcome back to the show Aaron from Bravo where Black. It's been so long, but I'm so happy you're here.
Speaker 1: How are you doing?
Speaker 2: So happy to be here? When Manni was like, can you go into the pod? I was like, absolutely, because it's been I think, and we were talking about it before the podcast, it's been like two years.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you have like an adult person job, like a real jobby job. So if you had to like not be able to be as involved with your own podcast, like as much, shout out to Keya, she's been over there, Chushi Black like holding it down, but like you're still very much a you know, for me, if you're if you've been listening to this show long enough, you're very much a part of the og Bravo We're Black fandom, the Bravo wild black fandom back in the day of High and Aaron, like I used to have. I loved I love y'all together.
Speaker 1: I love it when y'all talk together. I love it when y'all do like you know, I love being on the show with Ko. But it is so nice to have a male voice back into the space because it's not a good one one I can trust, you know, and not a white some of them white males talking about this stuff.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, we need, we need a black perspective.
Speaker 1: And do and do, especially when we're talking about things as sensitive as like our ladies, our talent switching franchises, like I knew that if I'm gonna talk about the nuances like I can talk.
Speaker 3: I mean, everybody's loving this season in Atlanta. How could you not? But if you're gonna talk about the nuances of what it.
Speaker 1: Means for thee k Michelle to be on Housewives of Atlanta from another a reality show, but even being on this at all, knowing that she is who she is, I'm like, we need some I need some who knows the story, who knows who this person is, who knows where we are coming from, who I really And now I have to ask all, especially all my cousins, like you know, the Negroes, where were you when you found out Ca Michelle was going to be on the house was up Atlanta? And were you excited for that switch?
Speaker 2: I don't even remember where I was, So I do remember like scrolling on Twitter and I've seen it and they put the cast. I think they had just announced that Kay Michelle was going to be on it, but at the time, I think when I first seen it, it was an official until Bravo announced it and then I was like, oh, okay, that's interesting, and I'll be quite honest, when I first heard it, I was like, oh gosh, okay, yeah it was. It was kind of good because you're so used to seeing her on Love and Hip Hop Atlanta and so for her to transition into Housewives of Atlanta, you're kind of nervous about it.
Speaker 2: You're like, how is she going to transition? Are we turning House us at Lena into Love It hip Hop now? Because you know last season. I'm gonna be honest, last season kind of felt like that's the direction that was going in because we had with Edie, we had yeah, and those were you know and everything. Yeah, and it was just it was kind of cool that last season was crazy. So I'm like, adding k Michelle to this MITx, but I'm not gonna lie. When I've seen the first episode, my opinion of it changed. But I did go into it with an open heart because I was like, I do really like Kate Michelle.
Speaker 2: I even watched her season of Queen's Court with Lisa ray Yea and Delicious very good.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I like both of those women a lot too. It's it's interesting because I think we had a very similar experience. I was nervous. I am a person who exists in all gutters of the highways, is what I say I will be. I watched The Love of Hip Hop. I watched you know, Houses of Atlanta. I watch whatever VH one was putting out. You know, once upon a time, it was like, if you put it out there and you had an ensemble female cask, I was gonna watch it. And I'm a fan of ky Michelle's music, even before she was on Love and Hip Hop, I remember thinking she shouldn't have been on Love and Hip Hop.
Speaker 1: I remember being like, why is ky Michelle slumming it with us on Love and Hip Hop? And then I was like, oh, no, she fits in well down here with us. She's a reforms crash out.
Speaker 3: Now you hear.
Speaker 2: I did your reform. I don't necessarily know if this reform. No, I still think it's in her, Like I mean, I do think that she has calmed down a lot because she's just in a different place in her life. Like she's married now, you know, she's trying to have a baby. It's a bunch of stuff going on. And one thing that I do appreciate about k Michelle, and we're seeing that throughout this season. It's just how vulnerable she is and how open she is with everything that's going on. Absolutely, because a lot of people wouldn't want to talk about some of the issues that she's talking about, or they would be, you know, either embarrassed or too shy or you know.
Speaker 2: So that's really it's really nice to see.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll give it. I'll give her that. I mean, the newbies this season, and one thing I love about Atlanta is that when you come on here, you really have to be about it, like you have to be ready to put it all out there because the girls will call you out on and if you're not, or they'll pull you.
Speaker 3: Out of it. Okay, we'll get to Porsche in a second. I feel like this is the.
Speaker 1: Third year in a row.
Speaker 3: I'm starting the season saying it's really hard.
Speaker 1: It might be really hard for me to be a Porsche fan this season, but I'm gonna persist. Here I go again, you're fighting, We're having a hard time. But I will say starting off this episode with Kate Michelle being in the hospital still like, you know, getting herself in the first thing and the most important thing to her being do I look good? I was like, oh no, she's in the right place. So she settled into the right nest of people. This is where she should be. I do feel it. She's getting her glam done in the hospital.
Speaker 1: You know, she's making sure that she even discharged looks like you know she was. She's always ready, so she don't gotta get ready. As Phadrius said, you know, I've talked about this on the podcast before. If you did watch Love and Hip Hop, you know that she had a lot of complications via free silicone, like kind of being in her body after injections, booty injections and after not like kind of getting some back alley things done to the butt to make it pop. A lot of the girlies in the industry were doing it.
Speaker 1: I won't even say that long ago. It feels like it was just yesterday that I feel like every girl was on a you know what I mean, Like they would be in the shape room. You would see them like a on their knees on the plane because they just got the things done from wherever the hell and plumping it up. But KENI show has been very open and honest about that even before now. But she really the girls really rallied around her. It seemed, you know, they were texting, calling like are you okay? Are you good?
Speaker 1: I thought that the husband was not as supportive as he could be, But it's fine.
Speaker 3: The streets tell me that's normal.
Speaker 2: I'm glad you pointed that out, because even when she was like do I look good, he was like, yeah.
Speaker 1: I wasn't even looking at her either. How are you going to answer my question if you're not looking at my face?
Speaker 2: Right? And and I you know what I do chalk it up to the fact that maybe he's been there since she was admitted into the hospital, so it could be because he's tired, you know, I like minded and just okay, you know, so.
Speaker 1: I quick the shit on a man, Honey, I'm quick to be like bad, be bad for my girls because I just want them to be have the best, you know what I mean, Like they give me so much to work with.
Speaker 3: Ca Michelle is genuinely look at.
Speaker 1: You, like not more glam than she has doctors right now all around her making sure she look cute so that when she pull up to the nail salon with her girlies to debrief them on all the things and show up in film, She's not taking no days off, She's not saying I need a moment, and we had to stop filming. Sick girl put me in my silk jemies and I'm gonna go ahead, me and this big this wing, this bananged wig.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go get a man anybaddy and talk to the girls in film.
Speaker 1: And this is why I was so excited for ca Michelle that I was like, Okay, she's in the right place. I feel good about it. And then suddenly I got protective and it made me turn on one of my own I was I was heartbroken, dismayed. May I say when she's explaining to the girls, like they're like, what's wrong? Are you okay? You're in the hospital, And it's not even that. Put aside the fact that Cay Michelle lets us know this. She told Porsche while she was why she was in the hospital. They connected and bonded about the free silicon in the body, the surgery, the bad stuff, all of that.
Speaker 1: It's that's irrelevant to me. It's like, why would you even fix your lips to say while someone's talking about their medical crisis and landed them in the hospital. You just jumped to and assume and blurt out a miscarriage. I was like, oh God, oh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why would you do Why would you do it?
Speaker 3: I didn't like that decision. That was a choice.
Speaker 2: It was it was when I first when when I seen it, I was even shocked. But so the thing is, I actually seen previews for that episode before I actually watched it, but I was like, I was hoping, if I watch it, will it be better? Maybe maybe I'm not having enough context, but no, the context was yeah, And I don't think that she meant any ill will towards Michelle by saying it. But I feel like, kind of what Cynthia said with Porschu, she just does some dumb shit. Sometimes she says some dumb shit and it does have you sighed by her and kind of be like, well, where are you coming?
Speaker 2: Are you are you joking? Are you?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 3: Did you just Kelly her?
Speaker 1: Because Kate Michelle felt like she got Kelly, And to be fair, I kind of see it. I kind of see how she would make that jump, you know, because Cay Michelle was present and account for for when Gurley did the exact same thing to Kelly. You sit down, you're here for a girl's lunch. You're doing a key key and all of a sudden you hit her with some some some stuff that now it's said on cameras, it's blurting out, so we have to Yeah, so you said you're what a marry man? That you absolutely did, and Ky Michelle everybody getged in keykeyed about how Okay looked like bewildered in that moment with Kelly, like what the hell?
Speaker 1: And now she's like, oh shit, you better get caught up quick because it comes for you very soon. Why would Portia say that, I don't know, came to show handled it with grace in that moment, but I knew as well. I was I sure you knew, no waiting.
Speaker 2: Go it wasn't over. And I was shocked too, because I did think that in that moment. I was like, oh God, she's about to go down right here. So to see them, you know, continue on with the.
Speaker 1: Conversation, yeah, the whole thing.
Speaker 2: I was just like, oh, okay, that's kind of strange, you know. But then on the other hand, I do wonder too, what have they had discussions about her wanting to be a mother and was that a thing? Because listening listening to it too, if you didn't know what ky Michelle was going through, you would kind of maybe assume that mm hmm she was talking about that.
Speaker 1: To be fair, I guess I.
Speaker 3: Wouldn't blurt it out either.
Speaker 1: I don't think I blowed it out, regardless of whether I knew she was trying to be a mother or not. Because also, my only thing is though, at least like as a woman, if you know that someone you know is trying to get pregnant or what's trying to the last thing I would say out loud is a miscarriage, like just because like that just feels like something that if you knew it in confidence, you wouldn't say out loud. So it's just giving that you didn't. You gotta just pull that out of your ass just to see like what she might say or how she might react, or like if it was true.
Speaker 1: Sometimes port should just be fishing, like, you know, for information. And I think that's why Case said, you know, she called her a dingbat rightfully, Yes, this was dingbat behavior.
Speaker 2: And what did she call her on Twitter?
Speaker 1: It was benbo because ky Michelle been about that life on Twitter for a decade plus. Darlings, Okay, my thing is, like I know that about ca Michelle. But also I don't I would think that Porsche would know more so about the booty injection situation than she would about Kay going through any kind of infertility or pregnancy things, right, because she is also newly married, So it's not like she wouldn't know that that much more than she would know that. It was probably about the surgery of the thing they've connected, or at least you know, according to Kay.
Speaker 1: So I'm just like, maybe Porsicha was fishing. Maybe she's just looking for a moment, especially now that she's kind of like on her own.
Speaker 3: On the cast, she doesn't really have anybody.
Speaker 2: I think she lost her touch. I'll be hon you, Yeah, she lost her touch because it's like she's all I feel she always has to be in defense mode so much with the other ladies, with Shamia, with Kelly, with like all these other people. So now when it's time for her to be natural and kind of show up for her friends, I don't think that translates well on camera.
Speaker 1: And then on top of that, I feel like it's been ever.
Speaker 2: Since Porsie got with Simon and she did that spinoff, it's been all about Porsche, Yeah, trying.
Speaker 1: To figure out why she brought up her own infertility issues as if that was her storyline or something that we were even talking about as a projection of why you would think it's okay to suggest that that's something that she was dealing with and why she was in the hospital. Just it was. It's just a big a swing and a miss a really big one for miss Porsche, and that's disappointing. But one thing about them, Atlanta Peach is sometimes baby, they will swing and they will miss. Speaking of missus, I know you're of the camp of y'all like Angela on this show?
Speaker 3: Correct, I do? Okay, Yeah, I like Angela.
Speaker 1: As a person.
Speaker 3: I think she's stunning.
Speaker 1: I was about to say the way I think she's stunning, but I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know about her on this show.
Speaker 1: I know y'all think like maybe y'all confused and maybe her husband does love her, but I'm just like confused as too. The draw. I don't feel it or get it. I just think she's absolutely gorgeous and like not even delusional. I just don't think she's honest with herself, and that sometimes it's hard to watch in real time. But this whole realistic for instance, real estate. We saw that battle last year with how she gonna sell that home. It was looking real hard. We knew she wasn't gonna newsflash, who were right?
Speaker 1: She did lose two million dollars on that investment, but nevertheless she persisted she bought another one. Even her daughter was like, I have judgments. I don't know about.
Speaker 2: This and indicator yeah far okay. So the thing is and I do, and I love Decatur down shout out to y'all.
Speaker 1: Those are them.
Speaker 2: My family is, I have some family members from Decatur. But I just didn't understand quite where that was going because the house was it looked to be just some random I just didn't understand. To touch on her last investment from last season, I actually didn't think it was an ugly house on the inside. On the outside, uh huh. I didn't expect it to look like what it looked like on the inside. But even seeing it on the inside, and I watch a lot of HGTV, I was like, this is not two million.
Speaker 3: No, not in Atlanta.
Speaker 2: It's not two million.
Speaker 3: Because one thing about.
Speaker 1: Atlanta, honey, is that like it and being down and in Georgia, people moved there because the cost of living is significantly cheaper.
Speaker 3: Is it on the rise because more people are moving south?
Speaker 1: Yes? Not two millions for that house rise though, that is like unacceptable, Like I don't even think you know, Chateau Cherai was looking at that kind of you know what I'm saying at all, So I just it was giving, Oh maybe we should move on to something else, and I loved it. They were like, well, uh, you know, just try try again. And Angela's like, we just want to make it smaller, and I'm like, okay, but if you're still bad at it, though, the size of the house won't matter, it's the every day that it sits with you.
Speaker 1: You're you're losing money, not even not making money, You're losing money. According to the Flip or Flop that I've watched for many many years. Okay, Heather's husband Elmosa, he does. He told he taught me a thing or two on the HG television.
Speaker 2: And you can see how much certain homes are worth, even with house hunters, like they'll tell you all the time what this price range was in I don't know if it's It's one of those situations where she thought that she was on Housewives of Atlantic. So maybe she thought that people were gonna go for that ship, because right, I want her to stop though, I want her to stop, and I want her to venture into something else, maybe like a anything, a nel.
Speaker 1: Salon, like a massage parlor, you know something face is open well, you know, cause Kenya defaulted on her rent a lot. So that's places, you know, right there, open ready for the takeing. You can just Rea purpose it, you know, throw some of that money in there that she's got, and if she needs an investor.
Speaker 3: It won't be Charles, but it could.
Speaker 1: Be Shunnia and her new rum adventure. She's about to be the next female Uncle Ners if y'all don't know, Uncle Ners is the you know, black owned whiskey company don the owner. She's been on Shark Tank recently this past season, first black woman, American black woman to be a shark on Shark Tank and that's pretty lytty titty absolutely love her down. She is sharky too, like she she don't, she don't, she don't play. But Smia trying to get into that same bag and get her, get her Uncle Nera's one and license her name in brand out for some ruma Aaron, would you try Shmia's rumbum?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I wouldn't. Shit, it's I liked. I like a good drink, so absolutely I would try.
Speaker 3: It, especially if they do import those peaches.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, are you good?
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Speaker 3: And she was like, oh man, but I'm in Atlanta.
Speaker 2: Peach damn I ask you had in that scene. Though, I do think that the it's gonna be good whatever she comes out with, because her husband was asking a lot of good questions.
Speaker 1: I think your husband was absolutely thing out for her best in interest. I don't think he was trying to shut down her thing he was trying to make sure it's a fully baked idea and that it had they have the scale to support her in this being a real venture and not just this company wants to use your name and your Instagram handle to promote some whiskey and it costs you some money, but they will you know, if they break even or whatever, you're not gonna get nothing else out of it. But she's trying to retire them.
Speaker 1: I said, oh baby, not the h vacs. You want to make as much money as the h VAX. But you know, we see the Housewife Liquor Company before, we will see another again. So I'm excited for Shmia's. We will take a couple of bottles between Aaron and myself. Y'all can go ahead and send that rumbun as soon as the peaches land in it. Okay, well, I know me personally, I done talked a lot of shit about Samia. Yeah, I have it not.
Speaker 3: For me this season.
Speaker 1: It started with the hair. Yeah hair in that first episode. The hair so far has been it's been challenging. That mullet from Portia's party was difficult for me. Confessionals are good in person. We are all having challenges. We're just doing our best with whatever we can afford, and that's been dry cleaned, and so I get it. Yeah, you know, Shmi's not my fav I kind of liked her as Porsia's friend. I do think she's hilarious in confessionals her and Porsia being separated or split up, though now, to be honest, I think it kind of sullied my view by like thirteen percent for both of them, like both of them, I'm a little less enchanted by now that they're like just kind of hole separate, a little less whimsy in there because they don't have a you know, then I like a little girl girl back and forth, you know, like with the Green Eye Bandits for instance, I like Robbing, I like Robin wi Giselle.
Speaker 1: Because I like them together. It balances out the meat and girl ness, right, It balances that I'll be giving them a little whimsy when they're together, a little freakin' frek action. Not having that for either Smiah or Porscha when that's kind of how we met her. Shemia, It's like it's a little difficult because now I'm just like, I don't know how to feel her husband and I love her kids. You know, she's a good mom. She does great confessionals. But it's just like it's giving, take or leave. I could, I could, you know what I mean, it's not that captivating to where I need us to be here.
Speaker 1: And if we're not fighting with Porsche, not that I want us to, but if we're not, I just really don't know what to do with you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, but I am trying to be optimistic about it because I and I said this, I don't know what podcasts I think it was. Maybe it was online.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I can't keep up y'all. But I said that I feel bad for Shamiyah now because I feel like there's just so much shit that she's getting. And I do feel for her knowing that this is your second season, and I'm pretty sure it's hard to navigate throughout through all the hate that you're receiving online and how people are receiving you when they're watching the show. It's like, I imagine that's that's kind of tough tech year. So it's like, I really I want her to have a redemption.
Speaker 1: Art Okay, So yeah, okay, I mean she's not having a season, so bad that she should even be fired. I just want to know what we're doing, what her purpose it's going to be on this show. Where does she fit in, because it's certainly not with Kelly for me, because Kelly doesn't fit enough for me for me to be like, okay, Kelly and Shamia out there, you know. But I do like Shemiah as like an individual, and I think I understand why they would pick her for the shell, like why she would be on the show. To be honest, I'd take Shamia sticking around longer than I would Angela, and that my you know, be unpopular for some of y'all, but I just I feel like she, Yeah, she's a lot.
Speaker 1: There's a lot more there for me if we're gonna do anything. At the very least, the husband in the HVAC I'm interested in. Like the money that house is big. Is it all appliances that heat and cool? We don't know, But if it's not, I don't care. Welcome to Housewives, That's how it goes. Speaking of financial woes and thurlies doing their best with the businesses that they have Lord and the money that God gave them. I do really want to commend our girl. This new or newcomer Pinky Coal season. I mean, she is one of the most notable black woman business owners in America.
Speaker 1: I've known about Pinky for many, many years. One thing that I love that she's bringing fresh and new to this show. Thought it was a good casting before, but never, especially if you're someone like me who is suffering through Beverly Hills right now and has for years. Never in my life have I seen someone be so open so early in their first season about their financial woes. Baby. She told her she got so many twenty million dollars in low she said, the lawsuits are abundant. We saw her meeting with a bankruptcy attorney.
Speaker 1: It made me really sad to hear that she did it, you know nobody. She still has yet to tell her husband. She ha done told us like four times, but she ain't told her husband. And so I kind of feel bad for that man because he does seem like he loves her and wants to help her.
Speaker 3: And I also feel bad for Pinky a little.
Speaker 1: Bit because it seems like she's had to be the strong woman for her for so long and he fell in love with her as the strong, rich entrepreneur Tie like that was his friend as that. So now that she's in this vulnerable financial state where she's being sued and has to consider bankruptcy or a kind of bankruptcy, it think it makes her feel a little bit like embarrassed in front.
Speaker 3: Of her husband.
Speaker 1: But like he's such a good man, Savannah, I think you should just go ahead and let him in.
Speaker 2: I think so too, because he was really ready to help her.
Speaker 1: People was like, what do you need for me financially and spiritually? I want this off your heart. I want this off your I want you to be unburdened my love. I said, Oh, a man, a king, Now that's a man. I don't mind, y'all go ahead and being a little a bird brained for okay, Like why Mariah Buckles can't fall in love with a man like that, I don't know. But here we are. I'm very proud of Thank you for being honest with us, keeping in a buck, letting us know. Like I mean, Mauricio had been sued how many times and we were like, we just want to know about one of them, like what's going on?
Speaker 1: They're all okay, and we've never found out like ever, Pino just sat down, good and was like, yeah, they want this. Apparently they were playing the Javonta Davis fight and we didn't have the rights or whatever of that, so we owe them one hundred K.
Speaker 3: And I'm like okay.
Speaker 1: And she's a personal guarantor for everything, so there's a lot of financial stress on her and so I'm like, I'm starting to understand and see an unpack why she might be on this show. I do think this was a great move for her because not only can it help her financially, she talked about what she wants from friends, you know, she wants to be surrounded by women who even in the vulnerable and the hard things and the caddiness, but they could grow together that they're trying to get through stuff, you know, together and better their lives.
Speaker 3: And I think that overall, wink wink.
Speaker 1: Asterisk, that's supposed to be what we are all here for, what they like to tell us, that the guys of these groups are when we're watching, you know, for how lives. So I hope she at least can get some of that. But ultimately I'm just so I'm grateful that she's so open with us and that we get to see so much of her life, like seeing her sit down with the bankruptcy attorney in one episode, in the same episode as her having date night and talking to her husband about why she's having a hard time talking to him.
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, we're getting the real look for real at the real house.
Speaker 1: No, for real.
Speaker 2: The last episode. That's what I was wondering too. I'm like, Okay, when are we going to get into the finances?
Speaker 1: Right? I was like, I hope we don't go to that many openings and stuff of things that I know are.
Speaker 2: Close, right, And that's what I was. I was kind of scared. I was kind of nervous because I'm like, that's gonna be embarrassing if she takes us through all of this and then the shit ends up shutting down. But to see that she's telling us about the the attorneys in what's going on and her being sued, and I'm like, not the fight, not you not knowing about the fight too being played in your establishment. And that was an eye open there for me because I never even get sued for some shit like that.
Speaker 1: Exactly. These are rich people problems because again, even with the bankruptcy, it can't like just like with carrying you or said you have to make millions to oh millions. She's filing because she has a lot of things that she cannot pay right now. Need people to slow down and call stop calling her phone so she can figure it out and figure out who gets what money where. It pauses all of those things for you, right, But do me not be confused. She got that money because she earned that money. Them businesses that Suddy vegan, don't play honey that began cheeseburger don't quit.
Speaker 1: Oh it's baby, it's busting like it'll have you thinking that you went to a shape. It's better than shakeshack to me.
Speaker 2: And that's the thing I want to try to because I did see one in Atlanta when I was when I was there, I wouldn't say they were opening one in the airport in Atlanta's airport. Yeah yeah, and that's the one. I was like, I cannot wait to come back so I can sit here and try this food. So but I do want the best for her. I will say it made me like her a whole lot more. Didn't really appreciate the little slide comments that she made about Fadri because you know, I like, I know and.
Speaker 3: Well listen, Fadri can hold her own, mister tennis ball head.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. One thing about faith Fe I don't know about Pinky's like read log. I don't know how good she is at that, but because she is going back and forth with her a little bit on the internet. But like, you do need to have that your wits about you on this group, they do do it. I'm not worried about Kay Michelle because, like she reminded us, if you don't know, now you know toxic tweet. K Michelle has been doing this thing. She had that game online for about a decade plus. Babes, never forget when she had Tamar Braxton crying on her own goddamn talk show because she had the world calling her because Kay had the world calling her a muppet, she got the world.
Speaker 2: I remember that on the real and you.
Speaker 1: Know, Adrian and Tamara were like no, it was when Tamara moved her hair to like look and Lannie couldn't even look at the car. She said, you see, so this shit is probably funny as hell to her. K Michelle has been reckless on Twitter. She what's crazy is like you think Candice Dealer Bassett is horrible on Twitter, y'all don't know Ca Michelle. I am scared of Kamashell on Twitter being the last like ten years. Okay, they went through some of the tweets that she was talking about. She doesn't She indeed called Porsche a benbo.
Speaker 1: She get on there and get the SUBBN. She get the subtweet and take it out like a ak. She'd like, you could all get the tweets activated? Like what you mean, girl, what's going on?
Speaker 2: I'm glad that they've sorted that out though, because I don't want to see and beef. I'm like, there's too many people. If so, it's too many people against Porsche, and I don't like that.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Yeah, I do need balance, I need Porsche to be okay with somebody. But I also don't think that any of them really want to be at beef for it ends with ky Michelle because she does have star power. I mean, like all these girls are stars in their own right. Cay Michelle is an established individual. This is a thing like breaking into the country music scene is what she can do after she is conquered being a certified R and B singer, you know what I mean, Like she's getting back to her roots after making a very very big like stay in a big presence in the music community.
Speaker 1: Like again I sing right now. I think one of her songs is on TikTok. I think the youth have made VSOP a trending sound, and there's like a little trend and things.
Speaker 2: I'm oh, my gosh, I missed those South that was.
Speaker 3: That was my toe even before I drink it.
Speaker 1: We don't like, before I even knew what it was. Yeah, I had no idea and I didn't google it til years later because I wasn't that interested or comes from fifth. I was a youth.
Speaker 3: I was a.
Speaker 1: Teenager singing about some goddamn special hennessy and putting it on ice and getting a bath roller.
Speaker 2: I remember when when k Michelle used to do the little colorful streaks in the air when she was on A one Oh Sister in part countdown. And that's when I really like K Michelle's music. Now I kind of fell out of it. I can't say I dislike it because I haven't really heard it well.
Speaker 3: I had no interesting country.
Speaker 2: That's the thing. It's not for me.
Speaker 1: I like, for instance, let me make I mean, I do I like some some country girlies here and there. I'm a of the girls. I do like a Maren Morris you know single. I do like one of those, you know a little bit of Kelsey Beallerini a single, you know a little bit of that. Y'all got a lot of problematic people over there, so it's really hard to navigate, kind of like a mine field of like, you know, who I like, and then I hear them on the radio and then all of a sudden someone's.
Speaker 3: Like, well, you know, they use the N word regularly.
Speaker 1: So there's that. So the only analogy I can give you is that I respect country music.
Speaker 3: I respect black people in country music.
Speaker 1: But much like me being a Bee Hiver, I put Cowboy Carter on a shelf to reach for when I'm in the mood for Cowboy Carter, but it is not my favorite Beyonce album. I'm not reaching for of the be If I want to play Beyonce, I'm not going.
Speaker 2: From alb I feel like that's very important.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so I'll tell you it depends. It does depend on the bipolarness of my mood. So if it's Spring, it's if it's fall, it's self titled. But either way, those are great answers then for real, but also I think ultimately and this is an underrated one, like overall that I will listen to start to finish, no problem, and saying the whole thing in the shower four four, I will sing four. All those ballads are so damn beautiful. She Frank Ocean wrote one plus one please, it's such a good album. Just like again, if I wouldn't pull Beyonce's country album, that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Is someone who makes perfect music as Beyonce does, if I wouldn't pull hers readily off the show, then it's hard for me to get into anybody else's. But like, no, she knows shade that came Michelle and I do think we should have saw whatever we could from that footage. We should have seen more of her performing than I was at historic major event, and I was very happy for her at the Country Music Awards speaking from the.
Speaker 2: Ass, they only had like maybe three.
Speaker 1: Seconds, three seconds we did even see it. Really open our mouth and why not again she was linking from her ass.
Speaker 2: This is dedication, but you know they don't really that's another story. That's I'm not even gonna go there.
Speaker 3: But Okay, all right, he's not gonna We're not gonna tell you.
Speaker 2: You know what. You know what's going I do.
Speaker 1: I do know what's something. I don't know what's going on. And the last thing I'm going to ask about today is mister black with two k's what I.
Speaker 2: Don't like it.
Speaker 1: I don't I was not expecting him to pop off the phone. And that's to get a real date with this man in the.
Speaker 2: Kissed me off so bad that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the working all the time, because if you know, in real time I've talked about it a few times on the show. In real time, Drew was having an issue with the courts because I guess she's working so much that.
Speaker 3: The kid's not going to school on time.
Speaker 1: That not on to the counseling meetings and the therapy sessions on time. And these are things that are court mandated, especially when court tells you to take them kids to therapy while y'all are out here fussing and fighting in the streets.
Speaker 3: You take those kids to therapy if.
Speaker 1: You want to keep them. You don't make the judge mad in these type of situations, or they do like what they did and they go ahead and tell Drew to kick hit the bricks and the rauph and the kids will stay in the house and he could come up from the basement. So I'm confused as to one Drew's priorities, right, because we're seeing black right, y'all snuggling, cuddling and holding hands. But y'all o dating and you just want to be his friends, So then why am I sitting down with him? He talks a lot of sweet nothings.
Speaker 1: He says he had a line for everything. Child. I was surprised to hear he was not from Atlanta because he was just coming out with oh oh, he was just like the sweet nothings were.
Speaker 2: Where is he from?
Speaker 3: Let me see?
Speaker 1: I don't know, but she said that he was like he came up to Atlanta, he came he came to Atlanta to Georgia for her, And I'm like, oh he did, But y'all, friends, I'm just confused.
Speaker 3: I don't travel for.
Speaker 2: Her that much sense. And it was embarrassing too, because this is not embarrassing the type of man that you put on the show, Like I can understand her having a little thing like what you're going to do on the side, like right, but does have some fun, have some fun. But to take this shiit serious? Absolutely not. And you were not playing my face like this when I've been defending you. Absolutely not get him off the show immediately. I don't know what's going.
Speaker 1: For your kids, girl. He plans on meeting them, and you're, oh my god. And he said with benefits they make me cry. That's kind of affirming the behavior. What's going on?
Speaker 2: What's happening Drew, because he's like, yeah, I'll buy anything for friends with benefits to sleep with you. And this is not the worst thing, it's.
Speaker 3: Not, but when you have kids. Yet again, I'm.
Speaker 1: Confused because because we're also seeing her work a lot, or say she's working a lot, and because she said acting paying the bills, but according to the finances, they ain't paying that many bills.
Speaker 2: It's just I'm not okay. So the thing is, I'm definitely not trying to take away from her movies and all the stuff that she's done. But this is one movie that I know about. What else?
Speaker 3: What else is there? What else are you acting in?
Speaker 1: It must be like a lifetime movie or something that I'm missing from the game or where where is it even still airing on streaming exactly. Yeah, it's on streaming, But like, I don't think that's how. I don't think that the resigs work anymore. Yeah, I don't think so. I think she's she's still going through this stffores and that she is uh not, she's making money from this this show that we're watching, and she's making music now allegedly with Drew, I mean with up Porscha's ex baby Daddy, which made no sense to me because he makes hot dogs, not tracks, but old and it was good.
Speaker 2: I will say, like they they went in the studio and they did something. That album was not bad at all. Now do I listen to it? No, I have listened to like maybe once or twice.
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, I just saw something that is gonna rock your world because I'm looking to find out what the hell she do, what movies or whatever she is? She didn't Drew tell us that she had never heard of ky Michelle or she ain't keep up with her music like that? Yeah? Why? Apparently on the last on her album in March of twenty twenty five that she released, she did a whole song featuring rapper now Sierra Gates from Love and Hip Hop Atlanta. So you know who Sierra is from Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, but you don't know who ca Michelle is.
Speaker 2: Okay, So to be fair, maybe Dennis brought her the talent because that's what I would like this because I would not know who in the hell Sierra Gates is. The Only reason I know her is because I think the cooking show show.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's the glad factor. I remember when she when she started the show.
Speaker 2: And very successful. Shout out to her.
Speaker 1: But I just I just don't know Drew. I just know she knows who Michelle is. Aside from that, she she knows who Michelle is.
Speaker 3: If you were if we know who you were on the game.
Speaker 1: You know who Michelle is. You just do yeah, never letting her live down the action.
Speaker 2: He's a nice story too. That's the thing with dreind of that house gets you a three two town home and be like britt Edie, because britt Edie definitely had her. I think it was a three two situation. And cameras were downstairs and strictly in that kitchen and in that living room. She did not take cameras anywhere else in that house. You will not, and I respect it or for you weren't gonna see any of that.
Speaker 1: And I respect it. Yeah, okay, So apparently Drew was gonna choosing two movies in twenty twenty five. Neither of them have blue hyperlinks on Wikipedia, so they must not have been well produced. Yeah right, A Demon's Revenge and Run. She's gonna be in twin a movie this year. No words on that, you know, I will say, though. The only grace I give her because again, playing yourself and being a villain, a home wrecking whore on a TV show, a syndicated comedy, and then like naming the character after yourself, bad idea.
Speaker 1: I'm never forgiving you for what you did to Melanie and Darrown. Okay, but I do forgive you or like love you, because she was Chantelle on That's a Raven And that's one of my favorite That's a Raven episodes, I do. Wasn't that the one where you got the Z.
Speaker 3: Yes and she Eddie wanted to kiss her and then I kiss her.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 3: That's one of my absolute favorites.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I really love black.
Speaker 3: People so much.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's so good. Even when I don't like you on this show, Drew, you are a part of my The reason I don't like you right now is because I feel like I know you, like I can judge your choices because they have been a part of my like pop culture upbringing since like two thousand and two. But she's.
Speaker 3: She is me off.
Speaker 2: It's like a you know, one of those cousins that you have, like a family member, where it's like you want to see them do good and you see all the potential and they're just fucking up left and right. That's what Drew reminds me of. Yes, you just want to shake them real quick and be like, wake up because you have You're getting the check from Housewives of Atlanta, get your three two and be done with it.
Speaker 1: You don't need a man right now. We don't need to be looking at you figuring out things with Black or even Tye Young last year.
Speaker 3: We don't need any of that.
Speaker 1: And I know she's big mad that she couldn't do the full lesbian rollout like Portia get to do.
Speaker 2: I thought that was so funny. Oh the last episode where you're living my life, so you're stealing my whole life.
Speaker 1: Now, basically my storyline is your Porscha said, yeah, listen and at least. I don't know if that was her taking ownership and admitting to it or if it was her just joking around.
Speaker 2: You never know what you but I kind of like that because I'm like, yeah, that's how you should be.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you just never but then you should really just I think you should just focus. And black is not it, babes. He's just it's not the flex you think it is. News flash, Men on Atlanta are never the flex that y'all think it is. So it's actually better to just be without one. We're not looking for you, all of y'all to be with your husband's boyfriends and whatnot, because most of them suck. I haven't liked a man on Atlanta in probably a decade, so not since Greg Lee's passed.
Speaker 2: Right, I will say I do like Pinky Cole's husband so far.
Speaker 1: That's like you like Derek, mainly because I also I love his cheese steaks. I did also eat those Big Days cheesesteaks. Oh my god. The lines are just as long, like it's insane. On a Sunday morning at like eleven am, it will be right in line for two and a half hours.
Speaker 3: It was crazy.
Speaker 2: I think, you know what I think Peeky is gonna be okay. I think she pay for some some of the stuff. I think she's gonna be okay. I do think that she needs to stop getting on Instagram and making those skits because I found out about that in.
Speaker 1: The bankruptcy music videos and whatnot. She's trying to teach, She's just trying to educate.
Speaker 2: I get it, but it's like, take that down right now.
Speaker 1: Later on and.
Speaker 2: We can brow these out, but take them down right now, or at least, you know, make your own business and pitch this to somebody else who can tell the message, and then you know, charge your little feet I find our finder's fee.
Speaker 1: Yes, I think that's actually not a bad idea at all. Like, listen, y'all, Atlanta, it's proven. There was a list circulating recently of the highest rated Bravo episodes television.
Speaker 3: On Bravo ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, And.
Speaker 1: Not only were they all produced by none other than Carlos King, the King of reality TV, they were all but one episode, Atlanta from a Nini specific which is why again I'm in her being the greatest housewife of all time. You'll never make me my fame is the best fame. I don't know what y'all are all talking about. Okay, I got the Beyonce of Housewives on my back right now.
Speaker 2: And in my opinion, Charree not.
Speaker 1: But in the day I'll give you Chara, because if y'all have watched old seasons of Atlanta recently, they were absolutely the I mean, you will never laugh.
Speaker 3: More than no seasons one, two, three of Atlanta. Holy hell, my.
Speaker 1: God on great times. Ooh, what a blast. Oh my god, Aaron, You're a blast. Thanks for having It's been safe talking. I'm gonna have to have you come back and talk Atlanta, especially as we get closer to the end, to see of how some of our predictions starts, feelings, vibes come true manifest themselves in a different way a little bit later on. But thank you so much for being here. Can you tell people where they can find you whenever you do be popping up? You know how sometimes you come outside? So where can they find you out here in these ear bud streets?
Speaker 1: Listen?
Speaker 2: You can find me on at Bramo while black on Instagram all over social media, Kea is holding the page down majority of the.
Speaker 1: Both looks really cute over there at your uh going to get culture to go into the art.
Speaker 2: Yes, we went to see Hairspray. We went to see Hairspray. It was very good, and we're gonna go again. We're gonna see something I don't know. I don't know if I could say yet, but we're gonna liten. We're gonna see something else. And you know, of course, if you want to listen to the podcast Bravo, We're Black and then personal, I think it's Aaron Marcella's underscore. Just typing on Aaron Morsell's you'll find it. But thank you so much for having me.
Speaker 1: Thank you for being here, Aaron. It has been a blast. It's always a pleasure with you, cousin. I really, y'all know, I just sometimes I use this as an excuse to hang out and talk with people that just want to hang out with and talk to and again, during the week of my birthday, as I'm entering my thirties, I just don't really want to do things that I don't want to do anymore, and that includes talking to boring people. So it's well, it's up, what exactly is your birthday? And it's April twenty fourth, so what is it So in three days from now, probably two from when this.
Speaker 2: Comes out, what season is it, y'all? Y'all the tourist season? We start have a tourist placement on my chart. To you do I do?
Speaker 1: I don't know where it? Please? Yes, yes, please let me know. I take that very seriously. Tours is all about blooming. We love luxury, we love things that feel good, we like ease, we like comfort. We are hard working, but just so that we can relax, that's it, because that's all that matters, is the comfort. That's all that's it. It's just so we can afford expensive blankets to wrap ourselves up in. As we watch the Go To Girls on a Friday night at nine, who's telling on me? You know, like that's what I'm doing.
Speaker 1: So listen, y'all. Please go and listen to Bravo We're black. Go and follow Bravo while black on all the things, and you know, catch up with Aaron see what they doing. Stay tuned for what other things they're doing to culture themselves all over care be having a happy.
Speaker 2: On the world, and same thing with Moni minxing with money and write that five stars. Listen. The job is not easy, all the time. We don't feel like doing this all the time.
Speaker 3: Baby, today it was so hard.
Speaker 1: I actually had to take a two hour depression that before watching Rhode Island for tomorrow. No, it was so good too, It was so good, So I'm glad I did watch it. But Baby, it was hard because I'm not just watching it for fun. I can't just lay down and watch it. I'm like watching the note and see thinking about that.
Speaker 2: That's what I met so much. Yes, that's what I missed so much, just watching things and not having to talk about it all the time.
Speaker 1: Just examine it for myself exactly. So, but y'all, we do it for y'all. We thank you so much for your support. Literally, those five stars, those likes on the reels and stuff, they go such a long way.
Speaker 3: So you know where to find erin on all the things.
Speaker 1: You know where to find me at Mixing with Money, m I X I g U I T H M A N I the Mix with Money on all.
Speaker 3: The podcast things.
Speaker 1: And I appreciate all the likes and reviews, the stars, all of that. Take care of yourselves and I'll see you very soon because I'm releasing at least a two more episodes before my birthday because I feel like being, I feel like giving. But then like on my birthday, like that whole weekend doing nothing, Like yeah, but you put in the work now exactly doing it up front, true tourist fashion. Here y'all go, enjoy.
Speaker 3: I love you, Take care of yourselves. Bye,
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